Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 5, 2010 [Psalm 34:9-14]
Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies. Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. Psalm 34:9-14 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 5, 2010 [Psalm 34:9-14]
Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies. Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. Psalm 34:9-14 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, September 4, 2010 []
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He Said-She Said: Should the Past Stay in the Past?
When two are thinking about becoming one and headed toward marriage, how much about the past should be revealed? And when is the right time to unpack your "baggage"? Read what "he" and "she" have to say in response to this month's question. [Link]
Obama, Stem Cells, and the Rule of Law
Not everyone agrees with the President’s vision of science’s “rightful place,” particularly when his pursuit of this vision involves undermining the rule of law and disregarding the sanctity of human life. [Link]
One Nation Under God: Understanding the Pledge
Thomas Jefferson wrote, “can the liberties of a nation be thought secure when we have removed their only firm basis, a conviction in the minds of the people that they are gifts of God?” [Link]
Five Years after Katrina, New Orleans Takes Stock
With prayers and the tolling of bells, but also with second-line parades and Mardi Gras Indians, New Orleanians on Sunday took stock of their rebuilt lives in the five years since the hurricane. [Link]
Seriously Consider an Exit Strategy Before Going the Distance
In an effort to defy conventional romantic comedy, the screenwriter of Going the Distance took an intriguing premise—how does a long-distance couple actually make it work?—and immediately shot it in the foot with a bazooka. [Link]
Circumstance, Psychology Build Tension in The American
Director Anton Corbijn creates a moody but minimalist atmosphere in The American. The camera is mostly static, music scarcely heard, and shots linger. While thrillers usually depend on opposite tactics to set the tone, Corbijn strips those away—instead allowing circumstance and psychology alone to create confusion and build tension. [Link]
Walsh Continues World War II Story in The Homecoming
Fans of The Unfinished Gift will delight to reacquaint themselves with World War II fighter pilot Shawn Collins and his son, Patrick. As The Homecoming opens, Shawn has lost his wife in a fatal car accident back home, but the Army doesn't give him much time to grieve. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, September 3, 2010 [1 Timothy 6:11-14]
But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses. In the sight of God, who gives life to everything, and of Christ Jesus, who while testifying before Pontius Pilate made the good confession, I charge you to keep this command without spot or blame until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ, 1 Timothy 6:11-14 NIV Listen [Link]
A very sick father's prayer for his children
You may remember we told you the story a few months ago about Matt Chandler – the 35 year-old father of 3 who was diagnosed with brain cancer. You may follow his battle via his church's You Tube Channel. Watch his very moving prayer for his children and then consider how you are praying for your kids. Many of us know that prayer is indispensable to raising children, but how should we do it? Here's a start with the 10 things to pray for and with your kids. Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: How can I pray for you? [Link]
10 Things Every Teenager Needs to Know About Their Parents
Face it — you are stuck with us, at least for the next few years! And avoiding spending time with us, rejecting our hugs, and refusing to talk is not going to change that. So in the interest of peace and harmony, I am going to share a few things with you that you probably don't know in the hopes that they may help you to better tolerate us. [Link]
Discover the Map to the Path Great Men Walk
The Gospel of Matthew contains an ancient path that successful men from Bible times on have followed. Here's how you can access The Map: The Way of All Great Men. [Link]
This Is The Way It Ought To Be
Given the amount of attention and feedback we’ve received this week with regard to removing the “traditional/contemporary” split in worship at Coral Ridge in favor of a blended format, I thought it would be a good idea to do a follow-up post going into even more detail regarding why we made the decision we made. [Link]
Strippers Going To War
Sometimes I think I should start a new file: really dumb culture wars that do more harm to Christianity than good. [Link]
Preaching Points: Redundancy and Precision
Redundancy is a tricky fellow. An antonym is precision. Most all pastors are guilty of redundancy and short on precision from time to time. All of us have a desire to get it out of our sermons; but before we can eliminate it, we must be able to hear it, which requires trained and dedicated ears. There are two very large dangers with redundancy. The first is the boredom that results from all things twice or thrice said. As has been well said, there is no such thing as a bad short sermon or a long good one. [Link]
How to Talk to a Teacher
What do you do if you have a concern about what your child is learning in school? Talk to the teacher, of course. But how you do it might make all the difference. [Link]
Are You an Impulsive Spouse?
Dear Dr. David: My wife has such a short fuse that it scares me… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, September 2, 2010 [Genesis 12:1-3]
The LORD had said to Abram, 'Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you. 'I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.' Genesis 12:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Why your wife matters
Yesterday we talked about why you matter. Today, let's discuss why your wife matters with a very powerful insight. Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy, admitted in an interview that his mom never hugged or kissed him for fear of germs. He's been seeking that affection his whole life. If his mom had only showed him genuine love, perhaps Hugh could have put his incredible business savvy to better use. Parents hugging and kissing their kids matters more than you will ever know. iMOM Director Susan Merrill shares why a child needs a hug from both mom and dad. And Tony Dungy shares about how his mother and father showed him affection.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you wish mom and I gave you more hugs and kisses or less? Why? [Link]
Top 10 Articles of August 2010
The hustle and bustle of transition is all around us this month — these articles are all about refocusing when life seems out of control. [Link]
When to Go Back to School
Jumping into an educational program isn't always the best strategy. Here are some questions to help you determine if a new degree is the right choice for you at this point in your life. [Link]
Finance Q&A: Where Should I Invest My Savings?
Dear Deborah: With interest rates on savings accounts and CD's so low, where do you recommend a relatively conservative person should invest? [Link]
Never Having to Say You’re Dead?
Few concepts can match reincarnation in terms of being incompatible with Christian doctrine and the Christian worldview. The biblical view of history is linear, not cyclical. [Link]
Pakistani Taliban Kills Three Foreign Christian Aid Workers
Authorities have recovered the bodies of three Christian who were kidnapped and killed by the Pakistani Taliban. All three were working to reach flood victims with aid. [Link]
For the Greater Good? The Problem of Stem Cells
Is embryonic stem cell research an example of "waste not, want not" … or a reprise of the Dachau experiments on "subhumans" who were "going to die anyway"? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 1, 2010 [Psalm 103:1-5]
Praise the LORD, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits- who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's. Psalm 103:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Why you matter
Author Darren Ferguson wrote of his former prison life: "We inmates are all from 5 neighborhoods in New York City. It's like a train that begins on my block. You get on the train when you're nine or ten years old, and the train ends up at Sing Sing."What's missing in these neighborhoods that Darren grew up in? Involved fathers. Male parenting. In fact, here are 10 reasons why children are at a great disadvantage . You matter tremendously to your children and the future of our country. Don't ever underestimate your importance.Hear from Tony Dungy about the correlation between lack of involved fathers and the inmates he ministers to.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Why do you think fathers matter so much to their kids? [Link]
House of Heroes Has Some Fun in Suburba
When any band delivers an album that fans and critics both love, expectations can't help but run sky high for the inevitable follow-up. And while Suburba doesn't quite surpass last year's breakout release, it's certainly House of Heroes' most fun album, hands down. [Link]
God, the Gospel, and Glenn Beck
The news media pronounced Glenn Beck the new leader of America’s Christian conservative movement, and a flock of America’s Christian conservatives have no problem with that. Ten years ago, I would have thought it was from the pages of an apocalyptic novel about the end-times. But it’s not. And it is a scandal. [Link]
Why in the World Would God Want to Use Me?
It is impossible to understand Abraham's faith without realizing that there was nothing in Abraham that commended him to God. God does not look down from heaven to find a person who has a bit of divine righteousness or a bit of faith. [Link]
Is the Bible Hazardous to Your Health?
If Sigmund Freud were alive today he might push for a label affixed to Bibles, something along the lines of, “WARNING: Regular exposure to this book can lead to unhappiness, depression, psychosis, and in some cases, suicide.” [Link]
What Are We Singing: Holy is the Lord
Sometimes the whole earth – and its fullness thereof – makes the pronouncement of adulation. But it should never cry out alone. [Link]
Rob Reiner: Directing Hearts in Motion in Flipped
As the proverb says, a man's heart reflects the man. And in Rob Reiner's newest coming-of-age film, Flipped, young hearts in motion not only mirror the feelings of first love but also the character of who someone really is deep down inside. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 31, 2010 [Matthew 9:10-13]
While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and 'sinners' came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, 'Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?' On hearing this, Jesus said, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.' Matthew 9:10-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Advice from John Wooden's father
The late, great John Wooden has been remembered and celebrated by many. But as more of his amazing life and legacy are unpacked, the more we see the ripple effect of John's father, Joshua, who advised him: "Be true to yourself, help others, make each day your masterpiece, make friendship a fine art, drink deeply from good books — especially the Bible, build a shelter against a rainy day, give thanks for your blessings and pray for guidance every day." While John lived his father's words, many more lived his. Read how much Tony Dungy admired John Wooden. Enjoy this great, moment with Coach John Wooden directed by Spike Lee in a thought-provoking video.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Who has been your favorite coach and why? [Link]
Why in the World Would God Want to Use Me?
It is impossible to understand Abraham's faith without realizing that there was nothing in Abraham that commended him to God. God does not look down from heaven to find a person who has a bit of divine righteousness or a bit of faith. [Link]
Is the Bible Hazardous to Your Health?
If Sigmund Freud were alive today he might push for a label affixed to Bibles, something along the lines of, “WARNING: Regular exposure to this book can lead to unhappiness, depression, psychosis, and in some cases, suicide.” [Link]
Marmaduke is a Barkin' Good Time for Kids Only
Filled with madcap action and a happy ending you'll see coming from a mile away (this ain't Old Yeller, after all), Marmaduke is a movie your kids will probably love, but you'll barely suffer through, thanks to a slew of corny jokes and lame pop culture references. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 30, 2010 [Matthew 5:3-8]
'Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Matthew 5:3-8 NIV Listen [Link]
10 creative ways to spend more time with your wife
Time and communication are the lifeblood of any relationship, and it seems we have too little of both for the person we are "one flesh" with. And this creates marriage conflict. But that can change starting tonight by implementing these 10 creative ways to spend more time with your wife. Give these a try and let us know how it goes. Also, be sure to let your wife know about our sister program iMOM and to sign up for their daily e-mail – the Espresso Minute.How does Coach Tony find time to spend with his wife with his very busy schedule?Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: If I had a free weekend with you, I would like to ____. [Link]
The Scriptures as a "Second Language"
Each time I came across something that contradicted what I had believed before receiving Christ, I had to make a choice to reject my former teachings or experiences and replace them with what God said about the situation or circumstance. [Link]
Of Christ and Katrina, Five Years Later
I always feared seeing my hometown turn into Armageddon, and five years ago, sure enough, that’s just what happened. [Link]
The Church/Family Disconnect
Though thousands of people still attend churches around the world, very few truly experience the connection between God’s design for the church and living their lives within that design as God intended. Why the disconnect? [Link]
Paul's Lost Letters
There's been a lot of recent discussion about how we got the New Testament. What's if it's not all Dan Brown-style fiction? [Link]
God Hears Mothers' Long Distance Prayers
Letting go has never been easy for me. My son joining the military only compounded my fears. I struggled. I cried… [Link]
Solo Zone: All in the Family
Many of us have an intellectual understanding that, yes, our marital status does not define us. We leave school, we buy homes, and we participate in communities of faith. But how many of us have adopted the mindset that our reality won’t really click until we have a spouse? [Link]
Marriage is Not a Fairy Tale
As I was growing up, I read all the fairy-tale stories like Sleeping Beauty, hoping to one day meet my prince and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, most fairy tales give us an unrealistic picture of what our life with the prince will be like. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 29, 2010 [Luke 14:7-14]
When he noticed how the guests picked the places of honor at the table, he told them this parable: 'When someone invites you to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, for a person more distinguished than you may have been invited. If so, the host who invited both of you will come and say to you, 'Give this man your seat.' Then, humiliated, you will have to take the least important place. But when you are invited, take the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he will say to you, 'Friend, move up to a better place.' Then you will be honored in the presence of all your fellow guests. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.' Then Jesus said to his host, 'When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.' Luke 14:7-14 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 28, 2010 [Acts 15:1-12]
Some men came down from Judea to Antioch and were teaching the brothers: 'Unless you are circumcised, according to the custom taught by Moses, you cannot be saved.' This brought Paul and Barnabas into sharp dispute and debate with them. So Paul and Barnabas were appointed, along with some other believers, to go up to Jerusalem to see the apostles and elders about this question. The church sent them on their way, and as they traveled through Phoenicia and Samaria, they told how the Gentiles had been converted. This news made all the brothers very glad. When they came to Jerusalem, they were welcomed by the church and the apostles and elders, to whom they reported everything God had done through them. Then some of the believers who belonged to the party of the Pharisees stood up and said, 'The Gentiles must be circumcised and required to obey the law of Moses.' The apostles and elders met to consider this question. After much discussion, Peter got up and addressed them: 'Brothers, you know that some time ago God made a choice among you that the Gentiles might hear from my lips the message of the gospel and believe. God, who knows the heart, showed that he accepted them by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as he did to us. He made no distinction between us and them, for he purified their hearts by faith. Now then, why do you try to test God by putting on the necks of the disciples a yoke that neither we nor our fathers have been able to bear? No! We believe it is through the grace of our Lord Jesus that we are saved, just as they are.' The whole assembly became silent as they listened to Barnabas and Paul telling about the miraculous signs and wonders God had done among the Gentiles through them. Acts 15:1-12 NIV [Link]
The Tragedy of Tiger and Elin
More than anything else, divorce demonstrates the sacredness of marriage. The shattering of a family reveals the incredible bonds that were never meant to break… [Link]
Obama Invites Confusion About His Faith
Obama's problem isn't a tiny fringe that believes he faces Mecca to pray five times a day, but an increasingly large number of Americans that aren't sure what he believes. [Link]
New York's Anti-Religious Pandemic
Downtown, most folks don't want an Islamic mosque, and uptown one man doesn't want to honor a Catholic woman who began her work in a predominantly Hindu nation. [Link]
Objective… Or Not: Science Bloggers Play Rough
New York Times columnist Virginia Heffernan has learned what many Christians already knew: Much of what is framed as "science versus religion" is really a clash of world views. [Link]
Nostalgic Flipped Plods through Tale of First Love
When there's been nothing more than mindless popcorn flicks at a theater near you this summer, you can't help but want to root for a seemingly charming little movie like Flipped. But when the end product is little more than a plodding slice of nostalgia, you simply want something more. [Link]
Natalie Grant: It's Time for a Love Revolution
Though Natalie Grant has amassed an impressive and highly lauded body of work over the last 11 years, August 24 marks the release of her eighth album, Love Revolution—a project, she says, that is a result of her compelling desire to call people to action, specifically to a radical love. [Link]
Your Masterpiece Shimmers with Ashmont Hill's Vocal Prowess
Possessing the vocal prowess of music veterans, April, Deborah, Philip and Wil—otherwise known as Ashmont Hill—distribute a heavy-hitting inspirational hybrid of gospel-tinged modern worship and potent power ballads on their second national release. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 27, 2010 [Galatians 3:5-9]
Does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you because you observe the law, or because you believe what you heard? Consider Abraham: 'He believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.' Understand, then, that those who believe are children of Abraham. The Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, and announced the gospel in advance to Abraham: 'All nations will be blessed through you.' So those who have faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith. Galatians 3:5-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you meeting your wife's deepest need?
Captivating, author Stasi Eldredge writes about a woman's deepest need: "Little girls want to know, Am I lovely? The twirling skirts, the dress up, the longing to be pretty and to be seen–that is what that's all about. They are seeking an answer to their question. When I was a girl of maybe five years old, I remember standing on top of the coffee table in my grandparents' living room and singing my heart out. I wanted to capture attention–especially my father's attention. I wanted to be captivating. We all did. But for most of us, the answer to our question when we were young was 'No, there is nothing captivating about you. Get off the coffee table!'" "Nearly all a woman does in her adult life is fueled by her longing to be delighted in, her longing to be beautiful, to be irreplaceable, to have her question answered, 'Yes! You are lovely.' And down in the depths of our hearts, our question remains. Unanswered. 'Am I lovely? Do you see me? Do you want to see me? Are you captivated by what you find in me?' We live haunted by that question."Truth be told, most of our wives want to know that they are lovely… that they captivate their husbands. So here's 10 ways to meet that deepest need of hers. And listen to our president, Mark Merrill, explain how he lets his wife know she's captivating.Huddle up with your wife tonight and say: "You are captivating to me because ____." [Link]
Give Yourself a Raise
The bottom line: if you set your tax withholding too high, you are giving up, or at least unnecessarily delaying, a great opportunity to build your savings. [Link]
Why Aren't 'Emerging Adults' Emerging as Adults?
Consider this: In 1960, the vast majority of young adults had, by the time they reached 30, accomplished five standard milestones used to measure adult status. In 2000, less than half of women and less than a third of men had reached them. [Link]
Am I a Dispensationalist?
As the pastor of a Bible-believing church, I'm often asked whether or not I am a dispensationalist. I hesitate to say yes because of several beliefs that are often associated with the system, beliefs which I reject. The greater concern is with the biblical covenants, how and when they will be fulfilled. [Link]
How to Control Anger and Find Peace
If your anger is running wild, God can help you control it and find the peace needed for Surviving in an Angry World. [Link]
We Are One
When we separate people according to something as trivial as musical preferences, we evidence a fundamental failure to comprehend the heart of the gospel. We’re not only feeding toxic tribalism; we’re also saying the gospel can’t successfully bring different groups together. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 26, 2010 [1 Peter 3:8-11]
Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, 'Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. 1 Peter 3:8-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Want to be your kid's hero?
If you want to make this the best school year your children have ever had and dramatically increase parental involvement, please consider becoming an All Pro Dad's Day Team Captain for us. All Pro Dad's Day is a monthly school breakfast for fathers and their children that features good food, outstanding fun and meaningful conversation. Find out more from Tony Dungy on why this event is so important for your school and see for yourself how powerful this program is. Would you be willing to give this a shot? We promise it will be one of the best experiences you will ever have.Also, be sure to tell your wife about our sister school breakfast program called iMOM Morning. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Would you have breakfast with me once a month at your school? [Link]
Questions on How to Change the World
James Davison Hunter has written a provocative and important new book titled To Change the World. It is already sparking widespread conversation, and deservedly so. Hunter makes bold assessments that are contrary to conventional views, and does so with great intelligence and force, while maintaining a winsome and compelling demeanor. [Link]
Making Sense Out of the Ground Zero Mosque Mess
Let me begin by being clear…. building a mosque anywhere near ground zero demonstrates cruel insensitivity toward the families of both the victims and the heroes of the deadliest attack in history on American soil. It has rightly been compared to building a monument to Japanese Imperialism at Pearl Harbor or a placing a statue of Hitler at Auschwitz. [Link]
"And Then They Are All Mine" — The Agenda of Some College Professors
On many campuses, a significant number of faculty members are representatives of what has been called the “adversary culture.” Their agenda is nothing less than to separate students from their Christian beliefs and their intellectual and moral commitments. [Link]
Eggsploitation: Women As Commodity
More women are donating their eggs to infertile couples and for embryonic stem cell research. One new documentary shows why that may be a very bad idea. [Link]
Why Teens Seek the Wrong Crowd
Does your teenager feel valued and significant in your home? If not, they'll look for value and acceptance somewhere else… [Link]
Neutralizing Arguments with Your Spouse
What if there is a way to engage in lively conversation without bickering or arguing? What if you could disagree with your mate and still not argue? Would you be interested? [Link]
Experience Intimacy as God Intended
Our culture doesn't think of Christians as sexy people. But the God we worship created sex in the first place… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 25, 2010 [Ephesians 1:3-6]
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will–to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. Ephesians 1:3-6 NIV Listen [Link]
One Dad's Struggle
Greg, a Play of the Day subscriber, wrote us the following: "I was promoted to the General Sales Manager position of a local radio station not long after my first child was born. That position required days of long hours that usually ended with a meeting with the owner of the station to wrap things up and plan for upcoming events. Because of that, I had missed out on a few opportunities to be home when my daughter went to sleep and, sometimes, left the house before she woke up.I mentioned that to the owner in one of those meetings. He said that being a 'winner' in the position I was in would require me to 'miss some parties and special events in your daughter's life, but she would never remember whether you were there or not.' My immediate thought at the time was, 'I would remember I was not there.'I did not stay long on that job. I was at those special events to watch her grow up and I remember all of them. She was married in March and I miss having her around now, even though I know she is happy. But I do not have the regrets of not being there as she grew up. Tragically, that radio station owner's adult son committed suicide last January." Perhaps the true definition of a "winner" is someone who spends lots of meaningful time with their children. Here are 10 ways to do so. And watch our president, Mark Merrill, as he shares a key to dealing with the work/family life tug-of-war.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What is one thing I can do to spend more time with our children? [Link]
Steak on a Paper Plate: A Reflection on Worship
For many churches, the biggest requirement for a “worship set” is novelty. We’re aiming for an experience. So we put together a worship service that is more influenced by the latest hits on Christian radio than by theology or history. It’s like eating steak on a paper plate. [Link]
Making Sense Out of the Ground Zero Mosque Mess
Let me begin by being clear…. building a mosque anywhere near ground zero demonstrates cruel insensitivity toward the families of both the victims and the heroes of the deadliest attack in history on American soil. It has rightly been compared to building a monument to Japanese Imperialism at Pearl Harbor or a placing a statue of Hitler at Auschwitz. [Link]
"And Then They Are All Mine" — The Agenda of Some College Professors
On many campuses, a significant number of faculty members are representatives of what has been called the “adversary culture.” Their agenda is nothing less than to separate students from their Christian beliefs and their intellectual and moral commitments. [Link]
Low on Trust, Pakistan's Flood Victims Go Unaided
Despite the enormous need, international aid for Pakistan is slow in coming, especially compared to the outpouring of love following January's earthquake in Haiti. Why the difference? [Link]
Church Girls Gone Mild
Girls learn cattiness from sitting at the knee of the Nice Girl culture, in and outside of church. [Link]
What Do You Believe About the Bible?
There is a professor of humanities at Yale University by the name of Harold Bloom who has become widely known across this country as the determiner of what books a truly cultured and educated person should have read. [Link]
Oh Baby, This Back-up Plan is Bad
Even if someone manages to suspend disbelief and buy into this lamely conceived plotline, there's nothing about The Back-up Plan that has any resonance in the real world. Not only is the dialogue unbelievable from the get-go, but the characters are just plain kooky. [Link]
Intriguing Havah Explores Life in Eden
Author Tosca Lee has taken the first four chapters of the Bible and filled in details I never even thought to wonder about. Did Adam and Eve tell their children about their life in the Garden? If so, did they include the part about forbidden fruit or conveniently leave that out? What was it like to be the first humans? [Link]
McClarney's Collection Focuses on His Defender
A soulful collection of 15 songs, Chris McClarney's Defender rings true to its name. The album sets the mood for listeners with a pervasive sense of longing to be in God's presence, trusting that his promises are true, and painting a picture of who God really is. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 24, 2010 [Psalm 34:4-8]
I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame. This poor man called, and the LORD heard him; he saved him out of all his troubles. The angel of the LORD encamps around those who fear him, and he delivers them. Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him. Psalm 34:4-8 NIV Listen [Link]
How to keep your kids from cursing
According to a report in the U.K.'s Daily Mail, one school in the town of Wellingborough is allowing pupils to swear at teachers, providing they only do so no more than five times a class. A tally of how much cursing is used will be kept and if the class exceeds the limit, they will be "spoken" to, the newspaper reported. As pathetic as that school policy may be, it's even sadder that children come from a home that would tolerate this level of disrespect. Do not tolerate cursing from kids. Start by watching your own mouth and what is coming through TV and movies.Here are 10 steps to keep your kids from cursing. Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: What do you think when you hear someone your age curse? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 23, 2010 [Hebrews 11:24-27]
By faith Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh's daughter. He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a short time. He regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of Egypt, because he was looking ahead to his reward. By faith he left Egypt, not fearing the king's anger; he persevered because he saw him who is invisible. Hebrews 11:24-27 NIV Listen [Link]
10 things your children need to know about failure
You may remember this great Nike commercial advocating how Michael's failure made him succeed. But do you know how to teach your kids about failure? Learning to fail and being OK with it is crucial to success. Read these 10 things children need to know about failure. Also, totally unrelated, here is another of our favorite Jordan commercials. If you have a favorite Michael Jordan video, share it on our Facebook. Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: One time, I failed when I ____. I learned that ____. [Link]
How to Turn Racism into Gracism
While a racist uses distinctions between people to hurt, a gracist uses them to heal. [Link]
Feeling the Father’s Pleasure
In Matthew 28, Jesus commissioned his followers to an awesome task. "Go," he told them, "and make disciples of all nations…teaching them to obey all that I have commanded you." This applies to our finances… [Link]
Follow Up Interviews without Bugging Employers
You know you are supposed to follow up after an interview, but you're concerned about the employer thinking you're a pest. Here are some simple guidelines to follow. [Link]
When Monthly Payments Aren't Easy
Generally, financial problems aren't caused by economic slumps. With rare exception, family financial problems began long before the economic slump came along, perhaps as early as childhood. [Link]
Gagging on Gaga
While her preoccupation with violence, sexual promiscuity and exhibitionism may be her path to fame, they are also a symptom of a hungry, sad and unsatisfied soul. [Link]
How to Turn Racism into Gracism
While a racist uses distinctions between people to hurt, a gracist uses them to heal. [Link]
A Conversation with an Unhappy Sheep
So you don't like your pastor. What else is new? [Link]
Training Camp For Churches?
Is it a surprise that our church team sputters at times? Maybe we should function more like a football team… [Link]
Follow Up Interviews without Bugging Employers
You know you are supposed to follow up after an interview, but you're concerned about the employer thinking you're a pest. Here are some simple guidelines to follow. [Link]
When Monthly Payments Aren't Easy
Generally, financial problems aren't caused by economic slumps. With rare exception, family financial problems began long before the economic slump came along, perhaps as early as childhood. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 22, 2010 [Luke 13:10-17]
On a Sabbath Jesus was teaching in one of the synagogues, and a woman was there who had been crippled by a spirit for eighteen years. She was bent over and could not straighten up at all. When Jesus saw her, he called her forward and said to her, 'Woman, you are set free from your infirmity.' Then he put his hands on her, and immediately she straightened up and praised God. Indignant because Jesus had healed on the Sabbath, the synagogue ruler said to the people, 'There are six days for work. So come and be healed on those days, not on the Sabbath.' The Lord answered him, 'You hypocrites! Doesn't each of you on the Sabbath untie his ox or donkey from the stall and lead it out to give it water? Then should not this woman, a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has kept bound for eighteen long years, be set free on the Sabbath day from what bound her?' When he said this, all his opponents were humiliated, but the people were delighted with all the wonderful things he was doing. Luke 13:10-17 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 21, 2010 [Hebrews 12:18-29]
You have not come to a mountain that can be touched and that is burning with fire; to darkness, gloom and storm; to a trumpet blast or to such a voice speaking words that those who heard it begged that no further word be spoken to them, because they could not bear what was commanded: 'If even an animal touches the mountain, it must be stoned.' The sight was so terrifying that Moses said, 'I am trembling with fear.' But you have come to Mount Zion, to the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of the living God. You have come to thousands upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly, to the church of the firstborn, whose names are written in heaven. You have come to God, the judge of all men, to the spirits of righteous men made perfect, to Jesus the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled blood that speaks a better word than the blood of Abel. See to it that you do not refuse him who speaks. If they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, how much less will we, if we turn away from him who warns us from heaven? At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, 'Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens.' The words 'once more' indicate the removing of what can be shaken–that is, created things–so that what cannot be shaken may remain. Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our 'God is a consuming fire.' Hebrews 12:18-29 NIV [Link]
Good Lessons Learned in Nanny McPhee Returns
Nanny McPhee Returns is a pure delight from beginning to end. It's packed with uplifting wit, nice plot twists, and a thought-provoking storyline that's bound to bring out the best in both adults and kids. It wouldn't be an overstatement to say it borders on inspiring. [Link]
Chores? Or Acts of Service?
We model at home what it looks like to live in this world as Christ followers. As our children grow, will they respond to the world, "I didn't make that mess," or will they see each circumstance as an opportunity to simply serve someone else? [Link]
Sexual Temptation: Women Fall For It, Too
Can I talk girlfriend to girlfriend for just a moment? It's about a very uncomfortable subject, and honestly, one most of us would rather pretend does not exist in "Christian circles." It's sexual sin. [Link]
What Step of Faith Do You Need to Take?
Recently, I have been stretched, as many of us have, by the downturn in the economy, the tightening of purse-strings, job insecurity and an unknown relational future. As a result, I have had to make some decisions and take some steps that have not come easy, nor gone as expected. [Link]
Awakening the Giant of Worshipfulness
"I yearn for more regular occasions of deep worship." [Link]
Sweet and Sour Mix in The Switch
This is a comedy about bodily fluids, with a few funny moments that unfold during the switch that give the film its title. But this is also a character-driven comedy about a man's slow awakening to the possibility that he's found someone he can spend his life with, and a responsibility to someone other than himself. [Link]
Renee Riva Goes Back to the Future in Heading Home
In this final installment of the Saving Sailor trilogy, Renee Riva takes her readers back to the future. Little A.J. Degulio is all grown up and has finally returned to her childhood home of Indian Island after eight years in Italy with her boisterous family. But things have changed. [Link]
Chris August Tells His Story in No Far Away
No Far Away, the debut release from singer/songwriter Chris August under the Fervent record label, is an honest collection. The majority of songs tell a part of his story from brokenness to restoration with a glossy pop/rock sound and clean R&B influenced vocals. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 20, 2010 [1 Corinthians 3:11-14]
For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man's work. If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. 1 Corinthians 3:11-14 NIV Listen [Link]
How much do you love your kids?
We have highlighted Dick and Rick Hoyt in the past – the incredible father/son Ironman contenders, but this is one of the best interviews we have seen on them, and marvel at a father's amazing love for his son. And then reflect on what you can do this weekend to show your kids how much you love them. Here's a start – 10 Ways you can show your kids you love them. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: How do you know I love you? [Link]
She's Your Nanny: Emma Thompson's Back in Nanny McPhee Returns
As the magical nanny we first met in Nanny McPhee, actor, screenwriter and executive producer Emma Thompson brings her back once again to help a new family with five important life lessons in the hilarious and heartwarming Nanny McPhee Returns. [Link]
I’m With Anne Rice: I’m Resigning Too
There is nothing wrong with Biblical Christianity. The real problem is religion masquerading as Christianity. [Link]
The People Have Spoken: Gay Marriage at the Polls
The American people have consistently made their opposition clear at the polls. All of this exposes the claim that we're trying to "impose" our view on others. [Link]
Knowing—and Naming—Your Enemy
To move from that position to one requiring American officials to avoid mentioning the very ideology that seeks to destroy American freedom is dangerously reckless. [Link]
Step into the Second Half of Your Life with Passion and Purpose
If you use this time to renew your relationship with God, He'll give you passion and purpose that will make the second half of your life more fulfilling than the first. [Link]
The Best Ways to Save for 2 – 3 Year Projects
You need the right savings vehicle for savings that you're setting aside for non-emergency purposes, such as a major purchase that's a couple of years (or more) away. [Link]
Ways to Increase Your Income
How can you make an extra $2600 a month starting now? Dan Miller shares some ideas to get you started. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 19, 2010 [Mark 9:38-41]
'Teacher,' said John, 'we saw a man driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us.' 'Do not stop him,' Jesus said. 'No one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, for whoever is not against us is for us. I tell you the truth, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to Christ will certainly not lose his reward. Mark 9:38-41 NIV Listen [Link]
10 TV rules you must have
A majority of kids – 53 percent – in a Kaiser Family Foundation survey said their families had no rules for TV viewing. The remaining kids said they had rules, but just 20 percent said those guidelines were enforced most of the time. As if that's not bad enough, the proportion of children with cable or satellite TV in their own room grew from 29 percent to 37 percent in the past 5 years. What does all this mean? Big trouble. TV is raising many children. And most of TV is not sending our children the right message. So if you want to remain in control of your children as the parent, you must have these 10 TV rules. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What is the first TV rule we should start with? [Link]
"Soul" Searching in Deuteronomy 6:5: A Hebrew Word Study without Hebrew
How well does the English translation "soul" in this verse convey the meaning of the underlying Hebrew word? [Link]
Training Camp For Churches?
Is it a surprise that our church team sputters at times? Maybe we should function more like a football team… [Link]
Why Conservative Evangelicals Should Thank God for Clark Pinnock
Clark Pinnock has died. I never met Pinnock until many years after I came to know Jesus. But the gospel I believed came through preachers who were trained by Dr. Pinnock. More than that, the nation’s largest evangelical denomination would never have turned back to biblical inerrancy had it not been for this man who would later reject the concept… [Link]
Married to a Narcissist
What can you do if you find yourself in close relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies? [Link]
How The Music Industry Sexualizes Children
Every twelve-year-old knows Rihanna. And Katy Perry and Lady Gaga. Do you? [Link]
When Life Seems Out of Control
Why is the longing for control so very powerful in a woman's life? I believe the answer lies in how we were made…or rather, what we've made of ourselves. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 18, 2010 [Matthew 5:44-48]
But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:44-48 NIV Listen [Link]
10 ways to make your family laugh more
Laughter and a good sense of humor are integral to your health as recent studies have shown.We also know intuitively that laughter is wonderful – check out this video and then see how good you feel at the end.Joy is an important characteristic of a healthy family life, so take a look at these 10 Ways to make your family laugh more. Huddle up with your children tonight and tell them some of these knock-knock jokes. [Link]
Amid Holy Land Tensions, Compassion Still Exists
I could feel the Palestinian-Israeli tensions when our bus reached a checkpoint leading into Bethlehem. It was a daunting scene, considering it was the birthplace of the Messiah, the Prince of Peace. [Link]
How to Find Hope in Any Situation
Thankfully, the hope that God offers is much more than a feeling: it's the reality of His presence with you. Here are some ways you can find it in the midst of any situation. [Link]
Suffering and the Biblical Story
Two ideas must be present in how we think about suffering: (1) suffering is not original; it has not always existed. (2) suffering is not something created or authored by God. [Link]
You too?
Comedian Brian Regan always makes me laugh. His take on how to use "you too" is very funny. But "you too" can be a phrase that unifies struggling Christians. [Link]
Get Low Gets High Marks as Thoughtful Summer Alternative
An uplifting story of guilt, repentance and reconciliation, Get Low stands head and shoulders above most 2010 films. It's a low-key work that is profound in its simplicity—an oasis amid meaningless fare that always dominates the multiplex, but never more so than during the summer months. [Link]
The Last Song Has a Familiar Refrain
The Last Song, written for the screen by novelist Nicholas Sparks and starring Miley Cyrus, is treacly, preposterous and full of clichés. It's also moving and, for the most part, family-friendly, focusing on themes of human failure and forgiveness. [Link]
Furry Vengeance Shamelessly Attacks Good Taste
Consider yourself warned: Furry Vengeance is truly the worst movie I've screened this year. And trust me, I've already reviewed some doozies (Tooth Fairy, Cop Out and The Bounty Hunter, for starters). [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 17, 2010 [Psalm 19:8-11]
The precepts of the LORD are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the LORD are radiant, giving light to the eyes. The fear of the LORD is pure, enduring forever. The ordinances of the LORD are sure and altogether righteous. They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the comb. By them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward. Psalm 19:8-11 NIV Listen [Link]
If Vanilla Ice was an All Pro Dad…
You all remember the greatness that is Vanilla Ice, don't you? Well using our collective imaginations, if he was an All Pro Dad, we bet he would put together a rap video just like this. As fathers, we celebrate our "nerdyness" if it helps us love our kids more. Nerdy dads truly are "kewl" as we highlight with these 10 principles.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Are most dads nerdy? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 16, 2010 [2 Timothy 4:1-3]
In the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, and in view of his appearing and his kingdom, I give you this charge: Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage–with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. 2 Timothy 4:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Hook your kids with fishing
Henry David Thoreau said: "Many men go fishing their entire lives without knowing it is not the fish they are after." You're not really after the fish either, but uninterrupted tranquility to really hang with and enjoy your kids. And highlight family communication. Make fishing with your children a regular habit. Tony Dungy shares why he thinks fishing is both enjoyable and important. Watch this inspirational fishing clip. Then read this great article on fishing with young children. Huddle up with your children tonight and say: Let's plan to go fishing on ____. [Link]
UnPoverty is Possible: Grow Rich by Helping the World's Poor
Mark Lutz, the author of UnPoverty, has written an eye-opening book for Compassion International's publishing arm. Mark shares jaw-dropping stories of both horror and hope, and suggests solutions involving what he calls "the miracle of capitalism." [Link]
Who Is Being Irrational? Prop 8 and Judicial Overreach
Given what we know, Judge Walker’s dismissal of concerns about the impact of being raised in a same sex household was more akin to a statement of faith than a finding of fact. Denying what we know and claiming to know what we can’t know—now that is irrational. [Link]
The Real Meaning of the ADA: Sanctity of Life
Twenty years ago, the Americans with Disabilities Act was signed into law. For at least one person who attended the signing, that Act was something much greater than just one more law coming out of D.C. It was a demonstration of what Christian worldview can look like in practice. [Link]
Prospects of Religious Freedom Appear Grim in Islamic Maldives
Two years after political reforms, freedom of faith nowhere in sight. [Link]
Strengthening the Positive in Your Marriage
When a marriage is flooded with negative emotions, we forget the good qualities that attracted us in the first place. The good news is that the positive feelings are often still there… [Link]
The Single Life: Don't Be Afraid to (Re)Decorate
Your home should be a reflection of you. If you walked into my living room, you could tell by looking that I love Sherlock Holmes, I travel, I'm not afraid of color, and I look like my grandmother. What could I learn about you from a visit to your room? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 15, 2010 [Luke 12:49-56]
'I have come to bring fire on the earth, and how I wish it were already kindled! But I have a baptism to undergo, and how distressed I am until it is completed! Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.' He said to the crowd: 'When you see a cloud rising in the west, immediately you say, 'It's going to rain,' and it does. And when the south wind blows, you say, 'It's going to be hot,' and it is. Hypocrites! You know how to interpret the appearance of the earth and the sky. How is it that you don't know how to interpret this present time? Luke 12:49-56 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 14, 2010 [Hebrews 11:29-12:2]
By faith the people passed through the Red Sea as on dry land; but when the Egyptians tried to do so, they were drowned. By faith the walls of Jericho fell, after the people had marched around them for seven days. By faith the prostitute Rahab, because she welcomed the spies, was not killed with those who were disobedient. And what more shall I say? I do not have time to tell about Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, David, Samuel and the prophets, who through faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions, quenched the fury of the flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies. Women received back their dead, raised to life again. Others were tortured and refused to be released, so that they might gain a better resurrection. Some faced jeers and flogging, while still others were chained and put in prison. They were stoned; they were sawed in two; they were put to death by the sword. They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated–the world was not worthy of them. They wandered in deserts and mountains, and in caves and holes in the ground. These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised. God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect. Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 11:29-12:2 NIV [Link]
Testosterone-Fueled Expendables is One Lame Throwback
Like watching Simon LeBon attempting to bust a move while singing "Hungry Like the Wolf" during a Duran Duran reunion tour, you can't stop wondering why 64-year-old Sylvester Stallone, who wrote, directed and stars in The Expendables, simply didn't quit while he was ahead. [Link]
Journey Leads to Selfish Awakening in Eat Pray Love
That we are to be moved by the big-screen version of Elizabeth Gilbert's yearlong journey of self-discovery in Eat Pray Love is absurd. That the memoir on which it's based (and is reverent to) has become a phenomenon is downright disturbing. [Link]
Revive My Heart, Lord
Sometimes we expect revival to look one way, but perhaps God is working the same result in a different fashion. [Link]
How to Know Truth and Evaluate Competing Worldviews
Do we really have to say “This is true and that is false; this is right and that is wrong?” Why can’t everyone just be right? Chris Daniel’s article provides helpful insight and answers. [Link]
Storytelling Slacks in Scott Pilgrim vs. the World
Gamers will understand the structure and hodgepodge approach to storytelling in Scott Pilgrim vs. the World—or so I'm told—but the rest of us, who demand a smidgeon of narrative and stylistic consistency, will wonder what this film has wrought. [Link]
Chris McClarney's Defender, Working All Things Out for Our Good
With the release of Defender, Chris McClarney delivers one of the most soulful modern worship collections in recent years—a triumphant proclamation that God's got his sleeves rolled up and he's working it all out for our good … even if we can't see it. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 13, 2010 [Hebrews 13:15-17]
Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise–the fruit of lips that confess his name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased. Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you. Hebrews 13:15-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Have you taught your kids how to use money wisely?
MIT did a study called "Always Leave Home Without It" and compared how much individuals would pay for the same item using either cash or a credit card. Buyers paid an average of 30-40% more for the same item when a credit card was used instead of cash. Credit cards have their place, however, if you use cash for items such as clothing, food, eating out etc. and you'll probably be much more price-conscious. And you won't have to worry about a multi-page bill at the end of the month. Good finances are integral to a good family life. Make sure you teach your children well.Learn about a great way to teach your kids finances from this classic Bill Cosby Monopoly clip. And, here are 10 Ways to teach your kids about money. Huddle up with your children tonight and run them through the same Monopoly drill Bill Cosby did with Theo. [Link]
A Battle for Integrity
You want to shock the world? Start here–demonstrating the guts to do what's right when no one is looking. [Link]
Mel's Meltdown: A Cautionary Tale for Christian Artists
There is no excuse for much of the recent behavior demonstrated by the director of The Passion of the Christ. Mel Gibson's choices have undoubtedly led to the sad state of his life, and we can learn from that. I'm also certain the enemy has been there every step, egging Gibson on… [Link]
Thank God for the New Atheists?
Self-styled “evangelist” for evolution, Michael Dowd, gushes that the New Atheists “have come to our rescue,” but that “rescue” is an escape from biblical Christianity, and even from any belief in the supernatural. In his view, the God of the Bible is neither believable nor good. [Link]
Judging Marriage
Judge Vaughn Walker overturned California's Proposition 8, which defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman. Even though his ruling isn't surprising, his dismissal of the opinions of the people of California and five thousand-plus years of human tradition is breath-taking. [Link]
The World's Smallest Rotary Engine
The tiny outboard motor of the bacterial flagellum has become a cornerstone of the Intelligent Design debate among proponents and critics alike. Here, ID supporters tackle the arguments one by one. Darwinists like to claim that there is no debate over Darwinism within the scientific community. The reality is quite the opposite. Not only is there a debate but design theorists have the evidence on their side. [Link]
Get Back at Your Creditors
Late fees, punitive interest rates, over-limit fees, loading up your credit report with negative information — it's enough to make you scream! If you've had enough, maybe it's time for you to turn the tables and get back at them. [Link]
High School: Begin with the End in Mind
When our kids were still young, someone gave us great advice: she told us to begin with the end in mind. Think about graduation before your child's freshman year. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 12, 2010 [Hebrews 4:14-16]
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are–yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:14-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Woo your Wife with the Written Word
A postcard sent on September 14, 1922 was delivered a few years ago to its final destination – a mere 82 years overdue. It was a love letter written by Roscoe St. Myer to his wife who lived in Port Clinton, Ohio. Neither of the St. Meyers are living, but it's a very special marriage communication for the surviving family. Which begs the question, are you writing notes and cards to your wife? If you don't right now, we promise it will stun her. Give it a try. They'll totally transform your relationship with her, and your thoughts on paper will also survive generations after you're gone.Read this article for more on writing love notes to your wife. And hear from some of our iMOM's on what husbands should keep in mind when they write a love note.Huddle up tonight and write your wife a love note. [Link]
Ramadan: Pray for Muslims, Persecuted Christians
When Christians hold fear and anger for anyone for whom Jesus died, it’s impossible for them to reach out with His love to share the Good News. [Link]
Joining God's Work through the Power of Prayer
In a strange, mysterious way, God has chosen to enlist His children to accomplish His purpose for reaching the world and establishing His kingdom on earth! Mind boggling isn't it? [Link]
Confessing an Affair without Losing Your Marriage
Usually, I'm approached by the spouse who just discovered the affair of the other. However, this article isn't for those whose spouse cheated; it's for those who strayed. [Link]
Bringing Christ to School
A new school year begins soon. What an opportune time for a church to encourage students and teachers. Need fresh ideas? [Link]
Are You Too Busy?
How do you figure out how busy you should be as couple? It begins with finding your pace as individuals… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 11, 2010 [James 1:23-25]
Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it–he will be blessed in what he does. James 1:23-25 NIV Listen [Link]
Can your children really talk to you?
Peter, a Play of the Day subscriber, shared this great fathering principle for family communication: "I told my daughter that anytime that she needs to talk to me about something and is concerned that I might get angry, that she should tell me 'I need to talk with you and I don't want you to get upset.' This provides her with a comfort level to know that I will listen to her without blowing up or yelling at her. It alerts me to the fact that she has something important to tell me and that I need to listen and reflect on the matter so that I can give her support and guidance. Knowing that she can talk to me and that I will listen has been important to my daughter and allows the lines of communication to remain open." Great idea Peter! Will the rest of you implement it?Read these proven ways to communicate well with your children. Tony Dungy shares about why he thinks it's easy for his children, NFL players and the public to talk with him.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think I am easy to talk to? [Link]
Worship Is A Big Deal: Part 1
The way a church worships is a big deal. Paul made it clear that when Christians are gathered by God to worship, they should worship in such a God-centered and gospel-fueled way that any visiting non-Christians would say, “God is really among you.” [Link]
Staying Under God's Umbrella of Grace
I have often believed that I might have the "wrong" thing in my life when what I have been told does not match with what I can see. I often question God just as the little boy questioned me. [Link]
Worship Is A Big Deal: Part 1
The way a church worships is a big deal. Paul made it clear that when Christians are gathered by God to worship, they should worship in such a God-centered and gospel-fueled way that any visiting non-Christians would say, “God is really among you.” [Link]
Bringing Christ to School
A new school year begins soon. What an opportune time for a church to encourage students and teachers. Need fresh ideas? [Link]
Are You Too Busy?
How do you figure out how busy you should be as couple? It begins with finding your pace as individuals… [Link]
Hurting People Hurt People
We seem wired to find fault and cast blame, minimizing our own faults while maximizing the faults of our mate. While there are certainly situations where one mate has perpetrated abuse on the other, many marriages are fraught with mutual wounding. [Link]
Christians and Public Education
I am frequently asked for my thoughts on "public education." Granted this is a dicey issue that can get you into a lot of trouble very quickly. However, the question is legitimate, given education's enormous role in shaping our children; thus, as Christians, we have no choice but to wrestle with the answers, even if we don't like them. [Link]
The Mosque at Ground Zero: Sense and Sensibility
Tolerance used to mean listening respectfully to others' opinions, even when you disagree. Tolerance as Bloomberg understands it, means "I won't say no to you for anything you want, and you don't say no to me for anything I want."–The ultimate expression of political correctness, and the most certain formula for moral chaos. [Link]
Invisible Children Remembers Volunteer Killed in Uganda Bombings
On Saturday, several hundred people overflowed the sanctuary of Bethel Baptist Church in Wilmington, Del., as they gathered for a memorial celebration that honored Nate Henn. [Link]
Even Comedy's Own Dynamic Duo Can't Save Date Night
Somehow in the midst of bad writing and a hackneyed case of missing identity that grows increasingly sillier as Date Night goes on, Steve Carell and Tina Fey still shine as two suburbanites trying to keep their marital spark alive with a little night-on-the-town spontaneity. [Link]
Death and Dark Comedy Collide Awkwardly in Death at a Funeral
Other than giving Luke Wilson an opportunity to star in something other than those annoying AT&T commercials, there was really no need to revisit the story of a family funeral gone seriously awry in Neil LaBute's remake of Death at a Funeral. [Link]
Slave Trade, Government Corruption at the Heart of Blood Ransom
The horror of Blood Ransom lies in its factual basis. The author draws on her own experience as a missionary in Mosambique, Africa, when she spins her tale of slave trade, government corruption, stifling poverty, and hopeless victims. [Link]
Snapshots in your fathering future
Dr. Ken Canfield from the National Center for Fathering writes about fatherhood transitions:Snapshot number one: You're wrestling two suitcases up the final flight of stairs to your daughter's new dorm room. She's already claimed the bottom bunk. Green Day blares from someone's stereo. Out on the lawn, you almost got beaned by an errant Frisbee. This will be home – at least until Thanksgiving – for the girl who used to sleep under your roof and eat around your dinette table. Snapshot number two: You're under the sink in your son's new apartment. It's old, but the rent is cheap; and besides, it goes with his collection of garage-sale couches and end tables. The sink's been backing up since the day he moved in, but the landlord's out of town. He gives you a call and, of course, you stop by with your monkey wrench. Snapshot number three: You're decked out in a tuxedo for only the third-and-last time in your life. In the crook of your arm rests the hand of the sweetest girl that God ever created. You wish her hand could stay there forever. But then you hear, "Who gives this woman to be married to this man?" You breathe deep and swallow hard. "Her mother and I." And so you launch your children out into their own lives. Daughters marry and take new names. Sons move to new addresses. One day, they climb in the car, roll down the window, and you watch them back out of the driveway, toss a wave, and then turn a corner and disappear. Oh, they'll be back. But for now, you wrap one arm around your wife's waist and walk back into a house that is suddenly quieter than you ever wanted it to be.That day will come. But tonight you can treasure your children still living at home.Here's a great article on parenting college age children. And for more on why you will always be a father no matter how old your kids are, read this. Finally, hear thoughts from Tony Dungy about how society forces our kids to grow up too fast.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What is the first thing you think you will do when you have moved out on your own? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 10, 2010 [Galatians 5:1-6]
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Mark my words! I, Paul, tell you that if you let yourselves be circumcised, Christ will be of no value to you at all. Again I declare to every man who lets himself be circumcised that he is obligated to obey the whole law. You who are trying to be justified by law have been alienated from Christ; you have fallen away from grace. But by faith we eagerly await through the Spirit the righteousness for which we hope. For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love. Galatians 5:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
A Gavel Falls on Marriage: The Proposition 8 Decision
The importance of the decision handed down by Judge Vaughn Walker in California’s Proposition 8 trial will be difficult to exaggerate. Proponents of same-sex marriage immediately declared a major victory — and for good reason. The central institution of human civilization suffered a direct hit, and its future hangs in the balance. [Link]
Starting with a Bang
The period from 1915 to 1963 saw a revolution in man's perception of the cosmos. Scientists were at last convinced that the universe had a beginning, just as the book of Genesis had always said. But ever since this unavoidable conclusion was reached, there have been tireless efforts to avoid it! [Link]
I Wanted to Quit Too…
Anne Rice and I share one big thing in common. I also thought about “quitting” the organized version of Christianity that we call church. [Link]
What Would You Trade for Money?
Would you trade your daughter for a new car? Your son for a bigger house? Your spouse for a corner office? You wouldn't, would you? At least, not intentionally. [Link]
Leaving Traditional College Behind?
Two graduates of accelerated distance learning share what students need to get out of the college box – and what every employer is looking for. [Link]
Are You a Radical?
In Radical: Taking back your faith from the American dream, David Platt illustrates a deep and powerful picture of where the church in America is today… [Link]
How wonderful dogs can be for children
Dogs truly are man's best friend and are amazing as these videos show. In addition, dogs can also be a wonderful way for your children to learn responsibility. Here's our Pet Care Contract, and our Pet Responsibility Chart. Teach your children the joys of taking care of dogs. It's the perfect prelude to their future parenting.Huddle up with your children tonight tell them your favorite memory of your dog growing up. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 9, 2010 [2 Corinthians 3:15-18]
Even to this day when Moses is read, a veil covers their hearts. But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:15-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 8, 2010 [Luke 12:32-40]
'Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom. Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will not be exhausted, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. 'Be dressed ready for service and keep your lamps burning, like men waiting for their master to return from a wedding banquet, so that when he comes and knocks they can immediately open the door for him. It will be good for those servants whose master finds them watching when he comes. I tell you the truth, he will dress himself to serve, will have them recline at the table and will come and wait on them. It will be good for those servants whose master finds them ready, even if he comes in the second or third watch of the night. But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what hour the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.' Luke 12:32-40 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 7, 2010 [Hebrews 11:1-16]
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. This is what the ancients were commended for. By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God's command, so that what is seen was not made out of what was visible. By faith Abel offered God a better sacrifice than Cain did. By faith he was commended as a righteous man, when God spoke well of his offerings. And by faith he still speaks, even though he is dead. By faith Enoch was taken from this life, so that he did not experience death; he could not be found, because God had taken him away. For before he was taken, he was commended as one who pleased God. And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family. By his faith he condemned the world and became heir of the righteousness that comes by faith. By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going. By faith he made his home in the promised land like a stranger in a foreign country; he lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God. By faith Abraham, even though he was past age–and Sarah herself was barren–was enabled to become a father because heconsidered him faithful who had made the promise. And so from this one man, and he as good as dead, came descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sand on the seashore. All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth. People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. If they had been thinking of the country they had left, they would have had opportunity to return. Instead, they were longing for a better country–a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them. Hebrews 11:1-16 NIV [Link]
Cracks in the Dam
It’s a bright, sunny morning in America. It appears that nothing has changed. But there is water gushing from the cracks in the foundation. [Link]
Ferrell's Just Coasting in Uninspired Other Guys
For anyone who loves Will Ferrell's brand of absurd man-child humor, you get more of that in The Other Guys—but only in fits and starts. If his early films felt consistently inspired, this one follows the trend of feeling more like a work-for-hire. Ferrell's just coasting here, as is the whole movie. [Link]
Jesus … Single Like Me: He Knows What It Feels Like to Be Alone
Jesus knew from the beginning that without total reliance on God, life would not have purpose. He came, ready to take on our load, our burden and our sins. So that in doing this we would never be alone. Our total dependence on Christ means that we are not alone. [Link]
Welcome to Audacious Faith
Through biblical evidence and real-life experiences, Steven Furtick shows you what happens when ordinary believers move beyond "purpose" to passion—and asking God for the impossible becomes a normal way of life. [Link]
The Promise of Persecution
Historians agree that there have been 10 great persecutions against the church. Instead of growing weaker during these times of persecution, the church actually grew stronger. The same is true today. [Link]
The Gospel of Don Quixote
The musical Man of La Mancha is based on the novel by Miguel de Cervantes. The play unfolds as a play within a play. The story is full of spiritual allegories and it starts with the gentle knight errant, Don Quixote. [Link]
Harsh Realities Aren't Whitewashed in Artsy Kisses
Though many independent films favor an equally bleak canvas for telling such a sad story, Kisses is striking and beautifully conceived thanks to gorgeous black-and-white photography and an enchanting score, even when the storyline turns dark and dangerous. [Link]
The Bishop Continues James' Bowers Files Series
FBI Agent Patrick Bowers, last seen in Steven James' The Knight, takes on the baffling case of a pair of serial killers who leave behind only the evidence they want found. Seemingly unrelated murders—all equally gruesome in their own special ways—draw Bowers into the investigative team. [Link]
Andrew Peterson Focuses on Things That Matter in Counting Stars
Andrew Peterson's latest undertaking is a starry tapestry woven tightly with what he says are the "things that matter." Counting Stars is his thirteenth studio project and bursts with the singer-songwriter's affable and honest storytelling abilities. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 6, 2010 [Isaiah 61:1-2]
The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, Isaiah 61:1-2 NIV Listen [Link]
Will you be remembered 100 years from now?
Dr. W.G. Watson is definitely being remembered for his 100th birthday. He is the oldest known practicing physician in the U.S. and delivered a doctor currently working in his practice. Watch this amazing man at work.Most of us will not make it to our centurion birthday, but we may still be remembered by our children and grandchildren. How? As philosopher Albert Pike puts it, "What you do for yourself alone dies with you … what you do for others and the world remains and is immortal." If you live in a way that puts your children's priority above your own, you will live on forever, both in heaven and in their hearts.Here are10 ways to be remembered 100 years from now. Huddle up tonight and ask your children: In 50 years, how do you think you will remember me? [Link]
Harsh Realities Certainly Aren't Whitewashed in Artsy Kisses
Though many independent films favor an equally bleak canvas for telling such a sad story, Kisses is striking and beautifully conceived thanks to gorgeous black-and-white photography and an enchanting score, even when the storyline turns dark and dangerous. [Link]
Five Areas of a Woman’s Life That Need God’s Touch
After surveying nearly 100 women, I found several common areas in which women, myself included, need the touch of God to be whole and complete. Scripture addresses these areas of a woman's life so that we can receive His healing touch… [Link]
Love Divine: One Lesbian's Decision for Chastity in the Church
Eve Tushnet is still a lesbian–something she doesn't expect will change. Nonetheless, she's taken an amazingly countercultural approach to same-sex love. [Link]
With N.Y. Pastor's Help, A Haitian Orphanage Is Reborn
Some believe what happened at the Reformation Hope orphanage on Jan. 12 was a miracle. And some now regard what has happened since that awful day as a second act of divine intervention. [Link]
The Lesson of Tax Cuts: Ideology Vs. Reality
As a new year – and a new chapter in our nation's political and economic history – looms, Americans in every socioeconomic bracket face a potential tax hike. [Link]
Raising Kids to be Christ-like Servants
I must confess that as a parent I don't always model servanthood. Too often I model the opposite… [Link]
Attack the Problem, Not the Person
Stubborn individualism is, in my opinion, at the root of many marital problems. Rather than attacking their problems, facing issues as a team, spouses attack each other… [Link]
Mixed Messages on Marriage
Is marriage good for children and families, or not? Does it really matter whether Tripp's parents, Bristol Palin and Levy Johnston, get married? Research says yes. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 5, 2010 [Psalm 34:9-14]
Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies. Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. Psalm 34:9-14 NIV Listen [Link]
10 ways to teach your children to overcome obstacles
Artist John Bramblitt shows us what overcoming obstacles looks like. What an amazing story of beauty and perseverance. Here are our 10 ways to teach your children to overcome obstacles. Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: What is something really hard you had to overcome in your life? [Link]
The Best Apologetic
As I speak to Christian audiences around the country, I am often asked for “effective arguments” to refute this particular philosophy or that mind-set that stands in opposition to the reception of the gospel. These are well-intended Christians who are earnestly trying to equip themselves in order to present the most effective witness. However, I sometimes sense that we may be more interested in merely winning arguments; thus we may wield apologetics as "martial arts"—and this I do not want to contribute to. [Link]
Anne Rice Quits Christianity
I’m not going to defend the church because it needs no defense. Everyone knows the church is full of hypocrites and sinners because those are the people Jesus came to save. [Link]
The Sinkhole Syndrome
To all outward appearances he's a man of Christian faithfulness and integrity. Then, without warning, his life collapses into a sinkhole of sin. Everyone wonders how it could have happened so quickly. In most cases, it soon becomes known that—like most sinkholes—the problem didn't develop overnight. [Link]
How to Climb Out of Your Career Rut
No young person ever says, "I want to be stuck in a career rut when I grow up," yet that is exactly where many working adults find themselves. [Link]
Finance Q&A: Is Identity Theft Protection Worth the Cost?
Dear Deborah: With all the hype about identity theft, is it worth it to pay for these programs offered on TV or through credit cards? [Link]
Marry Outside the Faith? The Logic of Christian Marriage
The sociological research presents a clear case for social concern, but the Christian case against mixed-faith marriage emerged long before the academic discipline of sociology. That case is rooted in the logic of the Gospel itself, and in the reality of the Lordship of Jesus Christ. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 4, 2010 [Philippians 4:11-13]
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:11-13 NIV Listen [Link]
How to really connect with your children
If you want to find out how connected you are to your children, we challenge you to take our 5-minute quiz to see how close you really are to them. Then for the 10 Ways to stay connected with your children, visit here. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: Do you think I am connected to our kids? [Link]
Anne Rice Hasn’t Betrayed You
In recent days, the Internet has been abuzz with news that Anne Rice has renounced Christianity. The best-selling vampire novelist, who professed faith in Christ several years ago and has since written several books about Jesus and her conversion, publicly quit Christianity on her Facebook page. [Link]
A “New Agnosticism” — Coming Soon?
Given what is at stake, living on the basis of a mere assumption that we cannot know if God exists seems a bit flimsy. [Link]
The Victory of Reason: Christianity and the Triumph of the West
Globalization is about more than markets and technology. Globalization and Christianity are linked in ways you may never have imagined. [Link]
Killing Fields Verdict Fuels Christian's Forgiveness
Former Khmer Rouge operative Kaing Guev Eav's sentence is not severe enough, in the minds of many Cambodians; forgiveness is far from their thoughts. Silas is not one of them. [Link]
Inner Beauty Question Answered in VeggieTales' Sweetpea Beauty
Sweetpea Beauty is the first VeggieTales production created specifically for girls. Answering the question, "What is true beauty?", the veggies teach biblical truth and entertain with the creativity and hilarity we've come to expect. [Link]
Believers Enlist Hollywood Pros To Save a Life
If you're a serious evangelical filmmaker, there's one response you do not want to hear: "For a Christian movie, that was pretty good." Yet when it comes to the more impressive motion pictures produced by churches and ministries, this backhanded compliment remains the most ubiquitous—and often, the most deserved. [Link]
Cats & Dogs: The Revenge of Kitty Galore Should've Gone Straight to Video
Aside from Toy Story 3 and Despicable Me, kids have really gotten the short end of the cinematic stick this summer. And sadly, Cats & Dogs: The Revenge of Kitty Galore, which is so bad it should've gone straight to video, doesn't exactly up the ante. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 3, 2010 [1 Thessalonians 5:18-23]
give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not put out the Spirit's fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil. May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Thessalonians 5:18-23 NIV Listen [Link]
You're going to love Tony Dungy's new book
Are you a mentor/ leader? Coach Tony Dungy can help you answer that question. In his new book, The Mentor Leader, Coach Dungy says, "…mentor leaders seek to have a direct, intentional, and positive impact on the people they lead by showing them how to succeed… by example and through step-by-step teaching." Ultimately, being a mentor is about being a positive influence in your relationships, and the key to becoming a mentor leader is learning how to put other people first. Tony also adds, "If we lose sight of people, then being a leader has lost its purpose." To hear about a time when Tony quit football, but went back because of his Mentor Leader, watch this. If you'd like to order a copy of The Mentor Leader, go here.Huddle Up with your kids tonight and ask: Who is your favorite teacher and why? [Link]
Kay Arthur on Inductive Bible Study: Observation, Interpretation & Application
As a writer of over 100 books and Bible studies, Kay Arthur traverses the Bible day after day, constantly discovering timeless truths, written thousands of years ago, yet still as fresh as if they had been penned this morning. [Link]
Singles in the Church: A Compelling Role to Play
Singlehood represents a burgeoning social dynamic in North America. To the extent that single believers trust the Lord, join in the mission of the church, and honor marriage by respecting its boundaries, we offer a compelling role to play in communities of faith. [Link]
And the Truth Shall Set You Free
The promise that we could become an honest society of individuals who require truth from our elected officials and businesses leaders may seem a pipedream, but it is a revolutionary battle worth fighting. [Link]
What Parents Should Know About Teen Suicide
With the increasing prevalence of teen suicide, no parent can afford to ignore the possibility. Suicide is now the third leading cause of death for high-school students. Here are warning signs a teen may be struggling. [Link]
Unlock the Heart of Your Husband
Unlocking a man's full potential — when you understand his core need and seek to be a teammate fulfilling that need — is the best gift a man could get! Here are some insights from relationship experts Bill and Pam Farrel. [Link]
The Long Good-Bye: Five Lessons for Parents of College-Bound Children
We have watched hundreds of parents drop their kids off at camp or college and have learned a few things in the process. As parental mistakes were made we came to recognize those parents: the ones who made growing up much harder for their adult children. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 2, 2010 [Ephesians 5:1-4]
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. Ephesians 5:1-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Smoking, a Russian tragedy and your teen
Russian literary critic Mikhail Bakhtin was one of the great original minds of the twentieth century. Yet we have only a fragment of his master work. After Bakhtin completed his book, he kept a copy of the manuscript for himself and sent the other copy to his publisher in Germany. The manuscript he sent was destroyed in a bombing raid. By the time he heard that his sent manuscript (which had taken him ten years to complete) was lost, Bakhtin's personal copy was no longer intact. During the WW II siege of Leningrad, there was a terrible shortage of paper and Bakhtin's nicotine addiction had become too much for him. Page by page he had rolled cigarettes and smoked his sole remaining manuscript.Smoking can destroy lives in many ways. And the best way to keep your kids from smoking is to encourage them to never start by these great parenting tips. Huddle up with your teen tonight and say: Smoking is really stupid because ____. [Link]
"Economic Justice" as "Social Justice"
Like the very progressives that champion the term "social justice," the definition seems to evolve based on progressives' ever-evolving purposes. [Link]
Kay Arthur on Inductive Bible Study: Observation, Interpretation & Application
As a writer of over 100 books and Bible studies, Kay Arthur traverses the Bible day after day, constantly discovering timeless truths, written thousands of years ago, yet still as fresh as if they had been penned this morning. [Link]
Singles in the Church: A Compelling Role to Play
Singlehood represents a burgeoning social dynamic in North America. To the extent that single believers trust the Lord, join in the mission of the church, and honor marriage by respecting its boundaries, we offer a compelling role to play in communities of faith. [Link]
And the Truth Shall Set You Free
The promise that we could become an honest society of individuals who require truth from our elected officials and businesses leaders may seem a pipedream, but it is a revolutionary battle worth fighting. [Link]
What Parents Should Know About Teen Suicide
With the increasing prevalence of teen suicide, no parent can afford to ignore the possibility. Suicide is now the third leading cause of death for high-school students. Here are warning signs a teen may be struggling. [Link]
Unlock the Heart of Your Husband
Unlocking a man's full potential — when you understand his core need and seek to be a teammate fulfilling that need — is the best gift a man could get! Here are some insights from relationship experts Bill and Pam Farrel. [Link]
The Long Good-Bye: Five Lessons for Parents of College-Bound Children
We have watched hundreds of parents drop their kids off at camp or college and have learned a few things in the process. As parental mistakes were made we came to recognize those parents: the ones who made growing up much harder for their adult children. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 1, 2010 [Luke 12:13-21]
Someone in the crowd said to him, 'Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.' Jesus replied, 'Man, who appointed me a judge or an arbiter between you?' Then he said to them, 'Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.' And he told them this parable: 'The ground of a certain rich man produced a good crop. He thought to himself, 'What shall I do? I have no place to store my crops.' 'Then he said, 'This is what I'll do. I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I'll say to myself, 'You have plenty of good things laid up for many years. Take life easy; eat, drink and be merry.' ' 'But God said to him, 'You fool! This very night your life will be demanded from you. Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself?' 'This is how it will be with anyone who stores up things for himself but is not rich toward God.' Luke 12:13-21 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 31, 2010 [Romans 4:13-25]
It was not through law that Abraham and his offspring received the promise that he would be heir of the world, but through the righteousness that comes by faith. For if those who live by law are heirs, faith has no value and the promise is worthless, because law brings wrath. And where there is no law there is no transgression. Therefore, the promise comes by faith, so that it may be by grace and may be guaranteed to all Abraham's offspring–not only to those who are of the law but also to those who are of the faith of Abraham. He is the father of us all. As it is written: 'I have made you a father of many nations.' He is our father in the sight of God, in whom he believed–the God who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they were. Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed and so became the father of many nations, just as it had been said to him, 'So shall your offspring be.' Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as dead–since he was about a hundred years old–and that Sarah's womb was also dead. Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised. This is why 'it was credited to him as righteousness.' The words 'it was credited to him' were written not for him alone, but also for us, to whom God will credit righteousness–for us who believe in him who raised Jesus our Lord from the dead. He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. Romans 4:13-25 NIV [Link]
Are There No "Normal" People?
A line from one of my favorite comic strips caught my attention recently. "There are only two kinds of people. Abnormal people and people you don’t yet know well enough." [Link]
Discomfort with Dad Signifies a Deeper Problem
The Atlantic recently made the case that "there's nothing objectively essential about his contribution" in an age when any two adults can make a family. Are fathers unnecessary after all? [Link]
Sued for Self-Preservation: Arizona's Immigration Solution
By suing the state of Arizona for “unconstitutionally” passing immigration legislation, the federal government is tacitly acknowledging its dereliction of duty. [Link]
Charlie St. Cloud is More Creepy Than Weepy
The trouble with Charlie St. Cloud is that the screenplay tries to be so many things (part Field of Dreams, part The Sixth Sense, part The Notebook), that it doesn't do anything particularly well, including generating the necessary waterworks to win over its target demographic. [Link]
Sexual Jokes Coarsen Dinner for Schmucks
Dinner for Schmucks, a remake of the French farce The Dinner Game, expands on the original in many ways that improve the story, but it adds a heavy dose of sexual content that prevents the film from being easily recommendable. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 30, 2010 [Colossians 3:15-17]
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:15-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Do your kids have a cell phone obsession?
Cell phones can definitely lead to unplanned issues as this humorous commercial shows. Laughing aside, many kids are addicted to their cell phones – specifically texting. Amanda Lenhart of the Pew Research Center notes the social pressure that teenagers say they feel to respond to text messages quickly, regardless of the time of day or night. A Pew study found that one in three teens sends more than 100 text messages per day. More than 100! Well, as the father, you have the authority to reign in your child's cell phone obsession. Start them off right with our complimentary cell phone contract so they'll know what you expect.Huddle up with your older children tonight and ask: Do you think some kids are addicted to cell phones? Do you think it's a little or big problem? [Link]
Billerbeck Takes on Teens in Perfectly Dateless
Perfectly Dateless delivers the laughs that readers have come to expect from Kristin Billerbeck. She combines a witty phrase with hilarious situations and an uncanny teenaged voice. She also seems to have a solid handle on the culture in which today's teens live, particularly Christian teens. [Link]
Christians Reexamine Morality of Birth Control
Is contraception a sin? The very suggestion made Bryan Hodge and his classmates at Chicago's Moody Bible Institute laugh. Then Hodge started to think about it. [Link]
'Only' a Preacher: The Pastor's Place in Community Influence
Pastors no longer automatically hold positions of community influence. But they can — and should — earn a place in their communities by participating in them. [Link]
Theo-tainment versus Discipleship
The modern idea of church, or ecclesiology, it seems, is that the church exists as a venue to attract the lost through dynamic programs, performances, and events—the more dynamic the better. A pastor friend of mine referred to this as “theo-tainment.” The problem with this approach exclusively is that a disproportionate amount of the church’s time and resources go into these programs at the expense of making disciples and training the body. [Link]
Bible Women
When I was in India teaching, I encountered many strange and exotic things. It is said that India assaults all of your senses at once. This was in a way true for me. There I found something — or someone — who I recognized. I want to talk to you about her. I found her coming to me in several persons. [Link]
Escaping the Lies of Gambling Addiction
In his book Chance to Change, Michael Vlach explains that gambling and lying go hand in hand. "Problem gamblers usually do not have to think about lying and deception — it comes naturally," he says. So how does a gambler change his ways? [Link]
Tony Dungy: From Super Bowl Coach to 'All Pro Dad'
Tony Dungy no longer needs the game-day apparel and gear of an NFL head coach, but that doesn't keep him from donning distinctively different attire when the occasion calls for it. [Link]
Probabilities: What the Past Suggests About the Future
What the market's long-term average return makes clear is that time is on the side of the long-term investor. The longer you're willing to keep your money in the market, the greater the likelihood of success. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 29, 2010 [Psalm 100:2-5]
Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his ; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations. Psalm 100:2-5 NIV Listen [Link]
What is your child's game worth?
In a month or two, you will be getting your son or daughter's fall athletic schedule. What will it be worth to you? Will you rearrange your schedule to make sure you are there as often as possible, or will your kids simply get your leftovers? Keep in mind your children will never, ever be this age again. What's that worth to you? The only way to truly know is whether you will be there or not. And by just showing up, you will be their hero.Visit here for the 10 Ways to be your child's hero. And Tony Dungy shares about his plans to go out of his way to attend his son's football games at the University of Oregon.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: On a scale of 1 to 10, how important is it to you that I attend your games? Why? [Link]
Pressing On When Faced With the Impossible
Life seldom turns out the way we plan it, but there are many moments in our lives when God gets to show up and show out. When you only have a prayer, know that it is enough to move the very throne of God to action. [Link]
How Much Do You Have to Hate Someone to Not Proselytize?
Our current climate of spiritual openness coupled with spiritual desire and hunger for spiritual experience should be a perfect setting for evangelism. Yet this is not what is happening. [Link]
Sugar and Spice and How We Learned to Act Nice
Many women have been deeply hurt by their own gender. [Link]
Worship Is A Big Deal: Part 1
The way a church worships is a big deal. Paul made it clear that when Christians are gathered by God to worship, they should worship in such a God-centered and gospel-fueled way that any visiting non-Christians would say, “God is really among you.” [Link]
The Headship God Supports
When a husband allows God to lead him, and when his heart is open to God and His purposes, then his headship receives God's support. So what does that kind of leadership look like in practical terms? [Link]
He Said-She Said: Socializing and Asperger's Syndrome
It's hard enough meeting new people when you're "single and ready to mingle." So what's a guy to do when you throw Asperger's Syndrome into the mix? Find out what "he" and "she" have suggested in this edition of "He Said-She Said." [Link]
Allowances, Chores and Teaching Biblical Stewardship
Should you give your child an allowance? Should it be connected to chores? Financial and parenting expert Shane Barkley addresses the differing approaches to teaching kids money management skills. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 28, 2010 [Ephesians 2:4-7]
But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions–it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. Ephesians 2:4-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Making memories with your children
One of the most powerful ways a father bonds with his children is by playing with them. For young kids, it could be at a local playground as comedian Tim Hawkins recounts. Ahh, the memories last a lifetime. Just ask your teens and see what stories they can share!Families that play together, stay together. So take playing seriously and get dates circled on your calendar.Huddle up with your children tonight and say: Our next play date will be on ___ and we will ___. [Link]
An Adoption Movement? Agencies Say Interest on Rise
The adoption agency Bethany Christian Services says interest from couples in adopting is significantly ahead of what it was last year, a trend that is being seen elsewhere and, adoption leaders say, is an example of a growing adoption movement among Christians. [Link]
The Alien Among Us: A Conservative Christian Perspective
A moral and just immigration policy should reflect God's attitude towards immigrants. To paraphrase Kepler, man is at his best when he "thinks God's thoughts after him." [Link]
The Snare of Beauty — Flashpoints of Our Obsession with Attractiveness
Beauty, says philosopher Roger Scruton, "is never viewed with indifference." Those words ring true after this week's Newsweek article that purports to offer evidence that employers are more likely to hire attractive people. [Link]
Another Turn of the Screw: The Court and Religious Freedom
In a world where what's increasingly being required of Christians goes beyond "tolerance" to actual participation in activities contrary to God's law, we must be prepared to say "no." [Link]
Futile Clash Leaves Titanic Sense of Disappointment
The ads for Clash of the Titans suggest epic entertainment, superb special effects and the catch phrase of the year so far—"Release the Kraken!"—but there's nothing epic about Titans other than the sense of disappointment it leaves in viewers. [Link]
Newsboys' Rebirth is Creatively Challenged on Born Again
Newsboys have always shined a little brighter in the live setting, and Born Again has far too much studio spit and shine. Now don't get me wrong, I'm all for an album of catchy pop songs. But something about this collection feels a little too contrived—even a little safe and boring. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 27, 2010 [Hebrews 12:7-10]
Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. Hebrews 12:7-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Is your wife a priority?
A man and a friend are playing golf one day when a long funeral procession goes by. The man stops in mid-swing, takes off his golf cap, closes his eyes, and bows his head in prayer. His friend says: "Wow! That is the most thoughtful and touching thing I have ever seen. You truly are a kind man." The man replies: "Yeah, well we were married 35 years." Not cool. Your wife needs to be a priority in your life. Statistically speaking, she will be the one caring for you as you are dying. No one else will ever love you or serve you more than a great wife. But if she feels she's second-fiddle, your marriage, if it lasts, will be nothing short of torture.So how does your wife know she's important to you? Two ways mainly. One is that you spend time with her. Two is that you communicate well with her. We have resources for both. Here's our 10 creative ways to spend more time with your wife. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: How can I do a better job at letting you know how important you are to me? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 26, 2010 [Romans 8:14-27]
because those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, 'Abba, Father.' The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs–heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. The creation waits in eager expectation for the sons of God to be revealed. For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the glorious freedom of the children of God. We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently. In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will. Romans 8:14-27 NIV Listen [Link]
A potentially perfect answer to sibling rivalry
If you have more than one child, you have sibling rivalry. And it can literally make you lose your hair. But here is one potential solution. If you have at least one boy and one girl in your family, the girl always goes first. It's a great way to teach chivalry to your young men and avoid unnecessary fighting. Your girl is the first to get in the car, the first to get ice cream and the first in line. Of course, this does not work in every situation and may not work in your family makeup, but if you have an opportunity, let your "default" be giving your daughter privileges first. And if all your children are the same sex, the same philosophy may work with age. Or you could take turns and have a "kid of the week."Here are 4 helpful tips on curbing sibling rivalry. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What is one thing we can start doing this week to curb sibling rivalry? [Link]
Evangelicals and Science in Conversation — A One-Way Street?
If Professor Ecklund was trying to counter the "myth" that science is basically secular and antagonistic to theistic belief, she had better hope that people read her USA Today article and not her book. [Link]
Did Jonah Truly Repent?
It’s surprisingly easy to do the right things for the wrong reasons and still be blessed by God. [Link]
Life is Difficult: A Lesson from the Life of Job
Life is not just difficult, it's downright unfair. Welcome to Job's world… [Link]
Does God Lie?
Is God completely truthful if He ordains lies? [Link]
Recover from Financial Setbacks Well
If you're broke, don't despair. You may not have enough money in the bank, but you'll always have enough help from God to grow beyond the challenges you face. [Link]
Not Just for Profit
Not all businesspeople are greedy. Too many people shun the idea of making money as evil and believe good can only be done by non-profits. [Link]
Does God Care How Much We Give?
God didn’t just give a little for us; He gave His best. He gave Himself. John says that it is no different for us: True love requires sacrifice. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 25, 2010 [Luke 11:1-13]
One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, 'Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.' He said to them, 'When you pray, say: ' 'Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us. And lead us not into temptation.' ' Then he said to them, 'Suppose one of you has a friend, and he goes to him at midnight and says, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, because a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have nothing to set before him.' 'Then the one inside answers, 'Don't bother me. The door is already locked, and my children are with me in bed. I can't get up and give you anything.' I tell you, though he will not get up and give him the bread because he is his friend, yet because of the man's boldness he will get up and give him as much as he needs. 'So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 'Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!' Luke 11:1-13 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 24, 2010 [Colossians 2:6-15]
So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ. For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness in Christ, who is the head over every power and authority. In him you were also circumcised, in the putting off of the sinful nature, not with a circumcision done by the hands of men but with the circumcision done by Christ, having been buried with him in baptism and raised with him through your faith in the power of God, who raised him from the dead. When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross. And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross. Colossians 2:6-15 NIV [Link]
No Depth of Action-Flick Flavor in Salt
The standard Angelina Jolie summer action flick is a generic retread of better work from waning genres, and Salt is no different. This Manchurian Candidate meets The Fugitive isn't so much a throwback to a Cold War thriller as it is a relic. [Link]
Rest in the Lord
Maybe our lives seem so out of control, in total disrepair or altogether burdensome because we haven't taken ample time to spend with the Lord. He calls us all to himself. His desire is for us to look to him when we are weary. And when we do, he promises us rest. [Link]
Flabbergasted by Family: Sperm Donor Kids are Struggling
It’s sad but not surprising—the children of sperm donors are having problems. A new study titled “My Daddy’s Name Is Donor" details their troubles. [Link]
Faith in the Military: Chaplains and Alliance Defense Fund
The impending repeal of the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy would be a serious threat to the careers of our nation's military chaplains—who may have to choose between obeying God or obeying man. [Link]
Tort Reform: A Libertarian's Misplaced Attack on the Constitution
It will be readily admitted by this attorney that yes, tort lawyers can, and sometimes do, lie. But what other alternatives do wronged people have except vigilantism? [Link]
Dad Steals the Show in Sister Story Ramona and Beezus
The latest adaptation from Walden Media of a beloved series of children's books is unobjectionable G-rated family entertainment. It's not very cinematic, nor is it memorably performed by its lead actresses, but a charming performance by John Corbett as the girls' father helps the film immensely. [Link]
Waterdeep Gives Folk-Rock Some Punch In the Middle of It
One thing Waterdeep's Don and Lori Chaffer have never lacked is creativity. Dousing their latest quirky folk-rock with extra punch, the dynamic duo turns a kaleidoscope of sounds into a shimmering tapestry of musical color. [Link]
In Feast or Fallow Gives Modern Voice to Hymns
Understanding the church's hunger for classic liturgy, singer/songwriter Sandra McCracken compiles her second hymns recording, delicately refashioning historic, sacred songs by replacing their antiquated musical contexts with a modern voice. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 23, 2010 [Philippians 4:6-8]
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things. Philippians 4:6-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Temper your Temper
According to the National Center for Fathering, when a group of teenage girls were asked to anonymously identify why they would not confide in their fathers, one of the primary reasons was, "He would blow up." Other responses included: "His reaction." "I'm scared about his response." "He would start yelling at me." "I'm afraid of what he will do." "He will reject me." "He will freak out." In other words, daughters will not confide in their father if he has no self-control.Dads – our anger is one of the biggest wedges that come between us and our kids. We've got to get it under control for our children's sake.Check out our 10 Ways to temper your temper. Tony Dungy admits he had quite a temper as a young man. Find out how he controlled it.Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: I am sorry I lost my temper when ____. [Link]
Ramona and Beezus: A Good Story Can Go a Long Way
Children's literature continues to have a second act on the big screen these days. And if Walden Media's Micheal Flaherty has anything to say about it, it will definitely keep going—beginning with his latest film based on the best-loved book series, Ramona and Beezus. [Link]
What is Truth?
For milennia mankind has asked, "What is truth?" And, like Pilate, so many people have missed it (even though it was right in front of them) because they were asking the wrong question. The question is not what is truth, but rather who is truth. [Link]
A Believer for All Seasons
God intends for Christians to flourish in all seasons, regardless of our situations, and we will only do that as we renew our minds to think as He thinks, to live as He lives, and to love as He loves. [Link]
“Who, Me?” Overcoming the Fear of Inadequacy
Soon after our family began attending a particular church, the pastor's wife asked me to play piano for the worship team. I longed to say yes, but the fear of inadequacy held me captive. [Link]
From One Single Mother to Another: Sandra Aldrich Offers Encouragement
Can I do this alone? Will my children turn out alright? Where do I fit into the Church? Author Sandra Aldrich offers wisdom and reassurance regarding these and other concerns single mothers face. Read the Crosswalk interview. [Link]
Bring Out the Best in Your Husband
If your husband sees that you believe in him no matter what, he'll gain the confidence to believe in himself and change for the better. Here's how you can bring out the best in your husband by encouraging him. [Link]
Reject Mediocrity and Reach for Greatness
Our children need encouragement to reject mediocrity, especially the hidden mediocrity of spending significant time and outsized effort on things that don’t really matter. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 22, 2010 [Matthew 7:7-11]
'Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 'Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! Matthew 7:7-11 NIV Listen [Link]
The biggest threat to your marriage
If you tracked the rate of debt in America over the past 50 years and compared it to the rate of divorce, they're virtually identical. In fact, according to Dave Ramsey, of the couples who divorce between the ages of 20 and 30, 80% cite finances as the primary reason. The way you and your spouse handle money has a direct impact on the health of your family. So if your finances aren't what they should be, where should you start? With Steve Martin of course. Then, you need to figure out how to get out of credit card debt and how much to save. Also, you can find out if Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University is being offered near you. Love your family enough to get your finances in order.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What is the first step we can take to get our finances in order? [Link]
A Fresh-Squeezed Take on Body Image from the Author of Unsqueezed
What do you see when you look in the mirror? The outside or the inside? Imperfections, or purposed usefulness? The author of a new book helps remind us that we were given bodies for more than just looking our best. [Link]
The Blood of the Tea Party?
This is a multifaceted movement, but one thing seems certain: those taking pleasure assailing Tea Partiers may enliven the very movement they endeavor to destroy. [Link]
Sexual Obesity: What Are Your Kids Consuming Online?
Just as you wouldn’t feed your children deep-fried Twinkies for dinner, you shouldn’t give them unlimited and unfiltered access to the Internet. [Link]
Coming to a Doctor’s Office Near You? The New Abortion Strategy
It is at least encouraging to know that abortion, though an industry of death, is not a growth industry. At least for now. All that may change if a new movement meets with success. [Link]
Confronting Entitlement
We all go through hard times and need help in those moments. But there is a difference between going through a short term crisis in which we need help and just expecting others to pay our way through life so we can hang out with our friends. [Link]
Financing Your Career Change
Do you want to make a career change, but feel trapped by your financial situation? Many people are certain they can't afford to transition into a new job or career, but there are "do-able" strategies that can make it financially feasible. [Link]
Watch Out for Bogus Oil Spill Jobs
Bogus ads for oil spill clean-up jobs in the Gulf are appearing in newspapers, online, and in email inboxes. Red flags for scams apply here. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 21, 2010 [Genesis 17:3-8]
Abram fell facedown, and God said to him, 'As for me, this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of many nations. No longer will you be called Abram ; your name will be Abraham, for I have made you a father of many nations. I will make you very fruitful; I will make nations of you, and kings will come from you. I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you. The whole land of Canaan, where you are now an alien, I will give as an everlasting possession to you and your descendants after you; and I will be their God.' Genesis 17:3-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Will your kids abuse prescription drugs?
Raising teenagers is hard, especially knowing that one in five have tried prescription painkillers. Vicodin and OxyContin are examples that adolescents use to get high, with the pill-popping members of "Generation Rx" often raiding their parents' medicine cabinets, (according to a study by the Partnership for a Drug-Free America.) "For the first time, our national study finds that today's teens are more likely to have abused a prescription painkiller to get high than they are to have experimented with a variety of illegal drugs," said Partnership Chairman Roy Bostock.So how can you help avoid this tragedy? First, instruct your kids that even though some drugs are legal, if not taken in the right fashion, they're just as dangerous as cocaine or heroin. Second, don't leave bottles of prescription drugs strewn around your bathroom. Get rid of outdated pills. Third, talk to your kids about the healthy ways to relieve stress (exercise, prayer, sleep etc.) and love them like crazy. Loving parents are the anti-drug.Take a look at the 10 signs of prescription drug abuse by children.Huddle up with your teen tonight and say: Do you know of anyone who has abused prescription drugs? Do you think that's as bad as illegal drugs? Why or why not? [Link]
Pray to God… and Row to Shore
We've all been in a place where we want to trust God to change a situation, whether it is a troubled marriage, a difficult job, an addicted spouse, or perhaps a habit that destroys our self-worth. But “just praying” is often the wrong approach. [Link]
Carrying the Cross of a Difficult Pastorate
Some pastorates are more difficult than others. Yours may be one of them. But, like Charles Simeon, be willing to carry the cross for Christ's sake. [Link]
Hard to Believe? Biblical Authority and Evangelical Feminism
Anne Eggebroten said, "Hard to believe, but some churches are still teaching about male headship." Hard to believe? It can hardly be surprising to anyone with the slightest attachment to evangelical Christianity. [Link]
Revival: What it is and why we need it
Revival is a seemingly old-fashioned word that conjures up numerous definitions, some of which have little to do with authentic revival, or “times of refreshing” sent from the Lord as described in Scripture. There have been three Great Awakenings in this nation’s history that profoundly affected the Church and surrounding culture, so much so that history could not ignore these spontaneous movements of God and their dramatic effects. Might we see another? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 20, 2010 [Luke 18:9-14]
To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable: 'Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other men–robbers, evildoers, adulterers–or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.' 'But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.' 'I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.' Luke 18:9-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Enjoying the simple things
Author Dan Millman says, "The key to happiness isn't in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less." How true! Enjoying the simple things and teaching your kids to do the same enlarges the soul and uncorks the wellspring of joy. Some examples are: Taking in a sunset as a family Going on a picnic this weekend Fishing Bike riding Looking at leaves under a microscope Laying out in the backyard and identifying the constellations The possibilities are endless. Commit to do one simple and fun thing with your kids for the next four weekends… and enjoy! Here are some great, inexpensive family fun ideas that you can try this summer. Huddle up with your children tonight and say: This weekend we will ____ as a family! [Link]
Carrying the Cross of a Difficult Pastorate
Some pastorates are more difficult than others. Yours may be one of them. But, like Charles Simeon, be willing to carry the cross for Christ's sake. [Link]
Hard to Believe? Biblical Authority and Evangelical Feminism
Anne Eggebroten said, "Hard to believe, but some churches are still teaching about male headship." Hard to believe? It can hardly be surprising to anyone with the slightest attachment to evangelical Christianity. [Link]
Moral Lessons Found Lacking in Well-Acted Runaways
If The Runaways is nothing we haven't seen before in terms of its story arc, it's also notable for strong performances from Kristen Stewart, Dakota Fanning and Michael Shannon. However, the debauchery and hedonism on display make the film difficult to watch. [Link]
Cop Out Wears Its Juvenile Humor Like a Badge of Honor
In what's supposed to be a cheeky homage to '80s crime-fighting fare like Beverly Hills Cop, Lethal Weapon and of course, Die Hard, Cop Out is nothing more than a 107-minute string of bad jokes without the benefit of a punch line. [Link]
The Losers Lacks Passion and a Point
Written by Peter Berg and James Vanderbilt and based on a series of comic books, The Losers wants to pay homage to its comic roots but never gives us a reason to care about its characters or to believe this story needed a big-screen adaptation. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 19, 2010 [Lamentations 3:19-24]
I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I well remember them, and my soul is downcast within me. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' Lamentations 3:19-24 NIV Listen [Link]
Want a great conversation with your kids?
Conversation builds relationships. It opens the door to understanding about what your child is thinking and why. Meaningful conversations don't usually happen without prompting. Our Conversation Starters will make family dinners, drive time in the car, or bedtime special for your family. This tool will help your family's relationships, improve your family time and increase your family's communication. Enjoy and please forward to a friend as well.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: If there is one thing you would change about the world, what would it be? [Link]
How Your Small Rural Church Can Do Something Big
Churches in rural areas tend to have few people attending and little money. But your church's small size doesn't have to limit its potential to impact the world in big ways. [Link]
A Wonderful Education
The first way to restore beauty and wonder to education is to put skepticism in its place. Skepticism, like gay, is a word that used to mean one thing and now means something else entirely… [Link]
A Long Catalog of Injustice: Morocco and Christians
"The human face of a long catalogue of socio-economic ills" are the many thousands of orphaned and abandoned children living throughout your country. So what do you about it? If you are Morocco, you declare war on those seeking to help them. [Link]
Reflections on the Oil Spill: Restoring the Created Order
Many people are even taking out their frustrations on those who are responding . . . who are trying to contain and clean up the mess. [Link]
How To Connect With Your Teen
Are you connecting with your teenager or growing farther apart every day? Here are three things you can do to communicate and connect on a deeper level. [Link]
Playing With Your Children Can Be More Than Fun and Games
As Christian parents, it's easy to become overly serious given the gravity of our faith. But incorporating playfulness into your weekly routine opens up opportunities to pass on your Christian values, bond as a family, and guide your kids as they mature. [Link]
Wedding Thoughts
Even though his exact words are lost somewhere in the deep recesses of my memory, I remember thinking at the time that it was the most meaningful message I had ever heard on love or marriage. [Link]
Creepy Comedy, Heartfelt Emotion Don't Fully Mix in Cyrus
Cyrus is a peculiar mixed bag. To say it's a complete failure would be unfairly reductive, though it doesn't fully succeed either. There's something very interesting going on here that can't be denied, yet neither can the sense that it fails to form into a complete whole. [Link]
Tempered Reason: How the Oil Disaster Will Teach Us Humility
Now that the smoke has cleared and the oil is spreading, we should finally recognize not only our great powers, but also our significant limitations. [Link]
Lie, Cheat & Steal. Or, Just Make One Decision
When we consciously decide who we want to be and what we want our lives to reflect, then all other choices become much easier to make. Tempted to cheat on a test, a spouse or a business deal? Is that who you've decided to be? [Link]
Christopher Hitchens and Jesus
You can't separate the words of Jesus from the identity of Jesus. [Link]
The Power of Worship
It is only as we ascend to the throne room in worship that we can descend back into the harvest field here on earth, praying and warring for victory in every area of life. [Link]
Not Quite Dreamy, Inception Gets an 'A' for Effort
Inception, the new film from director Christopher Nolan (The Dark Knight, Memento) is complex, and its story about exploiting the dreams of others has rewards for those who can follow its story across multiple levels. But ultimately, it doesn't quite coalesce. [Link]
There's Nothing Remotely Spellbinding About The Sorcerer's Apprentice
Even with Jerry Bruckheimer's name attached to the project, there's nothing remotely spellbinding about The Sorcerer's Apprentice. It's a classic case of a clunky, horribly clichéd story further destroyed by a series of outlandish stunts and less-than-superb CGI trickery. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 16, 2010 [Proverbs 8:12-21]
'I, wisdom, dwell together with prudence; I possess knowledge and discretion. To fear the LORD is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech. Counsel and sound judgment are mine; I have understanding and power. By me kings reign and rulers make laws that are just; by me princes govern, and all nobles who rule on earth. I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me. With me are riches and honor, enduring wealth and prosperity. My fruit is better than fine gold; what I yield surpasses choice silver. I walk in the way of righteousness, along the paths of justice, bestowing wealth on those who love me and making their treasuries full. Proverbs 8:12-21 NIV Listen [Link]
If you could do one thing differently
If you could do one thing in your life differently, what would it be? You can't get that decision back, but you can help your children avoid something similar. Consider sitting them down and talking about it. Sharing your failures with your children is one of the best things you can do to not only teach them, but exponentially increase family communication and their admiration of you. It takes a big man to admit his mistakes.Tony Dungy shares if he could do one thing differently in his life, it would be…Huddle up with your children this month and say: If there was one thing in my life I would do differently, it would be ____. I say that because ____. How about you? [Link]
Seeds of Summer
A former rodeo queen abandons her dreams in order to care for her deceased father's ranch and her two half-siblings, only to realize with the help of a young new pastor that God can turn even the most dire circumstances into seeds of hope. Read an excerpt from Seeds of Summer. [Link]
Are All Religions the Same? Pressing beyond 'Niceness'
Most great religions are mostly right, but "mostly" is not good enough. Christianity proves to be the best explanation for the world as it is: both the metaphysical and the physical. [Link]
Libertarianism Fails against Illegal Immigration
John Stossel's libertarian viewpoint lets him make incredibly incisive conclusions in his reporting. But when it comes to Arizona's policy on illegal immigration, a libertarian approach just isn't safe. [Link]
Survey: Living on Less, Christians Still Giving, Avoiding Debt
Even though three out of four families say their income has stayed the same or gone down, 98 percent said they still support their church regularly, according to the latest View from the Pew survey. [Link]
Is Your Online Image Helping or Hurting Your Job Search?
If a prospective employer researches your name online, what will come up? If you are a job seeker, your online image can make or break your job search. [Link]
Are Mortgage-Savings Programs a Good Idea?
My family recently moved and with our new mortgage came some new mortgage product offerings. One such offering is a mortgage-savings program. As I was reading over the letter, an unpeaceful, uneasy feeling started to creep up. Here are some highlights from my letter. [Link]
Use Your Body the Way God Designed It
Our culture is constantly bombarding women with messages that tell them their appearance is what matters most. It's freeing to look beyond our culture's shallow view of your body and start using your body the way God designed it. Here's how. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 15, 2010 [Luke 8:43-48]
As Jesus was on his way, the crowds almost crushed him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years, but no one could heal her. She came up behind him and touched the edge of his cloak, and immediately her bleeding stopped. 'Who touched me?' Jesus asked. When they all denied it, Peter said, 'Master, the people are crowding and pressing against you.' But Jesus said, 'Someone touched me; I know that power has gone out from me.' Then the woman, seeing that she could not go unnoticed, came trembling and fell at his feet. In the presence of all the people, she told why she had touched him and how she had been instantly healed. Then he said to her, 'Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace.' Luke 8:43-48 NIV Listen [Link]
10 things to do on a date with your daughter
If you want to do something really special for your daughter, take her on a date! It will be a great way to show her you love her and give her an idea of how she should be treated once those dreaded teenage boys start showing up at your door. Here are 10 things to do on a date with your daughter. Additionally, you may want to have a "monthly date" your wife, maybe her birth date or your anniversary date, when she can look forward to some one-on-one time with you.Huddle up with your daughter tonight and ask her: When can we go out on a date? [Link]
Black Friday at the Breakfast Table: DOMA on the Ropes
Judge Joseph Tauro’s dismissal of DOMA was only possible because of the effort to change cultural attitudes about homosexuality, as the movie "The Kids Are All Right" shows. [Link]
Thoughtless Faith
Do you sometimes struggle to engage with unbelievers? Do you feel ill-equipped to dialogue with those who reject faith in Jesus Christ? There is an important book that offers an excellent example of one such engagement, entitled Is Belief in God Good, Bad or Irrelevant. Coauthored by Preston Jones, assistant professor of history at John Brown University and a Christian, and Greg Graffin, an atheist punk rocker, the book chronicles the discussions between these two disparate personalities as they wrestle with life’s most challenging questions from two opposing worldviews. [Link]
The Church: A Family, a Fellowship, and the Body of Jesus Christ
Can you define what a Christian is without mentioning the church? If you can, your definition just might not line up with the Bible’s. [Link]
Send Your Small Group on a Mission
Your small group can be a great place for you and other group members to enjoy friendships with each other while studying the Bible to learn more about God. But that's not all it can be… [Link]
Honoring My Wife… and Stressed Out
A reader asks 48Days.com founder, Dan Miller, if he should stick with the job that makes him miserable at his wife's request. [Link]
Shedding Some Light on Twilight
If Bella were my daughter, several alarm bells would be going off in my head about her relationship with Edward. I would not approve. [Link]
Perfectionism: A Marriage Killer
The perfectionist often expects more from others than they expect from themselves. At the very least perfectionists see faults in another, amplifies them, while minimizing their own weaknesses. This combination is lethal to a marriage. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 14, 2010 [Psalm 1:1-6]
Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers. Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous. For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish. Psalm 1:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
What do your kids think about marriage?
Here are some classic responses: How do you decide whom to marry? You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming. — Alan, age 10How can a stranger tell if two people are married? You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids. — Derrick, age 8What do you think your mom and dad have in common? Both don't want any more kids. — Lori, age 8When is it okay to kiss someone? When they're rich. — Pam, age 7How would you make a marriage work? Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a dump truck. — Ricky, age 10So what do your kids think about your marriage? If you think you need to do a better job portraying what a marriage should be, the first step is to renew the romance. Start with a romantic getaway. Have you ever planned a trip for your wife? If not, or if you want to do another trip, here are 10 tips for a romantic getaway. Also, for more great kid quotes, here's a classic video clip from Kids Say the Darndest Things.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: On a scale of 1 to 10, rate your mother's and my marriage. Why do you say that? [Link]
God in Three Persons: A Doctrine We Barely Understand
All Christians believe the doctrine of the Trinity. If you do not believe this—that is, if you have come to a settled conclusion that the doctrine of the Trinity is not true—you are not a Christian at all. You are in fact a heretic. [Link]
For Christian Nice Girls: Real Goodness
Merely avoiding bad things doesn't make women good. [Link]
Morocco: Putting Christians in the Crosshairs
For years the northwestern African country of Morocco was considered a moderate nation regarding human rights and religious freedom for Christians. Not anymore. [Link]
PC(USA) Takes Half Step with Gays, Denounce Caterpillar
In a whirlwind of activity, the Presbyterian Church (USA) voted to lift a ban on partnered gay clergy, but turned down a bid to expand its definition of marriage to include same-sex couples. [Link]
Whose War Is It? The Wrong Questions on Afghanistan
Here is the debate we ought to be having: Is what we are doing in Afghanistan just? For this war to be just, under the Augustinian doctrine, our cause and intent must be just. [Link]
Mutiny Should be Declared on the Joyless Bounty Hunter
These days, getting the girl looks a little different with Gerard Butler on the scene. Officially kicking Mr. Sensitive to the curb, his character's idea of a fun night involves throwing his ex in the trunk and carting her off to jail for a cool 20k in The Bounty Hunter. [Link]
Faith Evolves in Rachel Held Evans' Monkey Town
Evolving in Monkey Town follows the faith journey of author Rachel Held Evans, who, as the daughter of a Bryan College professor, was raised on conservative Christian doctrine while growing up in Dayton, Tennessee, the heart of evangelicalism. [Link]
What Stephen King Taught Me About Repentance
I’m finishing up writing a book on temptation right now, and have been thinking a lot about how hard it is for me to see my own temptations, much less my outright sins. What does Stephen King have to do with this? Well… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 13, 2010 [Colossians 1:15-19]
He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, Colossians 1:15-19 NIV Listen [Link]
Make your daughter enormously gorgeous
To be Enormously Gorgeous…Sarah says you need to have beautiful long curly hair like she has. I don't.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Justin says you must have perfectly straight white teeth like he has. I don't.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Jessica says you can't have any of those little brown dots on your face called freckles. I do.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Mark says you have to be the smartest kid in the seventh grade class. I'm not.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Stephen says you have to be able to tell the funniest jokes in the school. I don't.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Lauren says you need to live in the nicest neighborhood in town and in the prettiest house. I don't.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Matthew says you can only wear the coolest clothes and the most popular shoes. I don't.To be Enormously Gorgeous…Samantha says you need to come from a perfect family. I don't.But every night at bedtime my dad gives me a big hug and says, "You are Enormously Gorgeous, and I love you."My dad must know something my friends don't. By Carla O'Brien Kids soak up lavish encouragement. Here are other proven ways to communicate. And hear from a young lady about things her father said to her growing up to make her feel special. Huddle up with your daughter tonight and say: "You are enormously gorgeous because …" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 12, 2010 [Genesis 12:1-3]
The LORD had said to Abram, 'Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you. 'I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.' Genesis 12:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Can faith make a difference in my life?
Brian Welch, the former guitarist of the heavy metal, rock group Korn, is a walking testimony to the power of grace by faith in transforming a life. Watch his incredible story and be sure to share with your family that no matter what happens in life, no matter how far you fall, God can pick up the pieces. It's never too late for faith.Huddle up and ask your children: Do you want to go to church this Sunday? [Link]
Why Are Parents So Unhappy? And Who Would Settle for Happiness?
Christians must see children as gifts from God, not as projects, understanding family life as a crucible for holiness, not an experiment in happiness. [Link]
Did Dinosaurs Coexist with Humans? An Interview with Darek Isaacs
Could it be that stories about dragons – which hail from every continent on earth – are less mythical and have more of a factual basis that binds human-and-dinosaur existence together? We asked the author of Dragons or Dinosaurs: Creation or Evolution. [Link]
The Supremacy Of Christ
The Apostle Paul wrote to show the superiority of Christ over all–over all human philosophies, traditions, personalities, and accomplishments. He wrote to remind Christians of what they already possess in Christ. He wants us to understand that everything we need, in Christ, we have—everything! [Link]
Finish the Race
I've been around long enough to know some men and women whose lives were totally sold out to God but who've lost their longing for all He is. The fear of following in their footsteps haunts me. [Link]
A Graduate's Critical Decision Point
Recently, college seniors graduated, started new jobs, moved into new apartments and are facing a world of new financial obligations. To those who are in debt up to their eyeballs, as well as those who've come through unscathed, I offer this unsolicited advice. [Link]
Paul's Advice to the Rich
With the Holy Spirit as his inspiration, Paul laid out an entire doctrine of wealth management in Timothy 6:17-19. But his words do not just apply to millionaires. The rich people to whom Paul is speaking includes most Americans today. So let's take a closer look… [Link]
Three Luxuries Money Can't Buy
I'll take being debt-free any day over a shiny new car. I'll opt for time with the people I love over finding a way to cough up hundreds of dollars for a leather handbag. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 11, 2010 [Luke 10:25-37]
On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. 'Teacher,' he asked, 'what must I do to inherit eternal life?' 'What is written in the Law?' he replied. 'How do you read it?' He answered: ' 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'' 'You have answered correctly,' Jesus replied. 'Do this and you will live.' But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, 'And who is my neighbor?' In reply Jesus said: 'A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. 'Look after him,' he said, 'and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.' 'Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?' The expert in the law replied, 'The one who had mercy on him.' Jesus told him, 'Go and do likewise.' Luke 10:25-37 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 10, 2010 [Colossians 1:1-14]
Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother, To the holy and faithful brothers in Christ at Colosse: Grace and peace to you from God our Father. We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all the saints–the faith and love that spring from the hope that is stored up for you in heaven and that you have already heard about in the word of truth, the gospel that has come to you. All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and understood God's grace in all its truth. You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, and who also told us of your love in the Spirit. For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. Colossians 1:1-14 NIV [Link]
Bible Belt Megachurches on a Building Boom
Megachurches here in the heart of the Bible Belt are thriving enough to support a major building boom despite a sluggish economy. [Link]
Nightlights Marks Progression for Jimmy Needham
The growth curve climbed exactly as imagined. For those who've caught the first two Jimmy Needham releases—2006's Speak and 2008's Not Without Love—the Houston native's progression continues at the same impressive rate as before on Nightlights. [Link]
Could You Be in Bondage to an Addiction?
Studies show that one in five women suffers from an eating disorder or disordered eating. Could you be one of them? Read Kelly’s story to find out. [Link]
Is Freedom of Religion Being Redefined?
I believe the administration is seeking to redefine the meaning of religious freedom, shrinking it to mean nothing more than the right to worship privately. [Link]
Bible Belt Megachurches on a Building Boom
Megachurches here in the heart of the Bible Belt are thriving enough to support a major building boom despite a sluggish economy. [Link]
Radio Days: Lessons Learned Behind the Microphone
Last Friday marked the final live broadcast of The Albert Mohler Program. As I brought the program to an end, I wanted to share some lessons I learned in the process. [Link]
Despicable Me Doesn’t Distinguish Itself From Better Alternatives
Despicable Me bears some resemblance to Pixar's The Incredibles and has some of the irreverence of the Shrek series, feels more like a missed opportunity than a home run. [Link]
Screwtape Letters Given Life Off-Broadway
The spiritual-warfare-themed plot of this production takes theater-goers into the depths of hell; specifically, the home-office of a senior demon named Screwtape. Onlookers are granted access to his private chambers to observe him as he dictates a series of letters to his nephew, a novice tempter. [Link]
Hawkology a Brilliant Choice for Newcomers
This triple disc set doesn't include any new material, but it bundles together the group's first three projects—Letters to the President, Smile It's the End of the World and Hawk Nelson … Is My Friend—at a budget price. [Link]
Avoid sleepover dangers
Probably some of the best memories you have growing up is when you slept over at a buddy's house. At the same time, there were probably a lot of things you did over there of which your parents disapproved. And in today's culture where kids can be exposed to so much garbage instantly, it's wise to have a sleepover strategy. How old should your kids be when they sleep over at a friend's house? How well should you know the parents? Should there be any other criteria? Read these 4 sleepover strategies and criteria by age, and then come up with your own game plan.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "Are you concerned about our children sleeping over at a friend's house?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 9, 2010 [Jeremiah 31:31-34]
'The time is coming,' declares the LORD, 'when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah. It will not be like the covenant I made with their forefathers when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them, ' declares the LORD. 'This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time,' declares the LORD. 'I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will a man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, 'Know the LORD,' because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,' declares the LORD. 'For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.' Jeremiah 31:31-34 NIV Listen [Link]
No Truces on Abortion: Social and Economic Issues Must Go Together
Indiana's pro-life Republican governor recently said it's time to call a "truce" on social issues so that we can focus on getting the country's disastrous financial house in order. Well… [Link]
Healing for a Backslider: Isaiah 57:14-21
An outline of the pentagon of precious truth related to the living and true God: [Link]
Pastor: When Something Doesn't Sound Right
The pastor is dealing with two precious commodities when he stands in the pulpit: the precious Word of God and the fine china of people's lives. [Link]
Connecting Church and Family, Part 3
Does God's Word mandate the family-integrated church model? How should churches strengthen families? Authors Andreas Köstenberger and David W. Jones weigh in on this delicate issue facing church leaders today (Part 3). [Link]
The Pressures of Executive Marriages
Spouses in executive marriages tell me there is something substantially different about their marriage. When comparing the pressures of their marriage with those of their friends' busy lives, there are additional stresses worth considering. [Link]
Father to Son: One Father's Journey from Adopting to Adopted
Ted Kluck and his wife, Kristen, navigated through foreign customs and culture shock, the painful reality of infertility, and even a few near-death experiences to bring Tristan home with them. Yet in all of this, God's faithfulness marks every turn, threading the events together with the grace of One who risked everything to adopt His church. [Link]
Planning a Wonderful, Enjoyable, Affordable Wedding
Even with the recent recession prompting couples (and their families) to cut back, weddings in the U.S. currently have an average sticker price of $19,581. Should you – must you – pay this much? [Link]
Should you be your children's coach?
Thomas, a Play of the Day subscriber, asked Tony Dungy the following questions related to coaching your children on a sports team:″ Should a dad coach his children and, if so, what are some tips?″ Do we require our kids to practice the sport like we do their homework?″ Can we give advice to our children on how to improve, or is that too discouraging?Thanks Thomas. Here is Tony's response.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: "Would you like me to be your coach in the future? Why or why not?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 8, 2010 [Isaiah 43:18-21]
'Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland. The wild animals honor me, the jackals and the owls, because I provide water in the desert and streams in the wasteland, to give drink to my people, my chosen, the people I formed for myself that they may proclaim my praise. Isaiah 43:18-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Small Choices, Big Ripples
God's man follows the voice of the Holy Spirit as instinctually as animals trust their "fight-or-flight" mechanism. [Link]
Making All Things New
I've noticed that Christians can tend to think of ultimate redemption as being redemption from the body, not of the body; redemption from the world, not of the world; redemption from the material, not of the material. This, however, goes against what the Bible clearly teaches about redemption. [Link]
Getting the Peace to Fit
If you want to know what to expect from God in the future, study the "I wills" of Jesus… [Link]
What are We Singing: Made Me Glad
Even resting in God and singing for joy is only by our sheer will to yield to the work and power of the Holy Spirit. [Link]
Small Choices, Big Ripples
God's man follows the voice of the Holy Spirit as instinctually as animals trust their "fight-or-flight" mechanism. [Link]
Mythology Gets a Fun, Modern Spin in Percy Jackson & the Olympians
At first blush, it's probably tempting to simply dismiss Percy Jackson & the Olympians: The Lightning Thief as a poor man's Harry Potter. But the story, which is based on the first of author Rick Riordan's best-selling books for kids, definitely has its own action-adventure thing going on. [Link]
Flimsy Finale, Depraved Behavior Doom Brooklyn's Finest
Brooklyn's Finest is tough going. Its solid performances (Don Cheadle, Ethan Hawke, Wesley Snipes) and hints of redemption make it better than many bad-cop dramas. But it spends too long wallowing in depraved behavior to qualify as recommended viewing. [Link]
Carlos Whittaker Brings Ragamuffin Soul to the Worship Arena
Lyrically channeling his spiritual thoughtfulness into a modern musical mix, singer/songwriter Carlos Whittaker's debut package, Ragamuffin Soul, is a worthy competitor for his worship contemporaries. [Link]
An easy way to make her feel special
The next time you're alone with the kids, have them sit down at a table and write a note of thanks to Mom. Have them list twenty things about Mom they're grateful for and then put the letters on your refrigerator. Your wife will be blown away and it will be one of the best things you do for her all year.Hear from Tony Dungy on how he likes to let his wife know she is appreciated. And then learn the 10 ways to score big points around the house. Huddle up with your wife tonight and say: "I am grateful for you because ____." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 7, 2010 [Hebrews 8:10-12]
This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time, declares the Lord. I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will a man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, 'Know the Lord,' because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest. For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.' Hebrews 8:10-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Singles in the Church: Views from the Pulpit
If the whole point of going to church is to avoid "forsaking the assembling of ourselves together," should your church leadership develop programming to augment that which divides us? Maybe you're not thrilled with the singles ministry at your church, but where does demographic-specific ministry need to end so community can begin? [Link]
Churches Torn on Allowing Child Molesters in Pews
"All are welcome" is a common phrase on many a church sign and website. But what happens when a convicted sex offender takes those words literally? [Link]
Morocco Continues to Purge Nation of Foreign Christians
Moroccan authorities expelled eight more foreign Christians from the country the weekend of June 26, bringing the total of deported Christians since March to 128. [Link]
The Stalled Progress of Teen Pregnancy
In just six years, the percentage of kids who agreed with the statement "It is OK for an unmarried female to have a child" jumped from 50 to 64 percent. [Link]
When Nightmares Come True: Facing Miscarriage and Keeping Your Faith
A dozen reminders of my loss assaulted me – a congratulations card on my desk, a baby name book on the coffee table, a bag of maternity clothes waiting to be taken to our bedroom. Could I trust Him enough to go through this nightmare without anger and accusations? [Link]
What to do When your Older Child Breaks your Heart
It’s hard for parents of young children to imagine the heartbreak that one of those children could cause them fifteen or twenty years down the road. The Bible does say “train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it . . . [Link]
Loving “Those People”: Keeping Your Marriage Strong in a Blended Family
Stepping up to the task of being a dad and stepdad, plus becoming a loving husband all at the same time, really calls upon you to intercede for your new and existing extended family. Here are some ways to successfully blend your families. [Link]
An ill father. A life-or-death decision.
Here is a very typical look at an end-of-life decision faced by a daughter. If your parents do not have one already, please ask them to create a living will. After they have done so, use these essential, complimentary documents courtesy of financial expert Dave Ramsey to tighten up as best you can their wishes after they pass.In fact, you should have all your immediate family complete Ramsey's paperwork. A busy, emotionally-charged hospital room is not the time to make such serious decisions. Have a plan in place. For more on wills here.Huddle up and ask your parents tonight: Is there a time we can get together so I can find out your final wishes? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 6, 2010 [2 Corinthians 4:7-18]
But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus' sake, so that his life may be revealed in our mortal body. So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you. It is written: 'I believed; therefore I have spoken.'With that same spirit of faith we also believe and therefore speak, because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence. All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God. Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:7-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Drug Abuse Starting Earlier Than Ever
It used to be that older teens were the most susceptible to drug experimentation, but kids today are starting earlier than ever. In fact, 10- to 14-year-olds are now the most likely to begin using one intoxicating substance or another. [Link]
Remember the Sabbath?
Here's more Old Testament law that's more than just a good idea for today's Christian family! [Link]
The Duty of Leaders: Getting our Priorities Straight in the Church
Joshua is the model leader for those who accept a calling in the household of faith. [Link]
Connecting Church and Family, Part 2
How does God intend to relate marriage and family to the church? How can churches today strengthen families? Authors Andreas Köstenberger and David W. Jones weigh in on this delicate issue facing church leaders today (Part 2). [Link]
Finance Q&A: Are Private Colleges Worth the Cost?
Our daughter's two college choices are private schools. We're thinking about telling her that she'll need to attend a public university, since it will be more affordable for us. Is this a good idea? [Link]
The Easy Way to Teach Teens About Money
If you trust your teens with some amount of money and then allow them to make their own independent financial decisions on a level commensurate with their age and ability, you will address the five key motivators that influence kids. [Link]
How to Fulfill Your Career Potential
What are you capable of achieving in your life and career? This is an important question that often goes unasked. [Link]
A night your parents won't forget
Want to do something special for your parents? Then invite them over and have your kids serve them. That's right – serve them. Have your kids start off by creating a menu, setting the table and offering Grandma and Grandpa a choice of drinks, salads and desserts in addition to the main course. Then your kids bring the food out to the table and clean up afterwards. You get the drift. The grandparents will love it and talk about it for years. And your kids will learn a valuable lesson in service. Oh, and give your children a surprise tip at the end of the night just to thank them for being good sports.Tony Dungy shares some special memories he has of his grandfathers.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: What menu would you like to offer to Grandma and Grandpa? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 5, 2010 [Romans 12:1-2]
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God–this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:1-2 NIV Listen [Link]
What Makes America Different?
Five decades after America gained independence, French political analyst Alexis de Tocqueville remarked on its exceptional character… [Link]
John Hancock: A Neglected American Hero
As we celebrate our nation’s independence, let us give Hancock the acclaim he so richly deserves. [Link]
God Bless America
Let us always be aware of the growing pains of America as we give thanks for the happy times of triumph. [Link]
Redefining the First Freedom: More than Worship
Should the government succeed in redefining freedom of religion as "freedom of worship," how much longer can I practice my faith in public? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 4, 2010 [Romans 6:1-11]
What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? Or don't you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection. For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin–because anyone who has died has been freed from sin. Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God. In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus. Romans 6:1-11 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 3, 2010 [Matthew 20:1-16]
'For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire men to work in his vineyard. He agreed to pay them a denarius for the day and sent them into his vineyard. 'About the third hour he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. He told them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right.' So they went. 'He went out again about the sixth hour and the ninth hour and did the same thing. About the eleventh hour he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, 'Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?' ' 'Because no one has hired us,' they answered. 'He said to them, 'You also go and work in my vineyard.' 'When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, 'Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.' 'The workers who were hired about the eleventh hour came and each received a denarius. So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 'These men who were hired last worked only one hour,' they said, 'and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.' 'But he answered one of them, 'Friend, I am not being unfair to you. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? Take your pay and go. I want to give the man who was hired last the same as I gave you. Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?' 'So the last will be first, and the first will be last.' Matthew 20:1-16 NIV [Link]
National Hope Through Personal Holiness
When the debate over the wording of the United States Constitution was over and the final document agreed to, Benjamin Franklin met with his fellow citizens on the steps of Constitution Hall and said, “We have given you a republic if you can keep it." How well are we keeping our republic? [Link]
When Feminism Kills — Abortion As 'The Lesser Evil’
Antonia Senior acknowledges that an unborn child is a human life. But she then proceeds to assert that when necessary, women must be willing to kill for the feminist cause even as they are willing to die for it. [Link]
Supreme Court Rules against Christian Legal Group
The U.S. Supreme Court ruled Monday that a Christian student group must accept gays and non-Christians as members if it wants to be officially recognized by a public university. [Link]
Airbender Ends Hopes for Shyamalan Resurgence
Director M. Night Shyamalan could use a hit, but his latest film, The Last Airbender, based on a Nickelodeon cartoon, is likely to cement his reputation as a filmmaker who peaked early and then crashed and burned. [Link]
Action and Suspense Come Together in Broken's Dark Tale
In Broken, Travis Thrasher spins a dark tale using the present tense. This unusual, and difficult, technique was a smart move—the pace quickens, the action intensifies, the emotions are immediate. Everything happens now. The suspense grows, indeed it starts to reverberate, as the reader moves through the short chapters. [Link]
Revelation Songs Offers More Compelling Worship
Revelation Songs is a star-studded project. And though that summary may cause its vertical focus to be discounted, be not mistaken—each professional performance is only a gateway into compelling worship of the One true celebrity. [Link]
The Source of Liberty: Dependence upon God
America's founding document declared independence from Great Britain; but, with equal fervor, dependence upon God. [Link]
How much does your family know about Independence Day?
As this Jay Leno interview shows, there are many people who do not know the history of one of our most important national holidays – the Fourth of July. Don't let your family be this ignorant! Take our Independence Day quiz and be sure to enjoy this weekend.Huddle up with your kids tonight and give them the 4th of July quiz. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 2, 2010 [Isaiah 40:28-30]
Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; Isaiah 40:28-30 NIV Listen [Link]
The Case Against Marriage, Courtesy of Newsweek
The Newsweek article represents what may be the most direct journalistic attack on marriage in our times, presenting arguments that had to date been made largely outside of mainstream circles [Link]
What the Bible Is Not
Contrary to what many Christians have concluded, the Bible does not tell two stories: the story of Israel in the OT and the story of the church in the NT. No, the Bible tells one story and points to one figure: it tells the story of how God rescues a broken world and points to Christ who accomplishes this. [Link]
Connecting Church and Family, Part 1
How does God intend to relate marriage and family to the church? How can churches today strengthen families? Authors Andreas Köstenberger and David W. Jones weigh in on this delicate issue facing church leaders today (Part 1). [Link]
Mistaking Porn for Art: It’s Time to Teach Real Beauty
A young man named Isaac was so confused by the steady diet of porn his generation has been consuming, that he thinks of it as "art" and equates it to "beauty." Sadly, Isaac represents millions like him who have been raised in a coarse pop culture–one defined and shaped by the devaluation of human beings. [Link]
Spiritual Parenting: An Awakening for Today’s Families
The recently-released Spiritual Parenting (David C. Cook, 2010) isn't another book offering parenting techniques. Author Michelle Anthony, Ed. D. focuses on your role as a parent and follower of Christ. In the following interview, Michelle Anthony shares words of wisdom on what it means to be a more spiritually-minded parent. [Link]
What Kind of Encouragement Does Your Spouse Need?
Both husbands and wives need regular encouragement, but men and women tend to see encouragement differently. So what does encouragement look like for your spouse? [Link]
Our Kids are Sleeping Less than We Did
· Children get an hour less than they did 30 years ago. Only 5 percent of high school seniors get eight hours of sleep a night. · According to researchers Bronson and Merryman, a 6th grader who loses an hour of sleep will only perform at the level of a 4th grader!· Tired children have trouble retaining what they are learning "because neurons lose their plasticity, becoming incapable of forming the new synaptic connections necessary to encode a memory. . . the more you learned during the day, the more you need to sleep that night." · Furthermore, sleep loss increases the hormone that stimulates hunger and decreases the one that suppresses appetite. Hence the correlation between less sleep and more obesity. Sleep needs to be taken seriously. Here are 10 ways for your family to get more sleep.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What can we do to make sure we all get more sleep? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 1, 2010 [Psalm 51:1-10]
Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and justified when you judge. Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. Surely you desire truth in the inner parts ; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place. Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. Hide your face from my sins and blot out all my iniquity. Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalm 51:1-10 NIV Listen [Link]
How Sorry Are You… Really?
A man who had an affair angrily asks his wife, "How long do I have to pay for what I did?" When is a person's apology "enough?" What are some things we can look for to identify a truly repentant heart? [Link]
The Twitter of Doom
The problem is not the technology, but men too unreflective, too inhumane, and too badly uneducated to use it well. Let's leave twitter for that which is tweetable, such as American Idol–not a man's execution. [Link]
BP: Too Big to Care?
Tony Hayward's tone deafness to the magnitude of the crisis in the Gulf is an illustration of the pitfalls inherent in a globally-scaled economy. Is it realistic to expect small-town business ethics from corporate bigwigs? [Link]
Broken Genome Promises: Identifying the Weak
While genetics' potential to heal may be almost back to square one, the same can't be said for its potential to harm. [Link]
With Eclipse, the Twi-Hards Have Finally Met Their Perfect Match
From a purely technical perspective, Eclipse gives its devoted fanbase plenty to cheer about. Not only is the production value far more upscale, but the CGI has drastically improved, making it feel more like a blockbuster than a made-for-TV movie. As far as the storytelling goes, there's also far more at stake. [Link]
Delirious? Goes Out with a Brilliant Farewell Show
The Farewell Show—Live in London CD and DVD packs in plenty of career crests from the band's history-making tenure, captured in front of more than 5,000 fans at the UK's sold-out Hammersmith Apollo. [Link]
Your Marriage: The Best is Yet to Come!
Do you know when most divorces occur? There are two peaks. One is 4 – 5 years into the marriage when disillusionment sets in. Your wife is not at all what you expected and vice versa and the thinking is that you all might be happier with someone else. On top of that, you may have a newborn child in your home. The other peak is right after the last child leaves home. Called the empty nest syndrome, couples who have been "kidcentric" find out they know hardly know each other. However, according to Dr. Gary Thomas, the highest level of marital satisfaction, surprisingly surpassing even the honeymoon phase, is after 25 years of marriage. Couples who are married more than a quarter century are, generally, the most happy they have ever been. Share with us the reasons why you think that is. Then, find out the 10 Ways to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "Can I share this list with you and let's talk about which one or two we can work on?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, June 30, 2010 [Job 14:13-16]
'If only you would hide me in the grave and conceal me till your anger has passed! If only you would set me a time and then remember me! If a man dies, will he live again? All the days of my hard service I will wait for my renewal to come. You will call and I will answer you; you will long for the creature your hands have made. Surely then you will count my steps but not keep track of my sin. Job 14:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
How Mentoring College Students Can Help The Slow Fade
The college years are a crucial time for people to engage in relationships that give them encouragement and support. Here's how Christians can mentor college students and help slow the church drop-out rate. [Link]
How to Know the Will of God
How is it possible for a man to know the mind of God? If God has a plan for your life, how does He reveal it to you? [Link]
The Twilight I Longed For: Finding Peace in the Second Half of Life
Even as a believer who has been blessed to walk with God for more than thirty-five years and to have spent much of that time in public ministry, I will admit that I have regrets. And Isaiah's words, "the twilight I longed for," brings many of those regrets to the surface. [Link]
Is Bad Ever Good?
Job loss, financial crisis, rebellious children, disappointments, rejection, unexpected illness – the list of what we call "bad" goes on. Can anything good come from a bad situation? That depends. [Link]
Forecasting Your Future Career
One facet of exploring career options that is critical-but often overlooked-is investigating the future viability and demand for the types of jobs you are considering. Here are some resources for checking into the wage and employment trends for careers of interest. [Link]
22 Ways to Slash the Grocery Bill
With our busy lives and harried schedules, it's easy to forget the basics of wise grocery shopping. Here is a quick collection of the best tips I know for slashing your grocery bill. [Link]
Retirement Cash Flow Strategies
Turning a portfolio of stocks and bonds into a stream of regular income can seem complicated. It doesn't need to be. [Link]
What does meaningful time with your kids look like?
Fatherhood expert Curtis Neimeister has put together a very helpful list of what meaningful time with your children is. The first 3 are:1. Sitting together reading a book out loud 2. Hiking or camping with them3. Teaching them to play chessVisit here for the full list of 10 Ways to spend meaningful time with your children.Hear how Tony Dungy most enjoys spending time with his children. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: "What's something we can do this weekend that we have never done before?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, June 29, 2010 [Philippians 1:3-11]
I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart; for whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God's grace with me. God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus. And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ–to the glory and praise of God. Philippians 1:3-11 NIV Listen [Link]
How to Know the Will of God
How is it possible for a man to know the mind of God? If God has a plan for your life, how does He reveal it to you? [Link]
The Twilight I Longed For: Finding Peace in the Second Half of Life
Even as a believer who has been blessed to walk with God for more than thirty-five years and to have spent much of that time in public ministry, I will admit that I have regrets. And Isaiah's words, "the twilight I longed for," brings many of those regrets to the surface. [Link]
Is Bad Ever Good?
Job loss, financial crisis, rebellious children, disappointments, rejection, unexpected illness – the list of what we call "bad" goes on. Can anything good come from a bad situation? That depends. [Link]
The Twilight Feeding Frenzy
Is The Twilight Saga phenomenon just harmless, escapist entertainment? Is it nothing more than a fictitious tale of teen romance? Or is it something that easily deceives, drawing young women away from the truth to fill the empty void in their lives? [Link]
Homeowners Weigh Morality of Walking Out on Mortgages
Desperate homeowners like Lynn Thompson – whose property is worth $90,000 less than she purchased it for – have raised an ethical debate: Is it ever OK to walk away? [Link]
Is There a Message in Lincoln's Religion for Obama?
In studying Lincoln, President Obama will find out that the hand he asked to "guide us" in his Gulf talk is the very providence that Lincoln depended on. [Link]
Partying Toward Extinction: Peter Singer and Humanity
Peter Singer latest op-ed, "Should This Be the Last Generation?", assumes there's nothing inherently sacred about human life. [Link]
He Said-She Said: Starting to Date Again
A reader asks: "How do you know when you are ready to start dating again after a traumatic long-term marriage has ended … and how does a godly man treat someone he dates?" Find out what "he" and "she" have to say in response in this edition of "He Said-She Said." [Link]
Crazy Summer Days: Keeping Teens Busy through July and August
Keeping teens busy in the summer is a challenge. They've abandoned the sandbox and outgrown the plastic pool in the backyard. Here are several suggestions. [Link]
A Mission for Your Marriage
In a nutshell, we're here on planet Earth to fulfill the greatest command: love God and love others. And to the extent that we achieve that goal through our marriage, we will find the greatest joy. So how can you identify your unique marriage mission? [Link]
A Simple and Effective Discipline Tip
Audra, a Play of the Day subscriber, writes, "When my 7-year-old son got into trouble at school, I required him to write an apology to his teacher. In his neatest handwriting, my son had to state the offense, write a sentence taking responsibility for the offense and promising not to do it again." Thanks, Audra, for the great idea! And it doesn't have to stop with teachers. Having your child write a note to his mother, his sibling, his grandparents etc. can be an excellent and classy way for him to make up for an offense.Do you know the 10 ways to discipline your child? Huddle up and tell your children tonight: "The next time you are mean to another person, you will be writing an apology note." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, June 28, 2010 [Ephesians 6:14-18]
Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Ephesians 6:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, June 27, 2010 [Luke 9:51-62]
As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem. And he sent messengers on ahead, who went into a Samaritan village to get things ready for him; but the people there did not welcome him, because he was heading for Jerusalem. When the disciples James and John saw this, they asked, 'Lord, do you want us to call fire down from heaven to destroy them?' But Jesus turned and rebuked them, and they went to another village. As they were walking along the road, a man said to him, 'I will follow you wherever you go.' Jesus replied, 'Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head.' He said to another man, 'Follow me.' But the man replied, 'Lord, first let me go and bury my father.' Jesus said to him, 'Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the kingdom of God.' Still another said, 'I will follow you, Lord; but first let me go back and say good-by to my family.' Jesus replied, 'No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.' Luke 9:51-62 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, June 26, 2010 [Matthew 19:13-22]
Then little children were brought to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked those who brought them. Jesus said, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.' When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there. Now a man came up to Jesus and asked, 'Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?' 'Why do you ask me about what is good?' Jesus replied. 'There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, obey the commandments.' 'Which ones?' the man inquired. Jesus replied, ' 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,' and 'love your neighbor as yourself.'' 'All these I have kept,' the young man said. 'What do I still lack?' Jesus answered, 'If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.' When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth. Matthew 19:13-22 NIV [Link]
For Clergy, Losing Faith Can be an Occupational Hazard
Some church leaders are beginning to step out of the closet. Not regarding sexual sin, but an even greater issue, one about which pastoral search committees probably wouldn't even dream they need to ask: "Are you, Preacher, a believer?" [Link]
Defeat Defeatism by Preaching Good News
Leaders should share the good news about the church by noticing, naming and nurturing those whom God uses to produce good fruit. [Link]
Tom Cruise is King in the Royally Entertaining Knight and Day
With this summer's light-as-air but still thoroughly enjoyable popcorn flick Knight and Day, Tom Cruise should officially be back in the audience's good graces. After all, this is the Tom Cruise we all like—funny, charismatic and yes, slightly unhinged. [Link]
Caped Crusaders Championed in Superman on Earth: Reflections of a Fan
Author and pastor Gary Robinson, who grew up infatuated with Superman, and remains intrigued with the superhero genre even into his fifties, has recently written Superman on Earth: Reflections of a Fan, a book on his life and times with this uniquely American aspect of pop culture. [Link]
Lazy Grown Ups Still Good for a Few Laughs
The new Adam Sandler comedy Grown Ups is the movie equivalent of a skit that airs between 12:30 and 1 a.m. on Saturday Night Live. A lot of it falls flat, but if you're in a forgiving mood, you might find yourself chuckling despite your better judgment. [Link]
The End of Men? — A Hard Look at the Future
As Hanna Rosin argues in The Atlantic, "Man has been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind. But for the first time in human history, that is changing—and with shocking speed." [Link]
Enlisting Others to Join the All Pro Dad Army
First, forward all your e-mail contacts the Play of the Day e-mail and encourage them to sign up here. Second, you can add something like "I'm an All Pro Dad… are you? Find out at AllProDad.com" to your e-mail signature. Imagine how many folks can become better fathers just by getting an e-mail from you and logging on to our website. Third, talk to your school's principal or PTA president about starting an All Pro Dad's Day chapter. Finally, promote our website on your Facebook and Twitter. Word of mouth is the best advertiser, and if you get a lot out of All Pro Dad, please spread the joy!Huddle up with your wife tonight and say: How can we promote All Pro Dad to our friends and family? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, June 25, 2010 [Psalm 3:1-8]
O LORD, how many are my foes! How many rise up against me! Many are saying of me, 'God will not deliver him.' Selah But you are a shield around me, O LORD; you bestow glory on me and lift up my head. To the LORD I cry aloud, and he answers me from his holy hill. Selah I lie down and sleep; I wake again, because the LORD sustains me. I will not fear the tens of thousands drawn up against me on every side. Arise, O LORD! Deliver me, O my God! Strike all my enemies on the jaw; break the teeth of the wicked. From the LORD comes deliverance. May your blessing be on your people. Selah Psalm 3:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
"Let My People Go": An Appeal to End the Horror of Human Trafficking
Can there be anything that grieves the Father's heart more than the forced enslaving of people made in His own image—by others bearing that same divine imprint? [Link]
The World: Love It or Hate It?
John 3:16 tells us that God the Father loves the world so much that he sent God the Son to fix it. But we’re told in 1 John 2:15‑17 not to love the world, and James tells us that “a friend of the world” is “an enemy of God.” What’s going on? Is the world good or bad? Are we to love it or hate it? [Link]
Hospitality and Intimacy: Ways to Connect with Others
Here are some ideas I want to share with you that can help let our guards down when in a small group or hospitable settings. [Link]
Protecting Yourself from a Life Crisis
When career expectations aren't realized, too many people lose vision and hope for the future… [Link]
Surviving a Struggle for Identity
Why are we so consumed with trying to "find" ourselves? Is there really a piece of us missing out there that we must find? Cindi McMenamin, author of Women on the Edge, shares ways you (and your marriage) can survive an identity crisis. [Link]
"Let My People Go": An Appeal to End the Horror of Human Tafficking
Can there be anything that grieves the Father's heart more than the forced enslaving of people made in His own image—by others bearing that same divine imprint? [Link]
The World: Love It or Hate It?
John 3:16 tells us that God the Father loves the world so much that he sent God the Son to fix it. But we’re told in 1 John 2:15‑17 not to love the world, and James tells us that “a friend of the world” is “an enemy of God.” What’s going on? Is the world good or bad? Are we to love it or hate it? [Link]
Hospitality and Intimacy: Ways to Connect with Others
Here are some ideas I want to share with you that can help let our guards down when in a small group or hospitable settings. [Link]
Toxic Stress: The Art of Letting Go
Women are particularly vulnerable to excessive, toxic stress. Taking on more than we should, and not realizing it until it's too late, is often the problem. [Link]
Protecting Yourself from a Life Crisis
When career expectations aren't realized, too many people lose vision and hope for the future… [Link]
6 Things NOT to Do for Your Marriage
Here are some killer marriage tips – literally! After you are done laughing and shaking your head, here are 10 ways to really romance your wife. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "Let's do something romantic this weekend by ___." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, June 24, 2010 [Ephesians 1:13-17]
And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession–to the praise of his glory. For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. Ephesians 1:13-17 NIV Listen [Link]
True Optimism in a Wounded Workplace
One of my friends recently went through two rounds of layoffs in her company, a situation all too common these days. How do we deal with this? [Link]
Is Bankruptcy Ever Okay for a Christian?
While bankruptcy's stigma has weakened in recent years, it is still an especially troubling topic for many Christians. What about the biblical admonition, "The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21)? [Link]
The Imam's Daughter
Besides being a great read about a brave young woman, the book shows us that we need to reach out to everyone, including Muslims, to show them the love that God has for them through Jesus Christ. [Link]
The Gulf Oil Spill: The Obama Administration in Microcosm
One cannot help but be amazed at the parallels between the Obama Administration and the oil spill. Day after day, week after week, and now month after month the black ink spews into the Gulf cutting a swath of oily destruction and depositing tar balls on the beach. Day after day, week after week, month after month, and now year after year the Obama Administration and his willing accomplices in the House and the Senate pour out a sea of red ink sinking us deeper into debt. [Link]
Gay Is Okay: Polls Show Positive Media Portrayal Worked
For the first time a majority of Americans—53 percent—believe that gay and lesbian relationships are morally acceptable. These results were to be expected. [Link]
Keeping Tiny Little Disagreements Tiny
You know how it can go—a sharp word, a wince, a quick but perfectly aimed retort, and there you go—like a row of dominoes crashing down. [Link]
Has Homeschooling Ruined My Son's Life?
Throughout the program the audience laughed, cried, videotaped, photographed, and cheered for those seniors. I was right there with them. So was my homeschooled son. I kept thinking about him the entire time. Does he resent me and his mother for homeschooling him? [Link]
The Relational Economy: An Introduction
It would be quite absurd to tell someone searching for love that the process is—relational. That is called stating the obvious. It would be even more absurd to say to them that the process is an economic one. Yet inescapably there is a relational economy. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, June 23, 2010 [John 14:16-20]
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever–the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live. On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. John 14:16-20 NIV Listen [Link]
You Need to Put on Your Children's Shoes
Abraham Lincoln commented that the best trial lawyers spend 20% of their time preparing their case and 80% of their time preparing the case of their opponents. In other words, they put themselves in the other lawyer's shoes to see what direction the arguments would take. The same is true of being an All Pro Dad. When you're consistently dealing with the same arguments from your kids over and over again, try to see the problem from a different angle and come at it from their perspective. For instance, if your children are hooked on video games, understand it may be their way of escaping a stressful day at school or a peer pressure situation. So instead of slamming off the PlayStation® and lecturing them vigorously, give them a better offer of spending time with you. Put yourself in their shoes, and you will find them walking alongside you.Do you know about the 10 fun things to do with your teenagers? Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: What's one thing about you that you don't think I understand? [Link]
How to Grow with God
Don't be someone who believes in Jesus, yet isn't staying close enough to Him to grow. Root yourself in good spiritual soil so you can grow to become the person God intends you to be. Here's how. [Link]
Why Does God's Grace Not Amaze Us More?
Being amazed by God’s grace is a sign of spiritual vitality. It is a litmus test of how firm and real is our grasp of the gospel and how close is our walk with Jesus Christ. Yet not all Christians find it so amazing. Why? [Link]
The Double-Reach of Self-Righteousness
Surprisingly to some, the greatest threat to gospel advancement is not unrighteous badness, but self-righteous goodness. [Link]
The Amazing Technicolor Multifaith Theology School
The Claremont School of Theology, a school historically related to the United Methodist Church, is transforming itself into a multifaith center for the training of clergy… including imams and rabbis. [Link]
Chilly Winter's Bone Gives Glimpse into Desperate Lives
Depicting the lives of the rural poor facing dire circumstances, Winter's Bone is not a pretty picture. Yet it is an artful film with a harrowing ending that delivers a punch to the gut that, unlike the effect of mainstream summer movies, lingers long after the closing credits. [Link]
Green Zone Might Make You See Red
Before Green Zone, Paul Greengrass and Matt Damon teamed for two of the Jason Bourne films to much better effect. Although the third Bourne film revolved around issues, its main concern was a character. Green Zone is about an issue—the Iraq War—rather than about its characters. [Link]
Robert Randolph Goes Back to American Roots on We Walk This Road
Before recording We Walk This Road, Robert Randolph and producer T-Bone Burnett spent hours listening to American roots music, including everything from old spirituals to current popular music. Then they took what they believed to be a good sampling and began infusing them with Randolph's signature, pedal-steel sound. [Link]
The Greatest Basketball Story Ever
Watch what we think is the greatest basketball story ever. Then huddle up with your kids tonight and watch it with them.And you might not be surprised at Tony Dungy's top 3 football memories.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Who is someone in your class you think people underestimate? Why? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, June 22, 2010 [Isaiah 58:6-10]
'Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter–when you see the naked, to clothe him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood? Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard. Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I. 'If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday. Isaiah 58:6-10 NIV Listen [Link]
The Double-Reach of Self-Righteousness
Surprisingly to some, the greatest threat to gospel advancement is not unrighteous badness, but self-righteous goodness. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, June 21, 2010 [1 Corinthians 15:51-57]
Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed–in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: 'Death has been swallowed up in victory.' 'Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?' The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:51-57 NIV Listen [Link]
What do your kids Google when You're not around?
What do you think are the top five Internet search terms for girls? What about for boys? Here's a hint: sex is in both boys' and girls' top five. Here's the full list, and we should warn you that some of the content may be objectionable. Once you look at it, consider having your kids sign our Internet contract. And, if you haven't set up parental controls on your kids' computers yet, here are 3 resources that can help to monitor and limit what their eyes are seeing. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What do you think are the top Google search terms for kids your age? [Link]
Biblical 'Contradictions': The Reason We Require Theologians
Entire books have been written listing all the seeming contradictions found in the Bible. Entire libraries have been written to answer them. It's why theologians will never be out of a job – we need people who know all the Bible and think well about these things to help figure them out. [Link]
Bullying at Mount Si High and Christian Bystanders
When it comes to bullying, are you a victim, perpetrator, bystander or a hero? At Mount Si High near Seattle, one young man knows the pain of trying to be a hero. Sadly, bullying based on perceptions of sexual orientation bring out the bystander in far too many Christians. [Link]
Meet the New American Family, Digitally Deluged
Christians are not called to be modern-day Luddites, smashing digital devices with sledgehammers. But we are called to be faithful stewards of digital opportunities, even as we are also called to be faithful in all our relationships. [Link]
The Uncomfortable Truth about Comfort Care
You've probably never heard of Don Holley. But you should know how his family says he died: in a San Francisco hospital at the hands of medical staff using a procedure called "Comfort Care." [Link]
Lessons from the Great Recession
God uses difficult economic circumstances to cause us to become more dependent upon Him, to be more reliant on His financial principles, and to reprioritize our lives. [Link]
Faith-Based Credit Unions: An Option for Christian Savers
Of the more than 9,000 state and federally chartered credit unions in the U.S., many are overtly Christian in their emphasis. [Link]
Ease Your Mind with These Surprising Travel Tips
Today, I have a couple of pre-emptive tips for those of you who will be traveling this summer. The first is for those who will be traveling abroad, and the second for travelers who plan to pay bills ahead before they leave town for an extended period of time. [Link]
What We Really Need for Father's Day: The Wisdom of Serpents
Father's Day is usually a powerful reminder about social norms, traditions, and yes, prejudice. We see just how uncomfortable parts of the church are when it comes to a man’s nature, and how men are deemed more sinful than women. The author of No More Christian Nice Guy says we're out of balance here. [Link]
Jonah Hex Sputters, Stalls
This film has all the ingredients of a strong summer movie—it features a rising star (Josh Brolin) in the title role and Transformers It-Girl Megan Fox. Add John Malkovich to give it some serious-actor cred, and the on-screen energy should be combustible. But Jonah Hex is far from it. [Link]
Father Really Does Know Best
Even without a Christian father, I was blessed to be loved by a dad with high standards and moral values. Now, I'm concerned about the shift I've seen in our culture regarding our view of fathers… [Link]
FATHER'S DAY
FATHER'S DAY [Link]
Prodigal Fathers
Have you ever considered the father figure in the Parable of the Prodigal to be the focus of that story, not the wayward son? After all, the word "father" is mentioned many more times than the word "son." [Link]
Start a Revolution on Father's Day
What we need when Father's Day arrives on Sunday is nothing short of a family revolution, led by America's fathers. [Link]
Leaving a legacy…Part 1
One thing I have learned in my journey is that every dad leaves a legacy. The only question is whether that legacy will be good, bad, or indifferent. Being a father is tough because we generally learn how to parent while on the job. [Link]
Imagination Soars to Infinity and Beyond in Toy Story 3
With the release of Toy Story 3 almost 11 years after its predecessor, the franchise continues to soar to infinity and beyond, thanks to heartfelt storytelling, great celebrity vocal talent and imaginative action sequences featuring Woody, Buzz and the rest of everyone's favorite toys. [Link]
The Chronicles of Narnia: The Voyage of the Dawn Treader – Trailer
In this new installment of The Chronicles of Narnia film franchise, Edmund and Lucy Pevensie, along with Eustace and King Caspian, find themselves swallowed into a painting and on to the Dawn Treader. As they embark on an incredible adventure, they confront obstacles beyond imagination. Watch the official trailer for The Chronicles of Narnia: The Voyage of the Dawn Treader now! [Link]
College Pop Matures on What We Want, What We Get
A former staple on the college music circuit, one of Nashville's favorite, formerly independent singer/songwriters, Dave Barnes, is maturing into a full-fledged pop artist with his fourth full-length project, What We Want, What We Get. [Link]
Does your wife have PMS?
As husbands we've all had to deal with PMS. While we would never suggest that you throw your wife "out the window," we have a humorous look at this sensitive subject. Check out this video! But jokes aside, PMS can be a significant medical issue for many women. Here are 4 Steps to Survive Your Wife's PMS.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What's one thing I can do to help you when you are not feeling well? [Link]
Cell Phones, Computer Games and Teenagers
I have a question/dilemma: How does a parent regulate a teen's phone, iTouch, laptop, and TV usage during the summer? [Link]
Cell Phones, Computer Games and Teenagers
I have a question/dilemma: How does a parent regulate a teen's phone, iTouch, laptop, and TV usage during the summer? [Link]
Make These the "Good Old Days"
If you are held captive by or haunted from experiences or people from the past, get help with them, and do it soon. Yesterday is gone. Why live your life thinking, worrying about or carrying "stuff" around from days gone by? [Link]
Islam and the Politically Correct White House
To avoid the word "jihadis" when it is employed by terrorists themselves is rather like visiting Lenin's tomb in Moscow and failing to mention that Lenin was a communist. [Link]
Talk to Me! Should Christians Retreat from Public Square?
Tell me whether you think this is the right time for the church to be engaged and speaking out about the issues. Or should we simply sit back and take care of ourselves and the church? [Link]
Glimmers of Hope Escape Battle-Weary Iraq
Several months ago I talked to an Iraqi Christian family who was forced to flee to a neighboring country due to safety concerns… [Link]
Father's Day Blues
Let's face it, guys. Father's Day is the Rodney Dangerfield of holidays, the get-no-respect little brother of Mother's Day. Still, Father's Day is a great opportunity to remember, before we fall asleep on the couch, what being a good father is about… [Link]
Say “I Do” to the Name Change
The Globe and Mail recently suggested that women who get married should say "I don't" to changing their name. Is this advice wise? [Link]
Jesus … Single Like Me: He Took Care of His Family
Even though Jesus knew his profession was not to be a carpenter forever, he still learned a craft and supported his family until God changed things. Jesus' singleness allowed him more freedom to be available for his family and eventually his ministry. [Link]
10 Ways to Survive a Hard Life
Tsutomu Yamaguchi of Japan recently died at the ripe old age of 93. He is the only known person to have survived the atomic bombs dropped both at Hiroshima and Nagasaki during World War II. What terrible things he must have seen. But he survived. Hopefully none of us will ever be in that situation, but we are promised there is much trouble ahead. Whether it be an aging parent disappearing into Alzheimer's, a child diagnosed with cancer, foreclosure papers or a spouse who is ready to leave, life is struggle. Life is war. And you are not ultimately in control. First, hear from that great American philosopher, Rocky Balboa, about how to deal with a hard life.Go here for ten ways to survive something terrible. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: How do you think you will handle something really hard happening to you? [Link]
Islam and the Politically Correct White House
To avoid the word "jihadis" when it is employed by terrorists themselves is rather like visiting Lenin's tomb in Moscow and failing to mention that Lenin was a communist. [Link]
Postmodernism: Friend or Foe?
There is a great deal of consternation and, I might add, confusion over the nature and impact of postmodernism. Many Christians immediately assume that all things postmodern are the source of pernicious moral relativism and that postmodernism is sure to destroy all truth. However, might postmodernism serve as an ally to Christian faith? [Link]
No More Christian Nice Girl
Your mother may have said, "You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar," but Jesus wants you to do far more than manipulate people with saccharine pseudo-Christianity. [Link]
The Masculine Mandate
If we want to be the men God is calling us to be—men who are rightly admired and respected by those we love, men who faithfully fulfill our duty before God—then we will make as our motto and watchword the Masculine Mandate that we have received from God… [Link]
How Can I Get Started Studying the Bible?
" I have an old Bible that belonged to my grandmother, and it's difficult to understand. Where do I begin? How can I get more out of reading the Bible?" [Link]
Is Your Financial House Built on Rock or Sand?
How many people, Christians included, build and continue to build their financial houses on sand? Here are five steps to help you build a solid foundation. [Link]
Making Wise Use of Your Time
Only the Lord knows how much time we have and, as believers in Jesus Christ, our time should be spent focused on Him and on those He has placed in our lives — our family, our friends, our church and those He would have us reach for His Kingdom. [Link]
Finance Q&A: Should I Buy a House?
I am a single parent with two teenagers. What kind of advice would you give for buying a home? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, June 16, 2010 [John 12:38-43]
This was to fulfill the word of Isaiah the prophet: 'Lord, who has believed our message and to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?' For this reason they could not believe, because, as Isaiah says elsewhere: 'He has blinded their eyes and deadened their hearts, so they can neither see with their eyes, nor understand with their hearts, nor turn–and I would heal them.' Isaiah said this because he saw Jesus' glory and spoke about him. Yet at the same time many even among the leaders believed in him. But because of the Pharisees they would not confess their faith for fear they would be put out of the synagogue; for they loved praise from men more than praise from God. John 12:38-43 NIV Listen [Link]
What Dad's Can't Do
Father's Day is this Sunday, and we hope it's a wonderful family day for you. Your kids will celebrate all the things you do. Watch this video to realize some of the things you can't do. And that's encouraging. So keep on not doing. It's just what your children need. Thanks for being an All Pro Dad!Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Have I told you how much I love being your Dad? [Link]
Gulf Oil Spill Seeps into Spiritual Life
Especially in Plaquemines and St. Bernard parishes, the spill weeks ago found its way into every sermon, message and homily, as pastors seek to give it meaning… [Link]
After IVF, Abortion? What Does This Say?
One might think that the most welcome place in the world for an unborn child would be the womb of a mother who would seek and undergo IVF fertility treatment. In a significant number of cases, that assumption is proved wrong. [Link]
Breaking the Cycle: Prisoners and Their Children
Ever heard the proverb, “The acorn doesn’t fall far from the tree”? That’s certainly true with prisoners and their children. But there’s good news to report. [Link]
Mysterious Ondine Takes Surprising Turn
Ondine, writer/director Neil Jordan's tale of personal healing and recovery, is more art house than mainstream crowd-pleaser, although the film eventually develops a bit of an identity crisis. What appeared to be a sure-footed, imaginative tale becomes something harder and more of a genre exercise. [Link]
Lack of Surprises Withstanding, When in Rome Still Plays Cute
While the movie's trailer definitely had that lackluster, made-for-TV feel, perhaps it's the presence of fresh faces Kristen Bell and Josh Duhamel, not to mention their winsome chemistry, that caused When in Rome to surpass my expectations. [Link]
Michael Cera Shines in Twisted Youth in Revolt
Michael Cera is a star. If you didn’t know it after his role on Arrested Development, or his turns in Juno and Superbad, or after he shared top billing with Jack Black in Year One, you’ll know it after Youth in Revolt. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, June 15, 2010 [John 12:31-36]
Now is the time for judgment on this world; now the prince of this world will be driven out. But I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to myself.' He said this to show the kind of death he was going to die. The crowd spoke up, 'We have heard from the Law that the Christ will remain forever, so how can you say, 'The Son of Man must be lifted up'? Who is this 'Son of Man'?' Then Jesus told them, 'You are going to have the light just a little while longer. Walk while you have the light, before darkness overtakes you. The man who walks in the dark does not know where he is going. Put your trust in the light while you have it, so that you may become sons of light.' When he had finished speaking, Jesus left and hid himself from them. John 12:31-36 NIV Listen [Link]
Protecting your Children from Modern Day Rats
A social worker recently shared about visiting a very poor family in the Appalachian Valley. He entered their one room shack and was stunned that a newborn was sleeping in a chicken-wire cage on the floor. The social worker was about to file a child abuse report when the father indicated why he puts his infant son in a cage – "so the rats don't gnaw on him at night." How unbelievably sad that folks are still this poor in 21st century America. And while we hope we never have to build a physical cage around our children, we sure need to put our kids in a symbolic one. We have to protect our children from "rats" whose aim is to empty pockets and souls. But how do we start? A great first step is knowing what the most popular songs and bands are and reviewing their lyrics. What are they actually saying? We have a complimentary tool to help you do this called our Music Monitor. Please add it to your list of favorites and check it every week. It'll probably shock you to see what the most popular songs are actually saying and then encourage you to keep building your cage until your kids can begin discerning on their own. And a great way you can help the poor right in your hometown is to have a couple manna bags in your car as shown in this video.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Who is your favorite band? Why? [Link]
Crisis Management 101: Faith vs. Fear
What is the first reaction that most of us have in a crisis? That first emotion when we hear bad news? [Link]
Is “Ever After” Just Too Long? Marriage and Modernity
The cultural conversation about the breakup of Al and Tipper Gores' marriage indicates something of how difficult it is to contend for Christian marriage in the context of modernity. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, June 14, 2010 [John 12:23-27]
Jesus replied, 'The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified. I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. The man who loves his life will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves me. 'Now my heart is troubled, and what shall I say? 'Father, save me from this hour'? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour. John 12:23-27 NIV Listen [Link]
America: Going Out of Business?
As the economic viability of the European Union teeters on the brink of collapse, Americans are getting a close up look at what happens when “borrow and spend” becomes the national modus operandi. [Link]
Seeing Things as They Are: Calvin, the Epicureans & Today's Atheists
John Calvin’s response to the atheists of his day offers insight for modern Christians. [Link]
Our Worship And Our Fears
Behind everything you worship is some fear that, without this person or thing, you’d be lost. Life wouldn’t be worth living. What do you fear the most? [Link]
Build a Successful Small-Group Ministry
Are your frustrated with the way your church's small groups are working out? Here are some ways to get them to Activate. [Link]
Is “Ever After” Just Too Long? Marriage and Modernity
The cultural conversation about the breakup of Al and Tipper Gores' marriage indicates something of how difficult it is to contend for Christian marriage in the context of modernity. [Link]
When Your Son Says "I Do": A Mother’s New Role
I stepped back and surveyed my boy, the groom. He towered over me, tall and confident. He's ready, I thought. But am I? I'd played the role of leading lady on his life's stage throughout his growing up years, but that was about to end. [Link]
The Single Life: Having a Wonderful Time, Glad You're Not Here
While I'm a big fan of traveling with friends, there are distinct advantages to taking yourself on a trip. Granted, traveling solo in a double-occupancy world has unique challenges, but it has some fabulous benefits, too. [Link]
Serving those who serve
Imagine being half a world away for a year or more at a time and missing your child's first steps or ballet recital or high school graduation. That's what fathers (and mothers) in our military face every day. Their heart yearns for their family, but they know their first duty is to protect them and others. Watch this heartwarming video of a father and son reunited at school and remember how much military families do for us.Now it's our turn. Sending a CARE package overseas to a soldier is a lot simpler than you might think. And will mean the world to them. Put together a box with your kids and ship it. While you are assembling it, talk to your children about all our military does for us.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think you would like to be a soldier someday? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, June 13, 2010 [Revelation 15:3-4]
and sang the song of Moses the servant of God and the song of the Lamb: 'Great and marvelous are your deeds, Lord God Almighty. Just and true are your ways, King of the ages. Who will not fear you, O Lord, and bring glory to your name? For you alone are holy. All nations will come and worship before you, for your righteous acts have been revealed.' Revelation 15:3-4 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, June 12, 2010 [Titus 2:11-14]
For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say 'No' to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope–the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. Titus 2:11-14 NIV [Link]
Not Stimulating, The A-Team Still Gets a "B"
No, The A-Team is not a mentally stimulating movie, nor is it particularly creative, artistic, or complicated. Sure, the characters are one-dimensional, the story's been done, and the plot twists are predictable. But who cares? It's fun. [Link]
Jaden Smith, Jackie Chan Give Karate Kid a Little Kick
The screenwriters charged with rebooting The Karate Kid, starring Jaden Smith and Jackie Chan, stick with a faithful, almost scene-by-scene remake of the 1984 film that made Ralph Macchio and the expression "wax on, wax off" household names. [Link]
Is God Delaying Your Dreams?
Does it seem like God is taking a long time to accomplish a dream in your life? If so, you are not alone. [Link]
Sweating in Church
Recently, I was studying what causes people to feel spiritually frustrated. The two top reasons? Bible study and prayer. I get that. [Link]
How to Create Real Life Communities of Faith
If you build relationships with people wherever you meet in your everyday lives, you can generate momentum that will help them eventually connect with God and other believers. [Link]
Why I Tell Stories from the Bible (and Why You Should, Too)
Scripture memory is a wonderful discipline, but people need to internalize more than a Bible verse or two. Stories – in particular biblical stories – entertain us, but they also encourage us, challenge us, and even show us how to live. [Link]
Shivers Galore on Shutter Island
Dreamlike and full of haunting imagery and music, Shutter Island is based on a novel by Dennis Lehane and is a spectacular downer with several moments of great emotional anguish. But it ends on such a grim note that it's hard to imagine anyone enjoying the film. [Link]
Revenge and Romance Come Together in A Woman Called Sage
DiAnn Mills combines a variety of storytelling elements to create an interesting, attention-grabbing story. Murder, romance, prejudice, revenge, Christian ethics … and the Wild West? It's a provoking combination. And it ends with a surprise conclusion to the prevailing mystery. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, June 11, 2010 [2 Corinthians 3:13-16]
We are not like Moses, who would put a veil over his face to keep the Israelites from gazing at it while the radiance was fading away. But their minds were made dull, for to this day the same veil remains when the old covenant is read. It has not been removed, because only in Christ is it taken away. Even to this day when Moses is read, a veil covers their hearts. But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 2 Corinthians 3:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Tom Landry's Job Description…and Yours, too
Tom Landry, coach of the Dallas Cowboys for almost three decades, said, "The job of a football coach is to make men do what they don't want to do in order to achieve what they've always wanted to be." The same is true of being a parent. Your children don't always want to do what you tell them, but, if you're thoughtful about the rules you set and the expectations you have of them, they can achieve far more than they can imagine. Here are 3 Ways to make discipline a positive experience. Tony Dungy shares what he learned from Tom Landry's example – Huddle up and ask your children tonight: Can you remember something you didn't want to do that you did anyway and now are glad you did? [Link]
Large Families: Blessings or Burdens?
These days, having more than two children can unleash a tsunami of ire from family, friends and total strangers. Three mothers give their perspectives on the most common complaints and misconceptions about large families. [Link]
Time to Stop the EPA's Assault on America
The consequences of putting hard-working families and small businesses at the mercy of unaccountable EPA bureaucrats cannot be understated. [Link]
Perfect Sportsmanship: Baseball and the Beauty of Forgiveness
Recently, Armando Galarraga of the Detroit Tigers was one out away from throwing the 21st perfect game in Major League Baseball history… [Link]
Iran's Christians: Targets of a Dictator
The stories of Christians in Iran over the past couple of months sounds like a modern-day rendition of the Apostle Paul's sufferings. The methods of tyrants have changed, but the reality of persecution is the same. [Link]
Singles in the Church: Faith with Work
If there's one thing to learn from today's economy, it's that we can't derive our identity from our job. Our identity rests in Christ alone, and he provides us the resources we need to work for him first. Your singlehood may even be a tool God can use to make your job its own ministry. [Link]
Can I Serve the Lord Through My New Business?
It’s a mistake to think of life as being either “serving in business” or “serving the Lord.” [Link]
My John Wooden Story
A very large number of the rich and famous I have observed have been disappointing and it is often in one particular area. How they treat those who have nothing to offer them. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, June 10, 2010 [Exodus 34:29-34]
When Moses came down from Mount Sinai with the two tablets of the Testimony in his hands, he was not aware that his face was radiant because he had spoken with the LORD. When Aaron and all the Israelites saw Moses, his face was radiant, and they were afraid to come near him. But Moses called to them; so Aaron and all the leaders of the community came back to him, and he spoke to them. Afterward all the Israelites came near him, and he gave them all the commands the LORD had given him on Mount Sinai. When Moses finished speaking to them, he put a veil over his face. But whenever he entered the LORD's presence to speak with him, he removed the veil until he came out. Exodus 34:29-34 NIV Listen [Link]
Good and Bad Wives
The Greek philosopher Socrates thought it was a great idea to get married. His reasoning? A good wife will make you happy. A bad wife will make you a philosopher. But sometimes marriage is not about having a good or bad wife; it's about what we can do to become better husbands. And how to avoid unnecessary marriage conflict. The first step is to improve our communication skills. Here are 10 Ways to Improve your Marital Communication. For one comedian's philosophy for a happy marriage, watch this.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What is one thing we can do to improve our communication? [Link]
Live with Less to Enjoy More
Our culture constantly says that you need more in your life: a bigger house, a newer car, better clothes, more activities. But pursuing what truly matters requires living with less – not more – so you'll be free to grow closer to God and other people. [Link]
Suffering and the Biblical Story
Two ideas must be present in how we think about suffering: (1) suffering is not original; it has not always existed. (2) suffering is not something created or authored by God. [Link]
Preaching: Act of Spirituality or Arrogance?
The act of preaching is either a spiritual act or an arrogant act. There is nothing in between for anyone who stands in the pulpit. [Link]
Institutional Emphasis: Trusting in Man Rather than God
The modern trend of adopting the culture’s approach (modernity) to management within the church both reflects and encourages a diminished dependence on the Holy Spirit. In essence, our confidence can (and I believe has) inadvertently become rooted in the church’s organizational and management expertise (natural means) rather than supernatural means. Here's an example… [Link]
Why Do Long-time Married Couples Break Their Vows?
Many people were surprised to hear the news that Al Gore and his wife Tipper have decided to get a divorce. People automatically think that a couple married for 40 years would stick it out until one of them dies. But the trend has been changing for some time. [Link]
To Tell the Truth: Confronting a Dishonest Teen
Kids lie for the same reasons that adults lie…to lift themselves up, to get ahead, to destroy their competition, or to protect themselves and avoid consequences. It's best to deal with dishonesty earlier in life, since it tends to grow incrementally with each lie that isn't caught. [Link]
Setting Healthy Boundaries for a Healthy Relationship
I can think of no more important skill to help us relate in a healthy way than setting boundaries. Let's discuss the situation of two people who wrote to me recently. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, June 9, 2010 [Isaiah 55:10-12]
As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands. Isaiah 55:10-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Celebrate Your Daughter, and Try Not to Cry
Is your daughter approaching an upcoming milestone? Why not go all out to celebrate it? As an example, see what Pastor Francis Chan did for his daughter's Sweet 16. Do something that your little girl, now almost grown, will remember… forever. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "What is something special we can do for our daughter?" [Link]
Eric Metaxas on Why Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Why Now
"The singular thing about Bonhoeffer that recommends him to this generation is that he calls us to a closer, authentic walk with Jesus," says author Eric Metaxas. "His life asks us, ‘How do we live as authentic Christians all the way, in the face of struggles and evil?' [Link]
Freedom from Porn: One CEO Takes a Stand
In the never-ending battle of the technological titans, score one for Steve Jobs. No, the CEO of Apple hasn't come out with yet another groundbreaking iProduct, at least not since the iPad… [Link]
Homosexuality and the Military — What’s Really at Stake?
Now that the full normalization of homosexuality in the U.S. military looms before us, are we ready for all that this means? Almost surely not. There are huge realities that frame the momentous nature of this policy change. [Link]
Episcopal Head Lashes Out at Anglican 'Colonial' Uniformity
Episcopal Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori has forcefully defended her church's embrace of gays and lesbians, and firmly rejected efforts to centralize power or police uniformity in the Anglican Communion. [Link]
Raunch Knows No Bounds in Get Him to the Greek
A little bawdy humor goes a long way, and Get Him to the Greek goes much further than the bounds of good taste allow. That's part of the movie's calculus, of course—it offers scenes designed to shock, and scenes that will lead to can-you-believe-that moments of laughter. [Link]
Splice Falls to Pieces
Although not a terrible sci-fi film, Splice is unoriginal, as well as inconsistent. Its weakest segment, oddly, is when the overtly sexual aspects of DREN become part of the main plot. Rather than being erotic, these scenes come across as just comical. The movie loses all intensity, realism, and drama. [Link]
Reading Fiction: The Pursuit of a Peculiar Pleasure
Stories and characters, along with the morals and themes of good fiction give voice to our own views. They're therapeutic for us as readers. And seeing them on the printed page affirms our thoughts and validates our experiences. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, June 8, 2010 [Proverbs 3:27-34]
Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act. Do not say to your neighbor, 'Come back later; I'll give it tomorrow'–when you now have it with you. Do not plot harm against your neighbor, who lives trustfully near you. Do not accuse a man for no reason–when he has done you no harm. Do not envy a violent man or choose any of his ways, for the LORD detests a perverse man but takes the upright into his confidence. The LORD's curse is on the house of the wicked, but he blesses the home of the righteous. He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble. Proverbs 3:27-34 NIV Listen [Link]
You Need to be Blindsided
If you have not seen the PG-13 movie The Blind Side, circle a time this weekend to watch it with your kids if they are old enough. It's a soul-stirring story about a kid who came from nothing and has made something extraordinary of his life. Even if your kids are too young to watch it, they'll still like this story about the real life Michael Oher. And hear what Tony Dungy loved about The Blind Side.Huddle up with your older kids tonight and ask: When would you like to watch The Blind Side? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, June 7, 2010 [John 14:9-11]
Jesus answered: 'Don't you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, 'Show us the Father'? Don't you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you are not just my own. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the miracles themselves. John 14:9-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Camping Disasters = Great Memories
Summer just isn't summer if there isn't at least one family camping trip planned. As Dr. Gary Smalley says, "Camping is wonderful because there's at least one major disaster that in the end brings you all together." So hurry up and get that disaster planned! Hopefully it will go a little smoother than this classic Sanford and Son camping trip. Build family relationships on your next camping trip by using our Top 10 Ways to make your family camping trip rock!Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: When can we all go camping? [Link]
Doin' What Comes Naturally?
A new book says that monogamy is not the design for the human "organism." Another book disagrees. [Link]
Is Religion Evil?
The 2001 suicide attacks by Islamic fanatics on the World Trade Center in New York and elsewhere are seen by the "New Atheists" as surefire demonstrations of the intrinsic evil of religion. But is it true that lurking within every religious believer lies a potential terrorist and that if we get rid of religion the world will be a safer place? [Link]
5 Tips to Deepen Your Relationship with God
We all want a deeper relationship with God and seek it in different ways though we don’t always feel as if we’re getting very far. Part of the problem is that often we’re focused on a feeling which is no real judge of our walk with God. [Link]
The Courage to Say No
I'm not going to pretend I don't have strengths when I do–that's just a churchy way of lying. [Link]
Did I Make the Right Decision?
It’s always easy to look back and criticize yourself for the decisions you made years ago. [Link]
Paying for College with a Reality Check
One year in a moderately priced private college or university can easily cost $17,000-$20,000. Yet, College can be affordable for the typical family if they research wisely and start planning early. [Link]
To Tithe or Not to Tithe? That is the Question
How much of our income is to be given to God as the firstfruits? Should you tithe even if you can't pay your bills? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, June 6, 2010 [Luke 12:32-40]
'Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom. Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will not be exhausted, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. 'Be dressed ready for service and keep your lamps burning, like men waiting for their master to return from a wedding banquet, so that when he comes and knocks they can immediately open the door for him. It will be good for those servants whose master finds them watching when he comes. I tell you the truth, he will dress himself to serve, will have them recline at the table and will come and wait on them. It will be good for those servants whose master finds them ready, even if he comes in the second or third watch of the night. But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what hour the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.' Luke 12:32-40 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, June 5, 2010 [Galatians 3:23-29]
Before this faith came, we were held prisoners by the law, locked up until faith should be revealed. So the law was put in charge to lead us to Christ that we might be justified by faith. Now that faith has come, we are no longer under the supervision of the law. You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise. Galatians 3:23-29 NIV [Link]
Killers Lacks Any Instincts—Acting or Otherwise
Ashton Kutcher may be the second most popular person on Twitter, but Killers is truly a movie only his mother could love. Not only is the flick sorely lacking instincts of any kind, but the only chuckle in this nearly plot-free endeavor is a wisecrack about his character learning his mad gun skills in 4-H. [Link]
Marmaduke is a Barkin' Good Time for Kids (But No One Else)
Filled with madcap action and a happy ending you'll see coming from a mile away (this ain't Old Yeller, after all), Marmaduke is a movie your kids will probably love, but you'll barely suffer through, thanks to a slew of corny jokes and lame pop culture references. [Link]
Top 10 Articles of May 2010
There are 50 things that should make every believer's bucket list. Find out what they are while exploring this month's top 10 articles. [Link]
Summer Reading — Books Fit for the Season, Part 1
Hopefully, the stack for summer reading includes some books to read for sheer enjoyment. The following is a list of ten books that, in my opinion, make for great summer reading. [Link]
Women and Honor Killings: What a Difference Christianity Makes
The outrages in India and elsewhere are a reminder of the difference that Christianity has made, whether its contemporary critics are willing to admit it or not. [Link]
The BP Oil Spill Needs a Jury Trial
The BP accident illustrates the lengths to which some corporations will go to protect their bottom line at the expense of safety, and protect their hind ends when their corner-cutting measures end in disaster. [Link]
From the Set: Sherwood Pictures Gears Up for Courageous
Just shy of 2,300 miles from the bright lights of Hollywood in Albany, Georgia, the Sherwood Baptist Church community is working tirelessly on its fourth feature film, Courageous, which is slated for a 2011 release. Go behind the scenes and take a closer look at this filmmaking process that's currently under way. [Link]
Christianity Really Is in Crisis in The Last Christian
Is it reasonable to think that Christianity could die out within the next 80 years? David Gregory addresses this premise directly in the futuristic novel, The Last Christian, giving several theories as to why it is a reasonable possibility. [Link]
Superchick Mixes It Up on Reinvention
On Reinvention, Christian music's favorite smorgasbord band, Superchick, mashes it up once again, churning out retooled versions of the GRAMMY-nominated group's favorite catalog songs. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, June 4, 2010 [James 1:2-8]
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does. James 1:2-8 NIV Listen [Link]
How to Really Build Your Child's Self-Esteem
For many years now, we've heard that low self-esteem is what makes kids misbehave. But a New York Times writer said, "D students think as highly of themselves as valedictorians." As a father, the issue is not making your children feel good about themselves in and of themselves. It's making them feel like treasures because God sees them as treasures and has equipped them with gifts that no one else in the world has. Only when your kids are taught to look upwards with gratitude can they look inwards with amazement.Even the best dads need help thinking of things to say, so try our 10 specific compliments you can give your children and watch their faces light up! Huddle up with your children tonight and say: I am proud of you because _________________. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, June 3, 2010 [Jeremiah 31:31-34]
'The time is coming,' declares the LORD, 'when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah. It will not be like the covenant I made with their forefathers when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them, ' declares the LORD. 'This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time,' declares the LORD. 'I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will a man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, 'Know the LORD,' because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,' declares the LORD. 'For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.' Jeremiah 31:31-34 NIV Listen [Link]
Fighting Porn: The Newest Battlefront on the Oldest Profession
As a nation we have declared war on smoking, obesity, and other personal choices that carry harmful social costs. Why haven't we declared war on porn with its link to sex trafficking? [Link]
Are We Too Fond of Our Own Will?
What are you holding on to so tightly that it almost makes your hands hurt? [Link]
He Said-She Said: Inappropriate Relationships
Guy likes girl. Girl says she's already in a relationship. Yet girl seeks to spend time with guy on the side. "Compromising situations" are involved. Is it inappropriate? And can guy and girl go back to just being friends? Read what "he" and "she" have to say in response. [Link]
Don’t Divorce On a Friday: 7 Ways to Save Your Marriage
While the stats may be alarming, many marriages can be saved. You don't need to stand by, helplessly riding an emotional roller coaster, bracing for the next brick wall. [Link]
Do you face fear every day?
Mark Twain said, "I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened." Most of our fears are illusory. They are unreal. But they can imprison us. How do you break free? The first is to confront them as this amazing video shows us. Then, as Tony Dungy shares, we must learn how to make fear motivate us to do something amazing.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What is your biggest fear? How can I help you overcome it? [Link]
Why Is God Taking His Sweet Time?
The more I search the scriptures, the more I find that our God is a God of waiting. He takes His time to accomplish things, whether it be something we're hoping for, a change in an individual's life, or a significant event in history. God is apparently in no hurry. [Link]
Five Stages Toward Making Worship a Habit
We've all heard the excuses for not going to church. But for most families, altering the Sunday routine is a major lifestyle change. Here's how you can get it done. [Link]
A Prayer God Loves to Answer
"Lord, use me more!" What Christian doesn't want to come to the end of his or her life and know that it was a life well spent for God and His kingdom? But give thought to how you pray, my friends. [Link]
A Cure for Gospel Confusion
As Christians today keep struggling to fully grasp the gospel's incredible breadth and power–both for themselves and for the changing world around them–Tullian Tchividjian's book, "Surprised by Grace" carries a liberating message that forces us to come to grips with the shocking extent of God's compassion and mercy. [Link]
Is the Bible Reliable for Truth about Jesus Christ?
Why should anyone believe that what the Bible has to say is true? Isn’t the belief in the historicity of biblical texts similar to faith that Zeus reigned from Mount Olympus? [Link]
Breakthrough Faith at the Gates
Perhaps you are still waiting for a breakthrough in your life. Jesus has the breaker anointing to break through in any situation that you or I may face. [Link]
Riding the Income Roller Coaster
If you depend on commission sales or other forms of self-employment for your livelihood, you may know what it’s like to live on a roller-coaster income… [Link]
Your First Chance to Make A First Impression
The average job seeker is not equipped to make a positive first impression. At the very earliest steps to a new job we slam the door closed because we are not prepared. [Link]
Ecological Catastrophe and the Uneasy Evangelical Conscience
For too long, we evangelical Christians have maintained an uneasy ecological conscience. I include myself in this indictment. We believe in free markets, but when government fails or refuses to protect its own people, whether from nuclear attack or from toxic waste spewing into our life-giving waters, the government has failed. [Link]
When should you say you're sorry?
And when should you ask for forgiveness? Think they're the same thing? Well, not really. Teach your kids the difference. "Sorry" is OK for accidents, like spilling milk or bumping into someone. But when your kids do something on purpose — calling their brother or sister a name, not sharing — then they have to say, "I was wrong — please forgive me." And they have to do it without making excuses and without a bad attitude. Asking for forgiveness is an experience that teaches humility and responsibility. And that's nothing to be sorry about.Do you know how to ask your kids for forgiveness? Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Is there anything I have done to hurt you that I should ask forgiveness for? [Link]
Churches Race to Support Members Impacted by Gulf Oil Spill
As oil continues to spill into the Gulf of Mexico, churches and religious organizations along the Louisiana coast are providing food, money and support to parishioners whose livelihoods hang in the balance. [Link]
Finance Reform Lacks Civil Courage
Enormous ethical lapses on the part of lenders, bond raters, speculators, and home buyers led to the financial crisis. The problem is that Congress is ignoring two of the major causes behind the financial crisis. [Link]
A Black Cat in a Dark Room — Are Theologians Really Saying Anything?
Far too many academic theologians take their paychecks and attend their academic meetings despite their unbelief. For them, theology is just one more discipline in the theory-laden world of the modern academy. [Link]
Tim Burton's Wild Imagination Put to Good Use in Alice in Wonderland
Given that Tim Burton has been the guy responsible for everything from the lovable Edward Scissorhands to the grisly Sweeney Todd, it's not surprising that Lewis Carroll's Alice in Wonderland would be a perfect vehicle for his unconventional filmmaking. [Link]
Uninspired Wolfman is a Howler
With so much going for it, The Wolfman should offer a moody atmosphere, a few good scares and actors who set the right tone for the material. But it turns out the new film is merely "inspired by" the earlier Wolfman—but doesn't exhibit much inspiration at all. [Link]
Holmes Crafts a Powerful Story in Crossing Oceans
In portraying Jenny, using the first person point of view, Gina Holmes draws on her personal experience as a nurse who has dealt with the sick and dying. She appears to have walked in Jenny's shoes, living the ravages of illness, grief, anger, worry, and fear. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, June 1, 2010 [Job 14:13-16]
'If only you would hide me in the grave and conceal me till your anger has passed! If only you would set me a time and then remember me! If a man dies, will he live again? All the days of my hard service I will wait for my renewal to come. You will call and I will answer you; you will long for the creature your hands have made. Surely then you will count my steps but not keep track of my sin. Job 14:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Kiss your wife and get richer
Studies indicate that a man who kisses his wife good-bye when he leaves for work every morning averages a higher income than those who don't. Husbands who exercise the rituals of affection tend to be more attentive, more stable, more methodical, thus, higher earners. Studies also show that men who kiss their wives before leaving in the morning live 5 years longer than those who don't. A kiss isn't just a kiss after all. Just make sure you hit the mouthwash first.Kissing your wife cannot only make you richer, but can make your marriage less stressed as well. Check out our list of 10 things to do to help your marriage feel less stressed! Huddle up with your wife tonight and plant a big one on her! [Link]
Love & Respect: How Your Money Habits Affect Your Spouse
As I've been reading Emerson Eggerichs' book, naturally titled Love and Respect, it made me wonder about the implications for how husbands and wives use money, especially since finances are typically one of the most contentious issues in marriage. So, I decided to ask my wife, Jude… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, May 31, 2010 [Psalm 119:25-32]
I am laid low in the dust; preserve my life according to your word. I recounted my ways and you answered me; teach me your decrees. Let me understand the teaching of your precepts; then I will meditate on your wonders. My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your word. Keep me from deceitful ways; be gracious to me through your law. I have chosen the way of truth; I have set my heart on your laws. I hold fast to your statutes, O LORD; do not let me be put to shame. I run in the path of your commands, for you have set my heart free. Psalm 119:25-32 NIV Listen [Link]
Let's remember what freedom cost
Today is Memorial Day and most of us will sleep in late, head to a picnic and then maybe catch a ball game. Few of us will stop and consider what our country's freedom has cost. So here is a reminder from Saving Private Ryan Please be advised – this is a realistic, violent depiction, but it's what freedom costs. And if you happen to see a veteran today, be sure to thank them.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask them: Have you seen a picture of the Vietnam Memorial before? Why do you think these men gave their lives? [Link]
The "Contemporvant Service" Parody Video – What Can We Learn?
Like most viral videos seeking to make a point, this one has its supporters and detractors. Some call it a brilliant parody while others are deeply offended by its supposed slap in the face at churches targeting unbelievers. I tend to side with the first group, and I think there are a few things we can learn from it. [Link]
Oh Lord It's Hard To Be Humble?
Humility is a virtue that is, in my humble opinion, seriously misunderstood. [Link]
Memorial Day 2010: Earn Your Life
Are we, out of gratitude, doing our duty for Christ, feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, ministering to those in prison, in whatever harvest field to which the Lord has called us? [Link]
Someone Worth Losing Everything For
Are you Radical enough to reclaim your faith from the clutches of the American Dream? [Link]
Oh Lord It's Hard To Be Humble?
Humility is a virtue that is, in my humble opinion, seriously misunderstood. [Link]
Dealing with the Control Freak in Your Life
You know them by the way they hem you in. They have a “right” way of doing things and you better do it the way they say is “right” or else you face their criticism, shame and even disrespect… [Link]
The Value of One-on-One Time
Our pup was always energetic and ready to play, just like kids. And just like kids, he was happy and generally stayed out of trouble as long as his caretakers were giving him love and attention. [Link]
Pull Out All the Stops to Help Your Teen
For parents, there is no worse feeling than watching your child spin out of control while nothing you do seems to make any difference. If your teenager's behavior is giving you feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and fear, I would like to offer you some suggestions. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, May 30, 2010 [1 John 5:6-12]
This is the one who came by water and blood–Jesus Christ. He did not come by water only, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit who testifies, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three that testify: the Spirit, the water and the blood; and the three are in agreement. We accept man's testimony, but God's testimony is greater because it is the testimony of God, which he has given about his Son. Anyone who believes in the Son of God has this testimony in his heart. Anyone who does not believe God has made him out to be a liar, because he has not believed the testimony God has given about his Son. And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. 1 John 5:6-12 NIV [Link]
Memorial Day Remembrance
For more than two centuries, America has produced generation after generation of extraordinary young men like Ryan Adam Miller who have answered the call to defend freedom. Some, like Ryan, have paid the ultimate price. It is these that we honor on Memorial Day as we celebrate those loftier virtues that have secured some measure of peace and liberty in a fallen world. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, May 29, 2010 [1 John 4:7-12]
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. 1 John 4:7-12 NIV [Link]
Memorial Day: Remembering Our Loved Ones
I'm in no rush, but there is peace in knowing that we will indeed be in the same place one day because, as mighty as death seems, it has no power to keep God's own in the grave. [Link]
The Dangerous Disconnect Between People and Government
Events in the past several weeks have shown me that we are entering a critical phase in American political life. And I don't say this lightly. [Link]
Has Man Created Life? The Synthetic Cell
Just days ago, Dr. Craig Venter and his associates announced the achievement of the first synthetic life form, a bacterium with DNA sequenced entirely by computer — a human-designed life form. [Link]
Sorry, Mr. President: Socialism Is Not in the Bible
Barack Obama may say that the Bible tells him to be his brother's keeper but he ought to go back and reread what God's Word actually says. Engels was right. Socialism has nothing in common with Scripture. [Link]
Prince of Persia Falls Short of Better Popcorn Movies
Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time has the elements of a successful formula film, but it sells short its best assets in exchange for tedious special effects designed to please those who enjoyed the video game on which the film is based. [Link]
Sex and the City 2 Even More Embarrassing Than Its Predecessor
For a show that's always championed the cause of sisters doin' it for themselves, Sex and the City 2 manages to derail that mission (and anything resembling good taste along the way) in an excruciatingly long two hours and 26 minutes. [Link]
24: We Do Know Jack. We ARE Jack.
What in the end proved most true for Jack is the same thing that in the end we all hope (and many of us trust) will prove most true for us. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, May 28, 2010 [2 Peter 3:14-18]
So then, dear friends, since you are looking forward to this, make every effort to be found spotless, blameless and at peace with him. Bear in mind that our Lord's patience means salvation, just as our dear brother Paul also wrote you with the wisdom that God gave him. He writes the same way in all his letters, speaking in them of these matters. His letters contain some things that are hard to understand, which ignorant and unstable people distort, as they do the other Scriptures, to their own destruction. Therefore, dear friends, since you already know this, be on your guard so that you may not be carried away by the error of lawless men and fall from your secure position. But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen. 2 Peter 3:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you a hero?
Captain Ed Freeman, United States Army helicopter pilot, recently passed away. He distinguished himself by his bravery when on November 14, 1965; he supported a heavily engaged American infantry battalion in the La Drang Valley of Vietnam. The American unit was almost out of ammunition after taking some of the heaviest casualties of the Vietnam War. Captain Freeman risked his own life by flying his unarmed helicopter through a gauntlet of enemy fire time after time, delivering critically needed ammunition, water and medical supplies to the besieged battalion. Freeman flew 14 separate rescue missions in the same day and provided life-saving evacuation of 30 seriously wounded soldiers. All of his landings were made within 100 meters of the enemy front lines.Not all heroes have to be soldiers. But all heroes take some kind of fire because they stand up for what they believe in. Whether it's storming the beach at Normandy or sitting at a six hour swim meet to watch your child swim 30 seconds, a hero cares less about himself than his principles. And this is the type of man his children wish to follow.How is this for seeing modern heroism? Specialist Channing Moss was hit by a live rocket-propelled grenade in Afghanistan. For medics there was only one choice. WARNING: This video contains graphic images and adult language. It may not be suitable for all audiences. Please use discretion. And Tony Dungy shares about his hero, his father, a member of the Tuskegee Airmen.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: Who is your hero? [Link]
Five Steps to Peace in a Really Bad Situation
How do you get peace in a really bad situation? You may be in the fight of your life financially and about to lose your home. It may be that you’ve been diagnosed with lung cancer as my father-in-law was last week. It may be that your marriage is falling apart. You fill in the blank. We’re either headed into a crisis, in the midst of one, or coming out of one. Now coming out of one is great. But how can we get peace if we’re headed into or in the midst of a crisis? [Link]
Do We Really Know Jesus? Adam Gopnik and the Gospels
Even the most secularized classes, those whom Friedrich Schleiermacher called the "cultured despisers of religion," cannot leave Jesus alone. Not even The New Yorker. [Link]
Of Pastors & Pyramids: Master Builders Required
Even Egypt's massively complex Great Pyramid is built upon a simple formula: Design x Substance + Energy + Time. It's the same equation used in evangelism. [Link]
Largest Prison Chapel in U.S. Opens for Ministry
It has been a long and some times arduous journey, but a new Spiritual Life Center at the El Dorado Correctional Facility (EDCF) in Kansas finally held its dedication and open house May 4. [Link]
You Can Win the Battle with Busyness
Overscheduled. Overworked. Overcommitted. Overwhelmed. Our busyness can be the product of doing lots of good things. But are they the good things that we should be doing? [Link]
Uncovering the True Value of Free
I received an interesting letter from reader Liz P., who works for a non-profit organization called Spreckels Organ Society in San Diego, Calif. She shared with me her pet peeve: people do not appreciate things that are free. [Link]
Getting Your "Financial Bus" on Track
If you are the driver of a financial bus that is spiraling out of control, here's some advice that can help you get back on track when the wheels come off. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, May 27, 2010 [1 Samuel 2:1-8]
Then Hannah prayed and said: 'My heart rejoices in the LORD; in the LORD my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance. 'There is no one holy like the LORD; there is no one besides you; there is no Rock like our God. 'Do not keep talking so proudly or let your mouth speak such arrogance, for the LORD is a God who knows, and by him deeds are weighed. 'The bows of the warriors are broken, but those who stumbled are armed with strength. Those who were full hire themselves out for food, but those who were hungry hunger no more. She who was barren has borne seven children, but she who has had many sons pines away. 'The LORD brings death and makes alive; he brings down to the grave and raises up. The LORD sends poverty and wealth; he humbles and he exalts. He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap; he seats them with princes and has them inherit a throne of honor. 'For the foundations of the earth are the LORD's; upon them he has set the world. 1 Samuel 2:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
A Major League Sibling Rivalry
Have you ever heard of Dominic DiMaggio? He was Joe DiMaggio's younger brother, played for the Boston Red Sox and was a seven-time All Star center fielder. Dom had a pretty impressive 34-game hitting streak in 1949, but it was his big brother Joe who brought it to an inglorious end by catching his sinking line drive to the outfield. Joe could never have his brother top his 56-game hitting streak gem in 1941. A great example of a little sibling rivalry. By the way, after Joe's 56-game streak ended, he tore off another 16-game hitting exhibition… effectively hitting safely in 72 of 73 games! Stunning.If you have some sibling rivalry issues in your home, check out our 10 ways to curb sibling rivalry.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: What can we do to help you all stop fighting so much? What if we tried some of these 10 ways? [Link]
Consumption or Contribution?
You don't have to set some crazy record to be known. Everyone is known for something in their lives. The question is, what will you be known for? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, May 26, 2010 [Philippians 1:15-18]
It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. The latter do so in love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains. But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice. Philippians 1:15-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't let your kid be a pothead
In a recent study by Dr. John Baucom, 81% of teens addicted to nicotine will try marijuana. On the flip side, the vast majority of adolescents who never smoke will never do drugs. If you suspect your teen of smoking, don't just brush it off. It is a gateway drug. You need to sit down with them and explain the dangers of lighting up and where smoking can lead. Share from your own experience or the experience of others. Lastly, tell them that you love them and only want the best for them.Raising teenagers is hard, but laughter helps. For a humorous way to encourage your kids not to smoke, watch this. And on a more serious note, take a look at this.Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask them: Have you ever been pressured to smoke? [Link]
The Left Loses It Over Arizona's Immigration Law
Those who read the Arizona immigration law will quickly see that the flap it has created is a based on lies about its content. The law specifically bans racial profiling by insisting that immigration violations can only be enforced if they are discovered while police are investigating another type of violation. The law is patterned closely after Federal immigration law and in a sane world; it would not even raise a ripple of concern. [Link]
Forced Deportations in Morocco Worry Native Christians
Christians and expert observers are calling this a calculated effort to purge the historically moderate country, known for its progressive policies, of all Christian elements – both foreign and national. [Link]
Left Stepping Over the Bodies: The Fate of Christians in Iraq
Whatever you think of the Iraq war, it's painful to think that the most enduring legacy of our invasion may be driving the final nail in the coffin of an ancient Christian community. [Link]
Undoing Parenting Mistakes
Don't you wish there was a great big "Undo" button in life; where you could completely erase your parenting mistakes? I bet some parents would give anything for such a button. [Link]
Jesus … Single Like Me: He Knew His Purpose
His purpose was first a relationship with his Heavenly Father and, as a result, a relationship with us. This relationship involved dying on a cross for our sins. As a result of his purpose, our lives—as singles—have purpose. [Link]
Walking Down the Aisle as a Modern Family
Weddings should be a joyous time for our families. But with so many complex family dynamics today, including step family relationships, weddings can bring up a lot of feelings we thought we had taken care of and buried. [Link]
MercyMe's Lovewell Not Quite a Concept Album
To call MercyMe's latest project, The Generous Mr. Lovewell, a concept album would be an overstatement. But there's certainly a unified thread that runs throughout the 11-track collection of uplifting pop and rock. [Link]
Pornography — The Difference Being a Parent Makes
Steve Jobs made this clear in his retort to Ryan Tate that he "might care more about porn when you have kids." Parenthood changes everything about one's outlook on life and its challenges. [Link]
When Satan Comes Knocking
When Satan comes against your mind with wrong thoughts, you don’t have to concede defeat. Use these practical actions to confront loose thoughts. [Link]
"What's Wrong With Dressing Sexy?"
A young woman wrote in to ask, "Why shouldn't I dress sexy if I want to?" Here's my answer to her. [Link]
What Makes God’s Heart Sing?
It's YOU – not rule-keeping or living a good life (whatever that is) – that makes God's heart sing. But how can we know that, and then, how can we respond to such love? [Link]
Lessons from LOST
While most television shows specialize in serving up a great big dish of fluff, it is rare to see a show address the philosophical and spiritual dimensions of life’s biggest questions. What are some lessons that Christians can take away from this pop culture phenomenon? [Link]
SNL-Based MacGruber Predictably Vulgar
From the standpoint of secular humor, it must be admitted that some of MacGruber can bring an unbidden grin to the face, accompanied by a blush. But from a Judeo-Christian standpoint, much of it is just too over the top to be appreciated or enjoyed. It will most definitely be offensive to most conservative viewers. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, May 25, 2010 [Jeremiah 31:16-18]
This is what the LORD says: 'Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded,' declares the LORD. 'They will return from the land of the enemy. So there is hope for your future,' declares the LORD. 'Your children will return to their own land. 'I have surely heard Ephraim's moaning: 'You disciplined me like an unruly calf, and I have been disciplined. Restore me, and I will return, because you are the LORD my God. Jeremiah 31:16-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Could your child have an STD?
Raising teens is tough. Teen sexuality can be a tough subject to bring up – we know. Well, here's a reason to bite the bullet – you should know that within two (2) years of having sex for the first time, half of teenage girls may be infected with at least one of three common sexually transmitted diseases (STD's), according to results of a new study published by the American Medical Association. Often, those girls are infected by the age of 15. Your daughters are at risk for STD's as soon as they become sexually active. Teenage sex is a bad and risky behavior, but how do you parent your kids not to hook up in our sex-obsessed culture? Know what your kids mean by "hooking up" and don't be afraid to share your attitude about sex with your teens. Huddle up with your older children tonight and ask: Do you think waiting until marriage to have sex is a good idea? Why or why not? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, May 24, 2010 [2 Peter 3:10-13]
But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything in it will be laid bare. Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming.That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, the home of righteousness. 2 Peter 3:10-13 NIV Listen [Link]
An incredible Facebook story
You're a 52-year-old trucker, and you blew your chance with the Cincinnati Reds, blew your full-ride football scholarship at VMI, blew it all because you were just stubborn and rebellious and dumb. And then one day, your 8-year-old granddaughter tells you that you ought to get on a thing called Facebook, and two weeks later, somebody on this Facebook thing is telling you that you have a son.And not just a son, but Nick Jones, the strapping, two-time NCAA Division II discus champ and starting defensive end for Abilene Christian University.Oh, and by the way? Abilene Christian is in the playoffs not 90 minutes from your house this Saturday, and hey, would you like to meet Nick before the game? Read what happened next. Now Facebook can certainly be used for all the wrong reasons, but it is one of the most powerful ways to stay connected to those people and organizations you love. Be sure to fan us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter. And find out more about our parent organization, Family First, by following our president Mark Merrill on Facebook and Twitter.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: If you could reconnect with one person in your past, who would it be? [Link]
Walking the Narrow Road
Have you ever reached a point in your life where you needed some direction? Where you wanted someone to just show you the path to take or tell you what to do? I have a time or two. [Link]
Can’t Turn This Worldview Thing Off
A teenager named Chris attended a worldview training program run by Summit Ministries. But by the end of the two-week program, he was exhausted. So he decided to "veg out" by watching a movie… [Link]
The Constitution, Not the Court, Is Supreme
The hype and angst surrounding Elena Kagan's nomination to the highest court of the United States proves that the Supreme Court is the "trump card" of American politics. [Link]
Commemorating Mao But Not Mother Teresa
The Empire State building's management—the same brain-trust that offered up this crowning touch for Chairman Mao—is refusing to light up for Mother Teresa. [Link]
Why Should I Hire You?
How would you answer the interview question,"Why should I hire you?" This is a frequently asked interview question that the majority of job seekers are unprepared to answer… [Link]
Dress for Financial Success
Trends come and go. Fortunately, saving money is never out-of-style. Here are ideas that will help you dress for success while staying within a responsible budget. [Link]
What's Your Unique Selling Proposition?
Recently a new place — Sweet CeCe's — popped up in a space that has been used unsuccessfully by several sandwich, coffee and ice cream businesses. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, May 23, 2010 [James 4:1-3]
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. James 4:1-3 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, May 22, 2010 [2 Thessalonians 2:13-17]
But we ought always to thank God for you, brothers loved by the Lord, because from the beginning God chose you to be saved through the sanctifying work of the Spirit and through belief in the truth. He called you to this through our gospel, that you might share in the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. So then, brothers, stand firm and hold to the teachings we passed on to you, whether by word of mouth or by letter. May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word. 2 Thessalonians 2:13-17 NIV [Link]
U.S. Volunteer in Haiti Says 'Our Story' Was Different
Paul Thompson reads the media accounts describing the journey of him and nine other jailed Baptist volunteers in Haiti who are all now free, and scratches his head. What he reads is not what he says he experienced. [Link]
The Great Isaiah Scroll & the Original Bible: An Interview with Dr. Peter Flint
For over forty years, the Great Isaiah Scroll was under lock and key, deep underground in Jerusalem. Recently, for the 60th anniversary of the Dead Sea Scrolls discovery, the Israel Antiquities Authority displayed the scroll. [Link]
Paul's Last Words
Timothy had to question this strange calling. His mentor had more scars than friends, more jail time than spare time. He must have wondered, "How can anyone shepherd unruly sheep and menacing wolves at the same time?" [Link]
How to Resurrect Your Ministry
If you’ve grown frustrated and discouraged by ministry work, it’s time to be renewed. Here's how to tap into The Resurrection of Ministry. [Link]
It's a Wonderful Life in Final Shrek
Shrek Forever After is a fun riff on It's a Wonderful Life. The film moves along at a nice clip, without straining for the rapid-fire pop-culture jokes that make so many Dreamworks animated films insubstantial. And for once, we have a summer movie that's just what a summer movie should be—a lot of fun. [Link]
Even as a Sappy Romance, Dear John Doesn't Deliver
If you've read any of Nicholas Sparks' tear-jerking novels or watched the equally swoony big-screen renditions of The Notebook, Nights in Rodanthe or Message in a Bottle, you've already got a pretty good idea of what to expect with Dear John. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, May 21, 2010 [Psalm 145:1-7]
I will exalt you, my God the King; I will praise your name for ever and ever. Every day I will praise you and extol your name for ever and ever. Great is the LORD and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom. One generation will commend your works to another; they will tell of your mighty acts. They will speak of the glorious splendor of your majesty, and I will meditate on your wonderful works. They will tell of the power of your awesome works, and I will proclaim your great deeds. They will celebrate your abundant goodness and joyfully sing of your righteousness. Psalm 145:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
10 specific manners your kids need to know
Good manners don't grow on trees, nor do they attach themselves to kids without some deliberate teaching and modeling by the adults at home and at school. Families that learn to practice good manners function more smoothly socially and experience reduced conflict at home. And children that have good manners are noticed and appreciated… setting them up for success. Do you think you model the 10 Specific Manners Your Kids Need to Know?Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: "Who is the rudest person you know? What do they do that is rude? Can we pray for them?" [Link]
Apocalyptic Road Winds to a Hopeful Place
The movie version of Cormac McCarthy's The Road is a story of a father and son trying to survive after an apocalyptic event. Although God is discussed, he is never embraced, yet The Road shows the importance of the power of hope to overcome bitterness and cynicism. [Link]
Ancient Words, New Light: How Studying Psalms Prepared a Pastor
"My friend's 3-month-old granddaughter died last night," said the caller. "They don't know what to do and don't have a church. Is there any chance you could visit them?" Even a weary pastor on his day off recognizes a holy moment. "I'll be right there," I said… [Link]
God Uses "Nobodies"
God doesn't take the majority of His workers from the ranks of the wise, mighty or noble. Paul says to get His job done, God uses things which are foolish, things which are weak, things which are base, things which are despised. [Link]
Romans: Cornerstone of Christian Living
Why must righteousness be a gift from God? Because all humanity is unrighteous, corrupted by sin and unable to live according to God's perfect standards. So suggests Paul in his "grandest, most comprehensive statement of the gospel," the letter to the Romans. [Link]
Truths We Learn from Fiction
Some have speculated that novels have become less popular with the advent of social media. But novels are, in fact, more deeply social than your best Facebook friend ever imagined. In the best fiction, writers reveal themselves. Through characters, dialog, action, and reflection they disclose their philosophies, emotions, and beliefs. [Link]
The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness
In the sixties, American women reported themselves happier, on average, than did men. Today, that statistic has reversed. Why are women more unhappy? [Link]
Hope for Parenting the "Me" Generation
The big question is this: How do parents establish their position of authority, while also maintaining their relationship with their teen? [Link]
The Day My Marriage Died: Healing in the Wake of Divorce
Every divorce circumstance is unique. However, for true healing it's necessary to grieve the death of the dream, the death of the covenant and the death of "What should have been." After 20 years of working alongside those experiencing the trauma of divorce here are a few suggestions. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, May 20, 2010 [James 1:12-18]
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. When tempted, no one should say, 'God is tempting me.' For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. Don't be deceived, my dear brothers. Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created. James 1:12-18 NIV Listen [Link]
10 Ways to Know You're Being a Good Father
What are the 10 ways you know you're being a good father? The first three are: when you help your kids with their schoolwork, when you take an interest in their hobbies, and when you show affection to your wife in front of them. For the complete list, check this out!Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: When you grow up and have kids, will you do anything differently than I do with you? Why or why not? [Link]
"Should We Marry If We’re Theologically Divided?"
A while back I posted a question from Calvin, a Reformed dispensationalist fundamentalist, and Aimee, a Pentecostal, who have fallen in love and want to get married. Y’all gave a spirited round of responses. Here are my thoughts on the question… [Link]
“For the Sake of God” — Must We Surrender Sexual Morality?
The opposing sides in the Anglican Communion cannot simply "put their differences behind them" and agree to move on. What the church would lose is its soul. [Link]
Indonesia's Court Strikes a Blow to Religious Freedom
With President Obama tentatively set to visit Indonesia next month, the world's most populous Muslim country faces a public relations crisis of its own making. [Link]
Frankie Has Two Mommies: Redefining Humanity with Our Cures
Nature told readers about a technique that could potentially “prevent a number of incurable genetic diseases.” But exploiting the potential comes at a cost. [Link]
Graduates…The Rolling Stones Were Right!
The Dallas Morning News recently ran an editorial about high school graduation speeches being a bit too optimistic. Writer Rod Dreher noted that "the bad news, high school graduates, is that you can't have it all. You aren't as free as you think you are. Sorry, but no matter what optimistic flapdoodle your commencement speaker tells you, that's the truth." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, May 19, 2010 [Proverbs 27:12-14]
The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it. Take the garment of one who puts up security for a stranger; hold it in pledge if he does it for a wayward woman. If a man loudly blesses his neighbor early in the morning, it will be taken as a curse. Proverbs 27:12-14 NIV Listen [Link]
When your wife gets cancer
When a woman gets a cancer diagnosis, her husband is much more likely to leave her than if the roles were reversed according to an article in Newsweek. And it's not just cancer. In any traumatic event such as the death of a child or extended unemployment, husbands are usually the ones to throw in the towel first. We invite you to share your comments on why you think that is at our Facebook page. And also, hear from Tony Dungy himself on how to keep your marriage together despite a personal tragedy.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: "If something terrible happens to us, how will we get through it together?" [Link]
God Uses "Nobodies"
God doesn't take the majority of His workers from the ranks of the wise, mighty or noble. Paul says to get His job done, God uses things which are foolish, things which are weak, things which are base, things which are despised. [Link]
Passing on Healthy Financial Habits to Your Children
Fewer than half believe they are good role models for their children regarding saving and spending. Yet, 94 percent of students say their parents are their primary teachers on financial matters. Oops. We have a problem. [Link]
Money and The American Dream
Ken was making a six-figure income as a sales rep for a manufacturing company. A top performer in his company; he had won numerous awards and trips as bonuses for his sales figures. The fact that everyone saw him as a "success" made him even more conflicted about his growing dissatisfaction with his job and his life. [Link]
Finding Hope When Life Drives You to the Edge
I remember a season of my life in which I was feeling desperate. I wanted out of the frustration, out of the house, out of everything. But I didn't know where to go… [Link]
The Christian Bucket List: 50 Things Every Believer Should Do before Heaven
Let's try to do the right thing here and come up with some positive, non-alcoholic deeds which every disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ should do before departing this earthly sod. [Link]
Chan's Charms Wear Thin in Humorless Spy Next Door
Ever seen Kindergarten Cop? How about The Pacifier, Daddy Day Care or Are We There Yet? Basically, if you answer yes to any of these, well, then you can safely skip The Spy Next Door, as it's essentially the same pseudo family-friendly movie, only far, far less entertaining. [Link]
Real-Life Heroics on Display in Extraordinary Measures
Extraordinary Measures won't take you to places you've never been, but sometimes it's enough to see a feel-good movie about real-life heroics. An affecting lead performance from Brendan Fraser and the inclusion of faith elements put a little air under the story's wings as well. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, May 18, 2010 [2 Samuel 22:14-19]
The LORD thundered from heaven; the voice of the Most High resounded. He shot arrows and scattered the enemies , bolts of lightning and routed them. The valleys of the sea were exposed and the foundations of the earth laid bare at the rebuke of the LORD, at the blast of breath from his nostrils. 'He reached down from on high and took hold of me; he drew me out of deep waters. He rescued me from my powerful enemy, from my foes, who were too strong for me. They confronted me in the day of my disaster, but the LORD was my support. 2 Samuel 22:14-19 NIV Listen [Link]
What Makes Your Heart Sing?
What makes your heart sing? Can you still hear the music of God's purpose? How do you tune in to the music that makes your heart sing? And how do you find it in the first place? [Link]
How to help your child get her first job
If your child is looking to get a part-time job in the near future, why not give her a mock job interview? Have her enter your office and sit down. First, note if she is dressed appropriately. Second, ask for her resume. Then ask her questions like following:· Why are you looking for a job?· What can you do for our company?· Why should I hire you?· What is your biggest strength? Biggest weakness?Also, be sure to tell your child not to ask about compensation until the end of the interview. A little preparation will go a long way in helping your kids land a job.Do you know the 10 Ways to Teach Your Kids a Good Work Ethic?Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask: "When is a good time we can do an 'interview' together?" [Link]
A Meal Says More than You Think: The Importance of Hospitality
The Bible teaches that acts of hospitality or inhospitality reveal the good or evil of a person or a community. Hospitality is a display of God's own heart and the abiding characteristic of those who live as God intends. [Link]
The Messenger Delivers Outstanding Performances
If I had a vote, The Messenger would be one of the 10 Oscar Award nominees for "Best Picture," and Ben Foster, Samantha Morton and Woody Harrelson would all receive acting nominations. It should not be missed and is that good. Seek it out. [Link]
After the Flood: Nashville Rebuilds and Reaches Out
As the water recedes, I've watched a new spirit of hope and community emerge in Nashville as residents – and Christian artists — band together to rebuild and reach out. [Link]
Kudzu Government: When the State Grows Wild
From General Motors to health care. From bank bailouts to national anti-obesity campaigns. Government is becoming more and more involved of every aspect of American life. [Link]
All Roads Lead to Heaven? — Kathleen Parker Does Theology
Kathleen Parker has advised secular America that the distinctive evangelical belief in the necessity of belief in Christ for salvation has a generational expiration date stamped on it. [Link]
A Moral and Just Response to the Immigration Crisis
We must think through the question of illegal immigration not only as concerned citizens, but also as compassionate Christians. [Link]
Little Ways to Save Big Money
Think you've cut your expenses all you possibly can? You might be wrong. [Link]
The Hard Work of True Charity
How do you best help someone who is struggling? If third-world natives are living in poverty, should we send them money? [Link]
Invite Jesus to be Your Career Counselor
God intends for your work to be about much more than just doing a job well. Work should be about a vocation – a whole lifestyle in which you honor God, contribute to the world in the ways you were uniquely designed to help others, and enjoy the process. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, May 17, 2010 [Deuteronomy 28:7-9]
The LORD will grant that the enemies who rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven. The LORD will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. The LORD your God will bless you in the land he is giving you. The LORD will establish you as his holy people, as he promised you on oath, if you keep the commands of the LORD your God and walk in his ways. Deuteronomy 28:7-9 NIV Listen [Link]
10 easy ways to get one-on-one time with your child
Have you tried to set specific times to get together with your children? With unpredictable schedules, it can be hard sometimes. So calendar your kids' birth date each month, and think of something fun that you can do with them — go for ice cream, go bowling, or something else they enjoy. For example, if your oldest was born on the 20th, you both will look forward to that date every month. If time with your kids isn't planned, it's that much tougher to fulfill. Calendar your most important clients. We've got 10 Ways to Make Time for Your Children, and for bonus points, do the same with your wife.Huddle up and ask your child: What would you like to do for your birthday date this month? [Link]
Kudzu Government: When the State Grows Wild
From General Motors to health care. From bank bailouts to national anti-obesity campaigns. Government is becoming more and more involved of every aspect of American life. [Link]
All Roads Lead to Heaven? — Kathleen Parker Does Theology
Kathleen Parker has advised secular America that the distinctive evangelical belief in the necessity of belief in Christ for salvation has a generational expiration date stamped on it. [Link]
A Moral and Just Response to the Immigration Crisis
We must think through the question of illegal immigration not only as concerned citizens, but also as compassionate Christians. [Link]
Little Ways to Save Big Money
Think you've cut your expenses all you possibly can? You might be wrong. [Link]
The Hard Work of True Charity
How do you best help someone who is struggling? If third-world natives are living in poverty, should we send them money? [Link]
Invite Jesus to be Your Career Counselor
God intends for your work to be about much more than just doing a job well. Work should be about a vocation – a whole lifestyle in which you honor God, contribute to the world in the ways you were uniquely designed to help others, and enjoy the process. [Link]
Virtual Friendship
I do not wish to deny that there are some legitimate uses of social networking. However, some negative effects of "virtual friendship" that I have observed are that it trivializes the notion of friendship and it erodes our sense of community. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, May 16, 2010 [1 Corinthians 3:19-23]
For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God's sight. As it is written: 'He catches the wise in their craftiness'; and again, 'The Lord knows that the thoughts of the wise are futile.' So then, no more boasting about men! All things are yours, whether Paul or Apollos or Cephas or the world or life or death or the present or the future–all are yours, and you are of Christ, and Christ is of God. 1 Corinthians 3:19-23 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, May 15, 2010 [Romans 8:1-4]
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in sinful man, in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit. Romans 8:1-4 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, May 14, 2010 [Colossians 1:13-18]
For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. Colossians 1:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Out of Many One: Why America Is Losing Her Unity
Europeans are wrong to ban religious practice, but not wrong to fear the breakdown of national consensus that will come when too many citizens question the founding ideas of the society. [Link]
Loving My Invisible Neighbor
James 2:15-16 shows us the difference between “fighting” for a cause, and loving people. “Be warmed and filled” is advocacy; “get in here” is love. [Link]
Action-Packed Robin Hood Runs Long
Despite its 2 hours and 20 minutes running time, it's hard to look away from the well-composed images and action spectacles of Robin Hood, and from the compelling actors trying to make something interesting of characters that should have been better fleshed out. [Link]
Letters to Juliet Suffers from Serious Predictability Overload
Even with a breathtaking Italian backdrop, a nod to one of literature's favorite tragic love stories (Romeo and Juliet) and not one, but two, love stories packed into an hour and a half, Letters to Juliet is still only a notch above mediocre. [Link]
Believability Makes This Romance Just Wright
The biggest mistake someone could make after watching previews for Just Wright would be to decide that it's not for them. Or that it's tailored strictly for a minority audience. Many films with all African-American casts are, but this one is different. And better. [Link]
The best way to keep boys off your daughter
Dads, did you know that your daughter most likely craves physical affection from you? And if you don't give her hugs and kisses on the cheek every day and tell her you love her, she'll most likely get it from another guy her age? It's a bit unsettling, isn't it? But it's true. A study from Dr. Meg Meeker shows that girls who have that kind of affection connection with their fathers are far more likely to stay away from drugs, pre-marital sex, do better in school and be happier. So even if it feels a little weird, give her the hugs and kisses. You'll definitely want to give her a hug and kiss after you watch this!Huddle up with your daughter tonight and give her a big bear hug. [Link]
Loving My Invisible Neighbor
James 2:15-16 shows us the difference between “fighting” for a cause, and loving people. “Be warmed and filled” is advocacy; “get in here” is love. [Link]
How Bible Study Changed My Life and Saved My Marriage
David Lawson of Precept Ministries knew his marriage was in serious trouble. So, while his wife B.J. was out of town visiting a relative, he visited a church. That Sunday morning, he gave his life to Christ. [Link]
A Spiritual Package Deal
Maturity teaches us that often we put the focus on the wrong things. When I stand before the throne of the Lord Jesus, my ministry will not be judged so much by what I have done as by what I might have done and how much I could have done. [Link]
Always Write Your Plans in Pencil
Are you frustrated and perhaps even a little angry at God because your plans are falling short or disappearing altogether? [Link]
The Moral Life of Babies (and the Ideological Life of Adults)
A team of researchers believe they have documented the fact that babies do have a very clear sense of right and wrong from very early stages. [Link]
Kagan’s Just the Latest Radical Obama Lawyer
Elena Kagan’s willingness to work with a few conservatives has earned her some respect as a pragmatist. But it’s a good bet that she’d become a true leftist when safely seated. [Link]
The Tyranny of Tolerance: Is the U.S. Flag Offensive?
The two students were minding their own business when the vice principal ordered them to remove their American flag bandanas. Why? Because it was Cinco de Mayo. [Link]
Are We Adequately Preparing Our Young People for Life?
Today's generation of youth leaders are reaching young people in wonderful and innovated ways. Unprecedented resources are being thrown at Christian youth. But I hear very few messages that encourage actual maturity. [Link]
Dealing with the Sufferer in Your Life
Few of us, especially caring, concerned Christians, can resist the opportunity to help someone who is suffering. But it's important to recognize there are some individuals who, having perfected the role of victim, will never improve as long as you are there to help them… [Link]
The Single Life: Take It Outside
There's a great big beautiful world out there! Have you seen it lately? In person, I mean, not through a window or on a screen. You don't have to go on a two-week nature hike deep in uncharted wilderness to enjoy it. The beauties of nature may be closer than you think. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, May 13, 2010 [2 Peter 1:2-4]
Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. 2 Peter 1:2-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you ready to die?
Zac Smith's situation can't get much worse, but it's amazing how his faith is helping him absorb life's body blows. We will all be in Zac's shoes before too long. How will we react? What do we ultimately believe about the purpose of our life and death? Think of Zac and his outlook because he is you, me, all of us.Tony Dungy talks about the lessons he learned from the loss of his son, James.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: How do you think we will react when we get terrible news? [Link]
More Than a Table for Two: The Difference a Christ-centered Marriage Makes
In Then Comes Marriage?: A Cultural History of the American Family, author Rebecca Price Janney names the distinction between secular and Christian marriages. Of the Christian couple she says, "Crowning their life together is the kind of giving, empathic, other-oriented love of which Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 12, what he called 'the most excellent way.'" [Link]
How to Discover Your True Identity
Self-discovery is a freedom that only leads to frustration in the end. The only way to discover who you really are is to seek a relationship with the God who made you. It's about getting in touch with The Vertical Self. [Link]
What are we Singing: I Still Believe
Jeremy Camp's song, I Still Believe, written after the death of his first wife at the age of 21, holds words Peter could have easily added to his epistle. Life is upside down, but I choose to believe, they say. [Link]
Courage and Faith
An isolated man is not a courageous man, at least not for very long. [Link]
Wealth Hoarded to the Harm of Its Owner
Bill Bright, founder of Campus Crusade for Christ, used to say, "Your biggest strength can also be your biggest weakness." And believe it or not, this can be true of focusing on the future. You can over-do it and end up not enjoying life today. [Link]
Overcoming the Fear Factor
"God-sized" callings by definition exceed our human capabilities. So it all can seem to be just too much. We stand, shovel in hand, tempted to bury our talents and ignore our Master's mandate. [Link]
Five Steps to Living Debt-free
From time to time, we all need "refreshers" to pull us back onto the path that God has set before us. Here's a refresher we all need to practice: five simple steps to debt-free living. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, May 12, 2010 [Psalm 138:1-7]
I will praise you, O LORD, with all my heart; before the 'gods' I will sing your praise. I will bow down toward your holy temple and will praise your name for your love and your faithfulness, for you have exalted above all things your name and your word. When I called, you answered me; you made me bold and stouthearted. May all the kings of the earth praise you, O LORD, when they hear the words of your mouth. May they sing of the ways of the LORD, for the glory of the LORD is great. Though the LORD is on high, he looks upon the lowly, but the proud he knows from afar. Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes, with your right hand you save me. Psalm 138:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Let's score some points at home
In many marriages, the wife, not the husband, is the initiator. She says, "Let's go to the park" or "Let's go to a romantic restaurant." Well, it's time for those tables to turn. First, read more about how to reinvent a date night with her and if you need some date night ideas, we've got you covered. Then, to keep the momentum going, introduce these marriage coupons into your relationship and let us know how it goes by posting a comment on our Facebook page!Huddle up and with your wife tonight and say: "Let's_____________." [Link]
Gibson Doesn't Excite in Dull Edge of Darkness
Did you enjoy Mel Gibson in Payback or Ransom? He's on that level in Edge of Darkness. It's a decent comeback, if those movies are your idea of a good time. But it's truncated rather than taut, sluggish rather than satisfying, and dull rather than edgy. [Link]
Daybreakers Shows Vampire Genre Still Has a Heartbeat
Daybreakers takes the vampire genre in some new directions, but it can't memorably resolve its story. With strong atmosphere and respectable performances, it jolts viewers with a few shocking moments. But the filmmakers' attempts to cater to the basest impulses of today's horror-movie audiences ultimately work against the movie. [Link]
Legion Leaves Biblical Truth Behind
Legion has elements of the first coming of Christ and an apocalypse suggesting the second coming, dressed up in all sorts of religious terminology that might make viewers who don't know any better believe they're watching a Bible-based film. But Legion is nothing of the sort. It's a mess—and it can't be saved. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, May 11, 2010 [2 Corinthians 8:7-14]
But just as you excel in everything–in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us–see that you also excel in this grace of giving. I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich. And here is my advice about what is best for you in this matter: Last year you were the first not only to give but also to have the desire to do so. Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have. Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality, 2 Corinthians 8:7-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Men's dirty little secret
What's the surefire way to tell if a man has looked at porn? If he's breathing. Almost all men wrestle with pornography to some degree. 40 million men in the U.S. regularly visit porn sites on the Internet. At 13.3 billion dollars, the 2006 revenues of the sex and porn industry in the U.S. are bigger than the NFL, NBA, and Major League Baseball revenues combined. 60% of all website visits are sexual in nature and 50% of families say pornography is a problem in their home.So porn is rampant and influences many of our lives. But is it really harmful? The answer is yes, but to varying degrees depending on the individual. Pornography can cause a man to become very dissatisfied with his wife, leading to divorce. Porn can consume many hours that would otherwise be devoted to work, family or service to others. And, in some cases, porn can lead to a devastating sexual addiction.So to have a better life and a better family, pornography needs to be avoided. First, see firsthand how porn can devastate a family. Second, take our pornography quiz and see how much of an influence it plays in your life. Finally, check out our 10 Ways to Fight Pornography. Become one of the few honorable men who swims upstream in our culture.Huddle up with your teenage son tonight and ask: Have you ever been exposed to pornography? [Link]
4TROOPS: Singing for Those Who Serve
4TROOPS, a new singing group of four United States combat veterans, see their self-titled debut release this month (appropriately enough during Armed Forces Week) as they begin their mission to sing on behalf of all troops, honor their sacrifices and create awareness for their needs. [Link]
A Little Ash Goes a Long Way: Volcanoes and Hubris
Our confidence in our technological abilities is unbounded — then a minor volcano coughs and brings the modern world to a standstill. [Link]
Out of Touch with Government's First Responsibility
Our leaders in Washington seem to have lost focus on the first duty of government, which is to protect the lives and liberty of its citizens. [Link]
Who Will Be Tested Next? The Dilemma of Franklin Graham
The recent controversy about Franklin Graham is a sign of things to come. [Link]
Pastor, Prophet, Martyr, Spy: Why Bonhoeffer Still Matters
After Hitler rose to power, the Nazis tried to co-opt the German church, mixing Christian truth with Nazi doctrine. While some church leaders allowed themselves to be drawn in, Bonhoeffer refused. [Link]
What Should We Pray For?
Here is a list gathered from the New Testament. [Link]
You, Too, Are an Evangelist
What is the most important command in all of the Bible for an evangelist? [Link]
Find Joy in Raising a Boy
If you have a son, you know that a boy can be both wild and sweet. You'll encounter some hair-raising challenges while raising him to become a strong man, but you'll also enjoy the many rewards of sharing adventures with your son. [Link]
The Crusader and Mr. Hyde: A Most Unhappy Couple
I watched and listened as Ken and Lori locked horns in a needless power struggle. I've talked about how to approach Mr. Hyde in previous articles. Now let's focus on a role wives often embrace: The Crusader. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, May 10, 2010 [Matthew 6:19-23]
'Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. 'The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eyes are bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness! Matthew 6:19-23 NIV Listen [Link]
You're a great dad!
We all like encouragement right? Well, so do your kids. Do you encourage your children every day? Do you celebrate the little successes in their lives? Do you support them and their talents? That's great. But it's never too early to help them set goals and dream big. Tony Dungy's book You Can Do It! helps you do just that. Watch Tony's surprised reaction about the positive impact of his first children's book. One of Tony's reasons for writing the book was the encouragement he got from his own father. And, dads, here's a list of Phrases for Praises to help you encourage your kids today!Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: I think you are amazing because ____. [Link]
The Immigration Crisis: How Do We Begin to Solve It?
When I began thinking about this issue, I thought an easy answer would emerge—a single verse or teaching, a silver bullet to solve the problem once and for all. I was pleased to discover that the Bible goes further than I had expected to address many of the issues we face regarding immigration. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, May 9, 2010 [Galatians 4:2-6]
He is subject to guardians and trustees until the time set by his father. So also, when we were children, we were in slavery under the basic principles of the world. But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law, to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons. Because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, 'Abba, Father.' Galatians 4:2-6 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, May 8, 2010 [Galatians 5:13-15]
You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. The entire law is summed up in a single command: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. Galatians 5:13-15 NIV [Link]
Babies is an Adorable Peek into the Minds of Infants
With no narration, subtitles and little in the way of actual cultural subtext, Babies definitely isn't your ordinary documentary. In fact, French filmmaker Thomas Balmes is content to let the audience draw its own conclusions as he beautifully captures the first year of four very different babies' lives. [Link]
MOTHER'S DAY
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Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, May 7, 2010 [Romans 12:3-8]
For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to hisfaith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully. Romans 12:3-8 NIV Listen [Link]
What not to do this Mother's Day
Here is a prime example of how to handle Mother's Day poorly. Instead, do something really special for your mother this year and encourage your kids to do the same for theirs. Perhaps instead of candy or flowers, it's a gift certificate to a day spa or a romantic getaway to a bed and breakfast. Go out of your way to make her feel special. She deserves it.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What's something really special we can do for Mom? http://www.allprodad.com/page.php?id=220 [Link]
Iron Man 2 Suffices as a Serviceable Sequel
There are no real high points in Iron Man 2—no standout scenes that will have audiences talking as they leave the theater—but the overall product is sufficient to satisfy audiences in search of another dose of the Iron Man franchise. If it's not a sharper Iron, neither is it a duller one. [Link]
Tooth Fairy Doesn't Offer Much to Smile About
If you think the sight of The Rock in a pink tutu and oversized sparkly wings is funny, well, Tooth Fairy is the movie for you. After all, the screenwriters get a lot of mileage out of seeing the former wrestler play a has-been hockey star forced to reveal his softer, fairy side. [Link]
Mother’s Day and Mixed Emotions
Mother's Day can bring mixed emotions. The idyllic imagery of motherhood often doesn't match up with the reality that the relationships involved are often far more complicated than we wish. If Mother's Day is bittersweet for you, here's some encouragement from God's word. [Link]
Forever Mother
Separation. Pulling apart. A growing need for freedom. They are healthy, important parts of becoming an independent human being. But don't let the modern culture twist that truth into a lie that says your teenagers or adult children don't need mothering. They do. [Link]
Mary: A Mother in a Class By Herself?
A study of the life and faith of this very special mother can help the rest of us find that place of assurance and fulfill God's purposes in our own lives, as well as in the lives of our children. [Link]
Expect the Expected with Robbie Seay Band's Miracle
Robbie Seay Band's Miracle, features everything you've come to expect and not much else. In this case that's completely and totally fine, because whoever's in charge of the melodies here might just be the finest songsmith in the genre. [Link]
Nashville Begins Cleanup after '500-Year Flood'
Nashville watched the Cumberland River continue its slow return to its banks on Wednesday, giving back famous landmarks previously under water. Many homes, however, remain swamped and uninsured. [Link]
Workplace Religious Freedom Bill Finds Revived Interest
An on-again off-again bill to protect employees' religious expression in the workplace is attracting renewed attention that could lead to action on Capitol Hill in coming weeks. [Link]
The Public Consequences of Religious Apathy
Theological indifference may seem like no big deal in an age where moral relativism and the cult of the individual reign, but it's worth considering Francis Schaeffer's argument… [Link]
Leadership: Little Things Mean a Lot
Small gestures can set the tone for a leader. [Link]
Preaching with Bold Assurance: An Interview with Hershael York
Millennials have a great challenge because they are far more accustomed to communicating via texts, emails, and blogs than they are orally. The biggest mistake I see is when preachers preach like writers, concentrating more on the specific words that they want to say-–basically reading the sermon-–than on communicating with a real audience. [Link]
It’s Getting Dangerous Out There: A Preacher Is Arrested in Britain
We have seen this coming for some time now. The public space has been closing, especially when it comes to Christian speech — and especially when that speech is about homosexuality. [Link]
Forecasting Follies
In a sense, the financial markets aren't much different than the Kentucky Derby. Consulting the collective wisdom of experts does not guarentee a "win." [Link]
Workplace Religious Freedom Bill Finds Revived Interest
An on-again off-again bill to protect employees' religious expression in the workplace is attracting renewed attention that could lead to action on Capitol Hill in coming weeks. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, May 6, 2010 [Philippians 4:10-13]
I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you have been concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:10-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Should I Pray for the Job I Really Want?
A friend sent an email asking a question that many people have wondered about when facing big decisions. [Link]
Workplace Religious Freedom Bill Finds Revived Interest
An on-again off-again bill to protect employees' religious expression in the workplace is attracting renewed attention that could lead to action on Capitol Hill in coming weeks. [Link]
What is prayer anyway?
Today is the National Day of Prayer, and most people think it's good to pray, but what is prayer anyway? Chanting? Reciting something from an old hymnal? Could be. But really simply, it's talking to God from your heart. It could be on your knees by your bed or simply in your car on the way to work. Prayer is the most transformative action you can take in your life. Things happen when you pray. But as comedian Tim Hawkins notes, you better be careful what you pray.Here is one of the best prayers ever. Finally, Tony Dungy shares about something he prayed for that he did not get and how that ended up being a blessing. Huddle up with each of your children tonight and pray with them before bed. [Link]
He Said-She Said: The Desires of Your Heart
A reader asks: "It's been two years since my last relationship, and I'm still single with that same desire for marriage—only it is stronger than before. At what point will I know if this desire is from the Lord or my flesh?" Read more to see how "he" and "she" have responded. [Link]
The Gulf of Mexico and the Care of Creation
Do some environmentalists reject the dignity of humanity? Yes. Do some replace the reverence for creation with that due the Creator? Of course. This happens in the same way some do the same thing with reverence for economic profit or any other finite thing. There’s nothing conservative though, and nothing “evangelical,” about dismissing the conservation of the natural environment. [Link]
The Finance Reform Bill: Special Interests or the Common Good?
We must seek the welfare of the city—or, in this case, country—where God has placed us. We need to pray that both houses of Congress will do the right thing by the country. [Link]
Despite Controversy, National Day of Prayer's Legacy Continues
Despite recent rulings and withdrawn invitations, the 59th National Day of Prayer will move forward, carrying on a centuries-old legacy. [Link]
Mother's Day: What’s a Stepmom to Do?
One of the reasons Mother's Day can evoke so much emotion is because many stepmoms feel as though they have all of the pain, frustrations, financial strain, and difficulty of being a parent, but none of the rewards or joy. Here are some ways husbands can take the lead to make Mother's Day a special day for their wives. [Link]
Dealing with the Aggressor in Your Life
This CrazyMaker kicked up dust on the playground as a child bully and continues to do so in adult life… [Link]
Forgiving the "Other Woman"
I never considered that betrayal would enter my marriage. One question kept coming to the forefront: How could one woman do this to another? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, May 5, 2010 [Psalm 92:9-15]
For surely your enemies, O LORD, surely your enemies will perish; all evildoers will be scattered. You have exalted my horn like that of a wild ox; fine oils have been poured upon me. My eyes have seen the defeat of my adversaries; my ears have heard the rout of my wicked foes. The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, 'The LORD is upright; he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him.' Psalm 92:9-15 NIV Listen [Link]
Before the Mississippi was mighty
Have you ever seen the beginning of the Mississippi River? If not, see it here. You might be surprised. You can actually walk across it. It's amazing how great and mighty things can start small. And it's the same in our lives. It's amazing how even the smallest adjustment in what we do can reap rewards far beyond our imagination. Hear from Tony Dungy on how paying attention to the little things in life can lead to big payoffs in the end.Huddle up with your family tonight and ask: What is a small adjustment can I make that will make me a better father? [Link]
Preacher's Kid Doesn't Sing
It's not that the message of Preacher's Kid (directed by Stan Foster) is bad. Its message good. But the movie's execution of this truth is where it fails miserably. The script is poor. The acting is amateurish. And the music uninspiring. [Link]
Choosing a Bible Translation
Before the year 1881, you had three choices for an English Bible translation: the KJV, the KJV, or the KJV. Obviously, this is no longer the case. How did the King James Version get dethroned? Which translation is best today? Are any of the modern translations faithful to the original? [Link]
Jennifer Knapp & Larry King: Why We Always Lose this Debate
Why is it that whenever we see a proponent of Christianity's historical view of sexuality going head to head on TV with an advocate for "gay rights," the traditional Christian almost always loses the argument? I think it has a lot to do with how the discussion is framed. [Link]
The Christian Atheist
The Christian Atheist, by recovering Christian Atheist Craig Groeschel, is an honest, hard-hitting and eye-opening look into the ways people believe in God but live as if he doesn't exist. Groeschel's own journey will immerse you and challenge you into a deeper, Christ-filled life. Read an excerpt. [Link]
Straight from The Middle: Patricia Heaton on Mother's Day
Patricia Heaton just wants to be "left alone." Not all the time, mind you. But definitely on Mother's Day—and that's whether she's playing Frankie on ABC's hit sitcom, The Middle, or at home in real life with her husband and four boys. [Link]
Please Give Offers Plenty
Anyone who has ever lived in a big city will have their heart touched and their funny bone tickled by this sober comedy, directed by Nicole Holofcener, who has become known not only for her thoughtful films, but also for her television directorial credits. [Link]
Top 10 Articles of April 2010
This month's articles are all about dealing with life's hidden details. Hiding our hearts in Christ, removing the shame of unemployment, when to keep secrets from our spouses and more are discussed in this month's features. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, May 4, 2010 [Jeremiah 31:3-5]
The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: 'I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness. I will build you up again and you will be rebuilt, O Virgin Israel. Again you will take up your tambourines and go out to dance with the joyful. Again you will plant vineyards on the hills of Samaria; the farmers will plant them and enjoy their fruit. Jeremiah 31:3-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Tame the media monster
Recently there was a fellow in Oregon who purchased one of those new-fangled televisions. Unbeknownst to him, this particular device inadvertently emitted the International Distress Signal and he soon had law enforcement banging at his front door. As amusing as this story is, as a parent you probably wish your television would emit sirens whenever something came on that could harm your children. Well, there are actually some great tools to help you navigate those troubled waters. Set a schedule and only allow your kids to watch certain, pre-approved programs at certain times. You may even want to record them so your children can fast-forward through any objectionable commercials. Here's our 10 ways to monitor media in your child's life. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What are your favorite shows and why? Why or why not? [Link]
Leap Year Has Some Classic Movie Charm
In what's basically a remake of Frank Capra's It Happened One Night set in the always-photogenic Irish countryside, Amy Adams and Matthew Goode do manage some winsome chemistry a la Clark Gable and Claudette Colbert in Leap Year. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, May 3, 2010 [Hebrews 10:11-18]
Day after day every priest stands and performs his religious duties; again and again he offers the same sacrifices, which can never take away sins. But when this priest had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God. Since that time he waits for his enemies to be made his footstool, because by one sacrifice he has made perfect forever those who are being made holy. The Holy Spirit also testifies to us about this. First he says: 'This is the covenant I will make with them after that time, says the Lord. I will put my laws in their hearts, and I will write them on their minds.' Then he adds: 'Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more.' And where these have been forgiven, there is no longer any sacrifice for sin. Hebrews 10:11-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Preserve your family memories
To start gathering your family memories, arrange for a time to "interview" your subject. Your subject can be anyone from yourself (you get to be the interviewer and the interviewee), your spouse, a parent, grandparent or favorite relative. This may take a little time and effort, but don't feel that you have to do it all in one sitting! You can spread the interview out over weeks and months. Just be sure to do it!! Your kids will thank you for it.You can preserve the interview by videotaping it. Virtually every cell phone has a video camera feature. There's no need to even go out and buy expensive equipment anymore! But if you want to, there are great digital video cameras available that will allow you to make a memory with near professional results. Your family memories are a treasure and worth the investment. We've put together a free info sheet of great questions to ask. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: When and who should we record first? [Link]
Don't Let Your "Yes Buts" Impact Your Potential
Do you dislike your job? And, do you have a host of "yes, buts" to explain why you're still in work that doesn't fit you? [Link]
What Is Your Red Sea Calling?
Will you go to the ends of the earth to meet God? It is easy to say yes, we would give up something we haven't yet been asked to sacrifice. Or that yes, we would always be true and faithful to God when that faith hasn't been tested in a severe way. But would we? [Link]
Do You Long For the Goodness of Life?
Do you wonder why godly life principles, a sense of honor and moral restraint, graciousness, and propriety are slipping away? Have you considered it might be because we have lost our sense of the fear of God? [Link]
Researchers Probe Whether, Why, 'Free Will' Exists
A four-year research project at Florida State University aims to determine whether, and how, free will exists, and whether people are really responsible for the things they do. [Link]
What I've Learned about Preaching
Preaching is as much an art as a science, and one man's method may not help someone else. My only qualification to address this topic comes from 40 years of trying to preach. [Link]
Confessional History
What's the difference between the kind of history that scholars write today and the history that we see presented in the Bible? Why do most Christians seem content with ideas about God that are disconnected from the narrative, earthy revelation of Him? [Link]
Finance Q&A: Will Canceling Credit Cards Hurt My Credit Score?
Dear Deborah: I recently received a copy of my credit report and saw that there are a lot of old credit cards that we no longer use. Should we write to the companies and cancel these credit cards? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, May 2, 2010 [Luke 8:16-18]
'No one lights a lamp and hides it in a jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, he puts it on a stand, so that those who come in can see the light. For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open. Therefore consider carefully how you listen. Whoever has will be given more; whoever does not have, even what he thinks he has will be taken from him.' Luke 8:16-18 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, May 1, 2010 [Matthew 6:25-28]
'Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 'And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Matthew 6:25-28 NIV [Link]
Furry Vengeance is a Shameless Attack on Good Taste
Consider yourself warned: Furry Vengeance is truly the worst movie I've screened this year. And trust me, I've already reviewed some doozies (Tooth Fairy, Cop Out and The Bounty Hunter, for starters). [Link]
Crazy Heart Tells It Like It Is
It's an old tale told a thousand times—the washed up, boozed up, aging singer, who's making his rounds at bars and music dumps, hoping for one more chance at life and love. That's Crazy Heart in a nutshell. And that's where this review would end if it were not for a stellar performance by Jeff Bridges. [Link]
When Your Spouse Doesn't Share Your Christian Faith
When Jennifer married, she didn't realize the seriousness of committing herself in marriage to a man who didn't share her faith. For more than 35 years she has been married to a man who wants "nothing to do with religion." [Link]
Prayer Is Good Policy: Why We Need a National Day of Prayer
It might be that any given politician is a hypocrite mouthing pious platitudes of false humility, but it does our princes good to be forced to bow their heads. [Link]
Kyrgyzstan's Revolution Leaves Growing Orphans in Limbo
The Kyrgyzstan revolution has thrown families in America in limbo as they wait to finalize their adoptions. If their children reach age 16 before the adoptions are finalized, it may be too late. [Link]
Forgotten Girls: Behind Prison Bars in Pakistan
"You wrote that women in Pakistan suffer. But something else is also true. Young girls are languishing in our Pakistani prisons for the crime of being victims and asking for help." [Link]
Clumsy Glaen Still Has a Good Message
Fred R. Lybrand, a retired pastor, uses the medium of fiction to offer his perspective on love and relationships in Glaen. And because he's so obvious about it, the reader can forgive the clumsy "story" and focus on the message within it. [Link]
Point of Grace Goes Country on No Changin' Us
Point of Grace has brought on producer Nathan Chapman, unleashing the Nashville machine on all 11 tracks on No Changin' Us. And from suddenly truncated verb endings to enhanced accents to pedal steel, the points have officially gone country. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, April 30, 2010 [1 Thessalonians 4:14-18]
We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage each other with these words. 1 Thessalonians 4:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Bill Cosby's marital advice
Bill Cosby says, "Women don't want to hear what you think. Women want to hear what they think – in a deeper voice." Humorous for sure and probably correct in some cases. But actually, women want to hear that you have been listening. Women equate listening with caring and loving. But listening requires patience and time – two altogether rare commodities in most of us. If you really want to improve your marriage, improve your listening. Need proof that your brain and her brain don't think the same? Watch this incredibly funny video. Here are the 10 signs that you are a good listener.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask (we dare you): Do you think I do a good job listening to you? [Link]
Surfer Bethany Hamilton Inspires on Extreme Makeover: Home Edition
Tune in to ABC's popular Extreme Makeover: Home Edition on Sunday night, May 2, 2010, as Bethany Hamilton, a surfer made famous for losing her arm in a shark attack, makes a guest appearance and spends time with a physically challenged family. [Link]
Ruth: Sex, Race, and God's Sovereignty at Work
Ruth is a very old book. How is it relevant and helpful for life today? John Piper discusses seven reasons why this book of love, ethnicity, and God's sovereignty deserves our attention. [Link]
Grief Work
I tricked him, not so he would feel grief but so he would feel relief, which came through grieving. [Link]
Wedding Modesty: Has it Gone Out of Style?
You're not alone if you have become increasingly grieved by the immodesty of brides and bridesmaids at "Christian" weddings in recent years. Is anyone asking anymore whether or not God is glorified by what is worn and done? [Link]
Dealing with the Egotist in Your Life
You know them by the size of their voices, the size of their accomplishments and the size of their egos. The Egotist is grandiose, arrogant and completely full of themselves… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, April 29, 2010 [2 Peter 1:2-4]
Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. 2 Peter 1:2-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Are You Unselfish?
What does an others-centered person look like? Larry Scandin can tell you. Actually he can show you. If each one of us reading this email reached one foster child, what might our world look like? Or, as Tony Dungy talks about, why adoption instead of foster care can be even more wonderful.Huddle up, share the video with your wife tonight and ask: would you like to explore fostering or adoption? [Link]
Expert John Rosemond Urges a Return to Common Sense Parenting
John Rosemond, author of nearly a dozen books on parenting, calls on today's parents to return to the parenting principles of an earlier generation. [Link]
Moms: Should You Find a Mentor for Your Daughter?
It takes a choir surrounding a soloist to really highlight her voice; in the same way, loving adults surrounding your daughter will make her life sing… [Link]
A Positive Life
Written for anyone who wants to appreciate life to the fullest, A Positive Life reveals nine basic yet powerful lessons for living with passionate faith and joy. Through his story of living with HIV, Shane Stanford helps readers find contentment in their own lives, no matter the circumstances. [Link]
The Walls of Jericho: Why the Golden Age of Film Ended
Thomas Doherty, author of Pre-Code Hollywood, claimed that the "most vivid and compelling motion pictures" ever made were created "under the most severe and narrow-minded censorship." Why? [Link]
Seeing Life: Evaluating Nebraska's Fetal Pain Act
A groundbreaking new law restricting abortion in Nebraska is getting a lot of attention from pro-abortion forces. And well it should. [Link]
From Megacity to “Metacity” — The Shape of the Future
If the Christian church does not learn new modes of urban ministry, we will find ourselves on the outside looking in. The Gospel of Jesus Christ must call a new generation of committed Christians into these teeming cities. As these new numbers make clear, there really is no choice. [Link]
Free to Choose What's Right in the Free Market
What's so great about the "free" market and why is it worth preserving? And if regulation isn't the answer to Wall Street's excesses, what is? [Link]
Why Bankruptcy Is Not the Answer
"If you cannot get out of your financial mess in two years, you should consider filing for personal bankruptcy." I can't tell you how much I disagree with that advice, but I can give you the top three reasons. [Link]
Reverse Mortgages: They’re At It Again
Today we're hearing more and more about something called the reverse mortgage. What is it, and where does it fall on "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly" spectrum? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, April 28, 2010 [2 Corinthians 4:13-18]
It is written: 'I believed; therefore I have spoken.'With that same spirit of faith we also believe and therefore speak, because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence. All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God. Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Do your kids get test anxiety?
It's a natural reaction, but there are three ways you can help them. First, make sure they're prepared. If they have an exam on Thursday, check in with them on Monday. If they're overwhelmed, break down their material into small chunks. Next, keep them relaxed. Get outside and throw the ball with them, go for ice cream or do something to make them laugh. Finally, make sure they get enough sleep the night before their test. All-nighters rarely pay off. Do you know the 10 ways to make your child smarter? Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you get really nervous before you take a test? [Link]
Seeing Life: Evaluating Nebraska's Fetal Pain Act
A groundbreaking new law restricting abortion in Nebraska is getting a lot of attention from pro-abortion forces. And well it should. [Link]
Dealing with the Egotist in Your Life
You know them by the size of their voices, the size of their accomplishments and the size of their egos. The Egotist is grandiose, arrogant and completely full of themselves… [Link]
Expert John Rosemond Urges a Return to Common Sense Parenting
John Rosemond, author of nearly a dozen books on parenting, calls on today's parents to return to the parenting principles of an earlier generation. [Link]
Before You Say "I Do" to a Pre-Nup…
In an era of frequent marital break-ups, our culture often portrays those getting married without a pre-nup as either foolish or naive. But is applying our culture's wisdom on this issue the best choice for Christian couples? [Link]
The Pill Turns 50 — TIME Considers the Contraceptive Revolution
TIME magazine's current cover story puts the issue of the Pill and birth control front and center in our cultural conversation. It should be an important part of our Christian conversation as well. [Link]
Ten Things to Know about Healthy Leadership
How do we distinguish healthy from unhealthy leadership? Here are 10 places to start. [Link]
God's Word through Multiple Voices: Sennacherib's Invasion of Judah
The Bible has been the world’s bestseller not only because it discloses God and gives meaning to our lives, but also because it is good reading. One of the greatest personal discoveries for readers of the Bible is to step beyond favorite verses and stories and start comparing Scripture with Scripture. [Link]
Graduating from Hard Knock U!
Some things we learn only by experience! I never will forget the pain, but far more important, I will never forget the lessons. The memory of a broken heart can remain for a lifetime, but the things we learn in the University of Hard Knocks are good for eternity. [Link]
It's Inconceivable Just How Bad The Back-up Plan Is
Even if someone manages to suspend his/her disbelief and buys into this lamely conceived plotline, however, there's nothing about The Back-up Plan that has any resonance in the real world. Not only is the dialogue incredibly unbelievable from the get-go, but the characters are just plain kooky. [Link]
Meryl Streep Shines Once Again in It's Complicated
Between serving up a pitch-perfect portrayal of Julia Child in this summer's Julie & Julia, voicing George Clooney's wife in Fantastic Mr. Fox and proving that 50 is apparently the new 30 in the saucy rom-com It's Complicated, it's been another dazzling year in cinema for the Oscar winner. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, April 27, 2010 [Psalm 7:9-17]
O righteous God, who searches minds and hearts, bring to an end the violence of the wicked and make the righteous secure. My shield is God Most High, who saves the upright in heart. God is a righteous judge, a God who expresses his wrath every day. If he does not relent, he will sharpen his sword; he will bend and string his bow. He has prepared his deadly weapons; he makes ready his flaming arrows. He who is pregnant with evil and conceives trouble gives birth to disillusionment. He who digs a hole and scoops it out falls into the pit he has made. The trouble he causes recoils on himself; his violence comes down on his own head. I will give thanks to the LORD because of his righteousness and will sing praise to the name of the LORD Most High. Psalm 7:9-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Your sarcasm tears up your children
According to Webster, the word "sarcasm" derives from a Greek verb that literally means "to tear flesh." Anyone who has suffered from sharp, cutting, or wounding sarcastic remarks probably wasn't surprised to learn that. You know, it's easy for fathers to be sarcastic with their kids and to unintentionally wound them deeply. The father who pokes fun at his daughter for her weight gain… or who chides his son for showing emotion… he may think it's all in good fun, but it can have devastating and long term consequences. Asking yourself the question, "Is what I'm saying ultimately building up my children?" will go a long way in curbing unnecessary jesting. Hear from Tony about substituting sarcastic comments for encouraging ones for our children. And then see a powerful clip of a coach encouraging his player to push the limits. Finally, here are ten specific compliments to give your children. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do I consistently say things to you that hurt you? [Link]
Imagination Reaches Overload in The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus
The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus is so bursting with visual wonders and ideas about faith and belief that one viewing can't do it justice. With only time for one viewing, this reviewer absorbed enough, however, to understand that, despite some memorable moments, the film is a disjointed mess. [Link]
Meryl Streep Shines Once Again in It's Complicated
Between serving up a pitch-perfect portrayal of Julia Child in this summer's Julie & Julia, voicing George Clooney's wife in Fantastic Mr. Fox and proving that 50 is apparently the new 30 in the saucy rom-com It's Complicated, it's been another dazzling year in cinema for the Oscar winner. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, April 26, 2010 [James 2:8-13]
If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, 'Love your neighbor as yourself,' you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. For he who said, 'Do not commit adultery,' also said, 'Do not murder.' If you do not commit adultery but do commit murder, you have become a lawbreaker. Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment! James 2:8-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Undercover at Thomas Road: An Interview with Gina Welch
Atheist Gina Welch faked a conversion experience, got baptized, and spent two years at Thomas Road Baptist Church. She even participated in evangelism on a mission trip. Her detailed journal became a best-selling book relating her journey into evangelical America. Read Trevin Wax's intriguing exchange with her here… [Link]
Legal Skirmish Colors National Day of Prayer
On Thursday (April 22), the Justice Department said it would appeal the decision, capping a week of political uproar from conservatives after Judge Barbara Crabb issued her ruling. [Link]
Does Lady Liberty Need a Mate?
The Statue of Responsibility Foundation is raising money to bookend the continental United States with a second statue on an island in the harbor of an as yet undetermined West Coast city. Why? [Link]
“The Year of Our Lord” — Diploma Trouble in Texas
A group of students at Trinity University in San Antonio is petitioning the administration to remove the words "in the year of our Lord" from the school's diplomas. [Link]
Do You Have a CrazyMaker in Your Life?
A small dose of CrazyMaking is enough to ruin an otherwise healthy relationship. In the following weeks, Dr. David Hawkins will explain the five most common types of Crazymakers and how you can effectively deal with their destructive behaviors. [Link]
Clear Up Communication Confusion in Your Marriage
When we talk so the other understands us, we can use our energy to move forward in life. Here's how Mark and Kym Wright overcome communication obstacles. [Link]
The Single Life: Swap Your Way into a New Spring Wardrobe
If shopping your own closet doesn't sound so great, why not try shopping in your friends' closets, instead? Here's how to do that and not get busted for burglary: organize a swap meet. It's fun, it's virtually free, and it's even "green." [Link]
Tony, Tiger and a Grrrrreat Little Golfer
There's been a lot of negative talk lately about one golf prodigy, Tiger Woods, but today let's focus on another, Kyle Lograsso. What makes him unbelievably special is not his sweet swing, but his sweet spirit in overcoming a seemingly insurmountable obstacle.And Tony Dungy has some timely encouragement for Tiger Woods.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What is the hardest thing you have ever had to overcome? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, April 25, 2010 [Mark 13:32-37]
'No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. Be on guard! Be alert! You do not know when that time will come. It's like a man going away: He leaves his house and puts his servants in charge, each with his assigned task, and tells the one at the door to keep watch. 'Therefore keep watch because you do not know when the owner of the house will come back–whether in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or at dawn. If he comes suddenly, do not let him find you sleeping. What I say to you, I say to everyone: 'Watch!' ' Mark 13:32-37 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, April 24, 2010 [Mark 13:5-10]
Jesus said to them: 'Watch out that no one deceives you. Many will come in my name, claiming, 'I am he,' and will deceive many. When you hear of wars and rumors of wars, do not be alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in various places, and famines. These are the beginning of birth pains. 'You must be on your guard. You will be handed over to the local councils and flogged in the synagogues. On account of me you will stand before governors and kings as witnesses to them. And the gospel must first be preached to all nations. Mark 13:5-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, April 23, 2010 [Proverbs 28:12-16]
When the righteous triumph, there is great elation; but when the wicked rise to power, men go into hiding. He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy. Blessed is the man who always fears the LORD, but he who hardens his heart falls into trouble. Like a roaring lion or a charging bear is a wicked man ruling over a helpless people. A tyrannical ruler lacks judgment, but he who hates ill-gotten gain will enjoy a long life. Proverbs 28:12-16 NIV Listen [Link]
How to Do Something
God doesn't intend for you to shrink back from the needs around you; He wants to use your life to help others. In fact, God has uniquely created you to meet certain needs and is hoping you'll accept your mission. [Link]
Beth Moore Helps Women Say Goodbye to Insecurity
In Beth Moore's new book So Long, Insecurity: You've been a Bad Friend to Us, women learn ways to say "goodbye" to insecurity and "hello" to the confidence God wants you to enjoy. [Link]
Seize the Day!
Every day our lives are filled with possibilities and opportunities to advance the Kingdom of God. So how do you we "seize the day" as it says in The Message paraphrase of Luke 9:62? [Link]
The Losers Lacks Passion, and a Point
Written by Peter Berg and James Vanderbilt and based on a series of comic books, The Losers wants to pay homage to its comic roots but never gives us a reason to care about its characters or to believe this story needed a big-screen adaptation. [Link]
Jonathan Acuff: He Knows About Stuff Christians Like
He's the guy sitting next to you in the church pew—remember those?—except he's the one making the observations out loud. You know, the ones you're only thinking in your head. Now, the creator of Stuffchristianslike.net has turned his popular, satirical blog into a book of the same name. [Link]
Everything Really Is Different Now on Stellar Kart's Latest
Even though the perpetually fun fab four known as Stellar Kart still perform hyper-energetic pop/punk/rock on stage night after night, there's a maturation process at work on their fourth full-length studio recording, Everything Is Different Now. [Link]
A Committed Divorced Father
Mark, a Play of the Day e-mail subscriber, writes, "I am the father of seven wonderful children – four from a previous marriage (three boys and one girl) and three boys from my present marriage. During my 1st marriage, I would wrestle with thoughts of falling short as a father, and going through a divorce only amplified those feelings. I cried myself to sleep many nights, and after dropping off the older children at their mother's house after my times of visitation, I would not be able to go straight home and face the pain of no children to greet me. I can understand why some non-custodial fathers move away from their children – not because they do not love their children, but because of the pain and the emotional roller coaster they go through. It is their way of dealing with their pain, or should I say their way of not dealing with it. I do not agree with this action, but I can understand their motivation. In order to stay close to my children and remain involved in their lives, I turned down several promotional opportunities with my employer that would have moved me away from my children. After buying a home in the same school district as my older children and attempting to gain joint custody of my older children, my ex-wife moved to a small town 45 minutes away. At the time of this move, my older children were aged 7 – 13. Even though it was not that far away, it prevented joint custody from becoming possible and made it more difficult to see my children as often, especially their school activities…"Find out the rest of Mark's story and how to stay connected to your children. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What can I do to stay more connected with you? [Link]
In China, Aid Groups Still Hard at Work after Three Earthquakes
Earthquake relief agencies continue to perform in a humanitarian relay race that began in Haiti, continued into Chile and is now in China. [Link]
Keep Your List Short
"If you want to be a Christian who makes a difference in this world, read your Bible with an eye toward making a list of those things you're willing to go to war over, and then never compromise on that list. But keep it short." [Link]
Volcanic Ash Strands Mission Groups, Adoptive Parents
Among the millions of would-be air travelers stranded worldwide by volcanic ash from the Eyjafjallajokull glacier in Iceland are 22 members of a Salvation Army mission team… [Link]
Why Ethics Matters: The SEC vs. Goldman Sachs
If the SEC's allegations are true, then at the very least we are witnessing a real breakdown in ethics—people, ordinary men and women, failing to "do the right thing." [Link]
Subsidizing Bad Behavior: Mining for Tort Reform
The tragedy of Upper Big Branch mine demonstrates the inadequacy of regulations alone, and it highlights the vital importance of our nation's civil justice system. [Link]
Re-thinking the Investment in Higher Education
The exploding costs (and related debt) associated with getting a Bachelor's degree, along with relatively fewer attractive new jobs for college grads, should prompt parents and students to reconsider whether four (or more) years of college is the best approach. [Link]
Alter Your Attitude to Change Your Circumstances
How long does it take for your attitude to plummet into the "zone of negativity"? One of the keys to living your calling — that is, doing the things God is calling you to do with your life — is learning that you are in control of your attitude. [Link]
Is Your Car Payment Holding You Back?
In order to live in financial freedom it's essential to avoid financing vehicles. Think it's impossible to cut out your car payment? It doesn't have to be… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, April 22, 2010 [Ecclesiastes 3:10-14]
I have seen the burden God has laid on men. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil–this is the gift of God. I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that men will revere him. Ecclesiastes 3:10-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Do you know how to break the cycle of divorce?
If you grew up in a home impacted by divorce, does that mean you're destined for a break-up too? Absolutely not. Even though studies show that children of divorce are more likely to divorce, you can break the cycle. How? Have a mindset of lifetime commitment that you can and will work through the rough spots. Of couples who contemplate divorce but stay together, studies show they end up being much happier than those who called it quits. Here are the 10 ways to divorce-proof your marriage.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "Can we commit to never use the "D" word?" [Link]
Sara Groves: Her Confession Continues on Fireflies and Songs
In what is Sara Groves' ninth album, the singer/songwriter takes the listener down a road of confession and relationship. After 15 years of marriage, Sara says year seven brought various challenges. Fireflies and Songs tackles those relational hurdles similar to what many couples face. [Link]
The Male Church Leader's Guide to Female Conflict Resolution
Just like in Paul’s day, male leaders today often find they are called to help women in the Church make peace. But, do you understand basic differences in the way men and women process conflict? [Link]
Together for What?
Compromise is bad. Cooperation is good. But how do you tell the difference? What are the doctrinal positions for which we need to contend, and what are the ones about which we can disagree with charity and love? [Link]
Singles in the Church: The Bride's Sibling Revival
Respecting our brothers and sisters in Christ takes on even greater significance when considering how we singles model the Bride of Christ through our interpersonal relationships. So, let's participate in the marriage analogy as we live out our daily lives within our communities of faith! [Link]
Should We Ever Spank our Children?
Time with CNN reports on a new study by researchers at Tulane University that indicates spanking children leads to more aggressive behavior. The analysts claim to have controlled for other variables that could account for aggressive behavior in children including alcohol abuse by the parents or violence between the parents, etc. [Link]
Do Adopted Children Have More Problems?
The world is an uproar over an adoptive family in Tennessee who put their 7-year-old boy on an unaccompanied one-way flight back to Russia. It is good to understand the issues that surround adoption because understanding brings a family to a different response, a calmer approach to handling conflict… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, April 21, 2010 [2 Samuel 22:1-7]
David sang to the LORD the words of this song when the LORD delivered him from the hand of all his enemies and from the hand of Saul. He said: 'The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge and my savior–from violent men you save me. I call to the LORD, who is worthy of praise, and I am saved from my enemies. 'The waves of death swirled about me; the torrents of destruction overwhelmed me. The cords of the grave coiled around me; the snares of death confronted me. In my distress I called to the LORD; I called out to my God. From his temple he heard my voice; my cry came to his ears. 2 Samuel 22:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Purity can have a nice ring to it
The following comes from a Play of the Day subscriber: "Because of your article on the purity ring idea, my husband followed through on your suggestion to give one to our 16-year-old daughter. Wow, what an impact! He and I discussed what he would say for a few weeks, letting the ideas sink in and gel. Then on our date night, we picked out the ring together. The next night was their date night, and after the meal at the restaurant, he told her that he was making the promise to be the best dad to her and the best husband to her mother (me). He then told her that the promise he wanted from her was to save herself for her soul mate husband. As a symbol of that promise (and then he pulled out the boxed ring), he wanted her to wear this until her mate replaced it. She was blown away. She told me later that she was telling herself to not cry – she was that moved. I told her that every time she looked at the ring, to think of her husband and to say a prayer for him – that he was out there. Thank you so much for the suggestion. It was made at the perfect time, God's time, in our lives."Here's 10 ways to talk to your kids about sex. A great time to give your teenager a purity ring is during their blessing ceremony.Hear what Tony Dungy has to say about talking to teenage girls about purity.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What do you think of this purity ring idea for our kids? [Link]
Prozac and Piety: Are We Hardwired for Faith?
Anthropologist Lionel Tiger recently described what he called "relatively friendly challenges" to religious experience from scientific research. [Link]
Uniquely Female: The Scriptural Blueprint for Femininity
God created woman from the side of man, so she's made of the same stuff—equal to man. But He didn't create her at the same time, place, or from dust, so she's also different. Here are six markers of complementarity that can be observed in the creation of woman. [Link]
Death Toll Nears 2,000 in China's Earthquake
The death toll from last Wednesday’s earthquake has climbed to almost 2,000 Monday, even as three survivors were pulled from the rubble. [Link]
When Adoption Fails, the Gospel is Denied
The picture of that tiny boy, sent back to a Russian orphanage, simply breaks the human heart. Of course, far more is at stake here, for Christians understand that adoption is a central metaphor of our salvation in Christ. [Link]
God Bless Glenn Beck, Our National Fool
Fools entertain us, but they educate us while we laugh. This edutainment has limited value, but sometimes foolish rulers have to be answered by fools foolishly if they are to end their folly. [Link]
O'Connor's Latest Award: An Implicit Plea to Christian Writers – Part 2
When the National Book Foundation chose Flannery O'Connor's "Selected Stories," they chose a writer whose "grotesque characters" were a reproach to a sinful society. They chose a writer and a Christian who vividly, and sometimes violently depicted man's true state, and who then pointed to his need for redemption. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, April 20, 2010 [Colossians 1:9-12]
For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. Colossians 1:9-12 NIV Listen [Link]
What the government doesn't want you to know about schools
In 1966, the Coleman Report, the result of the largest social science project in history, reached a conclusion so "seismic" — Senator Daniel Patrick Moynihan's description — that the U.S. government almost refused to publish it. Released quietly on the Fourth of July weekend, the report concluded that the types of homes that children come from matter much more than how much money the government gives their school. Common sense perhaps. But politically incorrect.So with that being said, if we can raise the quality of the families children come from, schools will improve dramatically. But how? Our All Pro Dad's Day program is designed to do just that. It's a monthly breakfast for fathers and children that features good food, outstanding fun and meaningful conversation between fathers and their children. So if you want to make your child's school better, become a Team Captain for us, and have your wife become an iMOM Morning Leader. Together, we can improve our educational system dramatically.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: Do you think we can do this to help our school's families? [Link]
Costumes, Art Direction Trump Performances in The Young Victoria
The Young Victoria is not the best film currently playing, or even a particularly good one, because the story has a split personality. But some beautiful interior shots and costuming compensate somewhat for this period piece's identity crisis. [Link]
Heartbreak Overshadowed by Special Effects in The Lovely Bones
Those hoping for glimpses of Peter Jackson's stunning foray into dream-like drama with 1994's Heavenly Creatures will be sorely disappointed in The Lovely Bones. Not only does it lack the book's emotional gravitas, but the choice of garish, Cirque du Soleil visuals end up downplaying the story's real focus. [Link]
Racism and Repentance: One Church's Story
When a church follows cultural instead of scriptural standards, theological troubles are certain to follow, as the conservatives at First Baptist found during segregation times. [Link]
Be Careful What You Pray For….
Today I asked a friend to pray for me to honestly live out the truths of grace in a tough environment. I know, I know. Be careful what you pray for because God will often answer in unexpected ways. [Link]
Subverting Leisure
Is the insidious Caesar of Leisure blinding our vision so that we no longer see the danger in spending exorbitant amounts of money and time on nonstop entertainment? Who is king of our time? [Link]
Learning to Praise on Bad Hair Days
I don't know about you, but it is often difficult for me to get over myself and sing praises to God when I am having a "bad hair" day, much less when I am treated unfairly… [Link]
Is This a Scam?
We field a lot of questions where readers want to know if something being promoted is a scam… [Link]
Eight Things To Do With a Tax Refund
Plan now for how you'll manage your tax refund, or your refund could easily evaporate. [Link]
Six Keys to Controlling Your Spending
For several years during the late 1980s, my wife Susie and I applied a rather rigorous approach to control our spending, and it worked pretty well… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, April 19, 2010 [1 Peter 5:5-10]
Young men, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 1 Peter 5:5-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Do you know what kind of story your kids love to hear?
Your kids love stories about them. Tell your son about the night he was born. Tell your daughter about the day she took her first steps. Talk about the funny way they used to eat cereal. Just think back to all of the cute things your children did when they were small. Then, when you're sitting at the dinner table or tucking your kids into bed, share these memories. Watch their faces light up as the spotlight shines on them.Your kids also love jokes. Tell them a few classics and some you may have never heard before here.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What is your earliest memory? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, April 18, 2010 [Hebrews 11:1-3]
Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. This is what the ancients were commended for. By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God's command, so that what is seen was not made out of what was visible. Hebrews 11:1-3 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, April 17, 2010 [James 4:4-7]
You adulterous people, don't you know that friendship with the world is hatred toward God? Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that the spirit he caused to live in us envies intensely? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:4-7 NIV [Link]
Graphic Leaves of Grass Not for the Faint of Heart
Despite boasting a sharp and consistent wit and laugh-out-loud moments, Leaves of Grass is not for the faint of heart. Ultimately, this is a graphic morality tale about the extreme lengths people will go to for money, the consequences of greed, and the fatal ends of trying to control situations within sinful pursuits that we never really could control to begin with. [Link]
Should We Fire God? A Virginia Tech Pastor on Faith after Crisis
Where is God when bad things happen? Jim Pace, co-pastor of New Life Christian Fellowship at Virginia Tech, encountered numerous, heart-wrenching questions like this one in the months following April 16, 2007. His recently released book, Should We Fire God? is a response to the spiritual questioning many experience after tragedy strikes. [Link]
NewsNote: Aborting the “Wrong” Baby?
A doctor in the Sarasota, Florida, has lost his license because he aborted what is now described as the "wrong" baby. [Link]
Will Tea Parties Unite in Principle over Pragmatism?
The increasing desperation of the Beltway pols and Manhattan media pundits to discredit the Tea Party movement is the best possible indicator of its success thus far. [Link]
Just War and Assassinating a Terrorist
Anwar al-Awlaki, a U.S. citizen, was placed on the “kill or capture” list after the White House concluded that he had gone beyond inciting attacks to actually participating in them. Should we rejoice? [Link]
Clichés Notwithstanding, The Perfect Game is Still a Hit
Based on a true story, The Perfect Game isn't exactly a revelation in the narrative department. But what eventually elevates it from your standard-issue baseball flick are its underlying themes and winning performances from the leads. [Link]
Death and Dark Comedy Collide Awkwardly in Death at a Funeral
Other than giving Luke Wilson an opportunity to star in something other than those annoying AT&T commercials, there was really no need to revisit the story of a family funeral gone seriously awry in Neil LaBute's remake of Death at a Funeral. [Link]
Sara Groves: Her Confession Continues on Fireflies and Songs
In what is Sara Groves' ninth album, the singer/songwriter takes the listener down a road of confession and relationship. After 15 years of marriage, Sara says year seven brought various challenges. Fireflies and Songs tackles those relational hurdles similar to what many couples face. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, April 16, 2010 [Psalm 130:2-7]
O Lord, hear my voice. Let your ears be attentive to my cry for mercy. If you, O LORD, kept a record of sins, O Lord, who could stand? But with you there is forgiveness; therefore you are feared. I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope. My soul waits for the Lord more than watchmen wait for the morning, more than watchmen wait for the morning. O Israel, put your hope in the LORD, for with the LORD is unfailing love and with him is full redemption. Psalm 130:2-7 NIV Listen [Link]
12 outstanding ways to have family fun
If your family time is in a rut it seems the only thing you do together is watch TV, have we got a game plan for you! Here are twelve outstanding things to do together as a family and the coupons to go with them.Enjoy! And let us know how it goes!Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What's one fun thing we can do this weekend that we have never done before? [Link]
Nine Ways to Give Church another Chance
Have you given up on going to church, or do you attend only out of a sense of duty? A fresh look at spiritual practices could result in Giving Church another Chance. [Link]
Reasons for Decline
“Many Church Rolls Decline” declared the recent article distributed by the Religious News Service. Not exactly breaking news. According to new figures released by the National Council of Churches, most mainline Protestant denominations report continuing decline. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, April 15, 2010 [Ephesians 4:2-7]
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit–just as you were called to one hope when you were called–one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it. Ephesians 4:2-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Winning back your wife's trust
College basketball coach Rick Pitino recently admitted to an extramarital affair, and publicly apologized to his family, friends and players. Pitino said "When you have a problem, if you tell the truth, your problem becomes a part of your past. If you lie, it becomes a part of your future." Sure, it was painful for him to tell the truth, and will be tough to win back the trust of his wife and family, but it would have been even more painful and agonizing to continue to live a lie.Read what Tony Dungy has to say about how to win back the trust of your wife. Then review these 14 ways to affair-proof your marriage.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What can I do to make you feel more secure? [Link]
When the Church's Enemy is the Church
Jesus said, "I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it." The longer I'm in ministry, I think he might have added, "…and the Elders and Deacons will not prevail against it." [Link]
Love is a Choice: The Realities of Adoption
Nothing could have prepared me for the challenges I faced after bringing 2-year-old Jenny home from Russia. "Can't you send her back?" a well-meaning friend suggested… [Link]
The Power of Humility in Marriage
Dear Dr. David: I am really frustrated with my wife. She has to do things her way and won't listen to me at all. What can I do to encourage her to at least listen to me, not necessarily do everything my way? Read Dr. David's response… [Link]
When a Spender Marries a Saver
It's not just an old saying: When it comes to couples and money, opposites do attract. Relationship expert Syble Solomon offers tips to make your opposite pairing work. [Link]
Pray for Russia's Orphans
Every time I see what is going on in Russia, with the government calling for an immediate halt on American adoptions, I think about the orphanage where I first met my two oldest sons. Before my mind's eye are the faces of the children we couldn't adopt… [Link]
Nuclear Deterrence in a Fallen World
Reducing the number of nuclear weapons? Yes. Fighting the spread of nuclear weapons? Yes. But taking a credible deterrent off the table in a fallen world? [Link]
The Totalitarian Century: 45 Years After Buchenwald
The world would do well to remember that the Buchenwald concentration camp was liberated only temporarily in 1945. Every generation must be prepared to meet and defeat. [Link]
Can Animals Be Gay?
The New York Times Magazine offered a photograph of bunnies on the cover of its Easter Sunday edition, but the paper was asking a rather unusual question: “Can animals be gay?” [Link]
Does God Bless Us in Proportion to Our Giving?
The truth is, the natural man doesn’t like to give his stuff away. In our basest form we want to hoard and grab. So, one of the things I enjoy sharing are some of the blessings that accompany Godly giving. But even here, we have to understand just how counter-intuitive the Christian faith really is… [Link]
Make Wise Career Moves
If you don't enjoy your job, you don't need to settle for it. Here's how you can make wise career moves. [Link]
Finance Q&A: Savings – Where Should You Start?
We all have good intentions to build up our savings. But if we don't have a written and stated purpose, oftentimes we never get started. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, April 14, 2010 [2 John 1:7-9]
Many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist. Watch out that you do not lose what you have worked for, but that you may be rewarded fully. Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. 2 John 1:7-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Why is Tony Dungy Second?
Tony Dungy shares why he is second, and why the rest of us should be, too. Watch his brief video and let us know your thoughts.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask them: Are you second? [Link]
Bullied to Death: The Failure of Modern Moral Education
There are two issues at stake in the rise of bullying of the type that drove Phoebe Prince to hang herself that reveal the “moral quality” of the forthcoming society: the brutality of those doing the bullying and the “cowardice of noncompassion” by those who stood by and did nothing to help the victim. [Link]
Trustworthy Answers in Untrusting Times
Life is a process of seeking answers for the road ahead. But the real question is: "Where do I go to get the answers to those questions?" [Link]
Broken to Be Made Whole
A "broken spirit" and a "contrite heart" is a sacrifice. But it is required in giving ourselves to the Lord. Today, ask yourself: Am I seeking to be broken so that I made be whole? And then remember: Christ, our Passover, is sacrificed for us. Hallelujah! [Link]
What Do Men Think of Modesty?
How does our style of dress effect the men in our lives? I want you to hear from the guys themselves. [Link]
O'Connor's Latest Award: An Implicit Plea to Christian Writers – Part 1
Flannery O'Connor comprehended the consequences of mankind's Fall and saw the distance between what-is and what ought to be. She wrote fiction so that we could see it, too. And it can only come from Christian writers—if they're willing to step into a sometimes hostile world … that's in search of redemption. [Link]
Simple Faith in the Face of Tragedy Fuels Letters to God
"Unfortunately, Christian movies have had a bad name," says Letters to God film director David Nixon. "But we're trying to change that. We're artists who've honed our skills for many years, and we want to bring that talent that God has given us to the forefront and make really good, really quality movies." [Link]
Watson Keeps Entertaining Sherlock Holmes Chugging Along
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's detective has been reinvented for the Jason Bourne age. Adding to the brawn and brains is a dash of romance. But the main chemistry is between Holmes and Dr. Watson, a sidekick who just can't kick the habit of helping Holmes solve another case. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, April 13, 2010 [Jude 1:20-25]
But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in God's love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life. Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them; to others show mercy, mixed with fear–hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh. To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy–to the only God our Savior be glory, majesty, power and authority, through Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages, now and forevermore! Amen. Jude 1:20-25 NIV Listen [Link]
Phil Mickelson's greatest shot
Whatever your thoughts may be about Phil Mickelson, what he did Sunday at the Masters was truly remarkable. Not only did he win the tournament, but he dedicated it to his wife, Amy, who has been fighting breast cancer. It's been a tumultuous year for Phil (who suspended play last year to be with Amy) and his family as he shares at the green jacket ceremony. His decision to put his family first has paid rich dividends on and off the course.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you know how much I love you? [Link]
Unemployed and Embarrassed
For many Christians, being unemployed is just embarrassing. We may have told people we believe God will bless us and provide a job. But He hasn't… yet. [Link]
Leading on Empty
If you're a church or ministry leader, at times you've probably been depleted of energy and longing to escape the pressure. In Leading on Empty, Wayne Cordeiro candidly shares his experience with the hope that it will encourage others headed down the same path. [Link]
Josh McDowell on Defending the Bible
"The best defense of Christianity is a clear, simple presentation of the gospel that is culturally relevant, in the power of the Holy Spirit, backed up by a lifestyle and calling for a decision." –Josh McDowell [Link]
Cremation and a New Kind of Christianity
Diarmaid MacCulloch's massive tome, "Christianity: The First Three Thousand Years" concludes with a chapter on culture wars in which he notes a controversy that should come as a surprise to most Americans… (Read more) [Link]
Should I Tell My Spouse?
Honesty is crucial to a healthy marriage. But should we tell our spouses everything? [Link]
Parent with the Real World in Mind
There's no magic formula you can use to make sure that your kids fare well in this fallen world. What matters most is for your kids to see you living for Jesus in a real way. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, April 12, 2010 [2 Corinthians 7:10-13]
Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. So even though I wrote to you, it was not on account of the one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. By all this we are encouraged. 2 Corinthians 7:10-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Is your marriage stressed?
You've heard the one about the old man who was dying? He smelled cherry pie baking, so he roused himself from bed and staggered into the kitchen. He was reaching for the pie when his wife swatted his wrist away. "No!" she barked. "That's for your funeral."If it seems that you and your wife are constantly at odds, you are not alone. But there are some keys to reducing marriage conflict and stress. Here are 10 things to do to help your marriage feel less stressed.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What is one area that we struggle with that we can compromise on right now? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, April 11, 2010 [1 John 4:7-12]
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. 1 John 4:7-12 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, April 10, 2010 [1 John 2:15-17]
Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For everything in the world–the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does–comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever. 1 John 2:15-17 NIV [Link]
Letters to God Something to Write Home About
Letters to God might not be the most cinematic film viewers will see this year, but it's a faith-affirming story competently told. Viewers tired of having their beliefs assaulted whenever they watch a movie will take comfort in this production, which, for a change, affirms what they believe and demonstrates the power of their shared faith. [Link]
Hidden in Him
When life throws a hardship our way, we often have very little control over the circumstance, but we do have control over our response to the situation. Here are some practical ways to hide our hearts in the Lord when turmoil surrounds us. [Link]
The Millennial Generation: Do They Know What They Believe?
Young evangelicals believe in absolute right and wrong, and they believe that God exists. But they're not applying these basic beliefs in a sound way. [Link]
How to Help the Poor
Most Christians today acknowledge that caring for the poor is a biblical requisite. The primary debate is how to best fulfill this mandate… [Link]
The Bad News of Intelligent Design
Few phrases in recent memory have provoked as much comment, criticism and derision as “intelligent design”… [Link]
Even Comedy's Own Dynamic Duo Can't Save Date Night
Somehow in the midst of bad writing and a hackneyed case of missing identity that grows increasingly sillier as Date Night goes on, Steve Carell and Tina Fey still shine as two suburbanites trying to keep their marital spark alive with a little night-on-the-town spontaneity. [Link]
Moral Lessons Lacking in Well-Acted Runaways
If The Runaways is nothing we haven't seen before in terms of its story arc, it's also notable for strong performances from Kristen Stewart, Dakota Fanning and Michael Shannon. However, the debauchery and hedonism on display make the film difficult to watch. [Link]
Pieces of a Real Heart Should Quell the Questioning
After nearly a decade in the industry, Sanctus Real might wonder if it still has a relevant foothold in popular Christian music. The honest lyrical and musical charm of Pieces of a Real Heart should quell the questioning. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, April 9, 2010 [Isaiah 58:9-12]
Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I. 'If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday. The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail. Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations; you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets with Dwellings. Isaiah 58:9-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Is your marriage ready for a check-up?
This check-up works best when both partners take it separately, and then compare answers. The goal is to pinpoint problem areas, praise positive areas, and increase communication. So take it with your spouse this weekend. Here are some questions to start:Rate your marriage on a scale of 1 – 10, with 10 being best.What is your marriage's weak spot?On a scale of 1 – 10, how committed are you to making your marriage last?What are you willing to change to make your marriage better? Fill in the blank:I wish we had more time to _________.I love it when my spouse ___________.The thing we argue about the most is ____________.Take the full marriage checkup. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: How do you think our marriage is doing? [Link]
I Choose Forgiveness
Think of the crowd of people on the broad road through life, carrying their sin with them–all of God's wrath for all the selfish, prideful things; all the good left undone; and all of the indifference to God. What a blessing to know the forgiveness of sins in God! [Link]
What Happens When We Sing in Worship?
Some Christians think music supersedes the Word. Others think that music undermines the Word. But God Himself wants them together. Why does God command us not only to praise Him, but to sing praises to Him? [Link]
How to Break the Religious Rules Without Breaking Yourself
Ask yourself honestly if your allegiance is to moralism – simply good moral habits and churchy routines – or if it's directly to God. [Link]
The World’s 100 Most Powerful Women
For the Christian woman, "power" is not about chipping our way to the top of Forbes list. It's all about the gospel. [Link]
What Do I Do With My Tax Refund?
It's that time of year when all that "free" money starts rolling in. But if you have debt, it is not mad money. It is an opportunity to pay what you owe… [Link]
Preparing For Your Interview "Test"
Did you know that you can anticipate — and be prepared to answer — most questions you will be asked in an interview? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, April 8, 2010 [2 Timothy 1:8-14]
So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God, who has saved us and called us to a holy life–not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, but it has now been revealed through the appearing of our Savior, Christ Jesus, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light through the gospel. And of this gospel I was appointed a herald and an apostle and a teacher. That is why I am suffering as I am. Yet I am not ashamed, because I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day. What you heard from me, keep as the pattern of sound teaching, with faith and love in Christ Jesus. Guard the good deposit that was entrusted to you–guard it with the help of the Holy Spirit who lives in us. 2 Timothy 1:8-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Why family meals matter
Eating a meal with your children is more than just ingesting calories. It's one of the best ways to bond with them as this clip shows. If you don't already, schedule your family meals months in advance and have a quantifiable goal of how many times a week you all will eat together. Studies like the one Columbia University released show that children in families who consistently eat together are much less likely to drink, do drugs or get pregnant. So what are you waiting for? Why not start tonight? And here are some great conversations to have while eating. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: I would like to make your favorite food for dinner. What do you like best? [Link]
Uniquely Male: The Scriptural Blueprint for Masculinity
God could have made male and female at the exact same time and in the exact same way. But the fact is, He didn't. The blueprint in Genesis 2 displays twelve markers that show how male and female roles are complementary, but not identical. [Link]
Nicholas Sparks: The Spark Behind The Last Song
His stories of love and loss have connected with millions, but what inspires him? In a one-on-one interview, author Nicholas Sparks talks about faith, hope and love and how that figures into his latest novel-turned-movie, The Last Song. [Link]
Who Are "The Poor?"
Last week I wrote how Israel’s neglect of the poor was a central offense against God that led to their Babylonian exile and that we, too, have neglected those in need in our own times. This neglect, I argued, has led to increased government intervention. However, we need to go further by asking, “Who are the poor among us?” [Link]
10 Minutes with N.T. Wright on "Why Christian Character Matters"
N.T. Wright's latest book is less a polemic in support of a more strident legalism or a treatise on "cheap grace." Rather, Wright argues that the idea of virtue — moral strength — is the best way forward through our troubled times. [Link]
The Three W's: Questions to Ask When Entering Ministry
New to ministry, this pastor learned to ask three very important questions… [Link]
The Men in Christ's Life: The Healing of a Demon-Possessed Man
Just like with the healing of the demon-possessed man, I too have been on a journey of healing. This man was healed, allowing rest from being possessed and ultimately receiving a new perspective of his life, including a new direction. This man has taught me many things. [Link]
Do You Feel Lonely in Your Spiritual Walk?
Have you dreamed of what it would be like to be "spiritually one" with your husband? Today, studies show that women walk alone spiritually perhaps more than they ever have before. [Link]
What Are Your Kids Thinking?
The other night while putting my eleven-year-old man-of-few-words to bed, I asked him, "How's your life going, bud?" What followed was an eye-opening conversation… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, April 7, 2010 [Romans 8:35-39]
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: 'For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:35-39 NIV Listen [Link]
Does your child want to quit playing sports?
It might be OK. Many children want to quit playing because they're simply not interested anymore. The main reason kids play sports is to have fun and be with their friends. Winning isn't as big a priority for them. Parents should support them, encourage personal growth, and not unrealistically compare them to professional athletes when they do play. And when they decide to hang up their cleats and go do something else, it might be best, but only under the right circumstances.Here are 10 things to consider before you let your children quit.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What is your favorite sport to play? [Link]
Top 10 Articles of March 2010
Happy spring! Check out our most popular articles of the new season, including a trip into Wonderland, the beginning of Holy Week, and an apparently missing verse of the Bible. [Link]
Evangelical Left Twists the Gospel in 'Social Justice' Fervor
Glenn Beck stirred up a hornet's nest with his now famous equation of "social justice" with socialism. But the whole discussion is confused because people don't recognize the difference between law and gospel… [Link]
Render Unto Caesar? On Paying Taxes After Obamacare
Should Christians defy the government and refuse to pay taxes if some involvement in abortion is almost certain? The answer to that question reaches far beyond the issue of abortion — and far beyond the question of taxation. [Link]
Seismic Reform? The California Corrections Crisis
Circumstances are forcing California—like many other states—to rethink the way it handles prisons and prisoners. The change has been a long time coming, and Californians are paying a high price for the delay. [Link]
The Last Song Has a Familiar Refrain
The Last Song, written for the screen by novelist Nicholas Sparks and starring Miley Cyrus, is treacly, preposterous and full of clichés. It's also moving and, for the most part, family-friendly, focusing on themes of human failure and forgiveness. [Link]
Words Speak Louder in Rene Gutteridge's Listen
On the surface, Marlo seems an ideal town in which to live. But a mystery is brewing, causing tensions to rise and pitting neighbor against neighbor, friend against friend. An unknown someone is quoting whole conversations between townspeople, posting them on a Web site for anyone to read. [Link]
Fireflight Evolves Stylistically, Musically on For Those Who Wait
For its third CD, Fireflight left the runway with the goal of evolving stylistically and musically, and as the results on For Those Who Wait indicate, that mission was mostly accomplished. The female-fronted troupe seems to have rallied the confidence it lacked across earlier albums. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, April 6, 2010 [Matthew 7:7-11]
'Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 'Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! Matthew 7:7-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Calling 911 for homework help?
Check out this real 911 call from a child seeking homework help. Then, when you have finished laughing, reflect on what you can do to help your children excel in their schoolwork with our 10 Ways to Help Your Children with Their Homework.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Is there anything I can do to better help you with your homework? [Link]
Realities of the Resurrected: A Post-Easter Reflection
I've watched several Easters and Good Fridays play out around me. Engagements and babies followed or preceded by cancer, infidelity, or financial hardship. Most of life is like this. How do we deal with this reality? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, April 5, 2010 [James 3:13-18]
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness. James 3:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Television invades Bhutan
On a recent television series put on by FrontLine, reporters tracked the introduction of television into one of the world's most isolated countries – Bhutan. A few months later, a government official declared: "There are so many things our people desire now that they did not know before television." Greed, perhaps more than sex or violence, can be fueled by many TV shows and commercials. So how do we counteract it? First, we need to set limits on the time and type of TV shows our children watch. Check out our Screen Time Tracker. Second, we have to teach them about the rare jewel of contentment. See what Tony Dungy says about teaching your children to be content.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight – What is something that you really wanted in the past that you did not get and now you don't really care about? [Link]
EASTER
EASTER [Link]
Financial Follies of the Young
Here are two financial insights I wish someone had shared with me when I was younger. [Link]
Career Planning: Essential Life Skill for the 21st Century
Most people spend more time planning their vacations than their careers and lives. How about you? How much time and energy have you invested in figuring out what type of work best uses your skills and interests? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, April 4, 2010 [Matthew 28:2-7]
There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. The guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. The angel said to the women, 'Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. Then go quickly and tell his disciples: 'He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.' Now I have told you.' Matthew 28:2-7 NIV [Link]
Not to Worry… Christ is Risen!
Three "Ds" lie at the root of almost every worry I suffer: darkness, the devil, and death. Jesus overcame them all that first Easter morning. [Link]
The Empty Cross, The Empty Tomb
Although we talk about the death of Jesus often, for some reason we have tended to only mention the resurrection at Easter time. It's time to redress the balance a bit and talk more about Jesus' death AND resurrection. [Link]
Jesus Isn’t Ashamed of You
Jesus’ first words as a resurrected man weren’t the cerebral doctrinal formulations some of us like, or the practical "life tips" others of us prefer. He wasn’t even denouncing His enemies. Instead, His first words were about getting a message to his brothers in hiding, who were at that very moment sniveling in exile… (read more) [Link]
Is Christ Alive in Our Lives: An Easter Reflection
Does Christ's Life, Death, and Resurrection really mean as much to our daily lives as it does to our religious lives as Christians? [Link]
Is It Right For Us To Pay Taxes to Caesar Or Not?
Caesar has no power except that given to him by God. The fact that Caesar doesn’t know that doesn’t change things. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, April 3, 2010 [Matthew 27:45-50]
From the sixth hour until the ninth hour darkness came over all the land. About the ninth hour Jesus cried out in a loud voice, 'Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?'–which means, 'My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?' When some of those standing there heard this, they said, 'He's calling Elijah.' Immediately one of them ran and got a sponge. He filled it with wine vinegar, put it on a stick, and offered it to Jesus to drink. The rest said, 'Now leave him alone. Let's see if Elijah comes to save him.' And when Jesus had cried out again in a loud voice, he gave up his spirit. Matthew 27:45-50 NIV [Link]
The Centrality of the Cross
This is Holy Week: a week that, 2000 years ago, began in joy as Jesus was received as a king and carried into Jerusalem on a donkey; a week that ended in sorrow as he was carried as a corpse to a rich man’s tomb. The centrality of the Cross during this time signifies that, in everything, the Cross is central. [Link]
Why Blood Shocks
Ultra-modern blood tests and pre-modern vampire myths get at something the Christian Scriptures already tell us about reality: The life is in the blood. The bloodiness of our age is not an anomaly. [Link]
GOOD FRIDAY
GOOD FRIDAY [Link]
Power in the Holes
Perhaps you have an emotional hole from divorce, the loss of a child, abuse, addiction, or depression. As Jesus hung on the cross, He became well acquainted with holes… [Link]
What is Truth?
Pilate tried to wash his hands but the stain remains. Not to decide is to decide. [Link]
Nicholas Sparks: The Spark Behind The Last Song
His stories of love and loss have connected with millions, but what inspires him? In a one-on-one interview, author Nicholas Sparks talks about faith, hope and love and how that figures into his latest novel-turned-movie, The Last Song. [Link]
Futile Clash Leaves Titanic Sense of Disappointment
The ads for Clash of the Titans suggest epic entertainment, superb special effects and the catch phrase of the year so far—"Release the Kraken!"—but there's nothing epic about Titans other than the sense of disappointment it leaves in viewers. [Link]
All Star United's Jolt Still Enjoyable on The Good Album
All Star United is not washed up by any means, but more like a slightly dulled version of its previous self—which, given its high-octane approach on the whole, is still able to provide an enjoyable jolt of energy, attitude and encouragement. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, April 2, 2010 [Colossians 1:15-20]
He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross. Colossians 1:15-20 NIV Listen [Link]
They follow in our footsteps
Watch this video and reflect on the truth that our children will follow in our footsteps. Are you modeling the right kind of life for them? There are no do-over's in fathering. Live the life you want your kids to imitate.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: If there was one thing you would change about me, what would it be? [Link]
Remembering Terri Schiavo: 5 Years Later, Bigotry Continues
Today marks the five-year anniversary of the death of my sister, Terri Schiavo. I wish I could say things have changed for the better since then, the rights of the brain-injured, elderly and others are still being violated. [Link]
What Every Christian Needs to Know About Passover
As many prepare to celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus, knowing the cultural Jewish soil on which Jesus walked is important to a mature and growing Christian faith. Here are a few steps for help along the Passover journey. [Link]
NewsNote: “Evil Exists” — Terror in Moscow
The terror attacks in Moscow may or may not be a harbinger of more to come. They also remind us that evil is far closer to us than we often allow ourselves to remember. [Link]
How Christian Were the Founders? Madison and Jefferson
Incorrect and misleading information about our nation's founders is plentiful. We have to carefully consider the context of the founders' writings… [Link]
Sexual Intimacy Begins With the Heart
For many women — and men — sexual connection is dependent upon emotional connection… [Link]
He Said-She Said: Dating Later in Life
Does age really matter when it comes to relationships? Should it? And do men still seek after women who "play hard to get"? See how "he" and "she" have addressed these issues in this edition of "He Said-She Said." [Link]
Holy Week: Should Your Family Participate in a Passion Play?
The memories of participating in a Passion Play at our church has left a deep imprint on not only my life but also the life of my oldest daughter… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, April 1, 2010 [Ephesians 3:17-21]
And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge–that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:17-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Tim Tebow – already a champion
The NFL draft is just around the corner and many are speculating on where former University of Florida quarterback Tim Tebow will be drafted. Some "experts" have Tim going in the first round, while others put him down much further. However it turns out, Tim is already a champion. Here is one reason why. And Tim is not the only quarterback champion headed to the NFL. Sam Bradford and Colt McCoy also seem to have the "right stuff." Watch the NFL draft with your kids to see where these stars will head and talk about what makes a true champion.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What does a champion on and off the field look like? [Link]
Faithful to the End: The Women at the Cross
The women didn't run away from the crucifixion. Was it because they were braver or more committed than the men who had followed Jesus? [Link]
HOLY WEEK
HOLY WEEK [Link]
The Truth of the Cross
If it is true that the cross is of central importance to biblical Christianity, it seems that it is essential for Christians to have some understanding of its meaning in biblical terms. That would be true in any generation, but it's particularly necessary in this one. [Link]
15 Ways to Observe Holy Week with Your Family
The week preceding Easter is the most important week on the Christian calendar. So how can you honor this special time with your entire family? Barbara Curtis, mom of 12, offers some traditions that provide vivid impressions which parents can build on year after year… [Link]
The Road to the Risen Lord
This Sunday, Christians all over the world will celebrate the risen Christ. Where death reigned, life now reigns supreme. Where darkness and despair choked the light of life now light and hope give new meaning to life. Jesus Christ lives and because He lives, the future is filled with the promise of life everlasting for all who believe. [Link]
What to do When You’re Out of Options
A friend of mine was laid off just before his wife had twins. They were born pre-maturely and needed a lot of extra care. He got word yesterday his father who had been at the same company for thirty-nine years and eleven months was laid off just before he was eligible for his forty-year retirement benefits. That hurts to say the least. We all have friends who’ve lost their jobs in recent months. Perhaps you’re one of them. [Link]
College Degrees: Useless in the Job Market?
Collegegrad.com reports that 80% of the 2009 college graduates moved back in with their parents upon graduating last year — most without jobs of any kind. [Link]
Danger! Don't Build on a Weak Foundation
Consider the differences between contemporary society's prevailing attitudes toward life, work, and investing in contrast with the historical biblical view of these same areas. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, March 31, 2010 [2 Peter 1:5-11]
For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But if anyone does not have them, he is nearsighted and blind, and has forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins. Therefore, my brothers, be all the more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these things, you will never fall, and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 2 Peter 1:5-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Pepsi goes one step too far
Even some soft drink companies aren't family-friendly anymore. A few months ago, PepsiCo Inc. decided to release an Apple iPhone application for its Amp Energy drink to appeal to guys out on the prowl. The app, called Amp Up Before You Score, purports to help men pick up any one of 24 types of women, such as the "Sorority Girl," "Cougar," "Rebound Girl" or "Punk Rock Girl." Users can choose the type of woman they have their eye on, and then get coached on facts that might be useful, such as computing a carbon footprint to impress "the Treehugger."Suggested pick-up lines can be risqué. The app then takes the coaching a step further, encouraging users who "score" to post details such as name, date and comments, for their pals via Facebook and Twitter. Disgusting.This is just another example of a culture swimming in a sea of immorality. Your kids only chance to stay on the straight and narrow? Your involvement. Talk to your older kids about the true meaning of sex and how and who it should be reserved for – To start, you need to better understand the culture of "hooking up." Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask them: What do you think of people who hook up? Is it OK or wrong? [Link]
Easter: Living Life in the Future Tense
Death puts us in the past tense; the Resurrection puts us in the future tense. [Link]
Why I Support Universal Health Care
No human created in God's image should be denied basic health care. This is easy for a Christian. What is hard is the detail. [Link]
A Roommate is a Roommate? Coming Soon to a Campus Near You
Kayla Eland and Lindon Pronto are roommates at Pitzer College in California. They, along with students at a growing number of colleges and universities, are pioneering a new trend — coed roommates. [Link]
TV Experiment Shows the Bentness of Human Nature
A now-infamous series of experiments revealed how seemingly ordinary men could carry out the demonic orders of the Third Reich. Recently, a French documentary updated the experiment. [Link]
Faith, Family and Forgiveness Play the Accompaniment for The Last Song
"There are a lot of themes in The Last Song," author/ screenwriter Nicholas Sparks says of the latest film adapted from his work. "You've got faith, forgiveness, family … themes that touch viewers because they recognize them in their own lives." [Link]
How to Train Your Dragon is a Fun, Feisty Ride
Considering its intricately crafted animation and heartwarming story, you'd think How to Train Your Dragon was Pixar's latest flick. But it is a DreamWorks project, and it's refreshing to see a movie that doesn't rely on a slew of pop culture references and lowbrow humor to entertain. [Link]
Starfield Crosses Worship and Pop, Faith and Doubt in Saving One
Canadian born and bred rock quartet Starfield continues its association of worship with pop/rock in its fourth release, The Saving One, while acknowledging the Christian walk's split reality between faith and doubt. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, March 30, 2010 [Philippians 4:4-9]
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me–put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:4-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Stepfathering is tough
Stepfamily relationships are often ambiguous, but there are several ways in which stepfathers can help in bonding with their stepkids. First and foremost, love your wife. All children (biological or not) need to see a strong commitment between the husband and wife. You both need to present a unified front to the stepkids that states "we are in this together." Also, keep your expectations in check. Unrealistic expectations will only feed your frustration. Instead, keep your focus on patience and open communication. Don't expect 'love at first sight' reactions from your stepchildren. If it is hard for you to discern your new place in a family, imagine what it is like for the children! Finally, a gray area that stepfathers face is the area of discipline. In the beginning, don't. Your biggest challenge as a stepfather is forcing yourself to step back from the disciplinarian role and letting your wife, their biological mother, have control. As hard as that can be, it is important to a healthy relationship with your stepchildren. Keep your focus on building a friendship and mutual respect with them first.Here are 5 ways to ease the tension of stepfathering. Huddle up and ask your stepchildren tonight: What's one thing I can do to improve our relationship? [Link]
Coins for the Kingdom: The Mystery of the Cross
From the beginning, Christ's followers celebrated the cross as a symbol of their faith. It was honored in church worship, carved into rough tombstones, pressed onto loaves of bread and set out as a sign of sanctuary. The cross represented what Christians believed, who they hoped for and how they approached life. Here, author Judith Couchman explores early images of the cross, what they meant to the early church, and what they tell about the meaning of the Savior’s sacrifice. [Link]
The Grit and Glory of Holy Week
Trying to image the Christmas story, all I get is a crèche and the smell of hay mingled with baby powder. By contrast, the sensations of Passion Week are so close at hand that they make me cringe. [Link]
Make Every Opportunity a Defining Moment
You don't have to be an athlete on an international stage. You don't need to train your whole life for that one moment in time. The event doesn't have to be something where others will even notice or want to write about. We are presented with opportunities throughout our life to change, grow and impact others. [Link]
Sharing Christ with Your Community
Moving from an apartment to a home of our own, we basked in the newness of our house, the neighbors, the lawn to mow. Everything was great… until we began looking for neighborhood Christians to befriend. [Link]
What's the Point of Prom?
Should a school district be sponsoring an event that, at the very least, is a gateway to a night in which anything goes? [Link]
Are You Remarried? Stepfamily Myths and Expectations
Whether through divorce or the passing of a spouse, remarriage and the blended family are one of the fastest growing family groups in the United States, even within the church. [Link]
How to Build a Healthy Relationship with Your Teen
Do you want to become your child's best friend? Of course you do! Unfortunately, prioritizing friendship over parental authority will actually weaken your relationship with your teen. Here's how you can strike a balance. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, March 29, 2010 [Isaiah 11:2-5]
The Spirit of the LORD will rest on him–the Spirit of wisdom and of understanding, the Spirit of counsel and of power, the Spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD – and he will delight in the fear of the LORD. He will not judge by what he sees with his eyes, or decide by what he hears with his ears; but with righteousness he will judge the needy, with justice he will give decisions for the poor of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of his mouth; with the breath of his lips he will slay the wicked. Righteousness will be his belt and faithfulness the sash around his waist. Isaiah 11:2-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you and your kids others-centered?
Richard Wurmbrand, a Romanian pastor sent to a Russian labor camp for nine years, learned a little something about being others-centered. He relates it in the following story: "Suppose you and another man are both about to have a baby and one of those babies will be a special-needs baby, and you get to choose… you can either have the healthy or sick child. Which would you choose?"Being others-centered does not come naturally. It must be learned. And if it is not taught as a child, it becomes almost impossible to retrain a selfish adult. Hear from Tony Dungy about how to teach your children not to be selfish. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Who is the kindest person you know? How do you think they got that way? [Link]
Palm Sunday: Coming Face-to-Face With A Fallen World
Four days beyond the pageantry, Jesus was in Gethsemane, and five days later he was on the cross. We come face-to-face with the fickle human spirit as we ask, "How could Jesus be both celebrated and condemned within a five-day period?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, March 28, 2010 [Luke 19:33-40]
As they were untying the colt, its owners asked them, 'Why are you untying the colt?' They replied, 'The Lord needs it.' They brought it to Jesus, threw their cloaks on the colt and put Jesus on it. As he went along, people spread their cloaks on the road. When he came near the place where the road goes down the Mount of Olives, the whole crowd of disciples began joyfully to praise God in loud voices for all the miracles they had seen: 'Blessed is the king who comes in the name of the Lord!' 'Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!' Some of the Pharisees in the crowd said to Jesus, 'Teacher, rebuke your disciples!' 'I tell you,' he replied, 'if they keep quiet, the stones will cry out.' Luke 19:33-40 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, March 27, 2010 [John 12:12-16]
The next day the great crowd that had come for the Feast heard that Jesus was on his way to Jerusalem. They took palm branches and went out to meet him, shouting, 'Hosanna!' 'Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!' 'Blessed is the King of Israel!' Jesus found a young donkey and sat upon it, as it is written, 'Do not be afraid, O Daughter of Zion; see, your king is coming, seated on a donkey's colt.' At first his disciples did not understand all this. Only after Jesus was glorified did they realize that these things had been written about him and that they had done these things to him. John 12:12-16 NIV [Link]
Actress Kimberly Williams-Paisley Finds Inspiration in Amish Grace
How would you react if one of your children was murdered? How easily would forgiveness come? Kimberly Williams-Paisley, star of Lifetime Movie Network’s original film Amish Grace, faced those very questions as she inhabited the role of a grieving mother. [Link]
When You're Weary of Worshiping Alone
For years, Debe longed to have Randy worshiping alongside her. Her heart ached for her husband to experience what she did through the music and the message at church… [Link]
God Gets His Healthcare Bill
After eight years of scourging George W. Bush every time he confessed he prayed, at long last, there is room for Jesus in the inn. That is, so long as the Savior "supports" a certain agenda. [Link]
In Haiti, Faith and Churches Continue to Sprout
Ten weeks after the Jan. 12 earthquake hit Haiti, Baptist leaders in the hurting nation see an openness to the Gospel unseen before, spawning a renewed urgency to their task. [Link]
The Charade of the Pro-Life Executive Order
Even if the President intends to stand by his agreement, this does not bind his successors, the courts, or, for that, matter, the pro-abortion activists in his own party. [Link]
Mutiny Should be Declared on the Joyless Bounty Hunter
These days, getting the girl looks a little different with Gerard Butler on the scene. Officially kicking Mr. Sensitive to the curb, his character's idea of a fun night involves throwing his ex in the trunk and carting her off to jail for a cool 20k in The Bounty Hunter. [Link]
Narcissism Rears Its Ugly Head in Greenberg
For a film that tries so hard to make a grand statement about the messiness of humanity and how "hurt people hurt people," there's something incredibly contrived and hollow about Greenberg, the latest from writer/director Noah Baumbach. [Link]
International Eyes Influence Newworldson's Second Set
Having spent the past two years touring not only North America, but all over the world, Newworldson combines their newfound international eyes and famed grooves to record a bigger, and more diverse, sounding collection than before. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, March 26, 2010 [John 17:20-23]
'My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one: I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. John 17:20-23 NIV Listen [Link]
871 ways to die. 1 way to live
According to the National Safety Council, there are 871 ways to die. But there is only one way to live – by faith. 35-year-old pastor Matt Chandler was recently diagnosed with brain cancer. Watch as he discusses his initial diagnosis – and then we encourage you to follow him on this journey. He has much to teach us about the right way to live and what our priorities should be.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What is something we have been putting off that we need to do? Let's set a date right now. [Link]
How to Inherit the Earth
If you learn how to submit yourself to God and others, you'll help to change the world for the better. [Link]
Who Took Verse 4 out of My Bible?
Most of us have read John 5:1–9, the story of the blind, paralyzed man at the pool of Bethesda, many times, but I’ll bet there’s something that escaped your attention. [Link]
Pastors and Pain
Pastors are no strangers to pain, but… is it possible to turn that pain into gold? [Link]
Good Friday or Easter Christians?
Luke 24:11 [Link]
How to Live Below Your Means
Your household is like a business. It is a healthy company that ends the year not just breaking even, but with money in the bank. [Link]
There's Value in Those Early Jobs
Most early jobs are not a mistake or misdirection – they are simply part of the clarification process. Here are just a few jobs held by people who you may know for other vocations today… [Link]
The Single Life: Salad Daze
If you've ever wanted to grow your own produce, start with something a little smaller than a humongous vegetable garden like Granny used to tend. How about something you can manage nicely on your patio, balcony, or in a sunny window? What I'm thinking is this: you can grow your own salad! [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, March 25, 2010 [Hebrews 1:1-4]
In the past God spoke to our forefathers through the prophets at many times and in various ways, but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed heir of all things, and through whom he made the universe. The Son is the radiance of God's glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word. After he had provided purification for sins, he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven. So he became as much superior to the angels as the name he has inherited is superior to theirs. Hebrews 1:1-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Celebrating your children's rite of passage
For thousands of years, in many countries and cultures throughout the world, rites of passage have been an important part of human culture. A rite of passage is a ritual or ceremony that marks a change in a person's social status. There are ceremonies in many cultures that memorialize the birth of a child, puberty, graduation, engagement, marriage, death, and other stages of life.For most of our western culture, while we still celebrate marriage through a wedding ceremony and observe death through a funeral, we lack a generally accepted rite of passage from childhood into adulthood. High school graduations are about as close as we come. But there is a much better, more meaningful way. Find out how to give your adolescent a blessing to mark their transition into adulthood. And if you would like a great book on that subject, we recommend The Blessing. To hear one Dad's experience of his childrens' blessing ceremony, watch this.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: "Can we do a blessing ceremony for our kids?" [Link]
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Health Care: Don't Be Afraid
Now these three abide: anger, outrage, and fear—and the greatest of these is fear." That's not in the Bible. But sometimes I wonder if I think it is. [Link]
North Korea: The Hole in the Map
The satellite images show a black whole between China, South Korea, and Japan. Due to their isolation, North Koreans live in the same darkness. [Link]
Texas and the Textbook Alamo
What children are taught in public school matters. Whole societies have been altered by indoctrinating them, as the Soviet Union showed. [Link]
Easter: Celebrating the Extravagance of God’s Love
How can we welcome others into our homes in a way that truly conveys the message of Easter? Our family has learned to plan ahead while also letting go of perfectionism. [Link]
Children at Risk: The Cost of Splintered Family Life
Because America has become a land where divorce is rampant, "living together" is acceptable, out-of-wedlock births are common, and even the very definition of marriage is being redefined, America has created a generation of children at risk. [Link]
Waiting for Joy: How Depression Affects Married Life
Depression is a whole-body problem. It affects our thoughts, actions, feelings, relationships and even our faith-walk. [Link]
Singles in the Church: The Ghost Demographic
We singles exist as the ghost demographic in most churches, don't we? Many churches view us as mysterious peculiarities needing either coddling or discipline. Meanwhile, many of us wonder why we're being pigeonholed by marital status anyway. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, March 24, 2010 [Deuteronomy 33:12-16]
About Benjamin he said: 'Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him, for he shields him all day long, and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders.' About Joseph he said: 'May the LORD bless his land with the precious dew from heaven above and with the deep waters that lie below; with the best the sun brings forth and the finest the moon can yield; with the choicest gifts of the ancient mountains and the fruitfulness of the everlasting hills; with the best gifts of the earth and its fullness and the favor of him who dwelt in the burning bush. Let all these rest on the head of Joseph, on the brow of the prince among his brothers. Deuteronomy 33:12-16 NIV Listen [Link]
What will your life look like after your kids are gone?
Erma Bombeck had a great gift for writing about family life. She once wrote "Wet Oatmeal Kisses" about what your life will be like after your children grow up. Here's an excerpt:You will prepare a perfect dinnerwith a salad that hasn't had all the olives picked outand a cake with no finger traces in the icingand you'll say, "Now this is a meal for company."And you will eat it alone…Read her entire piece and then give your kids a big bear hug as soon as you get home.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What's something memory-making we can do this weekend? [Link]
Faith in a Fallen World
There is true horror in the fall. But there is true hope in Christ. [Link]
Experiencing the Passion and Power of Easter
"Jesus, Keep Me Near the Cross" features Easter readings collected from the writings and sermons of 25 classic and contemporary Bible teachers. This one from Martin Luther is a compelling meditation on the question of who really killed Christ. [Link]
Avoiding the Bernie Madoffs of the Financial Industry
Since most of us don't have the time or inclination to learn the minutia of investing, it's important to have someone you can trust help you navigate the waters. But how do you avoid running into Bernie Madoff's first cousin? [Link]
Get the Most Money Selling Your House
A clean neat house will sell easier and can add an additional $5,000- $10,000 to your asking price. Using this method we sold our house in 10 days. [Link]
Are Your Transferable Skills Hurting Your Career Transition?
Are you looking to make a career change, but haven't been successful getting into the new field? Avoid these classic job search mistakes… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, March 23, 2010 [Psalm 92:1-8]
It is good to praise the LORD and make music to your name, O Most High, to proclaim your love in the morning and your faithfulness at night, to the music of the ten-stringed lyre and the melody of the harp. For you make me glad by your deeds, O LORD; I sing for joy at the works of your hands. How great are your works, O LORD, how profound your thoughts! The senseless man does not know, fools do not understand, that though the wicked spring up like grass and all evildoers flourish, they will be forever destroyed. But you, O LORD, are exalted forever. Psalm 92:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Abraham: The Footprint of an Obedient Faith
When was the last time you heard about a 75-year-old man packing up his family and moving away somewhere totally non-specific? [Link]
Your kids and the Social Media Revolution
You might hate Facebook just as much as this guy, but as a parent, ponder these stats for a minute: · 96% of Generation Y (18 – 29 year-olds) has joined social networking.· If Facebook members were a country, it would be the world's 4th largest behind China, India, and United States.· Celebrities on Twitter have more followers than the population of Norway, Ireland and Panama.· On YouTube, 13 hours of content are uploaded every minute.Like it or not, we are raising children in a wired generation. As fathers, we must have a consistent strategy on what technology our kids are exposed and under what parameters. Here are 10 Facebook rules to get you started. Also, be sure to Fan All Pro Dad and Tony Dungy on Facebook and follow All Pro Dad and Tony Dungy on Twitter.Huddle up with your older kids tonight and ask: What are the good things and the bad things about having a Facebook account? [Link]
Can Christian Organizations Remain Christian in a “Tolerant” Age?
The case pitting the Hastings College of Law against the Christian Legal Society presents the nation — and its highest court — with an inescapable question: Are Christian organizations to be allowed to remain Christian, or must they all morph into secularized associations? [Link]
Seeing Jesus in the Face of the Persecuted
It’s hard to pray for statistics. It’s much easier to pray for people. It’s even easier when we remember the close connection between Christ and his suffering followers. Jesus said when we reach out to them, we are helping him. [Link]
Health Care: National Suicide by Self-Execution
The "Slaughter Rule" allows congressional members to claim that they didn't actually vote for the bill when they face citizens in their districts. But that kind of hocus-pocus is not going to work. [Link]
Genetically Modified Famine: Ideology Vs. the Poor
By 2050, the world's population, which is currently about 6.8 billion, is projected to peak at about 9 billion. Food production will have to increase by one third just to keep pace with population. We've got to produce more, urgently. [Link]
Glenn Beck, Social Justice, and the Limits of Public Discourse
The issues raised by his comments and the resultant controversy are worthy of our most careful thinking and most earnest struggle. Serious-minded Christians cannot move on from this issue so quickly. [Link]
Twilight and the Abstinence Attraction
Research shows that the reason teenage girls have fallen hard for the "Twilight" book and film series has to do with its portrayal of a traditional, abstinent romantic relationship. [Link]
Have a Great Life as a Pastor’s Wife
Your life as a pastor's wife is meant to be a great adventure – not a grim existence. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, March 22, 2010 [Romans 5:12-15]
Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all men, because all sinned–for before the law was given, sin was in the world. But sin is not taken into account when there is no law. Nevertheless, death reigned from the time of Adam to the time of Moses, even over those who did not sin by breaking a command, as did Adam, who was a pattern of the one to come. But the gift is not like the trespass. For if the many died by the trespass of the one man, how much more did God's grace and the gift that came by the grace of the one man, Jesus Christ, overflow to the many! Romans 5:12-15 NIV Listen [Link]
When your personal hurricane hits
In 1992, after Hurricane Andrew devastated South Florida, a man whose house was the only one still standing in his neighborhood said, "It hit us alright, but I built my house according to building code. I guess nobody else around here did." Conformance to codes does not become apparent until a storm hits. The same is true in your life. When everything falls apart around you, will you still be standing with your principles intact? Coach Tony Dungy shares a thing or two about how to keep standing even when times are very, very tough. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: If something really bad happens to you, how do you think you'll get through it? [Link]
Christian Marriage: Beware of Your Blind Spots
We all have blind spots that can kill us, and our prideful defensiveness must be dealt with if we are to grow. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, March 21, 2010 [John 6:25-29]
When they found him on the other side of the lake, they asked him, 'Rabbi, when did you get here?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you the truth, you are looking for me, not because you saw miraculous signs but because you ate the loaves and had your fill. Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. On him God the Father has placed his seal of approval.' Then they asked him, 'What must we do to do the works God requires?' Jesus answered, 'The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.' John 6:25-29 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, March 20, 2010 [1 John 5:8-10]
the Spirit, the water and the blood; and the three are in agreement. We accept man's testimony, but God's testimony is greater because it is the testimony of God, which he has given about his Son. Anyone who believes in the Son of God has this testimony in his heart. Anyone who does not believe God has made him out to be a liar, because he has not believed the testimony God has given about his Son. 1 John 5:8-10 NIV [Link]
Mutiny Should be Declared on the Joyless Bounty Hunter
These days, getting the girl looks a little different with Gerard Butler on the scene. Officially kicking Mr. Sensitive to the curb, his character's idea of a fun night involves throwing his ex in the trunk and carting her off to jail for a cool 20k in The Bounty Hunter. [Link]
When It's Time for Plan B
When your plans fall apart, it doesn't necessarily mean God wasn't in them. It may just be time to consider Plan B. [Link]
31 Days to a More Powerful You
Proverbs offers the simplest, yet most profound, daily spiritual "pick-me-ups" to be found in all the Bible. [Link]
What Are We Singing: Blessed Be the Name of the Lord
What circumstances are you experiencing right now? Provision? Losing it all, like Job? Are you between a rock and a hard place or The Rock and a hard place? Will you curse? Will you kneel? Will you sing? [Link]
Diary of a Wimpy Kid Starts Strong but Weakens
Diary of a Wimpy Kid is fitfully funny, and at times is surprisingly fresh in its take on adolescence. But the film slips into standard comedy fare a bit too often, keeping it from being the breakout comedy it threatens to be early in its running time. [Link]
Of Men and Angels Another Fine Addition from The Rocket Summer
The beauty of The Rocket Summer is that there's rarely a misstep along the way with his whip-smart lyrical turns and enticing pop structures. His latest release, Of Men and Angels, is another fine addition in such a promising catalog. [Link]
Online Escapism: No Substitute for Real Community
The irony could not possibly be crueler. A South Korean couple let their 3-month-old baby starve to death at home while they spent all their time at Internet cafes—raising a virtual child. [Link]
Does God Know When You’re Hanging on by a Thread?
I got a phone call recently that no pastor wants to get; a man in my church had suffered a massive heart attack and it didn’t look good at all. Four hours after I got to the hospital to be with the family, he died… his wife asked me a question as we stood in that hospital waiting room: “They say God won’t put on you more than you can bear. But, does God know when you’re hanging on by a thread?” [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, March 19, 2010 [1 Corinthians 15:51-57]
Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed–in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: 'Death has been swallowed up in victory.' 'Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?' The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:51-57 NIV Listen [Link]
The depressing truth about anti-depressants
Many wonderful adults and children who suffer with depression are taking medication for their problem. But more and more scientific research is showing that pills designed specifically to help alleviate depression may not be any more effective than sugar pills. What is driving folks who are "helped" by this medication may simply be a placebo effect. Read more and share your comments here. So before you or your children take a pill designed to alter your brain chemistry, consider what other lifestyle changes or counseling sessions can be embraced before heading down the pharmaceutical path. This is not to say that there is never a place for medication, only that it should not be a first option.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Is there anything you're sad or worried about right now? [Link]
'This is Life We’re Talking About' — Abortion and the Health Care Bill
Ground Zero for the sanctity of human life is now the U.S. House of Representatives, where the Democratic leadership is pulling all the levers to come up with the 216 votes necessary to pass the Obama health care bill. [Link]
Counterfeit Gospels
In one of Paul Tripp's books (co-authored with Tim Lane), "How People Change," he identifies seven counterfeit gospels—-”religious” ways we try and “justify” or “save” ourselves apart from the gospel of grace. I found these unbelievably helpful. Which one (or two, or three) of these do you tend to gravitate towards? [Link]
Ageism in the Church?
What are the mandates and the models of Scripture regarding intergenerational life and ministry in our churches? What are the fruits of neglecting them? [Link]
Discovering the Power of Luke's Gospel: A Greek Word Study without Greek
Those students of the Bible who don't read Greek can still reach beyond the English Bible to the original Greek in four easy steps. [Link]
Five Steps to Get Organized
I am declaring before each and every one of you, my dear readers, this is my year to get organized. I have consulted several professional resources, done a lot of thinking and I've come up with the following steps I will take to achieve my goal. [Link]
Work: A Fundamental Purpose & Partnership with God
To understand the role of business in advancing the kingdom, we need to think about the biblical definition and purpose of work. Some may see work in only negative terms—as part of the curse, with no redeeming value. This is completely unbiblical. Many Christians, however, view work as only an instrumental good. Practically, this means that work—while not necessarily being bad—is seen as serving as an instrument or means to other goods, such as providing for your family, contributing to missions and the church, or charities, and so on. As an instrumental good, the work itself is viewed as merely a means to an end and not an end in and of itself. However, the Bible teaches that work is a fundamental good—a part of our fundamental purpose on earth. [Link]
Student Loans: Uncle Sam's Next Takeover?
The majority in Congress is ready to use reconciliation to sneak another government takeover through Congress — and I'm not talking about health care. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, March 18, 2010 [Titus 3:3-7]
At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life. Titus 3:3-7 NIV Listen [Link]
You and your children are miracles
Do you think you are not that special and your life does not have much meaning? You are pretty amazing, actually. Look at what is going on in just 1 of your 100,000,000,000,000 cells right now. You and your children are wonderfully made. You are miracles. Remember that every time you interact.Huddle up with your favorite miracles tonight and say: "You are special because ____." [Link]
St. Patrick: Why His Message Still Matters
Weak though he was, Patrick's success lay in his recognition of the Gospel's power to transform, transfigure and uplift, and this is as true for us in the 21st century as it was for him in the fifth. [Link]
Dobson: Obama and Pelosi 'Are Lying to Us'
Growing attention has been paid to what this legislation would mean for the cause of life. Syndicated radio host Janet Mefferd discussed the latest with Dr. James Dobson. [Link]
How Can Christian Counselors Advise Gay Clients?
Should a counselor who is Christian insist that clients conform to the counselor's beliefs? That's the critical difference between counselors and pastors… [Link]
Before You Denounce 'Social Justice,' Mr. Beck…
Some political conservatives denounce the "social gospel" as misguided and unbiblical, counseling Christians to avoid congregations that stress social justice. Should we? [Link]
Powerful Phrases that Can Improve Your Marriage
Words contain great power to either help or harm people. Here are some key phrases you can say to each other to improve your marriage. [Link]
Don't Be Blindsided by the Teen Years
When your child reaches the "tween" years, parenting can seem to smooth out and become easier, but those who have been through this stage might call it, "the calm before the storm." [Link]
Cohabiting Normative but Harmful
Cohabitation is increasingly becoming the first co-residential union formed among young adults, but those who practice some facets of marriage without the foundation of commitment are harming their relationship. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, March 17, 2010 [2 Timothy 2:15-19]
Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. Their teaching will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, who have wandered away from the truth. They say that the resurrection has already taken place, and they destroy the faith of some. Nevertheless, God's solid foundation stands firm, sealed with this inscription: 'The Lord knows those who are his,' and, 'Everyone who confesses the name of the Lord must turn away from wickedness.' 2 Timothy 2:15-19 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't take chances with prom dances
When our kids are headed to the prom, homecoming, or other big party dance, it can be challenging to think through everything you need to go over with them. This handout is an excellent start. Print it off and go over it every time your kids plan to go to a dance. It should greatly increase communication and decrease conflict. And, since you can't go on the date with your daughter, consider the trunk monkey.Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask them: What is the best thing about going to dances? What could potentially be the worst? [Link]
Hurt's So Good in The Yellow Handkerchief
The Yellow Handkerchief is a small but potent story of human failing and the power of forgiveness. Although Kristen Stewart and her young male co-star Eddie Redmayne do fine with their roles, it's William Hurt who walks away with the film. [Link]
Settling for Mr. Good Enough?
What I wanted in a man was so very temporal. Instead, God gave me what I needed, and Mr. Good Enough has become Mr. Wonderful, Mr. Phenomenal, Mr. Thank-You-for-Choosing-Me-for-Your-Wife… [Link]
Finding Time for God
My children have some internal alarm that goes off as soon as I open my Bible, so I often conclude my devotional time feeling frustration and guilt, resolving to try harder next time. How's a busy person supposed to spend time with God? [Link]
Turn Off the Gossip Channel
How do Christians identify and overcome that ugly beast, Gossip? How did believers ever get so comfortable with gossip in the first place? [Link]
Good Days and Bad Days
What constitutes "a good day"? One in which we don't worry, regardless of circumstances? One where we do God's will? Avoid temptations? Is a good life just a succession of good days? Dick Staub explores. [Link]
Lori Gottlieb Echoes Advice from Grandmas Everywhere in Marry Him
Today's American women are staying single longer than their mothers and many won't marry at all—and they have only themselves to blame. In a nutshell, that's the message of Lori Gottlieb's new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. [Link]
Internet Safety 101
Last week a comprehensive new set of parental resources designed to keep kids safe in our high-tech world was unveiled by the non-profit organization, Enough Is Enough. This fabulous package of resources is called Internet Safety 101. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, March 16, 2010 [James 5:13-16]
Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. James 5:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
The love of money is a poor investment
In 1923, eight of the world's most successful business leaders met at a hotel in Chicago. Among them was the president of the largest independent steel corporation, the CEO of the largest gas company and the president of the New York Stock Exchange. Quite an impressive crowd. Now fast-forward 25 years. By then, three of the men had committed suicide, two others died broke, two more had spent time in prison, and the last went insane. Looking at the characteristics these men shared, money and power, far from bringing happiness, was the catalyst for disaster.See what Coach Dungy has to say about why power and money will never bring true happiness.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think being rich will make you less or more happy? Why? [Link]
What Are We Singing: Be Magnified
Have you ever asked God for something fully expecting that the request is too much; even for Him? Like He is too busy with world peace and hunger to deal with your paltry issue? [Link]
Nigeria's Violence Not Strictly Religious
Christians and Muslims "could resolve it spiritually but still have a war over the land, the economy, the moving in the land," Estabrooks said. Could the tensions be any more complicated? [Link]
Fight Lies with Biblical Truths
Lots of lies swirl around this fallen world. That's why it's crucial to know the truth about who God really is, and who he has designed you to be. [Link]
The Scandal of Gendercide — War on Baby Girls
This week The Economist published its stunning cover story — "Gendercide: What Happened to 100 Million Baby Girls?" — ending media resistance to directly covering the horror. [Link]
Bad Attitude: The Newest 'Disorder'
In the past several decades we've come up with sympathetic psychological explanations for everything from shoplifting to adultery to murder. Apparently, however, this wasn't enough for the APA. [Link]
The Countersign: God's Servant in Haiti
What if your daily job were to work among the very poorest people in the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere? Taking food to the "most ferocious slums"? Collecting bloated corpses from unsanitary morgues? [Link]
Finding God's Direction in Your Life
Throughout my years as a pastor, a number of people have come to me for counsel on how to find the direction God has set forward for their life. I have to admit, my straightforwardness is not lacking in my response to them: "Have you prayed about it?" [Link]
The Importance of Being Able to Talk About Money
Even when couples have a strong, stable relationship – and regardless of how much money they have – money is still often a source of conflict. But, if you figure out how to talk about money, it pays dividends. [Link]
The Advantages of Paying with a Credit Card
Some say that no one should have a credit card. But used responsibly, credit cards can work in your favor. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, March 15, 2010 [1 Samuel 2:8-10]
He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap; he seats them with princes and has them inherit a throne of honor. 'For the foundations of the earth are the LORD's; upon them he has set the world. He will guard the feet of his saints, but the wicked will be silenced in darkness. 'It is not by strength that one prevails; those who oppose the LORD will be shattered. He will thunder against them from heaven; the LORD will judge the ends of the earth. 'He will give strength to his king and exalt the horn of his anointed.' 1 Samuel 2:8-10 NIV Listen [Link]
The best March Madness coach ever
As we get geared up for March Madness, let's pause and tip our hat to the best college basketball coach ever – John Wooden. He won 10 NCAA championships at UCLA and was victorious in 88 straight games. No other coach has ever reached even half of those staggering statistics. But, more importantly, John is an outstanding human being and an ideal role model for young men. As John approaches his 100th birthday this year, watch this moving video and learn about his incredible love for his wife and his secret to marriage. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: "Let's plan to have a March Madness party with your friends. Who would you like to invite over to watch a game with us?" [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, March 14, 2010 [1 John 1:5-7]
This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live by the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. 1 John 1:5-7 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, March 13, 2010 [James 3:13-18]
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness. James 3:13-18 NIV [Link]
Remembering Burma: One Refugee’s Story
When Neineh escaped the gunfire into a refugee camp in Thailand, he left a place that still tugs at his heart today. The Global Day of Prayer for Burma is March 14. [Link]
Contextualization Without Compromise
To some, contextualization means giving people what they want and telling people what they want to hear. But contextualization without compromise simply means giving people God’s answers (which they may not want) to the questions they’re really asking and in ways they can understand. Isn't that what Christ calls us to do? [Link]
Your Church Is Too Small: Recovering a Biblical Ecumenism
When the church, according to Jesus, is living in visible relationship with each other, it is then that the world will know that God the Father has sent the Son. Is this not the desire of every faithful, gospel-centered Christian? This why I recommend an important new book, "Your Church is Too Small" by Dr. John H. Armstrong. In doing so, I join with Dr. Packer in saying, “I hope this book will not be ignored but will have the influence it deserves. Aspects of North America’s future—aspects, indeed, of the honor and glory of Christ in this century—may well depend on whether or not it does.” More… [Link]
Record of Reality: Archaeological Discovery and Scripture
Once again, archaeology confirms the accuracy of biblical history. That’s good news, but should it affect how we believers view Scripture? [Link]
Ask Dr. David: Can Church Staff Disagree with Leadership?
Relationship doctor David B. Hawkins veers off his usual topic to answer a church staffer who shares that he/she is "scolded and shamed for voicing any contrary opinion" to that of the pastor. Is the reader wrong to offer up individual opinions? [Link]
Green Zone Might Make You See Red
Before Green Zone, Paul Greengrass and Matt Damon teamed for two of the Jason Bourne films to much better effect. Although the third Bourne film revolved around issues, its main concern was a character. Green Zone is about an issue—the Iraq War—rather than about its characters. [Link]
Brooding and Heartbreak Go Hand in Hand in Remember Me
For whatever reason, trouble and tragedy seem to follow Robert Pattinson's characters wherever they go. First as Edward Cullen, the vampire who sparkles in the sunlight in Twilight. And now, as Tyler Hawkins, a brooding young man straight out of J.D. Salinger's imagination. [Link]
No Need to Attend Our Family Wedding
Urban comedy-dramas (popularized by Tyler Perry) have become a niche staple of the spring and fall movie seasons. Our Family Wedding is another addition to this growing sub-genre, and it most certainly has to rank among the worst. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, March 12, 2010 [2 Corinthians 9:6-11]
Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work. As it is written: 'He has scattered abroad his gifts to the poor; his righteousness endures forever.' Now he who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. 2 Corinthians 9:6-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Things not to say to your wife
One of our favorite comedians, Tim Hawkins, has some thoughts on what not to say to your wife. Enjoy.Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: Let's all go around the dinner table tonight and say something nice about Mommy. [Link]
Women and Children First? A Tale of Two Ships
Aboard the Titanic, the men generally behaved with great concern for women and children, doing their best to get the women and children into the precious and insufficient seats in the lifeboats. The Lusitania sinking was another story. [Link]
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Limited Expression: A Bully in Nanny's Clothing
We should tolerate our neighbor wearing a cross, but he must tolerate his neighbor who wears a Darwin-fish T-shirt. [Link]
Gay Marriage v. Religious Freedom: A Cautionary Tale
Catholic Charities in Washington, D.C., has announced changes to its employees' health care benefits. Normally, this wouldn't be big news, but… [Link]
Donations for Chile Lag Far Behind Haiti Giving
While Chile's seismic activity registered as the seventh-most powerful earthquake in recorded history, that power hasn't come close to motivating the kind of benevolent giving that Haiti experienced. [Link]
Curb Your Inner Advice-Giver
"My husband tells me that I'm always correcting him," a middle-aged woman shared. "I suspect he's right, but I see so much wrong and I can't help but comment on it…" [Link]
How Much Do I Need to Know About My Potential Spouse’s Sexual Past? My Response
A young single Christian woman recently sent in this question. After giving it serious thought in view of the gospel and the gravity of all our sin, here is my response. [Link]
The Fruit of Hard Times
The devastation that I would've given anything to avoid years ago brought me my daughter and son, Sara and Jack… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, March 11, 2010 [1 Peter 4:14-17]
If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name. For it is time for judgment to begin with the family of God; and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 1 Peter 4:14-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Beauty is deceiving
If your daughter is overly concerned about her looks, make sure you emphasize what's really important – the beauty of her soul. As this video shows, what much of what our culture defines as beauty is manufactured. Tell your daughter constantly that she is pretty, but teach her to focus on what lasts forever – a beautiful soul. Your words will contrast those of our culture's "only-skin-deep" propaganda.Huddle up with your daughter tonight and tell her: What do you think of this video? Do you think beauty is on the inside or outside? [Link]
When Our Kids Hurt
When painful circumstances arise, our first impulse is to pick our kids up or bail them out. But hurtful experiences in our children's lives are catalysts for their spiritual growth – and ours. [Link]
How Does the Death of Jesus Save Me?
"Jesus died for my sins." What does that mean exactly? How could the death of Jesus help me get to heaven? What does the death of Christ save me from? [Link]
Hospitality: Become a Wounded Healer
The great writer Henri Nouwen describes hospitality in his beautiful book The Wounded Healer as "a central attitude of the minister who wants to make his own wounded condition available to others as a source of healing." [Link]
How to Live on the Spiritual Edge
If you are spiritually stuck not growing closer to God, it's time to gravitate over to the edge of what's comfortable. [Link]
Newsong Keeps Going Strong with Give Yourself Away
Co-writes with Matthew West, Sanctus Real's Matt Hammitt and album producer, Charlie Peacock (Switchfoot, Sara Groves), help propel the veteran group into its third decade of ministry with Give Yourself Away. [Link]
Austin Carty: Survivor of Life's High Points and Lows
You might remember him as being "the Christian guy" on 2006's Survivor: Panama. No? Then prepare to meet Austin Carty, natural-born storyteller and author of the new memoir, High Points and Lows: Life, Faith and Figuring It All Out. [Link]
'Avatar': Waiting for Salvation from Beyond
Even if E.T. is out there, the solution for the longing expressed in Contact and Avatar isn't to sit by the phone waiting for him, or imagining other life forms. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, March 10, 2010 [Colossians 1:19-23]
For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross. Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior. But now he has reconciled you by Christ's physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation–if you continue in your faith, established and firm, not moved from the hope held out in the gospel. This is the gospel that you heard and that has been proclaimed to every creature under heaven, and of which I, Paul, have become a servant. Colossians 1:19-23 NIV Listen [Link]
10 Fun Things to Do With Your Family on Spring Break
Spring Break is such a wonderful time to build family memories. You can hit the beach, visit a national park or attend a minor or major league baseball game. But there are also many great activities you can do with your family around town. Check out our 10 Fun Things to Do With Your Family on Spring Break and be sure to let us know how it goes! Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: What's something we can do this Spring Break that we have never done before? [Link]
Hospitality: Become a Wounded Healer
The great writer Henri Nouwen describes hospitality in his beautiful book The Wounded Healer as "a central attitude of the minister who wants to make his own wounded condition available to others as a source of healing." [Link]
Earthquake Relief Groups Take Different Paths in Chile, Haiti
In the early stages of disaster relief, the needs in both countries are almost identical. But the back-to-back disasters have revealed a stark contrast in the two countries' needs. [Link]
Mapping Your God-given Design
Are you ready to make a job or career change? If so, you need a good map! [Link]
Credit Card Culture: Incentivizing Greed
As a nation and as individuals, we’ve gotten to the point where we can hardly conceive of living life without access to an endless line of credit. The Credit CARD Act changes all that. [Link]
Obstacles that Could Keep You from Your Financial Goals
Growing up, I watched the hardest working man I knew, my grandfather, lose his entire life savings. Here's where he went wrong. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, March 9, 2010 [Philippians 2:14-18]
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life–in order that I may boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor for nothing. But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. So you too should be glad and rejoice with me. Philippians 2:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Winning back your wife's trust
College basketball coach Rick Pitino recently admitted to an extramarital affair, and publicly apologized to his family, friends and players. Pitino said "When you have a problem, if you tell the truth, your problem becomes a part of your past. If you lie, it becomes a part of your future." Sure, it was painful for him to tell the truth, and will be tough to win back the trust of his wife and family, but it would have been even more painful and agonizing to continue to live a lie.Read what Tony Dungy has to say about how to win back the trust of your wife. Then review these 14 ways to affair-proof your marriage.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What can I do to make you feel more secure? [Link]
The Most Spectacular Sin Ever Committed
Was it the driving of the nails? The thrusting of the spear? The mockery of Herod? The weaving of the thorns and pushing them down on his head with glee? Peter's denial? Or Judas, who kissed him for 30 pieces of silver? [Link]
Earthquake Relief Groups Take Different Paths in Chile, Haiti
In the early stages of disaster relief, the needs in both countries are almost identical. But the back-to-back disasters have revealed a stark contrast in the two countries' needs. [Link]
Individualism and the Death of Liberty
Individuals need to be protected. And if that protection does not come from the loving community of family and Church, the government steps in with all sorts of strings attached. [Link]
Etiquette Arising: Combating the Coarsening of Culture
Arnold Toynbee contended that one clear sign of a civilization’s decline is when the elites begin mimicking the vulgarity and promiscuity exhibited by society’s bottom-dwellers. The result: The entire culture is vulgarized. [Link]
Trusting God When Life Seems Unfair
Where is God when life seems unfair? My friend, Patricia, was wondering just that. "My husband is living with some woman in Palm Springs," Patricia told me bitterly. "He doesn't seem to have a care in the world. In the meantime, I'm struggling to make ends meet for me and the kids." [Link]
Is the Reformation Over?
The Rev. Eric Bergman thinks he has seen the future — and it isn't Protestant. But is the Reformation truly on its last gasp? [Link]
What is God's Purpose for Your Marriage?
Before the drain of daily duties entered your marriage, did you have a vision of purpose in your relationship? When we focus on God's calling on our marriage we reap a number of benefits. [Link]
A Mother Needs Faith, Not Perfection
Mom, if you tap your baton to the sheet music of Scripture, some amazing things can happen in your daughter' s heart… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, March 8, 2010 [Psalm 139:1-8]
O LORD, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O LORD. You hem me in–behind and before; you have laid your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. Psalm 139:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Talking to your children about death
Abraham Lincoln's eldest son, Robert Todd Lincoln, was on the scene of three separate presidential assassinations. He was summoned to his father's side after his father was mortally wounded at Ford's Theatre in 1865. He was also in the train station where President Garfield was shot. And Robert was invited to an event by William McKinley and, at that occasion, McKinley was assassinated. Tragedy followed Robert wherever he went.As a father, you never know when your children will be exposed to death, or what their reaction might be. Here is some wise advice on talking to your children about death. It's never too early to start.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: What do you think happens to someone when they die? [Link]
Is the Reformation Over?
The Rev. Eric Bergman thinks he has seen the future — and it isn't Protestant. But is the Reformation truly on its last gasp? [Link]
The Pastor's Second Biggest Job
Like a coach, the pastor's biggest job is turning his team into winners. The second is keeping them winners. Problem is, no team stays static. [Link]
Protecting the Shine: Why Ministers Need Ministry, Too
Stained glass windows are a lot like pastors – really good at hiding stormy weather. But despite the risks, it's essential that those of us in ministry allow others into our lives. [Link]
What is God's Purpose for Your Marriage?
Before the drain of daily duties entered your marriage, did you have a vision of purpose in your relationship? When we focus on God's calling on our marriage we reap a number of benefits. [Link]
Breaking the Cycle of Teen Drug Abuse
There's nothing more gut-wrenching for a parent than to deal with their teenager's drug addiction. It's like a slow death, not just for the teen, but for the the entire family. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, March 7, 2010 [James 1:12-15]
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. When tempted, no one should say, 'God is tempting me.' For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. James 1:12-15 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, March 6, 2010 [Hebrews 12:7-11]
Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:7-11 NIV [Link]
Tim Burton's Wild Imagination Put to Good Use in Alice in Wonderland
Given that Tim Burton has been the guy responsible for everything from the lovable Edward Scissorhands to the grisly Sweeney Todd, it's not surprising that Lewis Carroll's Alice in Wonderland would be a perfect vehicle for his unconventional filmmaking. [Link]
"Napkin Theology" an Example of One Man Influencing Culture Creatively
If you thought seminary took too much time and money, but were also convinced everyone lacked easily-accessible theological education, what would you create? Stan Ward's "Napkin Theology" is the latest example of Christians making Culture with quality and purpose. [Link]
Was Christianity Influenced by Mystery Religions?
Those determined to demolish the Biblical Jesus in the court of public opinion often state that His death, burial, and resurrection are myths borrowed from ancient pagan mystery religions. What's the truth? [Link]
Will I…?
God is looking for life-changers. He has given us everything we need for life and godliness and has empowered us with the ability to accomplish amazing things. But how? [Link]
Flimsy Finale, Depraved Behavior Doom Brooklyn's Finest
Brooklyn's Finest is tough going. Its solid performances (Don Cheadle, Ethan Hawke, Wesley Snipes) and hints of redemption make it better than many bad-cop dramas. But it spends too long wallowing in depraved behavior to qualify as recommended viewing. [Link]
Deas Vail's Birds & Cages Worth the Wait
From the opening falsetto and smart pop hook of "The Things You Were" through the somber piano refrains of "Atlantis," every single slice of this aural dessert is absolutely delicious. The wait has been worth every second. [Link]
Faith Takes Center Stage in Screen Play
Faith in Christ weaves a major theme throughout the story of Chris Coppernoll's Screen Play. Young actress Harper Gray has a strong but subtle faith. She does not fear obeying what she feels is the voice of the Spirit whispering to her. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, March 5, 2010 [Psalm 90:10-14]
The length of our days is seventy years–or eighty, if we have the strength; yet their span is but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away. Who knows the power of your anger? For your wrath is as great as the fear that is due you. Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Relent, O LORD! How long will it be? Have compassion on your servants. Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. Psalm 90:10-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Family life vs. business success
Oil billionaire J. Paul Getty put it succinctly when he said, "A long-lasting relationship with a woman is only possible if you are a business failure." Getty, married five times, ended his life living with someone who was not his wife. His theory was that you can't have it all – you can't be successful in business and have a good marriage. There's just not time. You must do either one or the other. Tony Dungy begs to differ. Hear what he says about making time for your wife, even in the midst of a very successful life. Huddle up with your wife and ask her tonight: What's one thing you would like to do with me this weekend? [Link]
Worldview in a Nutshell: Everything You Need to Know
Those who are beginning to become aware of worldview issues, and who are interested in living the deeper, more all-engaging life of Christian worldview, will need to be able to express their convictions. [Link]
No Money to Start a Business? No Problem!
Frankly, I've never had enough money to start a business – but I just went ahead anyway with whatever resources I had available. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, March 4, 2010 [Galatians 5:16-21]
So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law. The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:16-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't neglect your daughter
The Journal of Family Psychology noted that 41% of fathers with sons spent more time with their child, compared to 16% for dads of daughters. In other words, many dads simply do not hang out with their daughters to the extent they hang out with their sons. This is unfair. Sons may be easier for dads to relate to because of some shared interests and points of view, but girls need every bit as much of their dad's attention as boys do. If you have a daughter, talk to your wife about different ways you can enter her world – even if you don't always understand. If you're not there for your baby girl, some other guy will be. And that's a gamble you don't want to take.Dads, learn more about what your daughter is feeling, and what she needs from you. Huddle up and ask your daughter tonight: When can we go out on a "date?" [Link]
The Survivors Club: Finding Faith to Carry You Through Disaster
With each heart wrenching update on every natural disaster, we wonder how we would cope if the places were switched. Could we endure the shock of losing everything and everyone we loved? Would we maintain hope and faith? Would we be generous to others? [Link]
Faithless New World: TV Imagines a Britain Minus Christianity
Survivors, a flu pandemic has killed 99 percent of the human race. The characters have all the diversity you could wish for — except when it comes to religion. [Link]
Black Children Are an Endangered Species?
Catherine Davis is a woman with a message, and that message is getting harder to ignore. "Black children are an endangered species." [Link]
So Soon after Haiti, Chile Earthquake Tests Aid Groups
Disaster relief officials are faced with a challenging task, trying to arrange assistance to victims of Chile's massive 8.8 earthquake while maintaining full-speed ahead operations in Haiti. [Link]
Phone Apps are Making it Easy to Track Finances on the Go
Droids, iPhones, Blackberries — these are not your father's cell phones. Here is an overview of some of the "apps" leading the personal-finance revolution. [Link]
College Kids and Credit Cards: A Deadly Duo
Less than ten percent of college kids carried credit cards in the 1990's. Approximately 70 percent carry these little gems today. [Link]
No Money to Start a Business? No Problem!
Frankly, I've never had enough money to start a business – but I just went ahead anyway with whatever resources I had available. [Link]
Top 10 Articles of February 2010
What causes some people to lose faith while others find rest in Christ? This and more in February's most popular articles. [Link]
The Meeting of the Waters: Currents Affecting the Church
Changes are rippling through the global Church, creating challenges and opportunities like never before. [Link]
The View from Mount Nebo: Learning from Moses' Fall from Leadership
As Moses discovered, all leaders are dispensable. Especially when they forget the source of their power. [Link]
Pay It Upward!
Maybe you have heard the phrase "pay it forward." The expression "pay it forward" has come to describe the concept of asking that a person repay a good turn by having it done to others instead of "paid back." When someone does something good for you, in turn you do something good for someone else — not a bad way to generate a conspiracy of kindness. I understand that some plan to designate Thursday, April 29, 2010, as "Pay It Forward Day." [Link]
Sticking with the Ongoing Work of Marriage
Dr. David: We read a good book and practice what the author teaches, and then some time later we're right back to our old habits. What can we do to keep our progress going? [Link]
Where Homeschooling is Outlawed — Asylum?
The Romeikes are homeschoolers who are determined to provide the education for their children. In Morristown, that is about as controversial as bass fishing, but in Germany it is a crime. [Link]
Handling Teen Misbehavior
When a teen breaks the rules, they need a responsible adult to respond, not react. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, March 3, 2010 [1 Chronicles 16:8-15]
Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts. Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice. Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced, O descendants of Israel his servant, O sons of Jacob, his chosen ones. He is the LORD our God; his judgments are in all the earth. He remembers his covenant forever, the word he commanded, for a thousand generations, 1 Chronicles 16:8-15 NIV Listen [Link]
10 ways to tackle teen drinking
Newsweek reports, "People who drink before age 15 are four times as likely to be alcohol-dependent or have alcohol problems when they're adults. Even though drinking under the age of 21 is illegal in all 50 states, 41 percent of ninth graders reported drinking in the past month, according to National Institutes of Health literature." Underage drinking is a serious problem. If you suspect your pre-teen or teen is drinking, don't sweep it under the rug. It's not just a rite of passage; it's a prescription for disaster. Read this for 10 ways to tackle teen drinking.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Three ways drinking can ruin your life are: ____, ____, and ____. [Link]
Tiger's Tale and the Truth about Sexual Addiction
Eyes often roll at the term "sexual addiction." For some, this misunderstood concept feels like an excuse for poor behavior. Author Meg Wilson, who once walked a path similar to Elin's, clears up common misconceptions. [Link]
Michigan Rethinks No-Fault Divorce
No-fault divorce laws put the entire society at fault for weakening and injuring the most basic institution of human life and culture. There is plenty of fault to go around on this one. [Link]
Cop Out Wears Its Juvenile Humor Like a Badge of Honor
In what's supposed to be a cheeky homage to '80s crime-fighting fare like Beverly Hills Cop, Lethal Weapon and of course, Die Hard, Cop Out is nothing more than a 107-minute string of bad jokes without the benefit of a punch line. [Link]
Indie Rock Roots Maintained on Abandon Kansas' Debut
While Abandon Kansas amassed so much attention locally that its sound earned the attention of Gotee Records, this debut EP maintains its artful, indie rock roots—yet creatively manages to have mainstream appeal in the process. [Link]
Blind Sided by the Gospel
The Blind Side, the surprise blockbuster movie that tells the remarkable story of Baltimore Ravens offensive tackle Michael Oher. Michael’s story is a true-life tale of nearly hopeless beginnings, the generous love of neighbor, and redemption; it is a powerful representation of the gospel of the kingdom. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, March 2, 2010 [Leviticus 19:32-37]
' 'Rise in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the LORD. ' 'When an alien lives with you in your land, do not mistreat him. The alien living with you must be treated as one of your native-born. Love him as yourself, for you were aliens in Egypt. I am the LORD your God. ' 'Do not use dishonest standards when measuring length, weight or quantity. Use honest scales and honest weights, an honest ephah and an honest hin. I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt. ' 'Keep all my decrees and all my laws and follow them. I am the LORD.' ' Leviticus 19:32-37 NIV Listen [Link]
Be your child's cardiologist
You should be your child's cardiologist. Your primary concern for them should be their heart. What is their attitude? Are they mean-spirited or are they kind? Are they loving or selfish? It's all about what motivates our children. When your child's heart is right, their life will be right. See what Tony Dungy has to say about the type of "heart attitude" he tries to instill in his children, and in the players he coached.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: Do you know someone who is selfish? How do you think it will affect their future? [Link]
Hope for Health Care Reform after the Summit
To both sides, I say, "Enough!" Enough of playing politics with our health care. There are real, tangible reforms that you can accomplish now. [Link]
Chileans Survey Earthquake Damage, Count Their Blessings
As the fear of tsunamis diminishes, Chileans are confronting the greater devastation facing their country after Saturday's historic earthquake. [Link]
He Said-She Said: Turning Down Suitors, Signs of Availability & More
This month, "he" and "she" attempt to answer several questions related to turning down suitors, whether or not someone is married (hello, where's the wedding band?), cultural and racial differences in relationships and much more. [Link]
Unholy Trinity: Outraged at TBN's Brazen False Teaching
All those who truly love Christ and care about the truth have a solemn duty to defend the truth by exposing and opposing lies that masquerade as truth. [Link]
When Your Faith Needs a Stretch
What would have happened if I had answered the young mother's telephone call? Would I have discouraged her from praying for healing for her baby? My faith needed help. [Link]
The Shack — The Missing Art of Evangelical Discernment
The Shack is now one of the best-selling paperback books of all time, and its readers are enthusiastic. But the theology is not incidental to the story. [Link]
Regret-Free Living: Making Decisions Backwards
Here are some "backward thinking" principles you can use now to live a life that will culminate in experiencing a sense of joy, not regret, about what you have done with your time on earth. [Link]
Buyer Beware: Addressing the Student Loan Problem
It isn’t right for financially incompetent young Americans to be penalized for decades because no adult who knew better stopped them from making a foolish financial mistake. [Link]
Find the Best Interest Rates on Savings Accounts
Somewhere between dismal and no-way-no-how are a few precious organizations that are offering higher rates without a lot of restrictions, conditions or fees. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, March 1, 2010 [Matthew 5:13-16]
'You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. 'You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
What basketball can be
March Madness tips off soon, and what better what to start it than by watching one of the most amazing basketball stories you'll ever see. This inspiring video about Jason McElwain, "J Mac", will leaving you smiling and thinking about what is possible, even when the odds seem to be stacked against you.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Is there something you are afraid to try? Why? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, February 28, 2010 [Philippians 3:12-14]
Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14 NIV [Link]
"State of Catastrophe…" Earthquake Rocks Chile, Pacific Tsunami Expected
CNN and other news agencies are reporting that magnitude 8.8 earthquake rocked Chile early Saturday, killing over 100 people and triggering tsunami warnings for Hawaii and the entire Pacific basin. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, February 27, 2010 [Galatians 6:1-6]
Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load. Anyone who receives instruction in the word must share all good things with his instructor. Galatians 6:1-6 NIV [Link]
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Speed Skaters Race with a Bigger Perspective
When U.S. speed skaters Trevor Marsicano and Chad Hedrick take the ice tonight in the men’s team pursuit, medals are only part of their pursuit. [Link]
Olympics: Faith Stirs Women's Bobsled Duo to "Work Stuff Out"
Erin Pac and Elana Meyers may be bobsled teammates, but they haven't always been the best of friends. Their shared commitment to the Lord has helped them overcome the obstacles in their relationship. [Link]
Lessons From The Downhill
I have loved watching the Olympic skiing. I sit slack-jawed as I watch Bode Miller and Lindsay Vonn attack the slopes with absolute abandon. I have skiied a little over the years although, to be authentic, my form more closely resembles Herman Munster on skis than Bode Miller. Still I have experienced enough to know how amazing and fearless these athletes are. [Link]
Mandatory Sex Education for Ten-Year-Olds? Yours?
Planned Parenthood is calling for compulsory comprehensive sexuality education for every child and young person ages 10 to 24 on the planet. [Link]
Global Warming Alarmism Melts Down with Phil Jones's Admissions
Forget all you've heard about unprecedented global warming. One scientist's revelations have dealt a mortal wound to the case for manmade climate change. [Link]
Fighting the Sex Trade with Jewelry: Worldview Gems
Some 230 years ago, Josiah Wedgwood designed a medallion featuring an African in chains to generate conversations about slavery. Today, two women are taking that principle to their jewelry business. [Link]
The Founders: How Christian Were They?
The battle over how Christian the founders were is likely to continue in Texas and across the country. The truth lies somewhere in between the two extremes. [Link]
Life and Times in Christian Music Recounted in Hear No Evil
Growing up fundamentalist in the early days of Contemporary Christian music can result in lasting … I hate to say scars, but it certainly leaves a mark. Matthew Paul Turner bares his bumps and bruises for the world to see in Hear No Evil. [Link]
TobyMac Brings More Attitude, Extra Juice to Tonight
On this follow-up to the triumphant Portable Sounds, TobyMac once again delivers his remarkably consistent rap/hip-hop/alternative rock aura—but with some extra juice and more attitude than ever before. [Link]
Seabird Attempts to Quell the Tide with Rocks
For a band quoted as perfectly content "being the underdog" for their entire career if "that meant surprising the critics and naysayers every time we scored a touchdown," Seabird must have ignored their recent mainstream achievements. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, February 26, 2010 [Psalm 104:24-30]
How many are your works, O LORD! In wisdom you made them all; the earth is full of your creatures. There is the sea, vast and spacious, teeming with creatures beyond number–living things both large and small. There the ships go to and fro, and the leviathan, which you formed to frolic there. These all look to you to give them their food at the proper time. When you give it to them, they gather it up; when you open your hand, they are satisfied with good things. When you hide your face, they are terrified; when you take away their breath, they die and return to the dust. When you send your Spirit, they are created, and you renew the face of the earth. Psalm 104:24-30 NIV Listen [Link]
When your family needs healing
Whether your family needs physical or emotional healing, take a few minutes to watch this inspiring video and remember, no matter how tough your situation is now, you are never alone.Huddle up with your kids tonight and tell them: Something really hard I had to go through in life was ____. I was able to push through it by ____. [Link]
Don't Forget about Haiti's Orphans
God, where are you? It has been a popular question during the weeks following the earthquake in Haiti. Personally, I believe God asks that same question of us: "Where are you?" [Link]
In Praise of Small Churches
Abraham Lincoln once said of common folk, "God must have loved them; He made so many of them." The same can be said of small churches, but we seem to have forgotten that. Someone should put in a good word for the small church… [Link]
Falling on Deaf Ears? Why So Many Churches Hear So Little of the Bible
"It is well and good for the preacher to base his sermon on the Bible, but he better get to something relevant pretty quickly, or we start mentally to check out." [Link]
How Did You Become a Preacher?
Looking for great preachers, it would appear, was never on God's shopping list. [Link]
Is it Possible to Rebuild Trust after Unfaithfulness?
Is it possible to fully trust your spouse again after an affair? Gary and Mona Shriver, authors of Unfaithful, know the challenges of healing from infidelity well. Here, they discuss how they rebuilt the trust. [Link]
Creating a Safe Place for Feelings to Land
Phil and Amanda are part of a large number of couples who guard their feelings excessively from one another. Why do spouses withdraw from one another and what can you do to encourage your spouse to open up? [Link]
Is Your Family Called to Foster Care or Adoption?
Across the nation, I have talked with many Christian adults who would like to become foster parents but have never taken that step because of fear of failure and the unknown. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, February 25, 2010 [Jude 1:18-23]
They said to you, 'In the last times there will be scoffers who will follow their own ungodly desires.' These are the men who divide you, who follow mere natural instincts and do not have the Spirit. But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith and pray in the Holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in God's love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life. Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them; to others show mercy, mixed with fear–hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh. Jude 1:18-23 NIV Listen [Link]
The threat in your neighborhood
Many states have websites where you can type in your zip code and find out how many, and where, sex offenders in your neighborhood live. Some people may abuse these websites and harass the criminals, but that is not what you need to do. Rather, understand that sex offenders are out there and keep your children away from them. Always know where your kids are, and instruct them to NEVER talk to or go with strangers… sometimes even those across the street.Here's how to find out if a sexual predator lives near you.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: How can we better protect our children from predators? [Link]
How to Become the Person You Want to Be
Pursuing certain accomplishments in life isn't nearly as important as becoming the person God created me to be. Here's how I can become The Me I Want to Be. [Link]
Mirroring the Master
Jesus initiated many relationships with the lost. When we cherish God's Word as Jesus did, it leads to conversations that venture below the surface to deeper spiritual issues. [Link]
Are You Too Old?
I often have people tell me they think they are "too old" to: learn another language, go back to school, rebuild broken relationships, etc. But is this true? [Link]
Why the Economic Crisis is the Greatest Opportunity in 150 Years
If you are being impacted by the current economic downturn let me encourage you not to fear! We know who holds the future. [Link]
Finance Q&A: When Should I Start Collecting Social Security?
Are there benefits to receiving your Social Security checks early, or should those closing in on retirement wait? Expert Deborah Nayrocker answers. [Link]
Christianity: Not for Pollyanna People
Cynicism is gossip with hair on its chest. [Link]
Ministries Seek Excellence During Olympic Outreach
As the games continue, it is the friendliness, helpfulness and generosity tens of thousands of volunteers who are winning the hearts of the international athletes and guests. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, February 24, 2010 [Proverbs 4:20-27]
My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my words. Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; for they are life to those who find them and health to a man's whole body. Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. Put away perversity from your mouth; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze directly before you. Make level paths for your feet and take only ways that are firm. Do not swerve to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil. Proverbs 4:20-27 NIV Listen [Link]
Is Facebook a problem?
The next time Jonathan Parker wants to burglarize a house, maybe he'll stick to his priorities. After rifling through draws and cabinets before making off with a pair of diamond rings, Parker stopped to check his Facebook profile on his victim's home computer and neglected to log off. Police easily tracked him down and charged him with a felony burglary count.Facebook can be a great tool, but can trip up children as well as burglars. If you are concerned about your children's use of Facebook, try these 10 guidelines for sensible social media use.And if you're a Facebook user, be sure to fan All Pro Dad and Coach Dungy!Huddle up and ask your children tonight: Do you think people can get addicted to Facebook? Why or why not? [Link]
Christianity: Not for Pollyanna People
Cynicism is gossip with hair on its chest. [Link]
Mirroring the Master
Jesus initiated many relationships with the lost. When we cherish God's Word as Jesus did, it leads to conversations that venture below the surface to deeper spiritual issues. [Link]
How to Become the Person You Want to Be
Pursuing certain accomplishments in life isn't nearly as important as becoming the person God created me to be. Here's how I can become The Me I Want to Be. [Link]
Why the Economic Crisis is the Greatest Opportunity in 150 Years
If you are being impacted by the current economic downturn let me encourage you not to fear! We know who holds the future. [Link]
Are You Too Old?
I often have people tell me they think they are "too old" to: learn another language, go back to school, rebuild broken relationships, etc. But is this true? [Link]
Finance Q&A: When Should I Start Collecting Social Security?
Are there benefits to receiving your Social Security checks early, or should those closing in on retirement wait? Expert Deborah Nayrocker answers. [Link]
NewsNote: Tiger Woods’ Buddhist Confession
Tiger Woods made a remarkable statement of confession. But the most remarkable aspect of his confession is its Buddhist shape. American Christians should look at those words with care. [Link]
Once Blind, Now He Sees: Miracle Stem Cell Cures
Russell Turnbull, who was nearly blind in one eye, has had his sight almost completely restored, thanks to a pioneering procedure using stem cells. Adult stem cells. [Link]
What Is the Role of Faith in Global Warming Debates?
Different faith commitments can lead to very different hypotheses about the warming effects of added greenhouse gases, leading to very different conclusions about impacts and policy. [Link]
Check the Health of Your Remarriage
All married couples face pressures that can harm or destroy their marriages. But spouses in remarriages are even more vulnerable. [Link]
Teen Pregnancy Hype
To cause as much public panic as possible, the pro-teen-sex activists would have you believe that the teen pregnancy rate has increased across the board for all teenagers ages 13-19. But it is not so. [Link]
Is Embryo Adoption Immoral?
I contend that parents who adopt "frozen embryos" are no more endorsing the immoral IVF technologies involved than parents adopting from an unwed mother are endorsing fornication or adultery. (Read more) [Link]
NewsNote: Tiger Woods’ Buddhist Confession
Tiger Woods made a remarkable statement of confession. But the most remarkable aspect of his confession is its Buddhist shape. American Christians should look at those words with care. [Link]
Once Blind, Now He Sees: Miracle Stem Cell Cures
Russell Turnbull, who was nearly blind in one eye, has had his sight almost completely restored, thanks to a pioneering procedure using stem cells. Adult stem cells. [Link]
What Is the Role of Faith in Global Warming Debates?
Different faith commitments can lead to very different hypotheses about the warming effects of added greenhouse gases, leading to very different conclusions about impacts and policy. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, February 23, 2010 [Galatians 5:19-26]
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other. Galatians 5:19-26 NIV Listen [Link]
Protecting your kids from marketing predators
Merchants of Cool. It features firsthand testimonies from media moguls about how they market to youngsters, not based on conscience, but on cash. It's a very in-depth (and warning – parts are explicit) series and free to view online. Your views of pop culture might change profoundly. And go here for 10 ways to monitor media in your kid's life.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Who is your favorite singer? [Link]
Living for God Without a SmartPhone
Sometimes I wonder what I would do if my smartphone not only "enhanced" my life, but could also "foretell" it. What "app" would I install—one that would give me the ability to know everything that will happen in my life? Or maybe one that tells me the right decision to make? [Link]
Teen Pregnancy Hype
To cause as much public panic as possible, the pro-teen-sex activists would have you believe that the teen pregnancy rate has increased across the board for all teenagers ages 13-19. But it is not so. [Link]
Check the Health of Your Remarriage
All married couples face pressures that can harm or destroy their marriages. But spouses in remarriages are even more vulnerable. [Link]
Is Embryo Adoption Immoral?
I contend that parents who adopt "frozen embryos" are no more endorsing the immoral IVF technologies involved than parents adopting from an unwed mother are endorsing fornication or adultery. (Read more) [Link]
My Rumspringa
Pastor Joshua Harris' latest book "Dug Down Deep" unearths what Christians believe and why it matters. Read his opening pages of this 21st century guide to knowing Christ. You may never view superficial Christianity the same way again. [Link]
What Starbucks, Harry and You All Have in Common (Heb. 2:2-3)
When the church functions as Jesus established it to function, it is a safe place where we can bear one another's burdens. [Link]
The Year's Best Preaching Books and the 2010 Preaching Book of the Year
Each year seems to bring new treasures to the preacher's bookshelf, and 2009 was no exception. While there was not an abundance of publications in the field of homiletics, there were some quality offerings released in recent months. Several titles were legitimate contenders for our Preaching Book of the Year recognition this time, but the winner is being cited because of the breadth of quality resources it makes available in the field of preaching. [Link]
Shivers Galore on Shutter Island
Dreamlike and full of haunting imagery and music, Shutter Island is based on a novel by Dennis Lehane and is a spectacular downer with several moments of great emotional anguish. But it ends on such a grim note that it's hard to imagine anyone enjoying the film. [Link]
Conversation Leads to an Interesting Tea with Hezbollah
It started as a conversation at the Hard Rock Café in Denver. Author Ted Dekker posed the question: "Is it really possible to love your enemy?" Co-author Carl Medearis replied, "Why don't we find out?" And thus, Tea with Hezbollah was born. [Link]
Collision: Christopher Hitchens and Douglas Wilson
What began as a correspondence between atheist Christopher Hitchens and conservative Christian Douglas Wilson has led to a co-authored book, a debate tour, and now a fascinating documentary. [Link]
The Year's Best Preaching Books and the 2010 Preaching Book of the Year
Each year seems to bring new treasures to the preacher's bookshelf, and 2009 was no exception. While there was not an abundance of publications in the field of homiletics, there were some quality offerings released in recent months. Several titles were legitimate contenders for our Preaching Book of the Year recognition this time, but the winner is being cited because of the breadth of quality resources it makes available in the field of preaching. [Link]
Did He Get Married Too Young?
David Lapp, age 22, is now happily married. In a Wall Street Journal column, he deals head-on with objections to young marriage. [Link]
My Rumspringa
Pastor Joshua Harris' latest book "Dug Down Deep" unearths what Christians believe and why it matters. Read his opening pages of this 21st century guide to knowing Christ. You may never view superficial Christianity the same way again. [Link]
What Starbucks, Harry and You All Have in Common (Heb. 2:2-3)
When the church functions as Jesus established it to function, it is a safe place where we can bear one another's burdens. [Link]
Shivers Galore on Shutter Island
Dreamlike and full of haunting imagery and music, Shutter Island is based on a novel by Dennis Lehane and is a spectacular downer with several moments of great emotional anguish. But it ends on such a grim note that it's hard to imagine anyone enjoying the film. [Link]
Conversation Leads to an Interesting Tea with Hezbollah
It started as a conversation at the Hard Rock Café in Denver. Author Ted Dekker posed the question: "Is it really possible to love your enemy?" Co-author Carl Medearis replied, "Why don't we find out?" And thus, Tea with Hezbollah was born. [Link]
Collision: Christopher Hitchens and Douglas Wilson
What began as a correspondence between atheist Christopher Hitchens and conservative Christian Douglas Wilson has led to a co-authored book, a debate tour, and now a fascinating documentary. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, February 22, 2010 [Zephaniah 3:14-17]
Sing, O Daughter of Zion; shout aloud, O Israel! Be glad and rejoice with all your heart, O Daughter of Jerusalem! The LORD has taken away your punishment, he has turned back your enemy. The LORD, the King of Israel, is with you; never again will you fear any harm. On that day they will say to Jerusalem, 'Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands hang limp. The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.' Zephaniah 3:14-17 NIV Listen [Link]
You'll never believe who failed
Do your children think they fail at just about everything? Watch this video with them and discuss how success is nothing more than persevering and refusing to accept failure.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think a winner always succeeds, all the time? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, February 21, 2010 [2 Corinthians 6:3-10]
We put no stumbling block in anyone's path, so that our ministry will not be discredited. Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything. 2 Corinthians 6:3-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, February 20, 2010 [1 Corinthians 9:24-27]
Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 NIV [Link]
Pick Your Battles, Atheists: The Mother Teresa Stamp
If you hate religion so much that you can't bear to see a person like Mother Teresa honored, you need to take a hard look at your own worldview. [Link]
Haiti Judge Frees 8 of 10 Baptist Detainees
Judge Bernard Saint-Vil said two volunteers would not be freed. Laura Silsby, the group's leader, and her nanny are being kept for further investigation. [Link]
NewsNote: Just How Secular Can an Education Be?
Lisa Miller is taking Harvard University to task for its "crisis of faith" — which amounts to a crisis in its curriculum for undergraduates. As Miller explains, "the Harvard faculty cannot cope with religion." [Link]
Is It Okay for Me to Opt Out of Social Security?
This question was recently sent to me from a young Baptist minister. Here's my response to it. [Link]
Planning for Fewer Financial Fights with Your Spouse
Money is a well-known source of conflict among married couples, but new research shows that the use of a simple-though-unpopular financial tool may help dial down their financial fights. [Link]
God Controls Even Our Suffering
How does a biblical understanding of God’s love and sovereignty serve to encourage and sustain us during trials? [Link]
Pick Your Battles, Atheists: The Mother Teresa Stamp
If you hate religion so much that you can't bear to see a person like Mother Teresa honored, you need to take a hard look at your own worldview. [Link]
Investment in Climate Change Means Snow Has to Go
Given what’s at stake, inconvenient snow and cold has to be explained away, even as leading climate change scientists admit that no significant warming has occurred since 1995. [Link]
Haiti Judge Frees 8 of 10 Baptist Detainees
Judge Bernard Saint-Vil said two volunteers would not be freed. Laura Silsby, the group's leader, and her nanny are being kept for further investigation. [Link]
Is It Okay for Me to Opt Out of Social Security?
This question was recently sent to me from a young Baptist minister. Here's my response to it. [Link]
Planning For Fewer Financial Fights With Your Spouse
Money is a well-known source of conflict among married couples, but new research shows that the use of a simple-though-unpopular financial tool may help dial down their financial fights. [Link]
All Beginnings Are Hopeful
In all my years of coaching, I have never seen a person who has a clear plan and goals who is also depressed. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, February 19, 2010 [1 Chronicles 16:23-31]
Sing to the LORD, all the earth; proclaim his salvation day after day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples. For great is the LORD and most worthy of praise; he is to be feared above all gods. For all the gods of the nations are idols, but the LORD made the heavens. Splendor and majesty are before him; strength and joy in his dwelling place. Ascribe to the LORD, O families of nations, ascribe to the LORD glory and strength, ascribe to the LORD the glory due his name. Bring an offering and come before him; worship the LORD in the splendor of his holiness. Tremble before him, all the earth! The world is firmly established; it cannot be moved. Let the heavens rejoice, let the earth be glad; let them say among the nations, 'The LORD reigns!' 1 Chronicles 16:23-31 NIV Listen [Link]
Lead An Uncommon Event with your friends and family
Score a touchdown with your friends and family by offering this DVD study led by Coach Tony Dungy! Tony shares core truths he wants men to understand, live by, and pass on to their families. Each session challenges men to live a more significant life. This group study is flexible and great for an all-day event, church weekend retreat, or four weekly or monthly study sessions (it's divided into four segments). The event kit contains a DVD with 60 minutes of Coach Dungy explaining what it means to become a person of faith, significance and influence; a CD with easy-edit promo pieces, a leader's manual with session questions, activities, and sample schedules; and two pass-it-on coasters that spark discussions and cinch key points. Hear from Coach Dungy about this exciting event, then go here for more details or to order your kit.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: Should we do a series like this with some other families we know? [Link]
What the Bible Says about the Persecuted — And Us
The question is not whether the church under persecution may be blessed. The question, rather, is whether we want the blessings that come to those who take an unpopular stand for religious liberty. [Link]
"Jesus Christ, Teach Us to Pray"
Jesus didn’t always go to the same room and close the door behind Him when He prayed, but He did consistently find private places to spend time in intimate prayer with His Father. How many times a week do we do that? How many times in a year? [Link]
How to Conquer Your Fear of Sharing Your Faith
Jesus has called everyone who follows Him to take the Gospel message to the world, yet studies show that only two percent of professing Christians evangelize. Read on if you hope to overcome your fear of sharing the good news. [Link]
The Different Types of Fasts
Dr. Peter Holme's, author of The Fasting Journey, looks at the various types of fasts you can undertake. [Link]
10 Lenten Traditions to Enrich Your Family's Easter Celebration
As new believers, we wanted our relationship with Christ to be part of our family’s daily life – not just Sunday only. Traditions provide vivid impressions on children which parents can build year after year… [Link]
Teenagers Seeking Purpose
I am convinced that if more kids knew their purpose, they'd have fewer struggles in the teen years. They'd feel a sense of meaning; they'd know where they are headed and concentrate on getting there. [Link]
Confronting an Irresponsible Spouse
Too many people tolerate too much abuse in marriage, believing it somehow virtuous to be longsuffering. The Apostle Paul clearly advises us on setting boundaries in marriage, and allowing for strong consequences when those boundaries are violated… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, February 18, 2010 [Nehemiah 1:5-9]
Then I said: 'O LORD, God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love with those who love him and obey his commands, let your ear be attentive and your eyes open to hear the prayer your servant is praying before you day and night for your servants, the people of Israel. I confess the sins we Israelites, including myself and my father's house, have committed against you. We have acted very wickedly toward you. We have not obeyed the commands, decrees and laws you gave your servant Moses. 'Remember the instruction you gave your servant Moses, saying, 'If you are unfaithful, I will scatter you among the nations, but if you return to me and obey my commands, then even if your exiled people are at the farthest horizon, I will gather them from there and bring them to the place I have chosen as a dwelling for my Name.' Nehemiah 1:5-9 NIV Listen [Link]
A good hiding place for your daughter's heart
It has been said that a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man should have to seek Him first to find her. Encourage your daughter to be like that. Talk to her about the importance of faith and doing what's right in the Lord's eyes, and encourage her that everything else in life will take care of itself. Hear what Coach Dungy has to say about sharing your faith with your daughter. Huddle up with your daughter tonight and ask her: What do you think of when I say the word God? [Link]
Robert Duvall Finds Fresh Inspiration in Independent Films Like Crazy Heart
In an age where special effects and superheroes reign supreme at the box office, veteran actor and producer Robert Duvall is happily swimming against the tide by developing smaller projects he's passionate about—character-driven fare like Crazy Heart, the redemptive story of washed-up country star Bad Blake. [Link]
Are Preachers Too Silent About Sex?
Evangelical Christians will rightly reject just about everything found in this new report from the Religious Institute, but they should not avoid its urgency in calling pastors and Christian leaders to teach and preach about sex and sexuality. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, February 17, 2010 [Deuteronomy 6:4-9]
Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Make Your Life Rich without Money
It turns out that the old adage is true – the best things in life are free. Here's how you can make your life rich without money. [Link]
Writing Your "Thank You" Letter after an Interview
Taking the time to write a thank you letter or note right after your interview is essential; many employers eliminate candidates who do not take this important step. [Link]
Popular Money Advice You Shouldn't Take
Some financial advice sounds good on paper but can end up costing you more when put into practice. [Link]
Uninspired "Wolfman" is a Howler
With so much going for it, The Wolfman should offer a moody atmosphere, a few good scares and actors who set the right tone for the material. But it turns out the new film is merely "inspired by" the earlier Wolfman—but doesn't exhibit much inspiration at all. [Link]
Despite Buildup, Unhindered Falls Short on Be
Though its intentions are certainly noble and there's no doubt that Teen Mania Ministries' EE-Taow Records' first signees, Unhindered, are sincere, the group's national debut disc Be falls a bit short of the buildup. [Link]
Law Abiding Citizen Hits One of the Year's Low Points
Mixing sexual violence with moments of torture-porn, Law Abiding Citizen is one of the year’s low points at the cinema—an offensive, ugly piece of work that offers no moral nor anything memorable except its sadism. [Link]
Stand out from the stats
According to the National Center for Fathering, 40% of dads never read to their children, 58% never volunteer at their child's school, 77% never have breakfast or lunch with their children at school and 37% never visit their child's classroom. It's possible to do all four at the same time, and encourage other men to do the same, with our All Pro Dad's Day monthly school breakfast program. Watch this moving story about the man who started Dad's Day after he lost his son, and then see Tony Dungy's passion about All Pro Dad's Day.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: Do you think we get to spend enough time together? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, February 16, 2010 [Galatians 5:13-17]
You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. The entire law is summed up in a single command: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. Galatians 5:13-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Your father's memory of you
Your father, if he is still alive, is getting on in years. Have you told him lately how much you love and appreciate him? Watch this touching video and be reminded that the older he gets, the more precious his memories of you become to him.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: What is something special we can do for Grandpa? [Link]
No Such Thing as President's Day?
Washington was, in fact, a Christian. Those who claim he was a deist probably don't know what a deist is. [Link]
We Are the Body: How to Become a Practicing Church
If we're going to be a congregation that does more than come to church and benefit from what the church has to offer, we must learn together how to Embody Our Faith. [Link]
Haiti: Following Jesus through the Eye of the Needle
In 2003 Kent Annan left America behind to live in Haiti, where people wear his cast-off clothing and seek comfort from the heat in the long shadow of his homeland. Here, he shares the experiences of his first few months among Haiti's people. [Link]
Making Up Evangelical History
The idea that Roe v. Wade was not a precipitating factor in the formation of conservative evangelical political engagement serves as a classic example of historic revisionism. [Link]
Mystery and Romance: Does a Christian Marriage Need Them?
Women long for romance but often don't feel their marriages meet their expectations. Hayley DiMarco, author of The Woman of Mystery, shares some common mistakes wives make and how they can reawaken both mystery and romance in their lives. [Link]
Now You Change?
Caroline's husband finally decided to seek help for his destructive behavior. So why is Caroline still mad? Dr. David offers insights into the confusing feelings that often accompany these situations. [Link]
How to Catch Your Kids in a Lie
That first lie told by a three-, four- or five-year-old is a landmark. It's a moment of huge consequence during which a moral code begins to take shape. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, February 15, 2010 [Leviticus 19:15-18]
'Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly. 'Do not go about spreading slander among your people. Do not do anything that endangers your neighbor's life. I am the LORD. Do not hate your brother in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in his guilt. Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.' Leviticus 19:15-18 NIV Listen [Link]
What you didn't know about bracelets
There is a new trend in schools. Some students are wearing jelly bracelets in colors that reveal their level of sexual comfort. All a student has to do is "snap" the bracelet and set a date and time for whatever sexual activity the bracelet represents. One website breaks the colors down as follows:Yellow – indicates the wearer is willing to hugPink – indicates the wearer is willing to give a hickey White – indicates the wearer will flashOf course, some of the other color meanings we can't put in this email, but you can view the full listing here. The point is not to root around and see what color bracelets your children may have (it could be they're not aware of this trend), but for you to be aware of the strong undercurrent of sexuality present in our school systems. You have to talk to your children about the risks and dangers of premarital sex, and you may even want to give them an abstinence ring or bracelet to help remind them to swim above the waves in our culture's sea of sexuality. This insightful article will help you begin the conversation.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What do you think about getting our kids a purity/abstinence ring? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, February 14, 2010 [John 6:26-29]
Jesus answered, 'I tell you the truth, you are looking for me, not because you saw miraculous signs but because you ate the loaves and had your fill. Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. On him God the Father has placed his seal of approval.' Then they asked him, 'What must we do to do the works God requires?' Jesus answered, 'The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.' John 6:26-29 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, February 13, 2010 [Luke 22:39-44]
Jesus went out as usual to the Mount of Olives, and his disciples followed him. On reaching the place, he said to them, 'Pray that you will not fall into temptation.' He withdrew about a stone's throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, 'Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.' An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him. And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground. Luke 22:39-44 NIV [Link]
Mythology Gets a Fun Modern Spin in “Percy Jackson & the Olympians”
Percy Jackson & the Olympians is the story of a misfit kid who just happens to be a demigod living in New York City. [Link]
Valentine's Day: True Love Leaves a Mark
Candy is easy to buy. Giving of ourselves sacrificially and unselfishly costs us something. What action can you perform this Valentines Day that will leave a lasting impression on your loved one's heart? [Link]
The Cardinal Duet: A Valentine's Day Rumination
Though the female cardinal has skills equally as impressive as the male, she seems content to allow him to sing the lead, to wear the bright-red pants in the family, and to care for both her and their young. [Link]
The Single Life: Surviving the Season of Love
Well, single friends, it has arrived: February, the month of love and romance. My condolences. But seriously, no matter what state your love life (or lack thereof) may be in, this could be a fabulous month for you! In fact, it might just be your best month ever. [Link]
This Valentine's Day, Know the "Love That Wilt Not Let Me Go"
Weeping, a friend once told me that if her marriage was based on nothing more than physical attraction, it would not last. Someone once summed this realization up thusly: "Love starts with a smile – Grows with a kiss – Ends with a tear." [Link]
Star-Studded "Valentine's Day" is Mostly Forgettable Fluff
Appropriately enough, watching Valentine's Day immediately brought those ubiquitous heart-shaped boxes of chocolates to mind—you know the ones where you're never quite sure what's inside until you take a bite. [Link]
Reconnecting with … Chynna & Vaughan
"This is not a preachy record, though there's a very strong message of God,” shares Chynna Phillips, one half of pop duo Chynna & Vaughan. “But there's definitely a theme of redemption, and if we can help one person come to Christ as a result, then we've met our goal." [Link]
New Artist Spotlight: Chasen
In this "New Artist Spotlight," Mike Donehey, lead singer for Tenth Avenue North (GMA's reigning "New Artist of the Year") interviews Chasen Callahan, frontman of new INO recording band Chasen. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, February 12, 2010 [Psalm 118:14-21]
The LORD is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. Shouts of joy and victory resound in the tents of the righteous: 'The LORD's right hand has done mighty things! The LORD's right hand is lifted high; the LORD's right hand has done mighty things!' I will not die but live, and will proclaim what the LORD has done. The LORD has chastened me severely, but he has not given me over to death. Open for me the gates of righteousness; I will enter and give thanks to the LORD. This is the gate of the LORD through which the righteous may enter. I will give you thanks, for you answered me; you have become my salvation. Psalm 118:14-21 NIV Listen [Link]
An American President, Twitter and your children
One might call former American president John Quincy Adams the founding father of micro-blogging. Adams' journal entries were no longer than the maximum tweet for Twitter – 140 characters. And you can actually sign up for them online. Tweets include "Read 15 chapters in the Bible" to "This afternoon I found the caboose on fire" to "Saw a whale." Whether you decide to follow John Quincy Adams on Twitter is your call, but if your children are on Twitter, Facebook, MySpace etc., it is important that you follow/friend them. If you don't know how, ask them. You'll get a great insight into their life and the lives of their friends. And it's not an invasion of privacy – it's the prerogative of a great parent. To help monitor your children's use of the Internet and social networking sites, and keep them safe online, download our Family Internet Contract. And check out All Pro Dad on Twitter.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How can I follow/friend you on Twitter and Facebook? [Link]
Masculinity in a Can, Fight Club at Church, and the Crisis of Manhood
You do not have to look far to find evidence of the fact that males are in trouble in these confused and confusing times. [Link]
Haiti: Moving from Tragedy to Outrage
Ten American citizens, who traveled to Haiti as Christian missionaries, are being held in a fetid prison cell charged with kidnapping and criminal association. Is the U.S. Government rushing to their rescue? Hardly…the reaction of our government has been tepid at best and downright negligent at worst. [Link]
Bringing Haiti Close to Home: A Christian Perspective
A heartbreaking catastrophe like Haiti's could be the very thing that God uses to spiritually invigorate us to take action in our own lives and in the lives of those around us. [Link]
Seeing Business as an Instrument of the Kingdom
Today, being a Christian businessman is almost always reduced to nothing more than personal piety and evangelism in the workplace: “Be good and try to convert your coworkers.” Others may feel that giving a portion of their profits to missions fulfills their business’s missional purpose. While these activities are indeed good, this worldview of business remains inadequate in advancing the all-encompassing redemptive mission of Christ, that is, the kingdom. [Link]
How to Take Advantage of an IRS Loophole
It's not often that the IRS offers tax-paying U.S. citizens a gift, but that's what we get when the IRS allows us to defer taxes on the money we contribute to qualified retirement accounts… [Link]
Resisting Financial Temptations
To paraphrase well-known investor Warren Buffett, if it was simply a matter of gaining enough knowledge, all librarians would be rich. We must also demonstrate the crucial element of self-control. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, February 11, 2010 [Jeremiah 18:1-6]
This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the LORD : 'Go down to the potter's house, and there I will give you my message.' So I went down to the potter's house, and I saw him working at the wheel. But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him. Then the word of the LORD came to me: 'O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?' declares the LORD. 'Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel. Jeremiah 18:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't get burned
How can you keep your family safe from burn injuries? Know the facts and take precautions. It's National Burn Awareness Week, and a good time to review basic burn safety with your family. Burn injuries are the leading cause of accidental death in the home for children ages 14 and under; and young people ages 13 and older are in the highest at-risk group for gasoline and other flammable substance burns. So protect your young children from scalding injuries, in the bathtub and in the kitchen, educate your kids on the dangers of fire, and talk to your teens and pre-teens about the risks associated with handling flammable materials. Check out the 4 A's of teaching your children about handling fire, and watch what a medical specialist has to say about what to do if your child does get burned. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you know anyone who has been injured while playing with fire? What happened to them? [Link]
Missionary Zeal, Practical Wisdom and Haitian Orphans
Compassion for the needy and the desire to help are strong emotions that we ought to encourage. But "it is not good to have zeal without knowledge." [Link]
God's Flight Plan: My Experience Covering the Story in Haiti
I have come to realize there are no coincidences in God's economy. He is always reminding me that his plan is better than mine. [Link]
Is Dialogue a Basis for Christian Unity?
I have to confess to a certain annoyance with buzz words–warm fuzzy jargon words like "dialogue" and "inclusion." I’m sure at times the annoyance has been of my own creation. They can be perfectly good words after all. But at some point on the I’m-ok-you’re-ok train these words picked up some unwanted baggage. [Link]
Striking Balance between Old and New Can End Worship Wars
There should be no more worship wars among friends. New songs are good, but the old hymns are not bad, and besides, there's evidence to show that too much familiarity breeds discontent. [Link]
Critics' Choice: Top Movies of 2009
Oscar season is upon us and we at Crosswalk.com would feel remiss if we didn't comment on our favorite films of 2009. So as is our custom, the editors and regular movie reviewers of Crosswalk have once again voted. [Link]
The Time Traveler's Wife Gets Lost in Translation
There's plenty that's lost in translation from book to the big screen in The Time Traveler's Wife—like a rhyme or reason to the time travel itself, anything in the way of character development, or depth of human emotion. [Link]
A Serious Man Struggles with an Inscrutable God
A Serious Man is one of the Coen brothers' finest efforts outside No Country for Old Men, explicitly addressing comparable religious questions and issues but adding a serious dose of their trademark humor. The story keeps viewers chuckling until the film's sudden, ominous conclusion. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, February 10, 2010 [Mark 7:14-18]
Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, 'Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside a man can make him 'unclean' by going into him. Rather, it is what comes out of a man that makes him 'unclean.' ' After he had left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable. 'Are you so dull?' he asked. 'Don't you see that nothing that enters a man from the outside can make him 'unclean'? Mark 7:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
What if your child doesn't go to college?
Matthew Crawford has written a best-selling book called Shop Class as Soul Craft, which not only honors the trade industry, but advocates it as a great option for our children. Watch his brief plea, and if your child seems to favor working with his or her hands, see how they can get started after high school. The trades are in hot demand, and can supply a great living and personal fulfillment.Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask: What would you like to do after high school? [Link]
Critics' Choice: Top Movies of 2009
Oscar season is upon us and we at Crosswalk.com would feel remiss if we didn't comment on our favorite films of 2009. So as is our custom, the editors and regular movie reviewers of Crosswalk have once again voted. [Link]
No Greater Love: A Life Dedicated to Christ
Many of us have heard the valiant stories of the martyrs of the early Church, but the truth is that more Christians have died for their faith since 1900 than in all the previous centuries of Christendom combined. What better time of year to consider that sort of love than during the month of February, the month of love? [Link]
John Denver's Opportunity Lost?
Finally, I said, "John, when did you make up your mind Jesus Christ would never become your Lord and your Savior?" He could remember the date, the time and the place… [Link]
When Your Heart Longs to be Romanced
What if this Valentine's Day you took the man in your life off the hook? What if this year you focused not on your expectations or the disappointment that the "Day of Romance" tends to bring but on the Author of Romance? [Link]
Mere Moral Opprobrium? Far More than Marriage Is on Trial
The case has finally put the issue of same-sex marriage before the federal courts, setting the stage for a landmark decision, either way the judge rules in Perry v. Schwarzenegger. [Link]
Healing After the Breakup
Yesterday I received a frantic call from one of my counseling clients. Cary's wife of fifteen years had left him six months earlier, and he and I had been working tirelessly to save his marriage. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, February 9, 2010 [Mark 6:53-56]
When they had crossed over, they landed at Gennesaret and anchored there. As soon as they got out of the boat, people recognized Jesus. They ran throughout that whole region and carried the sick on mats to wherever they heard he was. And wherever he went–into villages, towns or countryside–they placed the sick in the marketplaces. They begged him to let them touch even the edge of his cloak, and all who touched him were healed. Mark 6:53-56 NIV Listen [Link]
MTV "owns" your kids
Bob Pittman, founder and former president of MTV, made a startling admission in the Philadelphia Inquirer, "The strongest appeal you can make is emotionally. If you can get the kids' emotions going, make them forget their logic, you've got them. At MTV, we don't shoot for the 14-year olds, we own them." We at All Pro Dad beg to differ. God, not MTV, owns our kids and as parents we are stewards of their young lives. And part of this stewardship means guarding what they watch. If you haven't seen what MTV, VH1, BET and other stations are showing lately, please be aware of it – especially if your children enjoy watching them. And even if the shows they enjoy watching are fairly innocent, there is always a better way for them to spend their time.There's more to life than TV. Why not turn off the tube and spend more time interacting with your family. Check out these 10 Tips to Better Family Time.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Have you ever watched MTV, either at home or at a friend's house? What do you think of it? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, February 8, 2010 [Psalm 139:13-18]
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand. When I awake, I am still with you. Psalm 139:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Imagine training your whole life for the Olympics
That's what Derek Redmond did. And in 1992 Derek had his chance at gold. He lined up for his track meet. The starting gun fired. He tore past the other runners. But then he fell to the ground. He had pulled a hamstring. He struggled to get up and finish the race. Suddenly, a man appeared by his side. It was his father. He had watched from the stands as his son faltered. He rushed through the crowds and onto the track to help his child. He supported the sobbing athlete… and together… arm-in-arm, they hobbled across the finish line to a standing ovation. Derek's dad was the true champion.Watch Derek's moving video with your kids. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: Do you think I'll always be there for you like Derek's dad was for him? [Link]
10 Mistakes Even Good Managers Make
My wife's pretty much the best boss anyone who's ever worked for her has ever had. Here are ten mistakes she's learned that even the best managers sometimes make. [Link]
Six Things We Can Do to Fix This Economy
What can we do, you and I, individually, to turn this economy around? [Link]
How to Take Market Turbulence in Stride
How are we to remain calm when the financial world around us appears to be suffering a bout of temporary insanity? Here are some suggestions. [Link]
What About the R-Word? Does It Matter?
Retard — and the epithet retarded — are destructive, hurtful, and damaging words. When the R-word is used as a put down, it negates the progress made individually and collectively by those within the disability community. [Link]
God and Man at the National Prayer Breakfast
I've long studied the sitting president's remarks at these breakfasts. So let's observe the president's remarks in this historical context, while also not avoiding the current political climate—as Obama certainly did not. [Link]
Congress Cuts Spending… On D.C. Vouchers
Cutting this program is a disgraceful example of how our leaders often pander to special interest groups than protect our most needy citizens. [Link]
God and the Gridiron? Some Cry Foul
Tim Tebow "has become sort of the epitome or exemplar of the engagement between Christianity and big-time sports," said Tom Krattenmaker. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, February 7, 2010 [John 3:16-19]
'For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. John 3:16-19 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, February 6, 2010 [John 1:1-5]
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it. John 1:1-5 NIV [Link]
He Said-She Said: A Lack of Attraction and Pursuit
How important are physical attraction and full-on pursuit when it comes to relationships between men and women? "He" and "She" attempt to answer a very interesting and multifaceted question in this edition of "He Said-She Said." [Link]
Haiti: Adopted for Life . . . and in Death
Arno Pet began life as an orphan, but he ended life as a son. The moving story of a Haitian boy and his adoptive parents — all killed in the earthquake — gives us a powerful depiction of the Gospel. [Link]
Peter Marshall: Preaching with a Sanctified Imagination
Peter Marshall often said, "Spirituality is a matter of perception, not proof." [Link]
Even as a Sappy Romance, "Dear John" Doesn't Deliver
If you've read any of Nicholas Sparks' tear-jerking novels or watched the equally swoony big-screen renditions of The Notebook, Nights in Rodanthe or Message in a Bottle, you've already got a pretty good idea of what to expect with Dear John. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, February 5, 2010 [Mark 6:48-51]
He saw the disciples straining at the oars, because the wind was against them. About the fourth watch of the night he went out to them, walking on the lake. He was about to pass by them, but when they saw him walking on the lake, they thought he was a ghost. They cried out, because they all saw him and were terrified. Immediately he spoke to them and said, 'Take courage! It is I. Don't be afraid.' Then he climbed into the boat with them, and the wind died down. They were completely amazed, Mark 6:48-51 NIV Listen [Link]
Making the most of the Super Bowl
The big game is this Sunday and All Pro Dad has teamed up with Papa John's to not only provide you a great deal on pizza, but to also offer you Tony's 10 Ways to Enjoy the Big Game with your family. Check them both out and make this Super Bowl Sunday the best ever. Also, while many of the commercials are great, you may want to DVR them. Many Super Bowl commercials aren't appropriate for viewing by youngsters. One of our favorite sports commercials featuring the Manning brothers, is worth looking at again. And to be fair to you Saints fans, here's another SportsCenter commercial classic. [Link]
Faced with Scandal, Gayle Haggard Tells Why She Stayed
For Gayle Haggard, the gay sex-and-drug scandal that toppled her husband's ministry was simply "the mountain we had to go over." Her new book describes in candid detail why she stayed. [Link]
The Case against Vanilla
I simply cannot bear plain vanilla when life offers so many other colorful and stimulating flavors. Call it the rebel in me, but a fresh run at life by an untried route will get my vote every time. I'll try to show you why. [Link]
What are we Singing: Friend of God
David spent great amounts of time alone with God in wide, open spaces. During these times, I imagine he came to realize that humanity is not insignificant, but very significant to God. [Link]
11 Paths to Prayer
There are many ways to pray. If you want to connect with God but don't seem to be making contact through the way you usually pray, it could be time for to try a new approach. [Link]
Haiti Earthquake Survivors Ache for Family, Friends
In hospitals, volunteers offer medical care for broken bones and missionaries deliver supplies to help rebuild broken lives. But the catastrophe also has broken apart countless families. [Link]
Should I Get a Christian Tattoo (Even If My Parents Don’t Like It)?
A 19-year old college student writes: "I want to get a tattoo as a measure of accountability for myself … in case the zeal I have for the gospel ever wanes and I’m ever in a place of temptation this will be a reminder of what I know to be true." [Link]
Hijacking the Brain — How Pornography Works
Even as technology has brought new avenues for the transmission of pornography, modern knowledge also brings a new understanding of how pornography works in the male brain. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, February 4, 2010 [Mark 6:8-13]
These were his instructions: 'Take nothing for the journey except a staff–no bread, no bag, no money in your belts. Wear sandals but not an extra tunic. Whenever you enter a house, stay there until you leave that town. And if any place will not welcome you or listen to you, shake the dust off your feet when you leave, as a testimony against them.' They went out and preached that people should repent. They drove out many demons and anointed many sick people with oil and healed them. Mark 6:8-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Would being rich make you happy?
Here is what history's most wealthy men had to say about it:"The care of $200 million is enough to kill anyone. There is no pleasure in it." – W.H. Vanderbilt"I am the most miserable man on earth." – John Jacob Astor"I have made many millions, but they have brought me no happiness." – John D. Rockefeller"Millionaires seldom smile." – Andrew Carnegie"I was happier when doing a mechanic's job." – Henry Ford"I owned more flocks than anyone before me…I amassed silver and gold for myself…I became greater than anyone…yet everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind." – King Solomon in the book of EcclesiastesBe careful what you wish for. You just might get it.Find out about four fathers who were truly rich in raising extraordinary children.Huddle up tonight and ask your children: Do you think that having a lot of money brings happiness? [Link]
Top 10 Articles of January 2010
Is God mad at Haiti? Does God always speak? How do we really "wrestle in prayer"? Read more about spiritual life, pop culture, and current events in this month's top 10. [Link]
The Tyranny of Tolerance
Democracy can slide into totalitarianism when society's moral foundation erode so badly that people become malleable, and cultural arbiters call the shots. [Link]
Mere Moral Opprobrium? Far More than Marriage Is on Trial
The case has finally put the issue of same-sex marriage before the federal courts, setting the stage for a landmark decision, either way the judge rules in Perry v. Schwarzenegger. [Link]
Answering Christian Arguments for Gay 'Marriage'
If you defend the institution of traditional marriage, are you a homophobe or bible worshipper? A couple of DC area pastors thinbk so… [Link]
Humorous Becca by the Book Moves Briskly
Becca by the Book will have the reader laughing out loud—often! The hilarious dialogue keeps the pace brisk, as you anticipate the next humorous conversation. The author's use of first person opens up even more opportunities for laughs, as the reader enjoys access to Becca's unspoken thoughts and reactions. [Link]
Until the Whole World Hears Ups the Musical Ante
While their hooky pop/rock melodies and made-for-church worship lyrics have maintained an arena-sized audience since day one, Casting Crowns' latest ups the musical ante a bit, with poetic verses and interesting musical riffs. [Link]
John Reuben: Not-So-Trivial Pursuits
Offering insight behind the songs off his latest album, Sex, Drugs and Self-Control, John Reuben delves into the day-to-day of his developing faith and explains how his new home studio recording articulates his spiritual findings. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, February 3, 2010 [Psalm 107:1-8]
Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever. Let the redeemed of the LORD say this–those he redeemed from the hand of the foe, those he gathered from the lands, from east and west, from north and south. Some wandered in desert wastelands, finding no way to a city where they could settle. They were hungry and thirsty, and their lives ebbed away. Then they cried out to the LORD in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress. He led them by a straight way to a city where they could settle. Let them give thanks to the LORD for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for men, Psalm 107:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Not everyone is doing it
Recent studies show that half of all male high school students are virgins, up from 39 percent in 1990. According to the Henry J. Kaiser Foundation, 92 percent of all teens ages 15 to 17 believe that being a virgin in high school is a good thing. Contrary to what some popular television shows indicate, being a teen virgin is cool. If you haven't talked to your pre-teen or teen about the incredible benefits of staying sexually pure, do so tonight.Read one young lady's thoughts on why she will be a virgin until marriage. Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask: Why do you think it's important to wait until marriage for sex? [Link]
Leaders build leaders
In 1998, half of all the head coaches in the NFL had either worked directly for Bill Walsh or Tom Landry, or had worked for someone who did. And our very own Coach Tony Dungy has discipled five NFL head coaches. Strong leaders find, cultivate and strengthen future leaders. So, as a father, how are you making your children leaders? Let's hear from Coach Dungy about his strategy.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Name three people you know who are good leaders. [Link]
Haiti, Aid Groups Recover One Day at a Time
"What you try to strive for is that today is better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today," said Keith Stiles. "That's all you can focus on." [Link]
Give Me a Book
I am, unashamedly, a book man. You may have expected me to say a “reading” man, which would also be true. As St. Cyprian of Carthage wrote, “Be assiduous in prayer and reading. In the one you speak to God. In the other God speaks to you.” [Link]
God Will Bless The Broken Road
C.S. Lewis once said that “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!" Sadly, many of us bear the wounds of dealing with imperfect people in the dysfunctional little gathering we call church. [Link]
Product Recall: Worthless Worship
May we never come to the place where the joy, wonder, and enthusiasm goes out of our worship. What we do for the Lord Jesus Christ should never be a weariness. [Link]
Inexpensive Ways to Honor Your Spouse this Valentine's Day
Do you need some ideas to make this Valentine's Day one to remember? Marriage experts Bill and Pam Farrel offer a few affordable ideas… [Link]
Seen But Not Heard: The Wisdom of Children
All around us are signs that authority and wisdom are now to be recognized in the young, rather than the old. This is nothing less than a reversal of what previous generations had believed and assumed. [Link]
A brother and a hero
A few years ago, two brothers were playing near the edge of the Mississippi River and climbing up piles of freshly-dredged mud from the river bottom. Tragically, their weight caused a hole to open near the top of a mud dune and both fell in while silt poured all over them. When the boys did not return home at dinnertime, family and neighbors organized a search. They found the younger brother with only his head protruding from the mud mound. When they asked him where his other brother was, he replied, "I'm standing on his shoulders." The older brother had given his life so his younger brother – his best friend – could live.Do you think your son would be able to show such bravery and sacrifice? Find out from Coach Dungy what it takes to mold such young men.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What's the bravest thing you've ever done? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, February 2, 2010 [Mark 6:1-6]
Jesus left there and went to his hometown, accompanied by his disciples. When the Sabbath came, he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were amazed. 'Where did this man get these things?' they asked. 'What's this wisdom that has been given him, that he even does miracles! Isn't this the carpenter? Isn't this Mary's son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren't his sisters here with us?' And they took offense at him. Jesus said to them, 'Only in his hometown, among his relatives and in his own house is a prophet without honor.' He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. And he was amazed at their lack of faith. Mark 6:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, February 1, 2010 [Mark 5:39-43]
He went in and said to them, 'Why all this commotion and wailing? The child is not dead but asleep.' But they laughed at him. After he put them all out, he took the child's father and mother and the disciples who were with him, and went in where the child was. He took her by the hand and said to her, 'Talitha koum!' (which means, 'Little girl, I say to you, get up!' ). Immediately the girl stood up and walked around (she was twelve years old). At this they were completely astonished. He gave strict orders not to let anyone know about this, and told them to give her something to eat. Mark 5:39-43 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you really connected to your kids?
Here's a short test for you Dad: What's your child's favorite TV show? Their favorite movie, musician and magazine? What sites do they visit on the Internet? Name their three best friends. Name their favorite teacher – their least favorite teacher. Five of their Facebook friends. So, how are you doing? Could you answer all of those questions? Could you answer even half? The point is, to be connected to our kids we have to enter their world. We need to know what they like, who they like and what has their attention. So get involved. Start asking questions and get connected.Here is a list of great conversation starters. Huddle up with your kids tonight: Who are your three best friends? Why are they your best friends? [Link]
The 10 Stupidest Leadership Mistakes I've Made
Fortunately, I’ve been able to avoid some mistakes by learning from the mistakes of others. [Link]
The Quest for Mere Christianity
It has been said that evangelical Christians have a “pathological tendency to fragment.” Is there any common ground upon which to unite? In his recent book, Deep Church, Jim Belcher says that there most certainly is. (Read more) [Link]
A Home for Your Heart
I'd like to talk with you about your house – your spiritual house. The grand castle built for your heart. Let's step through the front door and walk around a bit. [Link]
Materialism: Thumos-Numbing
Materialism is like drinking salt water: No matter how much you gulp, you're still thirsty. [Link]
Six Ways to Find Unadvertised Jobs
Looking for a job these days is a lot like participating in a treasure hunt with thousands of other "hunters." You don't want to dig where everyone is digging… [Link]
Boost Your Savings
Have you ever stopped to consider the potential "future value" of the money you spend today? [Link]
Earned Retirement – or Hedonism?
Is the only goal of our working life to get to the point we can stop working? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, January 31, 2010 [James 5:1-6]
Now listen, you rich people, weep and wail because of the misery that is coming upon you. Your wealth has rotted, and moths have eaten your clothes. Your gold and silver are corroded. Their corrosion will testify against you and eat your flesh like fire. You have hoarded wealth in the last days. Look! The wages you failed to pay the workmen who mowed your fields are crying out against you. The cries of the harvesters have reached the ears of the Lord Almighty. You have lived on earth in luxury and self-indulgence. You have fattened yourselves in the day of slaughter. You have condemned and murdered innocent men, who were not opposing you. James 5:1-6 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, January 30, 2010 [James 1:26-27]
If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:26-27 NIV [Link]
How I Stopped Striving and Started Resting in Him
As I walked in obedience to Psalm 46:10, I began to see God move. All I could do was weep. I had ceased striving, and he had shown himself to be God. [Link]
Haiti: What Should Your Congregation Know and Do?
A pastor in middle America asks a native Haitian for a true picture of his homeland so that his congregation can be briefed on the best ways to help. [Link]
It Happened in Italy: Goodness under the Nazi Evil
While the horrors of concentration camps in Nazi Germany may be familiar, what happened to Jews in concentration camps at the same time in Mussolini's Italy is not. [Link]
Who Cares About “the Will of the People?”
Political authority in this country does not flow from opinion polls, even reliable ones. That deeply affects how we critique health care reform. [Link]
Hope is Alive in Steven Curtis Chapman's Beauty Will Rise
Though Steven Curtis Chapman has always related to his fans, he's never gotten as personal with his extended family of listeners as he does on Beauty Will Rise, his first recording since his daughter died in a tragic accident in 2008. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, January 29, 2010 [Mark 5:27-34]
When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, 'If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.' Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering. At once Jesus realized that power had gone out from him. He turned around in the crowd and asked, 'Who touched my clothes?' 'You see the people crowding against you,' his disciples answered, 'and yet you can ask, 'Who touched me?' ' But Jesus kept looking around to see who had done it. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. He said to her, 'Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.' Mark 5:27-34 NIV Listen [Link]
Lack of Surprises Withstanding, "When in Rome" Still Plays Cute
While the movie's trailer definitely had that lackluster, made-for-TV feel, perhaps it's the presence of fresh faces Kristen Bell and Josh Duhamel, not to mention their winsome chemistry, that caused When in Rome to surpass my expectations. [Link]
Gibson Doesn't Excite in Dull "Edge of Darkness"
Did you enjoy Mel Gibson in Payback or Ransom? He's on that level in Edge of Darkness. It's a decent comeback, if those movies are your idea of a good time. But it's truncated rather than taut, sluggish rather than satisfying, and dull rather than edgy. [Link]
A brother and a hero
A few years ago, two brothers were playing near the edge of the Mississippi River and climbing up piles of freshly-dredged mud from the river bottom. Tragically, their weight caused a hole to open near the top of a mud dune and both fell in while silt poured all over them. When the boys did not return home at dinnertime, family and neighbors organized a search. They found the younger brother with only his head protruding from the mud mound. When they asked him where his other brother was, he replied, "I'm standing on his shoulders." The older brother had given his life so his younger brother – his best friend – could live.Do you think your son would be able to show such bravery and sacrifice? Find out from Coach Dungy what it takes to mold such young men.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What's the bravest thing you've ever done? [Link]
The Single Life: A Change of Habit
We tend to think of habits as negative: drugs, drinking and the like. But that's not really fair. Habits allow us to do things without really thinking about them. Is that a bad thing? Well, yes, if what you're doing is destructive. But it can also be useful. [Link]
Ignorance of Christianity Also Means Cultural Ignorance
After centuries of thought, Christians still think Jesus should rule our lives. To deny this knowledge or to hide it would be intellectually dishonest, cowardly, and wrong. [Link]
The Mystery of Evil
The classical problem of the existence of evil has been called the Achilles’ heel of the Christian faith. But have philosophers proven that God cannot simultaneously be all-powerful, loving and good? (Read more) [Link]
The Shack — The Missing Art of Evangelical Discernment
The Shack is now one of the best-selling paperback books of all time, and its readers are enthusiastic. But the theology is not incidental to the story. [Link]
End Defensiveness to Build Intimacy
We have strong desires to look good, protect our ego and assign blame. But in our efforts to save face, we eat away at our marriage's intimacy… [Link]
Healthy Marriages, Healthy Society
I firmly believe that if we strengthen marriages and make traditional marriage a priority, we will keep untold thousands of children from ever going to prison. [Link]
Is Your Teen Depressed?
Compared to high school and college students in the Great Depression era, there are five times as many youth today that suffer from anxiety and mental health issues. What's going on here? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, January 28, 2010 [Psalm 105:1-8]
Give thanks to the LORD, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts. Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice. Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced, O descendants of Abraham his servant, O sons of Jacob, his chosen ones. He is the LORD our God; his judgments are in all the earth. He remembers his covenant forever, the word he commanded, for a thousand generations. Psalm 105:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
A master in the art of living
Author L.P. Jacks writes, "A master in the art of living draws no sharp distinction between his work and his play; his labor and his leisure; his mind and his body; his education and his recreation. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence through whatever he is doing, and leaves others to determine whether he is working or playing. To himself, he always appears to be doing both." Food for thought. We don't have two lives – a work life and a home life. We have one life where home and work constantly intersect and we must strive for excellence in each. You've modeled what a good home life should be like for your kids, but how much have you talked to your children about where they might spend the bulk of their lives – at work. Take a look at these 8 helpful tips about preparing your kids for the world of work. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What kind of job would you like to have when you grow up? [Link]
Committed? Not By a Long Shot
Committed is likely to join Eat, Pray, Love atop the best-seller lists. In any event, the book reveals the vast redefinition of marriage taking place within Western cultures, right before our eyes. [Link]
Obsessed With Beauty
I read with sadness a story about erstwhile singer/actress Heidi Montag. She admitted that she's "obsessed with plastic surgery" after undergoing 10 procedures in one day. Seriously? Only ten makes you obsessed? [Link]
How to Live Liturgically
The calendar on your wall or in your mobile device can be more than just the minute details of life. Learn how liturgy can help you see a continual cycle of God's work in the world. [Link]
Must We Pay to Know Our Credit Scores?
Somewhere between having no clue what your credit score is and paying $16 every few weeks to get a copy of it lies a healthy middle ground. Here are some resources that will help you keep tabs on you credit score… [Link]
Embracing the Cross in Our Marketplace Call
Walking successfully through your season of the cross gives you the authority to minister the message God deposits into your life during that season and to fulfill the purpose for which God created you. [Link]
When One Spouse Travels: 5 Steps for Keeping the Peace
Today's economy is having more of an impact on families than just their income levels. In many cases, one spouse now has to travel in order to get or keep a job. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, January 27, 2010 [Mark 4:37-41]
A furious squall came up, and the waves broke over the boat, so that it was nearly swamped. Jesus was in the stern, sleeping on a cushion. The disciples woke him and said to him, 'Teacher, don't you care if we drown?' He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, 'Quiet! Be still!' Then the wind died down and it was completely calm. He said to his disciples, 'Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?' They were terrified and asked each other, 'Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!' Mark 4:37-41 NIV Listen [Link]
Meeting the man who killed her father
A daughter's love for her father. Love… death… forgiveness… redemption. Watch this moving video and journey with a Vietnam veteran as he returns a priceless treasure to the daughter of a Vietnamese soldier he killed in battle.Huddle up with your daughter tonight and say: I love you, and you're beautiful. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, January 26, 2010 [Mark 4:26-32]
He also said, 'This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soil produces grain–first the stalk, then the head, then the full kernel in the head. As soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come.' Again he said, 'What shall we say the kingdom of God is like, or what parable shall we use to describe it? It is like a mustard seed, which is the smallest seed you plant in the ground. Yet when planted, it grows and becomes the largest of all garden plants, with such big branches that the birds of the air can perch in its shade.' Mark 4:26-32 NIV Listen [Link]
“Like the Air They Breathe” — The Online Life of Kids
Now, however, there is good reason to believe that these young people are far more connected than we have even imagined. [Link]
Shorting Special Needs: Utilitarianism and Budget Cuts
Many schools who received federal funding for specifically marked for special education programs are "redirecting" the funds to other uses. [Link]
Remembering Roe: A Forgotten Warning from Reagan
Reagan's remarks, made in July 1987 to pro-life leaders, are prescient in light of the widening abortion abyss we face under the Obama administration and Pelosi-Reid Congress. [Link]
Love Burns True in Jane Campion's Bright Star
Jane Campion has made a career off of tortured love stories, yet Bright Star is different (even opposite, and superior). Her past films have been about tortured people who destroy their circumstances. This, conversely, is a bittersweet arc of pure people who are tragically tortured by circumstances. [Link]
Girl Power Is Alive and Skating in Whip It
Conventional or not, Whip It is still fun to watch, thanks to Drew Barrymore’s surprisingly skilled direction, a killer soundtrack and a winning cast that definitely seems to enjoy throwing themselves into their respective roles. [Link]
Accept Any and All Substitutes for Surrogates
Rather than develop the more cerebral aspects of the story in the rushed, 88 minutes of Surrogates, director Jonathan Mostow (Terminator 3) substitutes action where thoughtful dialogue and exposition would have been more helpful. [Link]
Cohabitation is a bad idea
Many young couples will take a "test drive" before they get married, and will live together. Studies show that contrary to popular wisdom, cohabitating actually increases the chances the couple will get a divorce. Why? Because living apart until the marriage covenant is sealed teaches patience and self-restraint. These two attributes are a must-have in order for a marriage to flourish. So if you haven't talked to your teen about the pitfalls of cohabitation, take a look at this informative article, and then talk to them tonight. Huddle up and ask your teen tonight: Why is it a bad idea for a couple to live together before they are married? [Link]
Haiti, My Beloved
Dr. Louima Lilite, Haitian native, music minister and Christian university professor, was in Haiti during the earthquake on January 12. He shares his unique perspective on the before-and-after, his pain… and his joy. [Link]
Like father, like son
You've heard of John Wilkes Booth – the assassin who killed President Lincoln. What you may not know is that John's father, Junius, threatened the life of President Andrew Jackson years before. He wrote Jackson a letter and called him a "scoundrel" and threatened to burn the President "at the stake in the city of Washington." It's no wonder that the seeds Junius planted in John later came to bear terrible fruit.While most fathers don't teach their children to be assassins, they do model for them more common shortcomings like alcoholism, workaholism, pornography, abusive speech or behavior, or countless others. Remember, your kids will do what's caught, not taught. Live your life in a way your children will want to emulate. Find out why.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What's the best thing you've seen me do? What's the worst? [Link]
Do Separated Spouses Belong in Singles Groups?
Are Christian singles groups safe havens or toxic environments for spouses going through separation? Dr. David responds to a confused husband. [Link]
Forgotten Fathers: Men Suffer After an Abortion, Too
The media — and pro-lifers, too, for that matter — focus on abortion as being just a woman's issue. But abortion is not just about women and babies. [Link]
The Single Life: A Change of Habit
We tend to think of habits as negative: drugs, drinking and the like. But that's not really fair. Habits allow us to do things without really thinking about them. Is that a bad thing? Well, yes, if what you're doing is destructive. But it can also be useful. [Link]
Tim Tebow to Star in Pro-Life Super Bowl Ad
The Heisman Trophy winner and his mother will be featured in a Pro-Life television commercial scheduled to run during the Super Bowl on CBS-TV on Sunday, Feb. 7. [Link]
Pastor, Ask Something Great From Us
Generality is the curse of modern sermons. So never forget that you are engaging in big things, matters involving Almighty God and the beloved, fallen people for whom Jesus Christ died. [Link]
Why Don't We Just Pick Up the Phone?
If this seems petty to you, it shouldn't. A single poor staff hire can devastate most churches, squandering Kingdom resources and setting back progress for months if not years. [Link]
It Takes the Church to Save Our Marriages
It is the first institution created by God; the structure under which children thrive; the basic building block of every civil society; and the relationship in which men and women complete each other. Yet, it is often the institution most forgotten by the Christian church. [Link]
"The Tooth Fairy" Doesn't Offer Much to Smile About
If you think the sight of The Rock in a pink tutu and oversized sparkly wings is funny, well, The Tooth Fairy is the movie for you. After all, the screenwriters get a lot of mileage out of seeing the former wrestler play a has-been hockey star forced to reveal his softer, fairy side. [Link]
Tomorrow We March: Showing Compassion for the Unseen
The March for Life is so astounding because there is no individual face to stir emotions. How can the heart feel what the eye cannot see, as the Haitian proverb says? [Link]
Live With Haiti In Your Heart
There's deep theology here, an ocean of questions and answers that leave us in one of two places: wondering where God is in the midst of suffering, or wondering at the mystery of this God who works all things—including suffering—for good. [Link]
"God Only Cries for the Living": Lyrical Musings on Tragedy in Haiti
Images from Haiti have been heartbreaking. A missionary from a church near my home was one of the victims pulled from under the debris. I heard a song this week reminding me how temporary life is not just in Haiti, but everywhere. [Link]
"Extraordinary Measures" Improves on TV-Movie Plot
Extraordinary Measures is helped immensely by an affecting lead performance from Brendan Fraser as John Crowley, and by the inclusion of faith elements (however briefly mentioned) that put a little air under the story's wings. [Link]
Concert Experience Captured on Jeremy Camp's Live
Live certainly serves as a good faux-greatest hits and a nice filler between studio recordings. But it is an album mainly for Jeremy Camp fans—of which there are plenty and who should be happy with this more "in-person" experience. [Link]
Faith-Based Music: Critics' Picks 2009
From Leeland's Love Is on the Move to Switchfoot's Hello Hurricane to Jars of Clay'sThe Long Fall Back to Earth and more, these are our choices for the best faith-based albums of 2009. Read on and see if some of your favorites are listed, too. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, January 22, 2010 [Psalm 100:1-5]
Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his ; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations. Psalm 100:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
The last words you'll hear
On the eve of the 1956 World Series, 78-year-old Albert Von Tilzer was watching the Ed Sullivan show, and smiled just a bit as the band played "Take Me Out to the Ball Game." Albert had composed that song 48 years earlier. Later that night, Albert headed for a greener center field in heaven. The last words he ever heard on this earth were the lyrics he composed a half century earlier.What will be the last words you hear before you pass on? Will it be the lonely, sterile sounds at the local hospital? Or will it be a symphony of love from your wife and children as they circle your bed, thanking you for a wonderful life? Live with your end in mind and your priorities will always be right.Here's what Coach Tony Dungy has to say on that subject.Huddle up tonight and ask your children: What is one memory you will have of me 50 years from now? [Link]
Playing It SAFE: Bringing Spending under Control
My great-grandchildren haven’t been born yet—but they’re up to their chubby little cheeks in debt. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, January 21, 2010 [Mark 4:15-20]
Some people are like seed along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them. Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy. But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful. Others, like seed sown on good soil, hear the word, accept it, and produce a crop–thirty, sixty or even a hundred times what was sown.' Mark 4:15-20 NIV Listen [Link]
What Do We Do About Haiti?
What can any one of us do to help Haiti when we are sitting over here in our warm houses in front of a computer with our beverage of choice nearby and our healthy kids playing in the next room? A couple things… [Link]
American Idol: Distorted Dreams and Grand Illusions
A poll by the Pew Research Center reveals that "eighty-one percent of 18- to 25-year-olds… said getting rich is their generation's most important life goal." [Link]
Sex on TV: It's Increasingly Uncut — and Unavoidable
Viewers are about to see full-frontal male nudity, heterosexual, homosexual and group sex, and graphic scenes rarely — if ever — seen on mainstream TV. [Link]
Give us Faith So We'll Be Safe: A Theological and Pastoral Response to the Tragedy in Haiti
How do we who call ourselves followers of the Lord of life respond to the chilling report that "40,000 bodies have been buried and there could be 200,000 dead in Haiti"? That paralyzing news is what we heard from the report of Shepherd Smith of Fox News on this date.[1] The earthquake in Haiti that has shaken the tiny Caribbean nation to death also is shaking our consciences and our souls with questions. [Link]
Playing It SAFE: Bringing Spending under Control
My great-grandchildren haven’t been born yet—but they’re up to their chubby little cheeks in debt. [Link]
Reasons Not To Budget
If you've resisted the idea of establishing a personal budget in the past, perhaps you're clinging to one or more of these favorite reasons not to budget. [Link]
Actions Speak Loudest in Job Interviews and in Life
What message would your life send to those around you today even if you didn’t open your mouth? [Link]
Don't let go of hope
Watch this clip from The Shawshank Redemption, and remember that no matter how hard your circumstances are right now, no one can take away your hope. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What do you think hope is? [Link]
11 Steps for Studying the Bible in Community
Here's how the Holy Spirit can help you can interpret the Bible as part of a community of believers. You'll be surprised how much more you get out of the Bible beyond individual study. [Link]
11 Steps for Studying the Bible in Community
Here's how the Holy Spirit can help you can interpret the Bible as part of a community of believers. You'll be surprised how much more you get out of the Bible beyond individual study. [Link]
Ignorance of Christianity Also Means Cultural Ignorance
After centuries of thought, Christians still think Jesus should rule our lives. To deny this knowledge or to hide it would be intellectually dishonest, cowardly, and wrong. [Link]
The Link: Religious Liberty and Global Security
The end of 2009 brought horrifyingly fresh reminders that the threat to the West from Islamic extremists may get worse before it gets better. [Link]
Helping Kids Make Sense of Haiti
To think of the loss in Haiti hurts our grownup hearts. Would you understand if I said I think we should let it hurt our children's hearts, too? [Link]
Surprise Child: Finding Joy in Unplanned Pregnancy
When you hear the words "crisis pregnancy," you probably picture an unmarried teenager. But up to 60 percent of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned… [Link]
Facing the New Year Alone: Practical Advice for Widows and Widowers
As I approach the beginning of a new year, I reflect on the fact that it has been over three years since I faced the trauma of losing my beloved husband of 37 years to Lou Gehrig's Disease… [Link]
Harrison Ford, Brendan Fraser Go to Extraordinary Measures
Considering the wide range of iconic characters Harrison Ford has played over the course of his 40-year acting career, even he likes to switch things up every once in a while. Signing up for Extraordinary Measures, both as an actor and executive producer, was a welcome opportunity to "try something new." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, January 20, 2010 [Mark 3:31-35]
Then Jesus' mother and brothers arrived. Standing outside, they sent someone in to call him. A crowd was sitting around him, and they told him, 'Your mother and brothers are outside looking for you.' 'Who are my mother and my brothers?' he asked. Then he looked at those seated in a circle around him and said, 'Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does God's will is my brother and sister and mother.' Mark 3:31-35 NIV Listen [Link]
The power of flowers
Dads, want to help your relationship with your daughter bloom? Research shows that most women love to get flowers. So make a point to send flowers to your daughter. That's right, have flowers delivered to her . . . at school, at work, or even if she is married and lives in another town. And it doesn't have to be her birthday or a holiday. Just send along a card telling her you love her, and watch the power of flowers work for you both!What five things does a daughter really want from her dad? Find out here. Huddle up with your daughter tonight and ask: Would you like to go out on a "date" this weekend? Where would you like to go? [Link]
Redemption Television: Chris Seay on The Gospel According to LOST
The author of The Gospel According to LOST stops by to explain why he relates to series hero Jack Shephard, how the show turned the Gilligan's Island survivor model on its ear, and how LOST can be used to engage others in conversations about faith, salvation, and redemption. [Link]
Why Our Happiness is So Sad
Jesus is a disruptive bother to the yet-to-be redeemed soul and to the soul in the process of renewal. [Link]
It's Time to Start Confessing Good Things about Yourself!
What kind of things do you say about yourself? I used to be so hyper-critical of myself that one day the Holy Spirit spoke to me about it… [Link]
Keep Your Cool When Your Anger is Hot
If you direct the fiery emotion of anger in the right way, it can motivate you to accomplish something good. But if you let it burn out of control, its flames will damage your life and relationships with others… [Link]
Finance Q&A: How Much Should You Invest in Your IRA?
Dear Deborah: Is it best to invest in my IRA throughout the year or closer to the April 15 deadline? Should I always invest the maximum amount? [Link]
Don't Let Mistakes Set You Back
Minor problems grow into major problems. The antidote is to correct the small mistakes as they occur… [Link]
Is Secular Work Valued by God?
Have you ever thought about the fact that the Savior of the world worked in His earthly father's "secular" carpentry business for the majority of His life? What does that say about God's view of daily work? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, January 19, 2010 [Mark 3:13-19]
Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him. He appointed twelve–designating them apostles–that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons. These are the twelve he appointed: Simon (to whom he gave the name Peter James son of Zebedee and his brother John (to them he gave the name Boanerges, which means Sons of Thunder); Andrew, Philip, Bartholomew, Matthew, Thomas, James son of Alphaeus, Thaddaeus, Simon the Zealot and Judas Iscariot, who betrayed him. Mark 3:13-19 NIV Listen [Link]
Have you lost that lovin' feeling?
Have your passionate, romantic feelings for your wife somewhat subsided after a few years of marriage? You're not alone. In fact, it happens to almost every man. Recent scientific research shows the romantic feelings you and your wife had as newlyweds cannot physically last in the brain long term. It would fry the neural circuits. But most people interpret the loss of that lovin' feeling as a sign they married the wrong person. It's not true. And that philosophy is why the divorce rate is higher for second and third marriages.True love is an act of the will, regardless of feelings. It's putting the other person first regardless of our emotional state. So our task is to create situations to rekindle romance, like candlelight dinners and walks on the beach; but it can also be found in simple things like a hand-written note, or doing a load of laundry without being asked. And, it might mean putting a little zest back in your regular "date night" that both you and your wife can look forward to. Here's how! Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: What would you like to do this weekend? [Link]
Sin, Civil Rights, and Missions: MLK Day Reflections
Martin Luther King and most of the other great black leaders were cut from a different cloth, one that recognized the biblical doctrine of human depravity as a great antidote to racism, since it makes it harder for us to view others humans—whatever race—as less advantaged before God. [Link]
A boy's lost sight helps us see
A young fan of the USC Trojans lost his sight recently, but helped head coach Pete Carroll, his team, and the rest of us see a lot more clearly about what is truly important in life. Watch and admire the courage of this young warrior; and take a moment to give thanks for your sight.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What does courage mean to you? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, January 18, 2010 [Psalm 95:1-7]
Come, let us sing for joy to the LORD; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before him with thanksgiving and extol him with music and song. For the LORD is the great God, the great King above all gods. In his hand are the depths of the earth, and the mountain peaks belong to him. The sea is his, for he made it, and his hands formed the dry land. Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the LORD our Maker; for he is our God and we are the people of his pasture, the flock under his care. Today, if you hear his voice, Psalm 95:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Keep Your Cool When Your Anger is Hot
If you direct the fiery emotion of anger in the right way, it can motivate you to accomplish something good. But if you let it burn out of control, its flames will damage your life and relationships with others… [Link]
Does God Hate Haiti?
The images streaming in from Haiti look like scenes from Dante's Inferno. The scale of the calamity is unprecedented. In many ways, Haiti has almost ceased to exist. [Link]
Eight Summarizing Words on the Gospel
The gospel is not a narrow set of facts or mere formula to gain entrance to heaven. It is a broad category that holds much of the Bible together—taking people from alienation from God all the way through conversion and discipleship to the new heaven and earth. [Link]
Change or Die
Iin many congregations, leaders often resist any measure that would enable their congregation to have a dynamic future. [Link]
Walk-Away Wives: Are Husbands Always at Fault?
Many men (and women) are abandoned with little of the reason for it pertaining to the marriage. There are many other dynamics at play. Let's reflect on a few of them… [Link]
"Just" a Homemaker?
We know that being the homemaker is not all roses and rainbows or June Cleaver doing her housework in a perfectly pleated dress, pearls, make-up and hair. But what we do counts for far more than the "image" that the power suits imply… [Link]
When One Spouse Travels: 5 Steps for Keeping the Peace
Today's economy is having more of an impact on families than just their income levels. In many cases, one spouse now has to travel in order to get or keep a job. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, January 17, 2010 [1 Thessalonians 4:3-8]
It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, January 16, 2010 [Ephesians 5:3-7]
But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person–such a man is an idolater–has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them. Ephesians 5:3-7 NIV [Link]
Even Jackie Chan's Charms Wear Thin in Humorless "Spy Next Door"
Ever seen Kindergarten Cop? How about The Pacifier, Daddy Day Care or Are We There Yet? Basically, if you answer yes to any of these, well, then you can safely skip The Spy Next Door, as it's essentially the same pseudo family-friendly movie, only far, far less entertaining. [Link]
Is God Mad At Haiti?
I am blessed by the incredible response by churches and Christian ministries across America to the suffering souls in Haiti. But sadly a big part of the media coverage is focusing on some remarks by a television commentator. [Link]
Unprotected and Unnoticed: Christians in Muslim Lands
Americans might be hard-pressed to know how difficult things are for our brethren living in Muslim lands. That’s because “the press just…doesn’t get religion.” [Link]
Thinking Green — The New Religion
Religious faith and fervor have not disappeared in the modern world — as some have noted, the secularists have simply turned to ecology. [Link]
The Calling of Christian Writers
Tolstoy, Tolkein, Lewis, and O'Connor… these were great writers because of their Christian faith, not in spite of it. Is God calling you to tell a story? [Link]
Denzel Washington is a Man on a Mission in The Book of Eli
For Oscar-winning actor Denzel Washington, the son of a Pentecostal minister of 50 years, the opportunity to play a faith-filled character was something close to his heart, especially since one of The Book of Eli's prevalent themes is that "God is love." [Link]
Heartbreak Overshadowed by Special Effects in "The Lovely Bones"
Those hoping for glimpses of Peter Jackson's stunning foray into dream-like drama with 1994's Heavenly Creatures will be sorely disappointed in The Lovely Bones. Not only does it lack the book's emotional gravitas, but the choice of garish, Cirque du Soleil visuals end up downplaying the story's real focus. [Link]
Think you've had a rough day at work?
In 1912, while campaigning in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Theodore Roosevelt was shot by saloonkeeper John Schrank in a failed assassination attempt. Determined to still give his speech, Roosevelt proceeded to unleash a fiery oratory with a bullet still in his chest. After he was done, Roosevelt was rushed to the hospital where doctors treated the wound but deemed it too dangerous to remove the bullet. Roosevelt carried this lead souvenir in his lungs around with him the rest of his life.Obviously, Roosevelt was very passionate about his work. And so is Tony Dungy. Watch Coach talk about how to recognize your God-given gifts, and use them in a vocation you find meaningful.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: If you could choose an occupation for me, what would it be and why? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, January 15, 2010 [Mark 3:7-12]
Jesus withdrew with his disciples to the lake, and a large crowd from Galilee followed. When they heard all he was doing, many people came to him from Judea, Jerusalem, Idumea, and the regions across the Jordan and around Tyre and Sidon. Because of the crowd he told his disciples to have a small boat ready for him, to keep the people from crowding him. For he had healed many, so that those with diseases were pushing forward to touch him. Whenever the evil spirits saw him, they fell down before him and cried out, 'You are the Son of God.' But he gave them strict orders not to tell who he was. Mark 3:7-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Ministries Unsure What Awaits in Haiti Quake Aftermath
Various ministries are regrouping and beginning relief efforts following Haiti's massive 7.0 earthquake, though authorities are still piecing together the big picture. [Link]
Prayer or Gossip?
How much do we really need to know about a person's needs or a particular situation in order to pray effectively? The question, "How may I pray for you?" is part of the litany in Prayers for Healing, Laying on of Hands and Anointing with Oil. We are encouraged in the Scripture to be forthright with our brothers and sisters in Christ regarding sins to be confessed and other needs. [Link]
How Can We Have an Awakened Heart?
Many people are losing heart in these days. Trials overwhelm them and situations in life threaten to distract, discourage, and disillusion. But God wants us to have a heart fully alive and filled with his destiny and plans. [Link]
10 Easy Ways to Get Organized
Develop these ten habits for a more organized, frugal life. [Link]
Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
Many of us have become content in our singleness. We may be living a successful, honorable, and spiritual life, we may still feel unsettled. The reason is because we were created to live a life representative of and devoted to Jesus, who we serve, not the world. [Link]
Warning: January Can Be Hazardous to Your Wealth!
Perhaps you've never considered it, but the beginning of each new year is an especially dangerous time for you as an investor. [Link]
Knowing God in Times of Risk
Even with God, risk really means risk, and it can cost us all we have. But when we take risks with God, we gain all He has. [Link]
Matthew Mooney wins Wilbur Dungy award
Matthew Mooney – an outstanding All Pro DadMatthew Mooney was the winner of our 2009 All Pro Dad Wilbur L. Dungy Award. Find out why by watching his moving story. And then view Coach Tony Dungy's interview with him. We congratulate Matt and all the other All Pro Dads out there who truly do put their faith and family first. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, January 14, 2010 [Mark 3:1-6]
Another time he went into the synagogue, and a man with a shriveled hand was there. Some of them were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus, so they watched him closely to see if he would heal him on the Sabbath. Jesus said to the man with the shriveled hand, 'Stand up in front of everyone.' Then Jesus asked them, 'Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?' But they remained silent. He looked around at them in anger and, deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts, said to the man, 'Stretch out your hand.' He stretched it out, and his hand was completely restored. Then the Pharisees went out and began to plot with the Herodians how they might kill Jesus. Mark 3:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
10 Easy Ways to Get Organized
Develop these ten habits for a more organized, frugal life. [Link]
Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
Many of us have become content in our singleness. We may be living a successful, honorable, and spiritual life, we may still feel unsettled. The reason is because we were created to live a life representative of and devoted to Jesus, who we serve, not the world. [Link]
Warning: January Can Be Hazardous to Your Wealth!
Perhaps you've never considered it, but the beginning of each new year is an especially dangerous time for you as an investor. [Link]
How Dare He? Brit Hume's Daring Advice to Tiger Woods
What set the commentariat's teeth on edge was Hume's suggestion that Woods' best chance for recovery lies with faith—and specifically, the Christian faith. [Link]
How to Reach Your Full Potential for God
Are you excited about your life? Or do you feel as if you are merely existing? Are you moving with confidence toward a desired goal? Or do you feel as if you are drifting along from day to day without any sense of purpose or direction? [Link]
How to Attract New People to Your Church Right Away
Are unbelievers regularly visiting your church and coming to Christ as a result? Through outward focus on doing God's work you can attract new people and get your church to Ignite. [Link]
Mind of a Soldier Explored Inside The Hurt Locker
Key to the success of the The Hurt Locker is that its agenda is neither pro-war nor anti-war. Instead, the film is a look at the psychology of the men who go to war, and especially of those who willingly take part in the most dangerous aspects of conflict. [Link]
Any Excited LOST Fans Out There?
Swim on over to our "Christian look at pop culture" site TheFish.com to join me as I run a marathon to recap the first five seasons of LOST, including how it relates to Christianity and religious themes. [Link]
Heaven & Earth Delivered Beautifully by Wickham
Phil Wickham's musings of the "now and not yet" on Heaven & Earth should spark a special chord in today's Christian music scene. It's not that what he has to say has never been said before; it has just rarely been delivered as beautifully. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, January 13, 2010 [Mark 2:23-28]
One Sabbath Jesus was going through the grainfields, and as his disciples walked along, they began to pick some heads of grain. The Pharisees said to him, 'Look, why are they doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath?' He answered, 'Have you never read what David did when he and his companions were hungry and in need? In the days of Abiathar the high priest, he entered the house of God and ate the consecrated bread, which is lawful only for priests to eat. And he also gave some to his companions.' Then he said to them, 'The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. So the Son of Man is Lord even of the Sabbath.' Mark 2:23-28 NIV Listen [Link]
The worst word in the English language
Michael Jordan once commented that the word "if" is the worst word in the English language. Think about it. We spend so much time worrying… "if I lose my job" or "if I get sick" or "if my child does drugs." Or, as Mark Twain supposedly said, "The worst things that ever happened to me never happened." Anxiety is a thief that steals our present. So what is the antidote to worry? Faith. Believing that God has all things under control, and that everything works out for the best is essential to combating fear. So if anxiety has gotten the best of you lately, take a long walk and pray to Him who works everything together for good, and has promised peace that passes understanding.How does Tony Dungy stay so calm in anxious situations? Find out here.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Does worrying accomplish anything? How can we worry less as a family? [Link]
Why Our Happiness is So Sad
Jesus is a disruptive bother to the yet-to-be redeemed soul and to the soul in the process of renewal. [Link]
Unplugging Pornography: Helping Your Teen Escape the Trap
I communicate on a regular basis with teens who struggle with addiction to porn. These are not oddball, sadistic, perverted teens but everyday, honor-roll, churchgoing, love-their-parents, striving-to-live-for-Jesus teens. [Link]
Of Marathons and Marriage
Running a marathon has some lessons for marriage. No matter how easy things are in the beginning, there are going to be difficult periods… [Link]
The Three Generation Family: Is It Gone?
It’s worth asking: what are we losing when most of our children can’t contemplate going “over the river and through the woods” to grandmother’s house? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, January 12, 2010 [2 Corinthians 9:6-9]
Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work. As it is written: 'He has scattered abroad his gifts to the poor; his righteousness endures forever.' 2 Corinthians 9:6-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you only half-listening?
Well guys, science has proven that most men really aren't good listeners. An Indiana University researcher found in a new study that men listen with only half their brains while women use both sides. So men, is it hopeless? Nope. But it means we'll have to try twice as hard as women. Concentrate on what your wife is saying, and resist the urge to interrupt. Good listening, like good speaking, is an art that must be learned and an invaluable treasure in marriage.Not listening is one of many factors that could ultimately end a marriage. Read this helpful article to gain some better listening skills. Huddle up with your wife tonight and say: Let's go for a walk. I want to hear what's going on in your life. [Link]
The Mirage of Peace: A Conversation with David Aikman
Bestselling author and former TIME correspondent David Aikman talks with Crosswalk.com about his new book, peace in Israel, the land’s forgotten Christians, and what American Christians are missing in the debate. [Link]
The Winter of Discontent: America's Mood with Washington
Not since the dark days of Watergate and Vietnam do I don't recall a time when the American people were more pessimistic. I'm referring to the utter lack of confidence in our government. [Link]
NewsNote: The Death of a Feminist
Radical theologian Mary Daly died last Sunday at age 81, ending one of the most interesting and tragic careers in contemporary theology. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, January 11, 2010 [Mark 2:14-17]
As he walked along, he saw Levi son of Alphaeus sitting at the tax collector's booth. 'Follow me,' Jesus told him, and Levi got up and followed him. While Jesus was having dinner at Levi's house, many tax collectors and 'sinners' were eating with him and his disciples, for there were many who followed him. When the teachers of the law who were Pharisees saw him eating with the 'sinners' and tax collectors, they asked his disciples: 'Why does he eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?' On hearing this, Jesus said to them, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.' Mark 2:14-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Honor your father and mother
Here's a creative way to pay tribute to your father or mother – or both. In academic circles, a festschrift is a book honoring a respected person, and presented to them to recognize their life's work. Why not use this same concept to honor your mother or father? Secretly put a scrapbook together, with the help of your wife and kids, and present it to your parent(s) on an upcoming birthday or holiday. Include their childhood photos, report cards, wedding pictures, family vacations, birth certificates, etc. Have each person in your family write a note of appreciation or share a favorite memory. Honor a life lived well with your own family festschrift.You may also want to interview your father or mother a few months before you present them with the book, to give you an outline of what to include. Here's how to conduct a family heritage interview.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: Would you help me do something special for Grandma or Grandpa? [Link]
N. Korea Named Worst Persecutor for 8th Year
North Korea again ranked number one on the Open Doors annual World Watch List (WWL). The ongoing crackdown on Christians in Iran bumped that country from the third on the list to second. [Link]
The Power of Words and the Wonder of God
The tongue is a powerful force—for good or evil. So how might our churches, homes, and culture change if we used words with Christian intentionality and eloquence? [Link]
Trust at My Doorstep
I have faced quite a few threatening tomorrows, and I have battled fear and anxiety as resilient foes. Perhaps you have fought this same battle. [Link]
The Power of Friendship
Sometimes, it is in the honest sharing of your heart that someone else can give you the wisdom to endure, especially in ministry. [Link]
Getting in Shape in 2010: Taking a "Fiscal Health Day”
When New York Times personal-finance writer Ron Lieber was furloughed for a few days, he had an idea: if he used one of his days to take care of long-languishing tasks related to his own personal finances, perhaps his unpaid time could actually pay off. [Link]
Hope When You Have Nothing
Hope or optimism is not about denying reality; it’s about seeing the possibilities for creating a better reality than you currently have. [Link]
Strike a Fiscal Balance With Your Grown Children
Giving my boys all I can to make their lives perfect would deprive them of the joy of making it on their own, that feeling of accomplishment that comes when we figure out how to get through life's difficult situations. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, January 10, 2010 [James 4:4-7]
You adulterous people, don't you know that friendship with the world is hatred toward God? Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that the spirit he caused to live in us envies intensely? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:4-7 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, January 9, 2010 [2 Peter 2:17-20]
These men are springs without water and mists driven by a storm. Blackest darkness is reserved for them. For they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of sinful human nature, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error. They promise them freedom, while they themselves are slaves of depravity–for a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him. If they have escaped the corruption of the world by knowing our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and are again entangled in it and overcome, they are worse off at the end than they were at the beginning. 2 Peter 2:17-20 NIV [Link]
Nothing Good Apart from Him…
I had made Kevin my "good thing." My all-encompassing good thing. And Jesus… well, I tried to fit Him in when I could… [Link]
Closeted Christians: Hiding from the Public Square
We are heading in the direction of making faith a purely private matter, one that is not allowed to intrude in any public square or discussion. [Link]
The Smaller You Get, The Freer You Will Be
The world would have us to believe that the bigger we get and the better we feel about ourselves, the freer we become. But what we find in the gospel is just the opposite. The gospel is good news for losers — for those who long to be freed from the slavery of believing that their significance and security depend on their ability to “become a better you.” [Link]
A New Renaissance in the Arts: Why Now?
The Church was once the major patron of the arts, and many Christian leaders believe that it can and should be once again. Renewing that status may shift the way the Church impacts the world as a force for good. [Link]
"Leap Year" Has Some Classic Movie Charm
In what's basically a remake of Frank Capra's It Happened One Night set in the always-photogenic Irish countryside, Amy Adams and Matthew Goode do manage some winsome chemistry a la Clark Gable and Claudette Colbert in Leap Year. [Link]
Michael Cera Shines in Twisted "Youth in Revolt"
Michael Cera is a star. If you didn’t know it after his role on Arrested Development, or his turns in Juno and Superbad, or after he shared top billing with Jack Black in Year One, you’ll know it after Youth in Revolt. [Link]
Shane & Shane: Scriptures Unplugged
Using the pop-producing sensibilities of Pete Kipley and Jason Hoard to get the heart of their songs on tape, Shane Barnard shares with CCM what makes Shane & Shane's newest recording, Everything Is Different, so, well … different. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, January 8, 2010 [Mark 2:7-12]
'Why does this fellow talk like that? He's blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?' Immediately Jesus knew in his spirit that this was what they were thinking in their hearts, and he said to them, 'Why are you thinking these things? Which is easier: to say to the paralytic, 'Your sins are forgiven,' or to say, 'Get up, take your mat and walk'? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins . . . .' He said to the paralytic, 'I tell you, get up, take your mat and go home.' He got up, took his mat and walked out in full view of them all. This amazed everyone and they praised God, saying, 'We have never seen anything like this!' Mark 2:7-12 NIV Listen [Link]
All Pro Dad's Day
We love having you as a Play of the Day subscriber, but we'd like more from you. Not your money, but your time. Would you be willing to give three hours a month to help the families at your child's school with our All Pro Dad's Day breakfast? Not only will you make the school a better place, but you'll also be the catalyst for transforming parent/child relationships. Find out how to become an All Pro Dad's Day Team Captain. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you think you could help me make a difference in the lives of your classmates? [Link]
Of Things Expected and Unexpected
I am glad that I did not have a list of "expectations" for marriage as it has allowed me to be surprised, pleasantly surprised and excited by "discoveries." I had not visualized how all things would be and so I was not disappointed. We had a wedding day that both met and exceeded our "expectations." [Link]
Managing Conflict With Your Teen
Most of us want to avoid conflict with our kids, but did you know that conflict in a family can offer you an opportunity to pull together like never before? [Link]
Nothing Good Apart from Him…
I had made Kevin my "good thing." My all-encompassing good thing. And Jesus… well, I tried to fit Him in when I could… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, January 7, 2010 [Mark 2:1-5]
A few days later, when Jesus again entered Capernaum, the people heard that he had come home. So many gathered that there was no room left, not even outside the door, and he preached the word to them. Some men came, bringing to him a paralytic, carried by four of them. Since they could not get him to Jesus because of the crowd, they made an opening in the roof above Jesus and, after digging through it, lowered the mat the paralyzed man was lying on. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, 'Son, your sins are forgiven.' Mark 2:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Top 25 Articles of 2009
Crosswalk.com's most popular articles of the 2009 touched on hearing God's voice, the ageless difference between men and women, our new president, and some of the year's hottest movies. Read them all here. [Link]
Hindsight — The Most Newsworthy Events of 2009
A few years from now, 2009 might be remembered differently, but these markers stand out to me as 2010 begins. [Link]
Saints and Soldiers: The Call of Eternal Sacrifice
Altruism, love, the willingness to sacrifice self for the life of comrades in arms, or for a cause greater than oneself, are on display in abundance in Saints and Soldiers. [Link]
The myth of "quality time"
Washington D.C.'s first major league baseball team, the Senators, was owned by Clark Griffith, who, in the democratic, give-the-people-what-they-want spirit of the city, said: "Fans like home runs — and we have assembled a pitching staff to please our fans." Right idea, wrong method. It's the same with the myth of "quality time"… as in "I don't get to spend a lot of time with my kids, but when I do, it's 'quality time.' " Kids spell love with another four letter word: t-i-m-e. You see, where you spend your time reflects your priorities, and your children know where they stand. Make sure they know they are loved. Spend more time with them. Do you need to spend more time with your kids? Here's how. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What would you like to do this weekend? [Link]
Our Top 12 Faith-Related Articles of 2009
Practicality. Direction. Steps. Toward praying, trusting, growing, and deepening reliance upon God. These are factors that our most popular Faith features had in common in 2009, a year of difficulty and challenge for so many. [Link]
Out with the Old, In With the New
I find it comforting that the God of Heaven is a God of fresh starts and new beginnings. He made a world that starts anew every day with sunrise… [Link]
How to Wrestle in Prayer
Don't just throw out a few brief prayers for God's help, and then move on in discouragement if the situation doesn't change for the better. God wants you to practice Wrestling Prayer [Link]
The Kingdom Work of the Corporate World
Certainly, business is no place for those who have "set their minds on things above, not on earthly things" (Colossians 3:2). And yet, that is precisely where God has put them. [Link]
What You Need to Know If Your Bank Fails
Since January 2009, 106 banks and 19 credit unions have failed in the U.S. As grim as these statistics may be, you should not worry about your bank or credit union provided it is FDIC- or NCUSIF-insured. [Link]
Discover & Live Your Calling in the New Year
If your goals for this year include finding a new career — one that is your vocational calling — you may not be sure where to begin. Here are some suggested steps to get you started… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, January 6, 2010 [2 Corinthians 2:14-17]
But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him. For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. To the one we are the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life. And who is equal to such a task? Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, like men sent from God. 2 Corinthians 2:14-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Tony Dungy on New Year's resolutions
Are you making any New Year's resolutions? Resolutions can motivate some people to make lasting change; but Tony Dungy's approach is to try to make changes as soon as they're needed. Watch what he has to say about resolutions.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: What are some goals you have set for yourself this year? [Link]
Understanding English Bible Translation
It remains a reality that the proponents of dynamic equivalence and essentially literal translations are bound to clash. Here, Ryken lays the groundwork for why he believes Christian translators should stick with an essentially literal approach. [Link]
Are We Ready for a Visitation from God?
Many of us pray for revival, but a question we must ask is: “Are we really ready for a visitation from God?” A look at the general condition of the Church indicates no, we are not ready. [Link]
Come On, Man!
This is a plea for sanity and humility, two of the greatest (and rarest?) assets in a preacher. [Link]
Let Us Resolve: Jeremiah's Challenge to the Israelites
The wound apparent in the American Church is indeed serious and our natures are such that we tend to minimize the spiritual complacency present in our own lives and among God's people. [Link]
Where is the Season?
The gift exchanges may be over, but Christmas doesn't really end on December 26th… [Link]
Hawk Nelson Reflects Back and Looks Forward
Daniel Biro says that 2010 is sizing up to be the year of honesty for his band, Hawk Nelson. The pop punk sounds are still alive and well after four studio albums. But now, the quartet is ready to tell the truth about anything and everything. [Link]
Reflecting Back with Emery
Emery must be quite comfortable in their own skin. As drummer Dave Powell explains in this interview, Emery loves making music, feels just fine with where they’re at success-wise and enjoys the ebb and flow of it all. [Link]
Hands Digs Deeper with Creator
Creator, the latest effort from Fargo-based Hands, packs far more than could be expected from the average hardcore record, blending elements of melodic rock, prog rock, and of course, good ole fashioned screamo. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, January 5, 2010 [Mark 1:40-45]
A man with leprosy came to him and begged him on his knees, 'If you are willing, you can make me clean.' Filled with compassion, Jesus reached out his hand and touched the man. 'I am willing,' he said. 'Be clean!' Immediately the leprosy left him and he was cured. Jesus sent him away at once with a strong warning: 'See that you don't tell this to anyone. But go, show yourself to the priest and offer the sacrifices that Moses commanded for your cleansing, as a testimony to them.' Instead he went out and began to talk freely, spreading the news. As a result, Jesus could no longer enter a town openly but stayed outside in lonely places. Yet the people still came to him from everywhere. Mark 1:40-45 NIV Listen [Link]
Love in ink
Open up a blank document on your computer. Then compile a list of thirty sentences stating why you're grateful your wife married you. Some can be funny. Others should be touching. Space these sentences out in a way that can easily be cut out with scissors. After cutting, fold these thirty paper gems in half and place inside a decorative basket or box. Present this gift to your wife at the dinner table. It will make her month, as she draws out one slip a day to remind her how much she means to you. Want to learn the art of writing notes to your wife? Read on. Huddle up with your wife tonight and tell her how much you love her. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, January 4, 2010 [Mark 1:29-34]
As soon as they left the synagogue, they went with James and John to the home of Simon and Andrew. Simon's mother-in-law was in bed with a fever, and they told Jesus about her. So he went to her, took her hand and helped her up. The fever left her and she began to wait on them. That evening after sunset the people brought to Jesus all the sick and demon-possessed. The whole town gathered at the door, and Jesus healed many who had various diseases. He also drove out many demons, but he would not let the demons speak because they knew who he was. Mark 1:29-34 NIV Listen [Link]
Less surfing, more sharing
The Annenberg Center for the Digital Future reported that 28 percent of Americans interviewed last year said they are spending less time with members of their households because of the Internet. That's nearly triple the 11 percent who said that in 2006. Michael Gilbert, a senior fellow at the Center, said "Most people think of the Internet and our digital future as boundless, and I do, too. But ultimately it leads to less-cohesive and less-communicative families." The antidote? Put time limits and guidelines on web surfing at home for everyone. And a great way to do that? Have your family read and sign our Family Internet contract.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Will you please read this contract and sign it? [Link]
He Said-She Said: What's Wrong with Me?
A reader says: "I am 28 years old and have never been asked out. I understand that the guy should do the pursuing, but what does it mean when no one is pursuing? I would just like to know what I'm doing wrong." See what "he" and "she" have to say in response. [Link]
All Things New
Beginning tonight people all over the world will intensify their celebration of newness. Here's a brief meditation from my book "Do I Know God?" on why Christians are the ones who should be celebrating newness louder than anybody. [Link]
Faith, Finances, and Fantasy: The Prosperity Gospel at Work
While the prosperity gospel is part of the problem, it is only a small expression of a much larger American ethos. [Link]
150 Years of Dickens Vs. Darwin
Two major literary anniversaries happened this year, but you probably only heard about one. Find out why it matters. [Link]
Top 10 Family and Relationship Articles of 2009
What are men really thinking? Should my child read the Twilight series? How can someone who seemed as wholesome as Tiger Woods do so much harm to his marriage? In 2009, Crosswalk readers sought Christ-centered answers to their most perplexing relationship questions… [Link]
Make Family Your New Year Priority
What's the first step in saving your family? Create more family time. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, January 3, 2010 [2 Peter 3:3-7]
First of all, you must understand that in the last days scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires. They will say, 'Where is this 'coming' he promised? Ever since our fathers died, everything goes on as it has since the beginning of creation.' But they deliberately forget that long ago by God's word the heavens existed and the earth was formed out of water and by water. By these waters also the world of that time was deluged and destroyed. By the same word the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, being kept for the day of judgment and destruction of ungodly men. 2 Peter 3:3-7 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, January 2, 2010 [1 John 5:6-10]
This is the one who came by water and blood–Jesus Christ. He did not come by water only, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit who testifies, because the Spirit is the truth. For there are three that testify: the Spirit, the water and the blood; and the three are in agreement. We accept man's testimony, but God's testimony is greater because it is the testimony of God, which he has given about his Son. Anyone who believes in the Son of God has this testimony in his heart. Anyone who does not believe God has made him out to be a liar, because he has not believed the testimony God has given about his Son. 1 John 5:6-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, January 1, 2010 [Mark 1:22-27]
The people were amazed at his teaching, because he taught them as one who had authority, not as the teachers of the law. Just then a man in their synagogue who was possessed by an evil spirit cried out, 'What do you want with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Have you come to destroy us? I know who you are–the Holy One of God!' 'Be quiet!' said Jesus sternly. 'Come out of him!' The evil spirit shook the man violently and came out of him with a shriek. The people were all so amazed that they asked each other, 'What is this? A new teaching–and with authority! He even gives orders to evil spirits and they obey him.' Mark 1:22-27 NIV Listen [Link]
The top has a lonely view
There are very few businessmen who have succeeded in the corporate world like Lee Iacocca. Iacocca was Chrysler's chief executive and an American icon. However, in his book Straight Talk, this business mogul says: "Here I am in the twilight of my life, still wondering what it's all about… I can tell you this, fame and fortune is for the birds."Interestingly enough, if Iacocca had to do it over again, he would spend much more time with his late wife and his children and not invest all his time in a company that would ultimately fail. Let's learn from his mistake.For more on winning the tug-of-war between work and family life, read this insightful article. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: What can we do so I can spend more time with you and the kids? [Link]
Top 10 Christian News Stories of 2009
The year 2009 brought hundreds of stories and movements to bear on global Christianity. Here are the faces, places, and movements the Crosswalk.com editors believe most impacted Christians around the world. [Link]
Resolutions for 2010
Making resolutions and setting goals for the New Year can help us to refocus our efforts, redirect our thoughts, and remedy weaknesses in our lives. Consider the resolutions of Matthew Henry and Jonathan Edwards… [Link]
What Does God Promise You?
When you read in your Bible and you see the words “gift” or “given,” or the words “then” or “if,” you need to back up. [Link]
Go Toward a Better Financial Life in 2010
Have you ever noticed how often personal finance advice is about what not to do? But budgeting is not about less; It's actually about more. [Link]
The 'Easy Life' has a Price
When you give up the challenges of life in pursuit of "security," you may give up your freedom. [Link]
Curb Your Spending Compulsion
When it comes to compulsive tendencies, there's no question I received more than the standard allotment… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, December 31, 2009 [Mark 2:7-12]
'Why does this fellow talk like that? He's blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?' Immediately Jesus knew in his spirit that this was what they were thinking in their hearts, and he said to them, 'Why are you thinking these things? Which is easier: to say to the paralytic, 'Your sins are forgiven,' or to say, 'Get up, take your mat and walk'? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins . . . .' He said to the paralytic, 'I tell you, get up, take your mat and go home.' He got up, took his mat and walked out in full view of them all. This amazed everyone and they praised God, saying, 'We have never seen anything like this!' Mark 2:7-12 NIV Listen [Link]
How will your son or daughter meet their future spouse?
Perhaps in a very non-traditional way, as this video shows. But it's not how your son or daughter meets the "love of their life," it's who they meet. Will that person be faithful, honest, giving and trustworthy? Or will they be selfish, immature, dishonest and unfaithful? Who your children marry is crucial. Talk to them beforehand about the character traits they need to look for in a spouse, before they say "I do." Start here.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What type of person would you like to marry? [Link]
"Let Your Light Shine Before Men" in 2010
As the bustle and hustle of 2009 passes us by, leaving a trail of wrapping paper and bows, I ask myself, "Did I shine as brightly as I could have?" [Link]
Why Do We Need Christian Higher Education?
Martin Luther once warned Christians with these words: "I greatly fear that schools for higher learning are wide gates to hell if they do not diligently teach the Holy Scripture and impress them on the young folk." [Link]
Recovering Preaching from Mere Adequacy
Compared with the kind of preaching found in most churches today, what was it about the preaching of Haggai and Zechariah that resonated with such power in the souls of their hearers? Five things… [Link]
The Day "Merry Christmas!" Died
It seems to me that this is the year that the phrase "Merry Christmas!" died, finally choked to death by the vapid, opportunistic ambiguity of "Happy Holidays." [Link]
A Well-Loved Woman
I've had too many women walk up to me after a speaking engagement and bend down, with tears in their eyes, and whisper a confession that they are in a hard marriage. I know what they are feeling, and it kills me that they each think they're the only ones who are going through this… [Link]
Pornography and You
While in the airport recently my heart broke at the site of so many men who spend time between flights thumbing through the pages of "soft porn" publications like Playboy… [Link]
Is Yelling the New Spanking?
Is shouting the new spanking? For some parents it is… [Link]
Music matters
"Give me the making of the songs of a nation and I do not care who writes its laws," says Scottish philosopher Andrew Fletcher. His poignant insight into the power of music is breathtakingly valid. Music plays a huge role in all of our lives and there is no more musically impressionable generation than our adolescents. Make sure you know exactly what your kids are listening to and pick up some great tunes to give to your kids. Get them to listen to the right things, and chances are they'll start doing the right things.Here are some bands that will lift up, not tear down your children.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Who are your favorite bands? Why? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, December 30, 2009 [Mark 1:10-15]
As Jesus was coming up out of the water, he saw heaven being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove. And a voice came from heaven: 'You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.' At once the Spirit sent him out into the desert, and he was in the desert forty days, being tempted by Satan. He was with the wild animals, and angels attended him. After John was put in prison, Jesus went into Galilee, proclaiming the good news of God. 'The time has come,' he said. 'The kingdom of God is near. Repent and believe the good news!' Mark 1:10-15 NIV Listen [Link]
What Young Love Should Know About Old Love
Sadly, young love doesn’t often see examples today of what old love can be… [Link]
At Christmas, German Town Prepares for Easter's Passion
Almost 400 years ago, the people of a small German town made a vow that they've kept for centuries. Now, Oberammergau is once again getting ready for its Passion Play. [Link]
Greater Love: A Pakistani Christian's Sacrifice
In late October, at Islamabad's International Islamic University, an Islamic suicide bomber tried to attack the women's side of campus. But a lowly janitor forced his hand… [Link]
Christian Leaders Must be Readers
Can it be true that we no longer read? Could this explain why many churches struggle to recruit leaders for various ministry needs? [Link]
Your Non-Cash Donations are Worth More Than You Think!
How much is that camel-hair coat worth? Or that long-unused treadmill? The likely answer: "More than you think." Indeed, properly valued noncash donations could shave hundreds of dollars off your tax bill… [Link]
Job Hunting During the Holidays
True or False? Job hunting during the holidays is a waste of time. Surprisingly, the previous statement is false… [Link]
The Bondage of Debt
Only one of Solomon's fools could say with a straight face that the American government and her people are economically free. [Link]
Kids, pets and responsibility
Are your kids begging you for a pet? Are you a little reluctant, thinking it will end up becoming your pet when your children don't want to take care of it? Or maybe you already have a pet at home, and just need to clarify who cares for it, and when. Download and print our Pet Care Contract and Pet Responsibility Chart for you and your children to sign. It's a great way to agree beforehand on what your kids will be responsible for before you head to the pet store.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How much time every day do you think it will take for you to take care of a pet? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, December 29, 2009 [Mark 1:2-8]
It is written in Isaiah the prophet: 'I will send my messenger ahead of you, who will prepare your way'–'a voice of one calling in the desert, 'Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.' ' And so John came, baptizing in the desert region and preaching a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins. The whole Judean countryside and all the people of Jerusalem went out to him. Confessing their sins, they were baptized by him in the Jordan River. John wore clothing made of camel's hair, with a leather belt around his waist, and he ate locusts and wild honey. And this was his message: 'After me will come one more powerful than I, the thongs of whose sandals I am not worthy to stoop down and untie. I baptize you with water, but he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.' Mark 1:2-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, December 28, 2009 [Matthew 2:20-23]
'Get up, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who were trying to take the child's life are dead.' So he got up, took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning in Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. Having been warned in a dream, he withdrew to the district of Galilee, and he went and lived in a town called Nazareth. So was fulfilled what was said through the prophets: 'He will be called a Nazarene.' Matthew 2:20-23 NIV Listen [Link]
Rising from the Ashes: The New Anglican Church
The coming together of the various "continuing Anglican" churches in the ACNA is one of the major religious developments of this year, a development what will likely resonate for many years to come. [Link]
Take God to the World? Or Join Him There?
Are we really responsible to "take God with us" when we venture out? Have we forgotten his omnipresence? [Link]
Experiencing God When You Get a Raw Deal
As I walked across campus, I was rethinking whether this God I had come to know was worth following… [Link]
Women of Advent and Christmas: Anna
When Jesus entered the Temple, Anna knew the God-Man and came to Him. Practice had prepared her for the Perfect and she prophesied. [Link]
You didn't get a divorce from your kids
No words exist to adequately describe what a father goes through when he gets divorced. He loses a wife who he had pledged to spend the rest of his life with. He often loses his legacy by being separated from his own children. But does he have to? Many dads simply give up and walk away from their biological kids because they believe it's pointless. They think that because they won't be around them much, it really doesn't matter. Other fathers do the "every other weekend" thing. They'll have the kids over to just hang out and have some fun, without being involved in the rest of their lives. But there is a third option – do as much as you can, given your limitations. Do your best to remain cordial with your ex and don't speak negatively about her to your kids. This way, you'll gain greater access to your children. You may be able to call every night and read them a bedtime story. You can go to parent-teacher conferences. You can send them cards and bring back souvenirs from trips you go on. You can attend their sporting events and ballet recitals. Whatever it is, your kids need you involved. You didn't get a divorce from them. You're their father. Forever.Need to overcome some anger with your ex-wife? Read this.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: The next time we are apart, how can we stay better connected? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, December 27, 2009 [Galatians 6:1-6]
Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load. Anyone who receives instruction in the word must share all good things with his instructor. Galatians 6:1-6 NIV [Link]
Watson Keeps Entertaining "Sherlock Holmes" Chugging Along
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's detective has been reinvented for the Jason Bourne age. Adding to the brawn and brains is a dash of romance. But the main chemistry is between Holmes and Dr. Watson, a sidekick who just can't kick the habit of helping Holmes solve another case. [Link]
Meryl Streep Shines Once Again in "It's Complicated"
Between serving up a pitch-perfect portrayal of Julia Child in this summer's Julie & Julia, voicing George Clooney's wife in Fantastic Mr. Fox and proving that 50 is apparently the new 30 in the saucy rom-com It's Complicated, it's been another dazzling year in cinema for the Oscar winner. [Link]
Fact and Fiction Prove Compelling in The Swiss Courier
As a lover of historical fiction, I consider a good book one that both entertains and educates. Authors must be able to weave history and story together in a compelling mixture of fact and fiction. Trisha Goyer and Mike Yorkey accomplish that difficult feat withThe Swiss Courier. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, December 26, 2009 [Romans 13:12-14]
The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. Romans 13:12-14 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, December 25, 2009 [Matthew 2:13-15]
When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. 'Get up,' he said, 'take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.' So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt, where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: 'Out of Egypt I called my son.' Matthew 2:13-15 NIV Listen [Link]
Merry Christmas as we celebrate One Solitary Life
In 1926, Dr. James A. Francis wrote, "Here is a man who was born in an obscure village, the child of a peasant woman. He grew up in another obscure village. He worked in a carpenter shop until He was thirty, and then for three years He was an itinerant preacher. He never wrote a book. He never held an office.He never owned a home. He never set foot in a big city. He never traveled two hundred miles from the place where He was born. He had no credentials but Himself. While still a young man, the tide of popular opinion turned against Him. His friends ran away. One of them denied Him. He was turned over to His enemies. He went through the mockery of a trial. He was nailed upon a cross between two thieves.His executioners gambled for the only piece of property He had on earth while He was dying – and that was His coat. When He was dead, He was taken down and laid in a borrowed grave through the pity of a friend.Twenty-one centuries have come and gone, and today He is the centerpiece of the human race and the leader of progress. All the armies that ever marched, and all the navies that ever were built, and all the parliaments that ever sat, and all the kings that ever reigned, put together have not affected the life of man upon this earth as powerfully as that one solitary life – Jesus Christ." Here's an interesting perspective on the Christmas story. Then hear what Coach Dungy has to say about his favorite Christmas memory.Huddle up and ask your kids today: What was the best part of today for you? [Link]
Secrets to Finding Peace on Earth this Season
Need to drum up some warm feelings? Light an eggnog-scented candle and reread the Christmas story. Here you'll find some kindred spirits because the people at the first Christmas were as harassed as you are. [Link]
Women of Advent and Christmas: Elizabeth
Just when most friends thought her time had past, Elizabeth found herself at the beginning of Christmas. [Link]
Give Forgiveness at Christmas
One of the biggest gifts you could possibly give to yourself and others this Christmas is absolving others of wrongs done to you. [Link]
Where Does the Story of Christmas Begin?
As we celebrate Christmas and contemplate the Christmas story, we must be very careful not to begin the story in Bethlehem, or even in Nazareth. [Link]
A Word about Family Tensions and the Holidays
There’s a reason the “Cousin Eddie” character in the movie National Lampoon Christmas Vacation resonates with so many. We’ve all got a Cousin Eddie, or two, in our extended families. Some of us are Cousin Eddie… [Link]
There Really Was a Saint Nicholas!
Bishop Nicholas is most notably remembered for having helped the family of a nobleman who had gone bankrupt, losing everything. The ruthless creditors not only took the nobleman's property, but threatened to take his daughters as well. The father's only hope was to marry off his daughters before the creditors could take them, thereby saving them from a disgraceful life [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, December 24, 2009 [Matthew 2:1-11]
After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, 'Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the east and have come to worship him.' When King Herod heard this he was disturbed, and all Jerusalem with him. When he had called together all the people's chief priests and teachers of the law, he asked them where the Christ was to be born. 'In Bethlehem in Judea,' they replied, 'for this is what the prophet has written: ' 'But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for out of you will come a ruler who will be the shepherd of my people Israel.'' Then Herod called the Magi secretly and found out from them the exact time the star had appeared. He sent them to Bethlehem and said, 'Go and make a careful search for the child. As soon as you find him, report to me, so that I too may go and worship him.' After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen in the east went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold and of incense and of myrrh. Matthew 2:1-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Breath of Heaven
Watch this moving video of the nativity story and remember tomorrow the gift God has given us. And find out what Tony Dungy and his family will be doing tomorrow morning.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: What does Christmas mean to you? [Link]
Persecuted Christians Know the True Meaning of Christmas
Let me give you just two examples of how some of our brothers and sisters in Christ are observing Christmas… in ways far different from yours and mine. [Link]
Telling the Christmas Story
To those of us who've heard the story all our lives, it seems so normal. But, to those who've never heard, it must sound absurd. [Link]
American Faith Is a Religious Labyrinth
American spirituality is increasingly blending New Age and Eastern beliefs with traditional Christianity, as a new study shows. [Link]
Holiday Spending: In the Midst of Joy, a Season of Doubt
Just days before Christmas, when all the gifts are wrapped and the plans are nearly complete, I hear this voice suggesting that the gifts I chose are really dumb, and I need to spend more money… [Link]
Win Over Worry
Life in this fallen world gives you plenty to worry about. So take action to win over worry so it won't win over you [Link]
Giving in Hard Times: An Opportunity for Witness
God did not spare His own Son, but gave Him as a gift that first Christmas, and how can we not likewise show generosity to others? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, December 23, 2009 [Luke 2:25-32]
Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout. He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord's Christ. Moved by the Spirit, he went into the temple courts. When the parents brought in the child Jesus to do for him what the custom of the Law required, Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying: 'Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you now dismiss your servant in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all people, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and for glory to your people Israel.' Luke 2:25-32 NIV Listen [Link]
Linus and the Christmas story
Did you know that more people have heard the Christmas story from Linus, the character in Peanuts, than from anybody else. And as you watch Linus share the greatest story of all, notice that he puts aside his ever-present security blanket… the only time in the comic strip he ever does so. From Linus, and all of us here at All Pro Dad, Merry Christmas!Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Why do you think Linus let go of his security blanket in this scene? [Link]
NewsNote: The Death of Oral Roberts
I am thankful for every sinner who came to know the Gospel of Christ through the preaching of Oral Roberts. But I can only lament the prosperity theology that he leaves in his long shadow. [Link]
Women of Advent and Christmas: Not Just a Womb
God could have raised up a womb from the very rocks if He had needed to do so. Mary got to be the "one" because Mary loved and obeyed. [Link]
How to Wrap Your Christmas Presence
I read that in hard times when Christmas presents are smaller, wrappings become bigger. But who really believes that when things are tough, it's what's on the outside that counts? [Link]
Songs, Silliness and Greater Stakes Characterize The Chipmunks' Squeakquel
Even with pop music at the center of Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Squeakquel, the filmmakers behind the second big-screen installment of Alvin and the Chipmunks kept the cultural references to a minimum and chose to make a family flick that's really all about the kids. [Link]
Rom-Coms Get a Refreshing Spin in (500) Days of Summer
While adherence to romantic-comedy genre rules and staples lacks the inspiration of its premise, the refreshing spin of (500) Days of Summer is found primarily in first-time director Marc Webb’s style. [Link]
District 9 Disappoints Despite Inspired Genre Mash-Up
In an inspired genre mash-up of sci-fi, horror and documentary styles, District 9 looks to tackle relevant themes related to the War on Terror (and the U.S. detention center at Guantanamo Bay, specifically) through a parabolic lens. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, December 22, 2009 [Matthew 1:18-21]
This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, 'Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.' Matthew 1:18-21 NIV Listen [Link]
You have a wonderful life
One of the greatest Christmas movies of all time, It's a Wonderful Life, highlights the life of an ordinary man, George Bailey, and paints of picture of what things would be like if he had never existed. It completely changed his perspective. If you're a little down during this Christmas season, realize how much you mean to your wife, your children, your other family and friends and how much worse off they would be if you were not in the picture. Your presence is truly their best present this Christmas.Watch this classic scene from It's a Wonderful Life.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What do you think is the greatest gift of all this Christmas? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, December 21, 2009 [Luke 2:13-18]
Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, 'Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.' When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, 'Let's go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.' So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. Luke 2:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Your Christmas gifts and Schindler's List
Why not do Christmas a little differently this year? What if your family only spent 80% of what it usually does on gifts and used the additional 20% to sponsor hungry children overseas or buy a gift card for a single mother? In the movie Schindler's List, businessman Oskar Schindler grieves about how much money he threw away on trivialities when he could have saved so many more lives during World War II. Take a look. Let's truly live the reason for the season and give to those who desperately need our help.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: What if we all chipped in this Christmas and helped someone in need? What should we do? [Link]
Christmas, Truth, Christ and the Mile-Long Buffet of Worldviews
Consider Jesus’ statement about why he was born, which he made when he was about to be executed [Link]
Spiritual Intelligence
As you know, Jesus' parable of the seed and soils is one of the most preached passages in Scripture. Yet beyond its deep spiritual meaning, it serves as a powerful metaphor for why our preaching often yields little fruit. For the savvy pastor, this parable provides more than anesthesia, easing our pain by explaining the reason of lean preaching harvest. It also can serve as a stewardship insight that propels us to focus more on soil preparation in order for the seeds we sow to bear significant fruit. [Link]
Quashing the Ruckus at the Back of your Bus
As a lifelong church brat accustomed to living by lists and working out my own sanctification, I found this book empowering. I've never read a work that so accurately and biblically fleshes out the inner life. [Link]
His Gift of Joy
It was up to me as a single parent to make it possible for the joy of Christmas to be experienced this year. But how could I do that? Where could I turn for what I didn't have? [Link]
Invite the Holy Spirit into Your Relationships
This holiday — and every day — each of us might have to deal with someone who has an attitude problem. The Holy Spirit can help you put away the old self and respond with the new… [Link]
The Rising Tide of Teen Dishonesty
It's a fact that teenagers today seem to be crossing their fingers behind their back more and more. They are cheating and stealing more, too. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, December 20, 2009 [Galatians 6:7-10]
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that naturewill reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers. Galatians 6:7-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, December 19, 2009 [Ephesians 5:15-20]
Be very careful, then, how you live–not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Ephesians 5:15-20 NIV [Link]
Turn Lonely Holidays into Feasting Holy Days
I've had many people ask, "I'll bet the holidays are going to be really hard for you this year, huh?" I have lots of reasons why they could be depressing or devastating, but this year I have a new attitude—a new hope. [Link]
O Unity Tree, O Unity Tree!
I can see the rationale in calling the "Christmas Season" the "Holiday Season," given that other faiths indeed share the season. But can you call a Christmas tree anything but a Christmas tree? [Link]
Keep Resisting the Washington Compromise
The truth of the matter is that when it comes to the most fundamental questions about human society, culture, and government, the middle ground is not a sensible place to occupy. [Link]
Save the Pet? Or Save the Stranger?
Love for pets is one thing, but putting them on the same moral footing as humans is incredibly dangerous. Never forget that humans, and humans alone, were created in the image of God. [Link]
Otherworldly "Avatar" Familiar in the Worst Way
The intense publicity, as well as several ecstatic early reviews, have set the bar very high. But Avatar doesn't come anywhere near clearing that bar—not in the performances, not in the lavish visuals and certainly not in the film's entirely derivative storytelling. [Link]
Costumes, Art Direction Trump Performances in "The Young Victoria"
The Young Victoria is not the best film currently playing, or even a particularly good one, because the story has a split personality. But some beautiful interior shots and costuming compensate somewhat for this period piece's identity crisis. [Link]
Stars May Shine, But "Nine" Still Suffers from Sensory Overload
Even with five Oscar-winning actresses delivering fantastic performances without really having that much to work with, the screen adaptation of Broadway musical Nine may have the star wattage but ultimately does little in the way of actually illuminating the audience. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, December 18, 2009 [Luke 2:8-12]
And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, 'Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.' Luke 2:8-12 NIV Listen [Link]
The price of purity
Recently a University of Bristol student sold the rights to her virginity on eBay. The highest bidder would be allowed a single night of passion with her. She ended up getting $12,000 for this endeavor. I wonder if she thinks it was worth it. Our take is that virginity is priceless and your children should reserve themselves until marriage. Talk to your kids about the benefits of abstinence. Here's a list of some of those benefits, to kick off your conversation. Huddle up with your teens tonight and ask: Do you think you will wait until marriage to have sex? Why or why not? [Link]
Twelve Devotionals of Christmas
We only have one "Devotional of the Day" spot after all, and that's just not enough space to showcase all the worshipful and inspirational Christmas-related devotional content our providers have posted this December. [Link]
The Truth of the Nativity and Birth of Jesus Christ
Christmas has become an odd mixture of pagan ideas, superstition, fanciful legends, and plain ignorance. The place to begin sorting it out is in God's Word, because we can't know Jesus if we don't understand He is real. [Link]
What Are We Singing: Yuletide Songs of Mary
During a quick Black Friday errand, I heard four Christmas songs about the mother of Jesus. Having returned from another trip to Israel, I reflected upon what I knew of her and her land. [Link]
‘Tis the Season to Be Stress-Free
Here are three biblical principles that can get you through the Christmas season feeling recharged, refreshed, and refueled. [Link]
Gift Cards: Good or Bad?
Let me share a few things to consider before selecting a gift card. [Link]
Four Online Tools Make Budgeting Fun
While your spending plan can be done manually with paper and a pen, there are a few really cool online tools and calculators that will make it a lot easier, and perhaps even fun, too. [Link]
Are Your Gifts in a Drawer?
God has personally selected a variety of gifts for each of us, and He has given them to us to be used. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, December 17, 2009 [Luke 2:1-7]
In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to his own town to register. So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn. Luke 2:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Tell your daughter she's beautiful
Watch this uplifting video from Jonny Diaz, and reflect on how beautiful your daughter truly is. Then be sure to tell her tonight.Huddle up tonight and tell your daughter: You are beautiful because _______. [Link]
Spreading the Word about Religious Freedom Sunday
There's a great occasion coming up for advancing religious freedom. That's Religious Freedom Sunday, which is scheduled for January 10th. [Link]
Don't Miss Christmas!
Christmas reminds us that "today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord" (Luke 2:11). [Link]
The Forgotten Chapter of the Christmas Story & the Women in Jesus' Family Tree
We tend to overlook genealogic sections of Scripture, but sometimes they contain hidden treasure. [Link]
The Manhattan Declaration Controversy
Why is there protest about the propriety of identifying Evangelical, Anglican, Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox traditions together as Christians in the recent Manhattan Declaration? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, December 16, 2009 [Luke 1:35-48]
The angel answered, 'The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. For nothing is impossible with God.' 'I am the Lord's servant,' Mary answered. 'May it be to me as you have said.' Then the angel left her. At that time Mary got ready and hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea, where she entered Zechariah's home and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed: 'Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear! But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed is she who has believed that what the Lord has said to her will be accomplished!' And Mary said: 'My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, Luke 1:35-48 NIV Listen [Link]
One year of flame
One cynic described marriage as one year of flame and forty years of ashes. I believe he thought this because he related love to feeling, not to a daily decision. The feeling of love comes and goes and comes back again, like your appetite. The commitment of love is unrelenting and sure. Loving commitment is an act of the will – a self-disciplined lifestyle. Act in love towards your wife even if you don't always feel like it. The feeling will return in time, and flood your soul with joy.Here are some ideas for fanning the flames of romance.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: How can I love you better? [Link]
No Stress Gift-Giving
Why not take the stress of gift-giving away by offering something that can be actually given later on in the year? Here's an idea that includes the entire family… [Link]
Yours, Mine… and Ours
"His" and "hers" might be embroidered on towels, robes and coffee mugs, but when it comes to issues of the heart, there is no "yours" or "mine" — it is all "ours." [Link]
Mad over Manhattan
Organizing a rescue effort does not require full agreement on theological nuances. Yet this is precisely the position of many theologians who have declined to sign "The Manhattan Delcaration." [Link]
Copenhagen, Climategate, and a Renewed Call to Truth
Who needs climategate? We already have a solid case against dangerous manmade global warming. [Link]
Like Pigs in the Slaughter: China's Forced Abortions
As painful as it is to talk about forced abortion, we must speak out when we see such monstrous evil. Find out how you can make your voice heard. [Link]
How Giving Blesses the Receiver
My dear friend April received an unexpected but much needed blessing more than 20 years ago. I’ve often wondered if that unknown angel has any idea how much he or she impacted my girlfriend’s life at such a critical time… [Link]
Career vs. Family: Is There a Choice?
In recent generations, we've witnessed a systematic destruction of the barrier between the demands of the marketplace or career and the obligations of family. How should Christians respond to the tensions between the two? [Link]
A Lesson from Tiger's Tale
The one thing that's been bothering me the most about Tiger Woods' story is this: Wasn't there anyone in his life who was holding him accountable? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, December 15, 2009 [Luke 1:26-33]
In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin's name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, 'Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.' Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, 'Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.' Luke 1:26-33 NIV Listen [Link]
Cheating is a widespread problem
A recent survey of 12,000 high school students showed that the number of students who admitted they cheated on an exam at least once in the past year jumped from 61% in 1992 to 74% in 2002. The primary reason? Many young people today believe the ends justify the means – if you want to make a good grade on a test and need to cheat to do it, that's okay. But it's not okay. Character is always defined by doing the right thing, not the easy thing. So talk to your children about why cheating is wrong. Tell them that taking shortcuts will harm them in the end. Tell them you would be proud if they did their best and got a "C" on a test the honest way, rather than getting a grade that is truly not theirs. For more on the way kids cheat, why it's wrong, and how to take steps to prevent it as a parent, read this. For a bit of humor, watch this.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Why is cheating wrong, even if it puts you at a disadvantage? [Link]
'The Secret Santa' Understood the Real Secret
What can you give this Christmas? Before you answer, you might want to read about the real-life Secret Santa… [Link]
How Giving Blesses the Receiver
My dear friend April received an unexpected but much needed blessing more than 20 years ago. I’ve often wondered if that unknown angel has any idea how much he or she impacted my girlfriend’s life at such a critical time… [Link]
Career vs. Family: Is There a Choice?
In recent generations, we've witnessed a systematic destruction of the barrier between the demands of the marketplace or career and the obligations of family. How should Christians respond to the tensions between the two? [Link]
A Lesson from Tiger's Tale
The one thing that's been bothering me the most about Tiger Woods' story is this: Wasn't there anyone in his life who was holding him accountable? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, December 14, 2009 [John 1:10-14]
He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God–children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God. The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. John 1:10-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Your two passports
You are issued two passports in life: one to the land of life and health, the other to sickness and death. There will be a point in the future, perhaps the near future, where you will exchange one for the other. And the end will come. It is inevitable, but not tragic. What you do now, in the land of the living, will mean everything when it comes time to make that passport exchange. Did you love your children? Did you kiss your wife every night? Do you give your time, talent and treasure to the less fortunate? Did you pray that God's will be done in your life? Live and die well.Do you have a bucket list? If not, here are some ideas to get you started on one. Want to know what's on Coach Dungy's bucket list? Find out here.Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask: Name three things on your bucket list. How can we accomplish these? [Link]
An Amazing Article on Abortion in New York Magazine
New York writer Jennifer Senior posed the most awkward question for her Manhattan elite readers: Is America really pro-choice? [Link]
The Christmas Story That's Really about Easter
My favorite non-biblical Christmas story has always been "How the Grinch Stole Christmas." But might it have less in common with the first chapter of Luke's Gospel than with Luke's other New Testament book? [Link]
Paradoxes of Christmas
The greatest paradox in the entire Bible is found in the birth of Jesus Christ… [Link]
Keeping the Small Things Small
As I listen to people complain about their mate, I often wonder, "Is this really that big of a deal?" [Link]
The Warning Signs of Infidelity
How do you know if your marriage is danger of falling victim to infidelity? Author Nancy C. Anderson gives some often missed warning signs that may help protect your marriage. [Link]
Reluctant Entertainers: Singles Can Offer Hospitality, Too
Connecting with others is so important to our faith and quality of life. Yet singles often feel reluctant to open their homes, while families hesitate to reach out to singles… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, December 13, 2009 [Philippians 3:12-14]
Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14 NIV [Link]
Some of the Old Disney Magic Exists in "The Princess and the Frog"
Disney gets nostalgic and tries capitalizing on everything that's worked so well in the past, while taking advantage of new technology. Not only are there plenty of show-stopping musical numbers, but the colorful, hand-drawn animation has never been more spectacular. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, December 12, 2009 [Romans 8:1-4]
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in sinful man, in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit. Romans 8:1-4 NIV [Link]
When “Gracious Restraint” Fails — The Real Anglican Tragedy
Anglican Archbishop Rowan Williams's response to the Los Angeles diocese election reveals a man who — judging by his words — is far more committed to affection than to truth. [Link]
On the Road to Bethlehem: The Faith of Jesus' Mother
Are you facing difficult circumstances this Christmas season? You're not alone. Mary, Jesus' mother, faced an uncertain future, too. [Link]
Victims of Assumicide: What to Do When You Are Misunderstood
We've all been guilty of drawing wrong or poor conclusions based on tiny scraps of evidence. [Link]
"Invictus" Invokes No Passion
Directed by Clint Eastwood, Invictus is the story of South Africa's political transformation in the late twentieth century and the role its rugby team played in bridging the racial divide. How could it go wrong? By not generating the requisite momentum for a triumphant story about cultural and ethnic identity. [Link]
Favorites at Play Covers the Well Known
This covers album boasts many of pop music's well-known numbers of the last few years. From Coldplay to Paramore, Joy Electric’s Ronnie Martin plays well with others, crafting an analog dream from the constructs of others. [Link]
Heaven, Healing and a Side of Bluegrass
When they first started writing Everybody Wants to Go to Heaven but Nobody Wants to Die, David Crowder and Mike Hogan wanted to fill a void. Yes, there was a gaping hole in each of their hearts since their friend had died. But this was a different type of void. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, December 11, 2009 [John 1:1-10]
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it. There came a man who was sent from God; his name was John. He came as a witness to testify concerning that light, so that through him all men might believe. He himself was not the light; he came only as a witness to the light. The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. John 1:1-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Kid of the Week
Tired of your kids fighting over who gets to sit in the front seat of the car? Are you at wit's end over who gets served ice cream first? One All Pro Dad reader has a great idea. Designate a Kid of the Week. The idea is simple – every week, one of your children will get priority with privileges – like sitting next to Dad, or getting the mail. Then next week, it's someone else's turn. Keep all your kids on rotation and let them know that if it's not their turn this week, it will be soon. This simple process can greatly curb sibling rivalry. And we all could use a little less of that!For more on curbing sibling rivalry, check out this article.Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: The Kid of the Week this week is ___, and next week is ____. [Link]
Lead Your Church to the True Meaning Of Christmas
Isaiah 61:1-4, 8-11 Santa Claus, sleigh bells, reindeer. Snow falling, icicles forming, Christmas music playing. Christmas lights, Christmas trees, Christmas presents. Shopping, planning, cooking, eating, visiting with friends and family. This is what Christmas is all about… [Link]
On the Road to Bethlehem: The Faith of Jesus' Mother
Are you facing difficult circumstances this Christmas season? You're not alone. Mary, Jesus' mother, faced an uncertain future, too. [Link]
Victims of Assumicide: What to Do When You Are Misunderstood
We've all been guilty of drawing wrong or poor conclusions based on tiny scraps of evidence. [Link]
Advent in Church and Cultural Tradition
Celebrating Advent helps families prepare for the coming of Christ. But where do Advent traditions come from? [Link]
The Tacoma Tragedy and the Case for Outrage
The slaying of four police officers in Tacoma is a good reminder that, though redemption and transformation is at the heart of the Gospel, some people must be put behind bars and kept there. [Link]
What Do You Really Believe About Human Dignity, Dr. Collins?
The defense of human dignity is the responsibility of all human beings, but certain individuals bear a special responsibility due to position or influence. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, December 10, 2009 [Isaiah 9:2-7]
The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned. You have enlarged the nation and increased their joy; they rejoice before you as people rejoice at the harvest, as men rejoice when dividing the plunder. For as in the day of Midian's defeat, you have shattered the yoke that burdens them, the bar across their shoulders, the rod of their oppressor. Every warrior's boot used in battle and every garment rolled in blood will be destined for burning, will be fuel for the fire. For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David's throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the LORD Almighty will accomplish this. Isaiah 9:2-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Marriage and Band-Aids
In 1921, Earle Dickson had a problem. His wife kept injuring herself in the kitchen. He got sick and tired of always wrapping her wounds, only to have the bandages fall off shortly thereafter. So he stuck some gauze in between adhesive tape and sterilized it. He was so proud of his invention that he showed it to his boss, James Johnson, who ran Johnson & Johnson. More than 80 years and 100 billion Band-Aids later, you can thank Earle's thoughtfulness for his wife the next time you put an adhesive bandage on your child's boo-boo. It's a great example of what loving your wife can not only do for her and your children, but the world.What do your children gain when you love their mother? Find out here. Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: What is something special we can do for your mom? [Link]
The Tiger (Woods) in You
Tiger Woods isn’t as bad as he could be. But neither is he the role model he appeared to be. [Link]
Turn Lonely Holidays into Feasting Holy Days
I've had many people ask, "I'll bet the holidays are going to be really hard for you this year, huh?" I have lots of reasons why they could be depressing or devastating, but this year I have a new attitude—a new hope. [Link]
The Answers Adopted Kids Seek in the Teen Years
When an adopted child enters the adolescent years and their thinking transfers from concrete to abstract, they might begin asking that unanswerable question, "Why did my mother give me up?" [Link]
The Promise of Marriage
The marriage promise is the foundation upon which happy families are formed. When a man and woman are mature and selfless enough to do what it takes to stay true to their promise, everyone wins. [Link]
He Said-She Said: Praying for Specific Qualities in a Spouse
One reader asks: "Is it wrong to pray specifically for those things we want in a spouse and for how we want a spouse to look?" What a great question! Find out how "He" and "She" have answered in response in this edition of "He Said-She Said." [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, December 9, 2009 [Isaiah 11:2-4]
The Spirit of the LORD will rest on him–the Spirit of wisdom and of understanding, the Spirit of counsel and of power, the Spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD – and he will delight in the fear of the LORD. He will not judge by what he sees with his eyes, or decide by what he hears with his ears; but with righteousness he will judge the needy, with justice he will give decisions for the poor of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of his mouth; with the breath of his lips he will slay the wicked. Isaiah 11:2-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Modesty: A lesson for your pre-teen daughter
"All the girls at school are wearing these, why can't I?"… "It's my body; shouldn't I decide what to put on it?" These questions reflect the timeless struggle between teen girls and their parents over the issue of modesty. This issue is more critical than ever in today's society, where pre-teens are encouraged by the media and peers to act and dress years older than they actually are. Everywhere you look, young girls — whether in real life, on television, or in advertisements — are dressed in ways that emphasize their sexuality and, to be blunt, degrade the value of female character. So, as parents, how can we instill in our daughters a sense of personal modesty? Here are 5 steps to get you started.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What does modesty mean? Do you think you should be modest? [Link]
Handling the Holidays During Divorce or Loss
October through December can be an excruciating time of year for those who have experienced a loss. Is there someone you know who may be struggling this year? If so, here are a few practical tips to share. [Link]
Should Christians Celebrate Christmas and the Birth of Jesus Christ?
Why wouldn't a Christian celebrate the birth of Christ? In actuality, the reasons are varied and the legacy long, going back to the Puritans and up to present day groups such as Advent Conspiracy. [Link]
Seven Things I'm Learning about Worship
Chances are you have strong opinions about worship philosophy, or know someone who does. It's a constant clash in our contemporary churches, but here are some truths about worship upon which we might all agree. [Link]
A Conscientious Objector In the Christmas Wars
It's Christmastime, the season for urgent cries from Christian groups who want to defend the holiday from the forces of secularism. Allow me to offer a dissenting view to the prevailing mentality. [Link]
No Stress Gift-Giving
Why not take the stress of gift-giving away by offering something that can be actually given later on in the year? Here's an idea that includes the entire family… [Link]
Make the Most of Your Money in Tough Times
Although you can't control the economy, you can control how you manage your money during this recession. Here's how you can make the most of your money in tough times… [Link]
Avoid These 5 Resume Mistakes
Here are five resume mistakes you can easily avoid to make sure your resume gets the positive reaction you want. [Link]
Married and divorced for trivial reasons
When your kids grow up, if they get married to someone for trivial reasons, they'll probably get divorced for trivial reasons. So what criteria should your children use in choosing a future mate? Take a look at this list, and talk it over with your teens. Their choice of a future spouse will prove to be one of the most important decisions they ever make.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you want to get married when you grow up? What kind of person would you like to marry? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, December 8, 2009 [Isaiah 40:1-5]
Comfort, comfort my people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, and proclaim to her that her hard service has been completed, that her sin has been paid for, that she has received from the LORD's hand double for all her sins. A voice of one calling: 'In the desert prepare the way for the LORD ; make straight in the wilderness a highway for our God. Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain and hill made low; the rough ground shall become level, the rugged places a plain. And the glory of the LORD will be revealed, and all mankind together will see it. For the mouth of the LORD has spoken.' Isaiah 40:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, December 7, 2009 [Philippians 1:27-29]
Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in one spirit, contending as one man for the faith of the gospel without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved–and that by God. For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him, Philippians 1:27-29 NIV Listen [Link]
Marshmallows and success
Research is showing that self-control may play a tremendous role in a child's future success. Psychologists have done tests with children who could either have one marshmallow now, or two a little later – if they were able to wait. In later years, a follow-up study revealed that the children who were impulsive and ate the first marshmallow right away scored more than 200 points lower on their SATs than the impulse-controlled children who delayed gratification in order to get a second marshmallow. And the children who waited did better in school, were considered more dependable later on as adolescents, and better able to deal with stress and frustration.Helping our kids learn the value of saying "no" to themselves while they're still young might just help them achieve a greater measure of success in their adult life.Take a look at this humorous but revealing experiment on self-control. Then hear Coach Tony Dungy talk about how he learned about self-control as a young man.Huddle up with your children tonight and ask: When I say the word "self-control," what do you think it means? Why is it important? [Link]
'Game Plan for Life': Joe Gibbs’ Playbook for Success
What many fans may not realize is that my friend Joe Gibbs’s ultimate goal has never been victories on the football field or the race track. He shares more in his book, Game Plan for Life. [Link]
Staying Spiritual During the Holidays
Joy-to-the-world begins with each of us individually. Therefore, we must guard against our output exceeding our intake. [Link]
Why the Nativity?
In Why the Nativity? 25 Compelling Reasons We Celebrate the Birth of Jesus, author David Jeremiah addresses the top 25 questions frequently asked about the birth of Jesus. Here, he answers "Why the Prophecies?" and "Why Did God Become Man?" [Link]
7 Reasons Not to Speak When You Are Angry
So why shouldn’t we speak when we are angry? Here are seven things to think about before you open your mouth . . . [Link]
Your Brain in Love
You and your spouse can experience lasting passion together if you understand how each of your brains work, and how to use tht knowledge to keep passion alive in your relationship. [Link]
Align Marital Expectations with Reality
It's the gap between what we expect and what we get that drains our energy. Are you willing to sit down and share your expectations with your spouse? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, December 6, 2009 [1 Thessalonians 5:4-11]
But you, brothers, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all sons of the light and sons of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, get drunk at night. But since we belong to the day, let us be self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet. For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him. Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:4-11 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, December 5, 2009 [Ephesians 4:29-32]
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:29-32 NIV [Link]
Heart, Humor and a Timely Launching Pad Elevate "Up in the Air"
With director Jason Reitman's trademark satirical bite, plenty of romantic turbulence and great starring turns from leads George Clooney, Vera Farmiga and Twilight's Anna Kendrick, Up in the Air tugs at your emotions one moment and has you laughing out loud the next. [Link]
Jesus Has AIDS
Before you object, think it through. Jesus isn’t right now hungry, is he? He isn’t naked, is he? He isn’t thirsty, is he? He isn’t in jail, is he? Well, yes, he is…in the nakedness, hunger, thirstiness, imprisonment and suffering of his brothers and sisters around the world. [Link]
How to Work with Others to Change Your Community
Christianity is a team sport. If you are to take up a cause in your community – from empowering the poor, to reconciling people in conflict – you'll be much more effective working with others than alone. [Link]
Participate in a Christmas Miracle for Prisoners' Children
It all started with a knock on the door—because someone cared enough to send Christmas gifts, and the Gospel, to a prisoner's children. [Link]
Putting Europe's Religious Liberty Issues in Perspective
It is sad commentary on the state of Europe and America that a few minarets not built will generate more outrage than a dead priest. [Link]
Family Drama Lacks Emotional Gravitas in "Everybody's Fine"
There's nothing like the holidays to remind everyone about what's really important in life. But sometimes the delivery of a valuable message about the importance of family simply gets lost in translation, which is exactly what happens in the ho-hum dramedy Everybody's Fine. [Link]
"Brothers" Buries Its Most Interesting Themes
Just in time for Christmas—and for President Barack Obama's newly announced strategy for the war in Afghanistan—comes Brothers, director Jim Sheridan's (In America) remake of a Danish drama about sibling and generational conflict among one military family. [Link]
How to pick the Super Bowl winner
The surest way to predict which team will win the Super Bowl is to see which one ESPN's Trey Wingo decided to visit that season with his son, Chappy. Call it Wingo magic. Each season, father and son pick one game in one city at one stadium they have not visited together. In 2004, Wingo took Chappy to a Patriots-Ravens game in Foxborough, Mass; the Patriots won the Super Bowl. In 2006, they went to a Colts-Bills game in Indianapolis; the Colts won the Super Bowl. In 2007, Wingo took Chappy to a Giants-Redskins game in New Jersey; the Giants won the Super Bowl. Last season, they went to a Steelers-Chargers game in Pittsburgh; the Steelers won the Super Bowl. Recently, Wingo took 14-year-old Chappy to the one and only game they opt to attend each season. They watched the Eagles rout the Giants in Philadelphia. So, with apologies to Indianapolis, New Orleans and Minnesota, Philadelphia now becomes the favorite to win this season's Super Bowl. It's really amazing to see what can happen when fathers and their children spend time together. What will your story be? And, speaking of sports, do you know the 10 ways to enjoy sports with your children? Take a look, and then add your own recommendations.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: When can we all go to a game together? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, December 4, 2009 [Romans 5:7-10]
Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Romans 5:7-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Switchfoot's Approach More Hopeful on Hello Hurricane
Switchfoot takes an increasingly hopeful lyrical approach, inspired by the band’s work with Habitat for Humanity and perhaps even their artistic liberation. After the mildly darker nature of Oh! Gravity, it's a welcome return to form. [Link]
Where Are the Brave Christian Thinkers?
Religion is not one of The Atlantic’s categories of “brave new thinkers” and no one listed could be construed as a religious thinker in the wrong category. Why is that? [Link]
The Witness of Scripture: Work of Men, or Word of God?
Among revisionists, the historical record is a product of oppression and coercion written by the ruling class. That also goes for the biblical record, which many dismiss as myth or legend. [Link]
Helmut Thielicke: Between Pulpit and Lectern
Helmut Thielicke was a preacher-theologian who stood between two worlds: the academy and the church. [Link]
Managing the Cost of Christmas Present
To help you more fully appreciate the cost of all your gift-giving, let me pose this question: How many days will you have to work in order to pay for your Christmas generosity? [Link]
Inflation: 7 Simple Financial Insights to Help You Cope
We haven't faced serious inflation for more than a generation in the U.S. If that changes and inflation really does heat up, many Americans will have no idea how to adjust. Here are seven simple financial insights for successfully coping with inflation… [Link]
Attributes of a Workplace Witness, Part I
Over the last several years I have observed individuals in whom God is doing a special work and using them to impact their sphere of influence. I have discovered four key attributes that are consistent in this person… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, December 3, 2009 [Lamentations 3:22-32]
Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the LORD. It is good for a man to bear the yoke while he is young. Let him sit alone in silence, for the LORD has laid it on him. Let him bury his face in the dust–there may yet be hope. Let him offer his cheek to one who would strike him, and let him be filled with disgrace. For men are not cast off by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. Lamentations 3:22-32 NIV Listen [Link]
The definition of a soldier
It has been said that the definition of soldier, sailor, marine or other service person is someone who, at one point in their life, wrote a check payable to the "People of the United States" for the sum of: "My Life." But it's not just the service men and women who give up so much, it's also their families. So, in an effort to keep military families connected, please forward this article to anyone who is serving our country. They give their lives for us, so let's do what we can to strengthen their families.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Would you ever want to go into the military? Why or why not? [Link]
The Case of Hannah Overton
In an outrageous series of events, this gentle thirty-year-old Christ-follower, wife, and homeschooling mother of five was sentenced to life without parole in the death of Andrew Burd, the four-year-old child that she and her husband were adopting from the foster-care system. By every account, the justice system not only failed but also may have actually crossed the line into willful misconduct. [Link]
How to Work with Others to Change Your Community
Christianity is a team sport. If you are to take up a cause in your community – from empowering the poor, to reconciling people in conflict – you'll be much more effective working with others than alone. [Link]
Out of Your Comfort Zone: Live the Life God Intends
Not only is Nehemiah's story a manual on leadership and organization, it shows us what God can do through one whose heart is completely His. [Link]
Our Worship and Our Fears
Studying through the book of Jonah, it occured to me that what we worship depends on what we fear the most. Behind everything you worship is some fear that, without this person or thing, you’d be lost. Life wouldn’t be worth living… [Link]
The Healing Power of Marriage
Marriage was the place designed for great things to happen. [Link]
10 Tips to Prepare for the 2009 Holiday Season
This year, the stress and anxiety level is likely to be amplified. With this in mind, here are ten tips I believe can be helpful in getting ready for an enjoyable, meaningful holiday season in 2009. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, December 2, 2009 [Psalm 89:6-11]
For who in the skies above can compare with the LORD ? Who is like the LORD among the heavenly beings? In the council of the holy ones God is greatly feared; he is more awesome than all who surround him. O LORD God Almighty, who is like you? You are mighty, O LORD, and your faithfulness surrounds you. You rule over the surging sea; when its waves mount up, you still them. You crushed Rahab like one of the slain; with your strong arm you scattered your enemies. The heavens are yours, and yours also the earth; you founded the world and all that is in it. Psalm 89:6-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Chores = Intimacy
Want to really be attractive to your wife? Then do the dishes or vacuum the floor. Women find this irresistible. Why? According to his book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars, Dr. David Clarke says: "Women see chores as a way to achieve closeness. Now, she needs the help anyway. Taking care of a home or apartment is too big a job for one person… but what the woman is really after is closeness. When her man helps with the household chores, she feels closer to him. She feels as though they are a team. She feels as though they are working together. She feels as though he really cares!" And men, you know what happens when your wife feels you really care. What are the 25 characteristics of a husband who loves his wife? Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What are some things I can help you with around the house? [Link]
How to Live with Your In-Laws and Still Love Them
Multigenerational living — once the norm among Americans from all walks of life — brings challenges to modern home life… [Link]
'Invisible Population' Still Lacks Access to HIV/AIDS Care
World AIDS Day comes with rising hope in the fight against HIV/AIDS, but the battle is far from over among the children born with the disease. [Link]
'Invisible Population' Still Lacks Access to HIV/AIDS Care
World AIDS Day comes with rising hope in the fight against HIV/AIDS, but the battle is far from over among the children born with the disease. [Link]
'A Christmas Carol': The Joy of Second Chances
The tale of Ebenezer Scrooge, the miser who is transformed by a ghostly intervention into a good and generous man on Christmas Eve, is one that never seems to grow old. [Link]
Pull Up a Chair While We Read the Health Care Bill
With stakes this high, if our representatives can't find the time or energy to read the 2,074 page bill, it seems the least they could do is pull up a chair and listen. [Link]
Angel Time Explores Different End of the Otherworld
Readers of Anne Rice's books expect to explore the otherworld. Angel Time, Rice's latest release, fulfills that expectation yet again—but this time with a twist. The only bloodlust found here resides in the human protagonist, professional hitman Toby O'Dare, a.ka. Lucky the Fox. [Link]
More Zany Adventures on Display in Museum Sequel
Can lightning strike twice in the same place? It can if you switch locations and seriously revamp the storyline, which is exactly what the filmmakers smartly did this time around in the sequel, Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian. [Link]
Kutless Brings Back Worship on It Is Well
It's interesting to note that for all their rock releases and the longevity of the Kutless name, it's a worship album from four years ago (Strong Tower) that still remains the BEC Recordings act’s best-selling album. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, December 1, 2009 [Hebrews 12:7-11]
Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:7-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Here's to you, All Pro Dad
To all the fathers who brave outdoor high school football stadiums during the dead of winter, just to see their son sit on the bench the entire game, we say well done. To all the dads who sit on rock-hard folding chairs to see their daughter's two-minute part in a two-hour play, we say well done. For all the dads who have put hundreds of miles on their car to take their children on Boy or Girl Scout camping trips, we say well done. To all the fathers who got through another stressful workday, and still cleaned up the dinner dishes, we say well done. You may never get to the top of your career field. You may never earn a six-figure income. You may never set any kind of athletic record. But you're living the most significant life. Well done.Want to encourage other fathers to lead lives of significance? Become an All Pro Dad Team Captain.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What is your favorite memory of something we have done together? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, November 30, 2009 [Ephesians 5:15-20]
Be very careful, then, how you live–not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Ephesians 5:15-20 NIV Listen [Link]
The hidden agenda of the Wizard of Oz
What you see is not always what you get in the media. There is always a worldview being portrayed, whether it's the evening news or Saturday morning cartoons. Even The Wizard of Oz had a hidden message. Here's one theory that has been proposed.So as a parent, the most important thing for you to know about what your children watch is not the TV ratings, but what is actually being said and shown. And you have a few options to help you in this. You can either preview or watch shows with your children, or do some online research about them. You can also recommend your kids do something other than watch TV, like read or go play football in the yard. All TV isn't bad, but limiting TV time is almost always the best option. It can be done. Here's how.Huddle up tonight and ask your children: When can we watch The Wizard of Oz and discuss its hidden meaning? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, November 29, 2009 [Hebrews 13:1-6]
Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it. Remember those in prison as if you were their fellow prisoners, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering. Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.' So we say with confidence, 'The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?' Hebrews 13:1-6 NIV [Link]
Cynicism is Not a Spiritual Gift?
Recently I spotted a T-Shirt that conveys a sad truth. "I’m not cynical. I’m just experienced." I receive a pretty steady stream of correspondence from “experienced” Christians who are fighting cynicism. [Link]
Let the Spirit Lead Your Church
The Holy Spirit has a particular purpose for your congregation. Learn more about The Ministry of the Missional Church. [Link]
"Be Joyful at Your Feast"
God’s people were to gather each year—regardless of how good or bad the harvest (their economy) happened to be—and were commanded to feast and be joyful as they reflected on the goodness of God toward them. [Link]
Preaching for Life Change
Are there some particular insights you’ve gained during the years that help you preach for life change? [Link]
"Only One Thing is Needed" this Holiday Season
The top three most common holiday regrets relate to gift giving. People come away from Christmas wishing they'd spent less on gifts, spent less time shopping for gifts, and spent less money on themselves. So what can we do to ensure this Christmas is more about our Savior's birth and less about spending money? [Link]
Four Loopholes in the New Credit Card Laws
The rules of the credit card game changed when the first phase of the new Credit CARD Act of 2009 became effective… [Link]
The Pygmalion Effect
Are your expectations pulling you forward or holding you back? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, November 28, 2009 [Ephesians 5:1-5]
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person–such a man is an idolater–has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Ephesians 5:1-5 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, November 27, 2009 [Hebrews 10:32-35]
Remember those earlier days after you had received the light, when you stood your ground in a great contest in the face of suffering. Sometimes you were publicly exposed to insult and persecution; at other times you stood side by side with those who were so treated. You sympathized with those in prison and joyfully accepted the confiscation of your property, because you knew that you yourselves had better and lasting possessions. So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. Hebrews 10:32-35 NIV Listen [Link]
What brings true joy in life?
George Bernard Shaw wrote, "This is the true joy in life: Being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."Now hear from Coach Dungy about what brings true joy in life.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think there is a difference between joy and happiness? If so, what is it? [Link]
“They Did Not Honor Him as God, or Give Thanks”
Thankfulness is a theology in microcosm — a key to understanding what we really believe about God, ourselves, and the world we experience. [Link]
The Miracle of Thanksgiving
November always brings out the historian in me-undoubtedly a result of those Thanksgiving theatricals at my elementary school. The class would dress as Pilgrims; my broad brimmed hat stabilized by a pair of crumpled ears. The routines were more fu [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, November 26, 2009 [Romans 4:18-21]
Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed and so became the father of many nations, just as it had been said to him, 'So shall your offspring be.' Without weakening in his faith, he faced the fact that his body was as good as dead–since he was about a hundred years old–and that Sarah's womb was also dead. Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised. Romans 4:18-21 NIV Listen [Link]
The spirit of Thanksgiving
Today, most of us will pause and give thanks for our blessings. But what about the other 364 days of the year? Try this: every morning say out loud, three things you're thankful for. I mean it. Even if you're having a really rough time in your life. If you think about it, there are always things to be grateful for… your wife, your children, your health, your faith… the roof over your head… the dollar in your pocket. Get into the habit of giving thanks… not just on Thanksgiving… but every day.Take a look at this quick video to get into the Thanksgiving spirit. [Link]
Quirky "Fantastic Mr. Fox" Lives Up to Its Title
It's nearly impossible to overstate how wonderful this movie is. Living up to its title as well as any film of recent memory, Wes Anderson's Fantastic Mr. Fox is a whirlwind of madcap humor, surprising emotion and true artistry. [Link]
Thanks Giving: A National Tradition
As we, once again, approach this national day of “thanksgiving” I thought it necessary to reflect upon our nation’s long history of acknowledging and giving thanks to Almighty God. On October 3, 1789 George Washington issued the nation’s first presidential proclamation in which he called the nation to set aside a day for giving thanks to that “great and glorious Being who is the beneficent author of all the good that was, that is, or that will be….” [Link]
Why I Signed The Manhattan Declaration
There are several reasons, but they all come down to this — I believe we are facing an inevitable and culture-determining decision on the three issues centrally identified in this statement. [Link]
On "Origin of Species" Anniversary, Book Gets a New Twist
The group handing out "Origin of Species" at Virginia Commonwealth University wasn't part of the campus atheist group. They were evangelical Christians. [Link]
Tolerance Pushes Charities toward Same-Sex Marriage
"The city is saying in order to provide social services, you need to be secular. For us, that's really a problem," said a spokeswoman for the District of Columbia Archdiocese. [Link]
Apocalyptic "Road" Winds to a Hopeful Place
The movie version of Cormac McCarthy's The Road is a story of a father and son trying to survive after an apocalyptic event. Although God is discussed, he is never embraced, yet The Road shows the importance of the power of hope to overcome bitterness and cynicism. [Link]
"Old Dogs" Could've Used a Few New Tricks
Old Dogs could've used a few new tricks, namely a stronger, less-schmaltzy script, a more convincing friendship between protagonists played by John Travolta and Robin Williams, and well, a few more laughs that don't involve bodily functions. [Link]
For Funnyman Michael Jr., Comedy is Serious Business
Michael Jr. does what few others can—be featured on The Tonight Show one night and then take his stand-up routine to a church the next. Wherever he steps up to the microphone, audiences agree Michael Jr. knows what it takes to keep it clean while keeping the crowd in stitches. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, November 25, 2009 [Colossians 3:12-17]
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:12-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Helping out on the holidays
Dad, do you and your kids have a game plan for helping Mom get things ready for Thanksgiving dinner? There's a lot to do – maybe more than you realize. Take a look at this list of age appropriate chores for Thanksgiving holiday helpers. Assign tasks to each family member, and spread the work around! That way, everyone gets to enjoy the day – and Mom will be especially thankful for the extra help. Now for a little holiday humor, watch this! [Link]
The Power of Rewriting Your Story
We recognize that objects and money can be fleeting, and if we're too attached to them and they disappear, we're in for a world of hurt. But, what if we've become too attached to our own story? What if we unwittingly allow ourselves to become welded to a particular view of ourselves to the point of becoming immobilized? [Link]
When Perfect and New Wears Off
I remember the freshness of moving in, unpacking from the garage, having brand new things — and feeling on top of the world… [Link]
Far From Thankful
Hard things come our way and we lose focus. Hard people come our way and we lose courage. Hard times come our way and we lose faith. We are so far from thankful that we've gone to the other extreme of actually being ungrateful. What do you do? [Link]
Our Worship and Our Fears
Studying through the book of Jonah, it occured to me that what we worship depends on what we fear the most. Behind everything you worship is some fear that, without this person or thing, you’d be lost. Life wouldn’t be worth living… [Link]
Crude Humor Drags Down Funny People
Funny People, the latest Judd Apatow shock comedy, doesn’t have enough of a positive message to overcome its stream of bawdy stand-up comedy and profanity-laced script. Additionally, the film’s excessive length only magnifies its negative elements. [Link]
Angels & Demons Is Not the Movie You Think
On film, Angels & Demons is rewritten to follow the events of The Da Vinci Code. And so Christians are perhaps not unjustified in expecting this prequel/sequel to deal with our faith in a heavy-handed fashion. But it does not. [Link]
Family Dysfunction Takes Center Stage in Four Christmases
Four Christmases seems to have all the right ingredients to be fun, ‘tis-the-season escapist entertainment. Yet for all the effort the protagonists make to be likeable and the carefully-staged gags, the movie still falls horribly flat. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, November 24, 2009 [Nehemiah 1:5-9]
Then I said: 'O LORD, God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love with those who love him and obey his commands, let your ear be attentive and your eyes open to hear the prayer your servant is praying before you day and night for your servants, the people of Israel. I confess the sins we Israelites, including myself and my father's house, have committed against you. We have acted very wickedly toward you. We have not obeyed the commands, decrees and laws you gave your servant Moses. 'Remember the instruction you gave your servant Moses, saying, 'If you are unfaithful, I will scatter you among the nations, but if you return to me and obey my commands, then even if your exiled people are at the farthest horizon, I will gather them from there and bring them to the place I have chosen as a dwelling for my Name.' Nehemiah 1:5-9 NIV Listen [Link]
There's always room for one more…
Thanksgiving is coming up and you're probably looking forward to a great time with friends and family. But what about using this holiday to help others feel loved? Perhaps you know of a family who is down and out, or your child has a friend whose dad isn't around, or there's an elderly woman who lives across the street. Invite them to share the festivities with you. Everyone wants to go someplace on the holidays – no one wants to celebrate by themselves. Set a couple extra places at the table for them and show your kids what this season should be all about.Coach Dungy has something special to be thankful for this year. Find out what it is. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, November 23, 2009 [Isaiah 40:3-5]
A voice of one calling: 'In the desert prepare the way for the LORD ; make straight in the wilderness a highway for our God. Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain and hill made low; the rough ground shall become level, the rugged places a plain. And the glory of the LORD will be revealed, and all mankind together will see it. For the mouth of the LORD has spoken.' Isaiah 40:3-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Lunch with a very important client
You make lunch appointments with your most important clients to spend time with them and get to know their needs, so how about doing the same with your kids? Schedule a day where you can pick them up at school and take them out to lunch. Make it a restaurant of their choice and let them choose the topics of conversation. Your client that day might be a little younger than you're used to, and may prefer a milkshake to a cappuccino, but the return on your investment will far outweigh any business deal.Can't do a lunch with your kids this month? Another great option is putting a note in their lunch box. Here are some you can download and personalize. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: When would you like to have lunch with me? [Link]
The Lure of the Vampire: An Interview with Kimberly Powers
The eternal attraction to Edward Cullen begs the question – just what is it about these books that captivates the hearts of so many girls? Author Kimberly Powers talks about the longing inside every woman. [Link]
The Manhattan Declaration: Defending Life, Marriage, and Freedom
Today at the National Press Club in Washington, D.C., I and a dozen evangelical, Catholic, and Orthodox leaders face the microphones to announce the release of an historic document. [Link]
Known by Our Fruit
We will find out what we are made of by what comes out of our mouths in both good and bad circumstances. [Link]
Decide to Delegate: It's the Only Way to Make a Disciple
Many pastors struggle with stress and the lack of ministerial fulfillment. I would like to suggest that making one decision can provide the cure for both of these diseases. You must decide to delegate. [Link]
How to Fan the Flame of Romance in Your Marriage
The Song of Solomon is all about romance in marriage. Among other things, it very clearly shows that God intends for sexual intimacy in marriage to be rich, exciting, and fulfilling… [Link]
Be Devoted to Wherever God Has Placed You
Whatever our past, however we have been living and wherever we think we may be headed, we can change our outlook and our future from one of individualism and survival and to one of great anticipation and abundance. [Link]
Carrie Prejean, Sexting, and a Lost Generation
As Carrie Prejean continues to suffer, grow up, fall and stand back up in front of the entire world, parents should discuss with our own children the many truths that Carrie's drama reveals… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, November 22, 2009 [1 John 4:7-10]
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 John 4:7-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, November 21, 2009 [1 Peter 5:6-10]
Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 1 Peter 5:6-10 NIV [Link]
Celebrating Thanksgiving When It's Hard to Give Thanks
For many of us who are out of work, battling illness, or suffering loss, giving thanks for anything may seem nearly impossible. There remain things to be thankful for, however. [Link]
The 'Path of Life' to Muslims, Sharia Law Walls Off Christians
Though the sharia is intended as the "path to life," the laws have displayed a dark side, both to Muslims and to religious minorities. [Link]
Cartooning the Word — R. Crumb’s “The Book of Genesis”
In all likelihood, most people would never even imagine a cartoon version of Genesis. Nevertheless, the cartoon version has arrived, and it is attracting no small amount of attention. [Link]
Now Is the Hour to Stand Up for Religious Freedom
This question of human freedom goes to the very heart of who we are as Christians and as Americans. [Link]
"The Blind Side" Shows Faith in Action
After burnishing her star power with the summer hit The Proposal, Sandra Bullock embodies Leigh Anne Tuohy in The Blind Side and, in the process, creates one of the year’s more memorable characters. And she’s no fictional creation. [Link]
Action and Heartbreak, Not Romance, the Focal Point of "New Moon"
With a strikingly different tone than it's swoony, spooky counterpart Twilight, New Moon actually answers the age-old question that most romantic comedy scripts never have the opportunity to: What happens after the girl actually lands the man—or in this case, vampire—of her dreams? [Link]
So-So "Planet 51" Gets a Boost from Much Better Movies
While recycling old ideas was basically status quo, surprisingly enough, borrowing from other otherworldly space-age flicks including Stars Wars, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, E.T. and Alien actually elevates Planet 51’s overall enjoyment factor. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, November 20, 2009 [Zechariah 8:9-13]
This is what the LORD Almighty says: 'You who now hear these words spoken by the prophets who were there when the foundation was laid for the house of the LORD Almighty, let your hands be strong so that the temple may be built. Before that time there were no wages for man or beast. No one could go about his business safely because of his enemy, for I had turned every man against his neighbor. But now I will not deal with the remnant of this people as I did in the past,' declares the LORD Almighty. 'The seed will grow well, the vine will yield its fruit, the ground will produce its crops, and the heavens will drop their dew. I will give all these things as an inheritance to the remnant of this people. As you have been an object of cursing among the nations, O Judah and Israel, so will I save you, and you will be a blessing. Do not be afraid, but let your hands be strong.' Zechariah 8:9-13 NIV Listen [Link]
The days are long. The years are short.
When your children were younger, it seemed as if the days were very long. Getting up often at night went a long way to convince you of that. But looking back now, you see that your kids are growing up fast and, in fact, the years have been short. And they will get shorter. There's no better way to live your life than enjoying your children right here, right now. So leave work a little early today and go play catch with your son or have a tea party with your daughter. There's no time like the present.For 10 ways to make your time for your family, read this. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How can we spend more time together? [Link]
Teach With An Eye On Eternity
My wife and I may not be the best teachers. Our choice of curriculum may be antiquated. We may be disorganized, hap-hazard, or even clueless by some standards. We want our children to succeed in life and be responsible citizens, but what good have we done if their souls are lost in the process? Our highest goal is to prepare them for eternity. [Link]
Evangelicals and the Crisis of Authority
Christian freedom—academic freedom and personal freedom—is not the right to interpret the Bible in any way we see fit and then act on our interpretation. [Link]
When Christians Sin
Does the church too often reverse the gospel or react without a proper sense of biblical responsibility? [Link]
You Don't Start Back, You Start Over
Don't you wish that people could forget your mistakes as easily as God does? That's why we need to be careful about passing judgment on others. [Link]
Become a Hero, Man!
Even when life's disappointments leave a Christian man feeling unfulfilled, he still has God's spark inside waiting to ignite him into a Hero. [Link]
Is Porn Really That Big of a Deal?
When it comes to porn, the question facing many men is simple: is it really wrong? Is it really that big of a deal? [Link]
Teach With An Eye On Eternity
My wife and I may not be the best teachers. Our choice of curriculum may be antiquated. We may be disorganized, hap-hazard, or even clueless by some standards. We want our children to succeed in life and be responsible citizens, but what good have we done if their souls are lost in the process? Our highest goal is to prepare them for eternity. [Link]
Thanksgiving traditions
What traditions does your family have for Thanksgiving? Maybe it's watching the parade or football game on TV. Maybe it's playing football or games in the backyard. That special dish you enjoy every year can be a great tradition as well. Each family member sharing what they're thankful for as you gather around the dinner table can be a very meaningful tradition. Your tradition might even include inviting a family that's less fortunate, or a lonely friend or relative, to share Thanksgiving dinner with you. So think about what tradition makes your holiday meaningful and memorable. If you don't have any traditions, start one this Thanksgiving.Here's a tradition your wife will give thanks for. Take a look at this list of age appropriate assignments for Thanksgiving holiday helpers. If you and your children will pitch in and share some of the Turkey Day tasks, it will be a more enjoyable holiday for everyone!Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How can we all work together to help make this the best Thanksgiving ever? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, November 19, 2009 [Acts 3:22-26]
For Moses said, 'The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among your own people; you must listen to everything he tells you. Anyone who does not listen to him will be completely cut off from among his people.' 'Indeed, all the prophets from Samuel on, as many as have spoken, have foretold these days. And you are heirs of the prophets and of the covenant God made with your fathers. He said to Abraham, 'Through your offspring all peoples on earth will be blessed.' When God raised up his servant, he sent him first to you to bless you by turning each of you from your wicked ways.' Acts 3:22-26 NIV Listen [Link]
How Much Does Your Lifestyle Matter to You?
Have you ever stopped to think about how much you really have? [Link]
Restoring what the Locusts Have Eaten
Just because you have brokenness in your past does not mean you have to remain broken for the rest of your life. Kristine Steakley, author of Child of Divorce, Child of God, reflects on God's restorative grace for those who come from broken families… [Link]
Woof ‘n Worship? Seriously?
"I don't have any kids, so my pets have always been my children." Postmodern Americans see these statements as evidence of new lifestyle choices. Christians should see these statements as tragic. [Link]
Evangelicals and the Crisis of Authority
Christian freedom—academic freedom and personal freedom—is not the right to interpret the Bible in any way we see fit and then act on our interpretation. [Link]
Image is Everything: Christianity and the Church
In fashion, movies, and marketing, image is everything. Did you know that image is everything in the Bible, too? [Link]
How Much Does Your Lifestyle Matter to You?
Have you ever stopped to think about how much you really have? [Link]
10 Healthy Foods for Under $1
When it comes to food, there is a commonly held belief that if it's cheap, it can't possibly be healthy. But there are untold healthy options that are affordable on any budget… [Link]
Curse Not the Day of Small Beginnings
Do you have a job that is “small," maybe even unfulfilling? Jesus understands your situation. In the natural, Jesus had a not-so-glamorous job… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, November 18, 2009 [2 Corinthians 6:3-7]
We put no stumbling block in anyone's path, so that our ministry will not be discredited. Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; 2 Corinthians 6:3-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Home improvement day
Why not pick a Saturday next month and call it "Home Improvement Day." The basic idea is that the whole family will work together on the house – cleaning, painting, washing, trimming, etc. Order your kids' favorite pizza for lunch and, after the day is over, go out as a family to the movies. Not only will your palace get a good scrubbing, you'll share some good family time as well. And for an easier time getting your kids to do their chores year-round, download our customizable chore chart.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: When should we plan our Home Improvement Day? [Link]
The Letter Black Hits Hard on Breaking the Silence
The Letter Black is the latest female-fronted rock outfit to come along. However, this band has a little more water under its bridge than most, having toured prior as Breaking the Silence, ironically the name of their debut EP. [Link]
The Single Life: Staying Sunny on Cloudy Days
There's really no getting around it: weather affects our mood. Personally, I love a misty, grey day. But others perk up the moment the sun peeks from behind a cloud. One way or another, we're all—to some extent—impacted by the conditions around us. [Link]
Thanksgiving: The Power of a Thankful Heart
Thanksgiving breaks the power of the enemy. Whenever you give thanks to God, despite the most difficult circumstances, the enemy loses a big battle in your life. [Link]
Tanked! Out of Prison, Former NFL Agent Ready for Redemption
When former NFL player agent Tank Black got out of prison, it was time to start helping prisoners' children from the other side of the bars. [Link]
Boys Wearing Skirts to School? What’s Going On?
"Clothes are never a frivolity — they always mean something." Thus spoke James Laver, a famous costume designer and interpreter of fashion. He is right, of course. [Link]
Star Trek Goes Back to the Future
A favorite sci-fi franchise is reborn with Star Trek, director J.J. Abrams take on the early days of James T. Kirk, Spock and the other well-known crew members aboard the U.S.S. Enterprise. The film’s fresh approach to the well-worn franchise takes viewers back to the origins of the crew's beloved characters. [Link]
My Sister's Keeper Explores Life, Death and Moral Dilemma
Filmmakers decided Jodi Picoult’s novel, My Sister’s Keeper, had big-screen potential. They also agreed that the original ending was a little too much. So in a move that’s been widely debated online, the story’s conclusion has been softened a little. [Link]
The Letter Black Hits Hard on Breaking the Silence
The Letter Black is the latest female-fronted rock outfit to come along. However, this band has a little more water under its bridge than most, having toured prior as Breaking the Silence, ironically the name of their debut EP. [Link]
Teen attitudes about sex
What is the biggest influence on your teenager's attitude about sex? You are. According to a report from the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, teens say that parents most influence their decisions about sex, but parents of teens underestimate their influence in this area. 47% of teens indicate that their parents influence their decision about sex – more than friends (18%), religious leaders (7%), siblings (5%), teachers and sex educators (4%) or the media (3%) – and those findings have remained constant in similar surveys over the years.The key is to keep communicating your message. The sex discussion is not a one-time thing. It should be an ongoing dialog between you and your children. So keep talking. They're listening. Need a conversation starter? Take a moment with your teen to watch this video, and then discuss it.Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask: What do you think of this video? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, November 17, 2009 [Romans 5:16-18]
Again, the gift of God is not like the result of the one man's sin: The judgment followed one sin and brought condemnation, but the gift followed many trespasses and brought justification. For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive God's abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ. Consequently, just as the result of one trespass was condemnation for all men, so also the result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life for all men. Romans 5:16-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, November 16, 2009 [Psalm 61:1-8]
Hear my cry, O God; listen to my prayer. From the ends of the earth I call to you, I call as my heart grows faint; lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the foe. I long to dwell in your tent forever and take refuge in the shelter of your wings. Selah For you have heard my vows, O God; you have given me the heritage of those who fear your name. Increase the days of the king's life, his years for many generations. May he be enthroned in God's presence forever; appoint your love and faithfulness to protect him. Then will I ever sing praise to your name and fulfill my vows day after day. Psalm 61:1-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Discipline in public places
In his book The Strong Willed Child, Dr. James Dobson answered the following question:"My three-year-old daughter, Nancy, plays unpleasant games with me in grocery stores. She runs when I call her and makes demands for candy and gum and cupcakes. When I refuse, she throws the most embarrassing temper tantrums you can imagine. I don't want to punish her in front of all those people and she knows it. What should I do?"Dobson said, "If there are sanctuaries where the usual rules and restrictions do not apply, then your children will behave differently in those protected zones than elsewhere. I would suggest you have a talk with Nancy on the next trip to the market. Tell her exactly what you expect, and make it clear you mean business. Then when the same behavior occurs, take her to the car or behind the building and do what you would have done at home. She'll get the message."Learn more about the three discipline basics. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: Do you have some friends who are never disciplined by their parents? How do they behave? [Link]
The House Health Care Bill Is Full of Surprises
I wouldn’t be so concerned if this health care reform bill were just another example of bad legislation. But I fear much more is at stake. [Link]
All Truth is God's Truth
If science contradicts religion, or if religion contradicts science, at least one of them must be wrong… right? [Link]
Christian, Don't Feel Bad about Feeling Good
Too many Christians feel guilty about having a good time, even though God intended his creations to be enjoyed. Here's how to experience Pure Pleasure. [Link]
On Christ the Solid Rock
"We all look for it. We all refuse to live without it. We all think we've found it, but it can only really be found in one place. What is it that I'm talking about?" The solid rock on which to stand. [Link]
33 Ways to Say "I Love You"
Here are 33 ways to say "I love you" put in different colors so you and your spouse can take turns saying these to each other. Go ahead and give it a try. We think this is one marriage exercise that will make you smile. [Link]
Holiday Family Gathering Coming Up? Let the Beatitudes Quell Your Attitudes
Here's how to use the Beatitudes to this year be a distinct blessing to yourself and your family when you meet with them over the holidays. [Link]
Kids Caught in the Middle
Walking through an airport recently I watched a young couple engaged in a very heated debate (fight!) as their two young children watched helplessly. Staring at one another, pointing fingers, they seemed oblivious to the fact that others around them were uncomfortable, including their children. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, November 15, 2009 [James 1:2-4]
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James 1:2-4 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, November 14, 2009 [Romans 5:1-5]
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, wehave peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. Romans 5:1-5 NIV [Link]
On Faith: Religious Belief and the Military
In the days since the shootings at Fort Hood, the question of Muslims serving in the U.S. military has been unavoidable. [Link]
Heal from Depression
To fight depression, you can be most successful with strategies that help your brain, mind, and spirit together. Donald P. Hall, M.D offers ways to heal from depression in his new book Depression: A Biblical and Medical Approach to Emotional Wholeness… [Link]
Letting the Bible Transform Your Church
The Bible can transform our lives. It also can transform your church. The past year was phenomenal for our congregation. David Petro, our Minister of Education, gave us a novel idea: He suggested we "read the Bible." [Link]
On Faith: Religious Belief and the Military
In the days since the shootings at Fort Hood, the question of Muslims serving in the U.S. military has been unavoidable. [Link]
The End Isn't Quite Soon Enough in "2012"
Sure, the disaster movie format provides countless opportunities to show off the latest CGI trickery, and there are a handful of memorable moments in 2012. But certainly not enough to justify the overly long running time. [Link]
By-the-Books Smarts VS Life Experience Debated in "An Education"
In addition to an old-fashioned love story complete with a gloriously throwback aesthetic, An Education poses the age-old question of which educational experiences are really the most important: what happens in the classroom or in "the real world." [Link]
Stage "Prairie" Lacks the Depth of Previous Incarnations
This week, I joined 2,000 others in witnessing the newest variation on this century old story: Little House on the Prairie, The Musical. An Ingalls tale without Michael Landon. A history book without a soul. This time, there were very few tears. [Link]
Patience in hard times
Patience in a difficult situation has been defined as being in an unplanned place and walking at an unplanned pace. We've all been there. Most of us have stayed there for quite some time. But if you believe everything happens for a reason, which it does, then this difficulty you are going through has a purpose. It is building your character to become something better. Severe difficulty is the best part of life because it moves you from self-reliance to God-reliance. Embrace hardship as a good friend who will lead you to a more meaningful and purposeful life.Hear what Coach Dungy has to say about the value of patience and share your own with us.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What does patience mean? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, November 13, 2009 [Deuteronomy 28:1-6]
If you fully obey the LORD your God and carefully follow all his commands I give you today, the LORD your God will set you high above all the nations on earth. All these blessings will come upon you and accompany you if you obey the LORD your God: You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country. The fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock–the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks. Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed. You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. Deuteronomy 28:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Making Thanksgiving Memories that Matter
For many younger folks the economic difficulties of this holiday season could be the first time they've had to face such a challenge. Many of us older citizens, however, have "been there, done that…" [Link]
Falling Fertility Makes for Happy Economists?
Is the fact that fertility is falling around the world good news? You would certainly think so if you agree with the analysis cheerily offered by The Economist. [Link]
Bystanders and Civilization: The Richmond Rape Case
When a 15-year-old girl in Richmond, California, was brutally assaulted by as many as seven young men, the most barbaric act of all was the response of those in a position to help. [Link]
Who Can Be Saved Vs. Who Won't Be Saved
The Florida Department of Health has issued guidelines that designate which groups of people are expendable in the event of a crisis. [Link]
Ending the Control Dance in Your Marriage
Dear Dr. David: My husband is controlling. When he tells me something I should change, I try it, except it is never good enough or once that situation is fixed, he will start in on something else… [Link]
A Mother’s Prayer
Watching families at Ft. Hood lose their loved ones this past week was difficult. Yet, the Bible is full of promises for parents, and we can trust God with our children even when faced with difficult times. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, November 12, 2009 [1 Peter 3:18-21]
For Christ died for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive by the Spirit, through whom also he went and preached to the spirits in prison who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water, and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also–not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a good conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 1 Peter 3:18-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Is your word your bond?
When you promise something to your kids, do you follow through? Or is it conditional? If something else better comes along, do you figure your kids will just get over it? You see, it's not the fact that your kids really needed the ice cream cone or the afternoon of bowling that you promised. They need a dad who sticks to what he says. They need a dad they can rely on in a world of chaos. Every time you break a promise, a little of your children's respect for you gets chipped away. Keep your promises and be a dad your kids can always count on.Blown a promise lately? Here's some advice on how to apologize to your kids. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do I always do what I say I will do? Has there been a time when I have let you down or disappointed you? [Link]
The Forgotten Battle: World War II's Aleutian Campaign
Every Veterans Day presents an opportunity to commemorate those who served in some faraway place long ago, many of whom paid that ultimate sacrifice. Some of these men, however, have been ignored too long. [Link]
Scouting the Divine Offers a Fresh Perspective on Familiar Scriptures
Margaret Feinberg's Scouting the Divine bridges the gap between modern believers and ancient scripture passages by drawing readers into the lives of a modern beekeeper, shepherdess, vintner, and farmer. Read some of Margaret's favorite spiritual "aha!" moments in our interview… [Link]
A Closer Look at Veteran's Day
I am ashamed to admit that it wasn’t until recently that I began to understand and appreciate the great freedom we enjoy as citizens of the United States. I am even more ashamed to admit that I had little appreciation for its cost. [Link]
Make the Most of Your Time
Have you used your daily quota of time for God's glory and your good? [Link]
Pixar's Up Soars with Emotional Depth
Much like the trailer for Marley & Me, which was all doggie cuteness without any indication of the sadness waiting in the wings, there’s so much more to Up than balloons and barbs traded between an over-eager boy scout and a grumpy old man. [Link]
Crass Over Class Prevails in a Charmless Ugly Truth
What prevents The Ugly Truth from contributing anything worthwhile to the rom-com genre is its sheer absurdity. Not only does the dialogue—and attempts at humor—scrape the bottom of the barrel morally, but there aren’t even 10 seconds of this forgettable movie that are believable. [Link]
Kutless: Returning to Their Roots
Despite their rock and roll prowess, Kutless is a worship band at heart. So that should help explain why the Portland band's 2005 release Strong Tower just went Gold and why the five-piece is now releasing a second worship effort. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, November 11, 2009 [1 John 4:16-21]
And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. 1 John 4:16-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Today is Veterans' Day
Freedom isn't free. It comes with a price. And that price is paid every day by the men and women who serve and defend our country. Take a moment today to remember those who are deployed around the world, and those who have served in the past. Think about the things they have given up in order to serve. And the times they've missed with their families, so that you and your family can remain free. This inspiring video says it all.Show your patriotism, and go out of your way to thank a veteran today.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you think you would like to serve in the military some day? Why or why not? [Link]
NewsNote: Moral Clarity and the Fall of the Wall
The twentieth anniversary of the fall of the Berlin Wall is an important landmark in human history. That wall, one of history's most heinous symbols of oppression, stood as a physical reminder of Communism's essence. [Link]
Parents, Teens and Sex
Recently I asked a beautiful teenage girl who is very bold about her stance for purity what motivates her to hold her ground. She said simply, "My sense of morality, which is based on my faith and the values my mother and father have taught me." Parents, you are a huge influence on your teens… [Link]
What the Church Can Learn from Sesame Street
What would happen if our churches were to recognize our role in showing people the future, not just in our teaching and in our going but in our being? [Link]
A Third Way Beyond Emerging and Traditional?
Pastor Kevin DeYoung, author of "Why We Love the Church" weighs in on the third way beyond emerging and traditional that PCA minister, Jim Belcher, proposes in his thought provoking new book, "Deep Church." [Link]
Shepherd, Preach Out of Your Core Identity
I have been called variously a preacher, pastor, minister and many other titles throughout my ministry. Although each conveys an element of what I do, I much prefer the word "shepherd." Why this distinction? [Link]
Finance Q&A: Planning for the Holidays on a Low Budget
Dear Deborah: I'm not looking forward to the holiday season ahead. My husband is self-employed and his business is barely surviving. We can't afford to spend on presents like we use to. Any suggestions? [Link]
Inexpensive Gifts for New Moms
If there are expectant parents in your circle of friends, you may be racking your brain to come up with a gift for the baby that will be useful, unique and affordable. I've got an idea… [Link]
Servant Leadership: Putting Principle into Practice
Most business leaders practice secular leadership models, which are based on using the people who work for you to get what you want. But other leaders are forging a new way by following an old path: the biblical leadership model based on Jesus' example of serving others. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, November 10, 2009 [Acts 4:8-12]
Then Peter, filled with the Holy Spirit, said to them: 'Rulers and elders of the people! If we are being called to account today for an act of kindness shown to a cripple and are asked how he was healed, then know this, you and all the people of Israel: It is by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified but whom God raised from the dead, that this man stands before you healed. He is ' 'the stone you builders rejected, which has become the capstone.' Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.' Acts 4:8-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't cheat on your wife
A men's health magazine recently published five ways to avoid committing adultery: Address your needs. If you need a confidence boost, ask your wife for one. Sing each other's praises. Find new male friends. 77% of men who had had affairs have a friend who cheated. If your friends cheat, they make it seem normal. Consider the fallout. Your wife may experience symptoms similar to posttraumatic stress disorder for years – flashbacks, anxiety and depression. Do you really want to take that on? Change your expectations. Fixing your current marital relationship will take time, but you will end up being much more satisfied. Limit your one-on-one time with other women. Reduce the number of opportunities for temptation.And here's one we recommend. Give your wife full access to your home computer, laptop, Blackberry or cell phone. It will reassure her you have nothing to hide.Is it possible for a married couple to survive the pain of an affair? Yes. But it will take forgiveness, commitment, accountability and perseverance. Take a look at this video from marriage experts Gary and Barb Rosberg for some wise advice.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you worry that I'll cheat on you? Why or why not? [Link]
Dave Says – November 9, 2009
How do you balance ambition with contentment? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, November 9, 2009 [Jeremiah 3:12-14]
Go, proclaim this message toward the north: ' 'Return, faithless Israel,' declares the LORD, 'I will frown on you no longer, for I am merciful,' declares the LORD, 'I will not be angry forever. Only acknowledge your guilt–you have rebelled against the LORD your God, you have scattered your favors to foreign gods under every spreading tree, and have not obeyed me,' ' declares the LORD. 'Return, faithless people,' declares the LORD, 'for I am your husband. I will choose you–one from a town and two from a clan–and bring you to Zion. Jeremiah 3:12-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Refrigeration adulation
Why don't you get a small erasable marker board for your fridge and make up a weekly achievement list for your kids? It's simple. List your kids' names and then write one accomplishment each of them did that week. Praise them for setting a goal and reaching it. Whether it's getting an A on a math test or keeping their room clean, kids like to be recognized. This is just another simple way to heap encouragement on your little ones. Here's another… our downloadable Certificate of Achievement. Print one out and celebrate your child's achievement. You might even want to frame it so they can hang it in their room.Find out what Coach Dungy has to say about the importance of encouraging young children.Huddle up with your kids tonight and tell them: I'm proud of you because ____________. [Link]
Studying the Bible: The Future and Prophetic Scenarios
The best way to "keep watch" as Jesus commanded is to know what God has revealed and to attempt a biblical understanding of events. Just bear in mind that not all end-times opinions are facts. [Link]
The Fort Hood Shooter and Benedict Arnold
Did the Fort Hood shooter just "go over the brink"? Wouldn’t the simpler guess be that a member of our Armed Forces switched sides… like Benedict Arnold? [Link]
Afghanistan: The Weighty Decision of Just War
I have great sympathy for President Obama on the issue of Afghanistan—because the moral implications of his decision are staggering. [Link]
In the Name of Sacrifice: Uncovering Abuse in Mission
"All God’s Children" tells the devastating story of at least two decades of abuse that went on at Mamou Alliance Academy in Guinea — all in the name of Christian missions. [Link]
9 Success Factors after Saying "I Do"
After you say “I do,” there are some things you must do to build a great marriage. Here are nine factors that will help you and your spouse enjoy a happy marriage that lasts… [Link]
How Do I Stop Losing it With My Kids?
Dinner is late again, and the living room looks like a failed disaster relief effort. You ask your son to put away his part of the mess, but he ignores you… [Link]
The Two Shall Become One, Part Three
The oneness of the marital union is based upon the two individuals brought together by covenant. They are unique. They bring various gifts, strengths, and weaknesses to their marriage. That is just as God intended. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, November 8, 2009 [Romans 13:8-10]
Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'Do not commit adultery,' 'Do not murder,' 'Do not steal,' 'Do not covet,' and whatever other commandment there may be, are summed up in this one rule: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:8-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, November 7, 2009 [2 Corinthians 1:3-5]
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 NIV [Link]
Not Perfect, "The Men Who Stare at Goats" Still Good for Laughs
Though not perfect, The Men Who Stare At Goats still makes for a good time at the movies. At this time of year when many films are self-important Oscar-baits, it’s refreshing to have one that’s main goal is to simply make us laugh. [Link]
Gwen Stacy Explodes Back with A Dialogue
Hardcore band Gwen Stacy explodes back onto the scene with A Dialogue, a fine collection of face-melters that let vocalist Geoff Jenkins scream his lungs out while drawing in some melodic moments as well. [Link]
What My Wife Taught Me about Glory and Power
Through it all, my wife Maria has shown me what it means that the woman is "the glory of man" (1 Cor. 11:7)… [Link]
The Men in Christ's Life: Peter
I relate not only to Peter's zeal for drawing closer to Christ, the desire to serve him, the desire to make things right and to motivate people, but also to his desire to be an example. Those around Peter saw not only his successes, but also his failures. And through these experiences, they could learn and grow. [Link]
What Are We Singing: More Precious than Silver
In her song, More Precious than Silver, Lynn DeShazo explores a number of elements created by God and considered of great value—silver, gold, diamonds. But did you know the song came to be because of a French fry? [Link]
And be Thankful: A Thanksgiving Meditation
What does God think of Thanksgiving? [Link]
Technology Shackles the Heart of "Disney's A Christmas Carol"
In Disney's A Christmas Carol, all viewers are left with is a familiar story with little discernable heartbeat. It seems inventiveness was saved exclusively for the visuals, which are gloriously thrilling at moments and as impersonal as an action sequence from your average video game the next. [Link]
Sci-Fi Not So Appealing or Funny in "Gentlemen Broncos"
The potential audience for Gentlemen Broncos encompasses lovers of bad science fiction, B-movies (or lower grade) and the strangely endearing film Napoleon Dynamite. Lovers of good comedy, however, are advised to look elsewhere. [Link]
Gwen Stacy Explodes Back with A Dialogue
Hardcore band Gwen Stacy explodes back onto the scene with A Dialogue, a fine collection of face-melters that let vocalist Geoff Jenkins scream his lungs out while drawing in some melodic moments as well. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, November 6, 2009 [Psalm 89:11-17]
The heavens are yours, and yours also the earth; you founded the world and all that is in it. You created the north and the south; Tabor and Hermon sing for joy at your name. Your arm is endued with power; your hand is strong, your right hand exalted. Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you. Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD. They rejoice in your name all day long; they exult in your righteousness. For you are their glory and strength, and by your favor you exalt our horn. Psalm 89:11-17 NIV Listen [Link]
What are your memories of your dad?
What were some of the things your father said to you when you were growing up? Take a look at this video for a fun trip down memory lane. Then think about how your kids will remember you. Your words have the power to bless and build up, or to curse and tear down. Choose them wisely.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What are some of the things you'll remember me saying when you are my age? [Link]
Is Truth Really Plural? Postmodernism in Full Flower
Emergent leader John R. Franke's new book deserves close attention, for it presents a vision of truth we are sure to confront in years to come. [Link]
Life Together: Being the Church vs Just Doing Church
It is not enough to respond to the marriage crisis within the church by saying, “My marriage is fine!” If we abide together in Christ, then we together must prepare and care for marriage generally, and intervene specifically when any marriage is endangered. This is not happening on the scale that it should within the American church. [Link]
How To Identify A Reliable Preacher
Church history give us some direction regarding how to find one. Here's a brief list of five questions (based on the five sola’s of the Reformation) that can help you discern the reliability of a particular teacher or preacher. [Link]
Why We Need Parables
How many times have we sat in a church service or class that was numbing our brain when the preacher or teacher said those magic words that jerked us back to life: "Let me tell you a little story…." [Link]
Correct People Compassionately
Address workplace failures with a balance on relationships and results. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, November 5, 2009 [2 Corinthians 6:1-2]
As God's fellow workers we urge you not to receive God's grace in vain. For he says, 'In the time of my favor I heard you, and in the day of salvation I helped you.' I tell you, now is the time of God's favor, now is the day of salvation. 2 Corinthians 6:1-2 NIV Listen [Link]
Shared activities = a healthy family
Dr. Gary Smalley, in his book The Key to Your Child's Heart, relates the following: "Several years ago I used to speak to groups of four hundred to two thousand people in fifty cities annually. I began to notice that certain families in the audiences experienced unusually happy interaction among themselves. I was intrigued by this and began to do a study. I would interview the wife, husband and children separately. Each person was asked the same question: What do you believe is the main reason you all are so close and happy as a family?What I found amazed me. Each family member gave basically the same answer: 'We do a lot of things together.' "Want to make more memories with your family? Here are some great ideas for activities you can do together. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What is something fun and free we can do this weekend? [Link]
The Workaholic
As a former workaholic myself, I can tell you the root of overworking is often 1) a fear of loss, and 2) a need for self-acceptance created by performance. [Link]
Settle A Debt for Less than You Owe?
In a time of widespread job losses and rising credit-card delinquencies, the radio ads are ear-catching: "Settle your outstanding debt for just pennies on the dollar — without filing for bankruptcy!" But are debt-settlement companies too good to be true? [Link]
Despite Everything, We Are So Blessed
What are you facing today? Foreclosure? Unemployment? Bill collectors? Here's a story of hope that will put things in perspective… [Link]
Nostradamus's Doomsday Gets Plenty of Airtime
Hardly a day goes by without at least one show on the History Channel touting some doomsday scenario and how it was foretold. [Link]
Population Control in an Aging Society
Most would agree that conserving resources and minimizing adverse impacts on the environment make sense, but something has gone terribly awry within the Green Movement. [Link]
Boy-Man Meets Jimmy Carter on the No. 4 Train
Aren't we all Boy-Men? Aren't we all showing off, doing pull-ups on the hang-on bar of life? [Link]
When We Are Called to Silence
The Lord shares with us that there is a time to speak up, but there is also a time to be silent. There are four main reasons to “keep silence.” [Link]
He Said-She Said: Grab Bag Questions and Answers
We receive so many questions each month, that there just isn't space or time to answer them all. So we've decided to mix it up and are giving short answers to five questions in one column. Read on to see what "He" and "She" have said. [Link]
The Two Shall Become One, Part I
Rather than testing the political winds to see which way they are blowing or casting our vote to determine the definition of marriage, Christians must turn to God’s word for his view. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, November 4, 2009 [1 Peter 3:13-16]
Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. 'Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened.' But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. 1 Peter 3:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Darryl Strawberry talks about his father
Watch former All Star baseball player Darryl Strawberry talk about his father. Darryl, as successful as he was on the field, was plagued by problems off the field. And though he doesn't completely blame his father for his mistakes, Darryl does associate a lot of his troubles with being alienated from him. Take a look and then give us your feedback.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: When you are a parent, what is one thing you would do differently than your mother and I do? Why? [Link]
Don't Waver in Your Faith
Doubt is a powerful force. It can make us turn from doing the impossible to sinking beneath the waves of fear… [Link]
Do You Feel Like Raggedy Ann in a Barbie Doll World?
As I speak and sing at women's conferences throughout the country, I have many opportunities to talk with women who feel like Raggedy Ann. They've had the life squeezed from them, but feel obligated to meet life's demands looking like Barbie… [Link]
Sub-Par Sub Car Drama in Taking of Pelham 1 2 3
The Taking of Pelham 1 2 3, a remake of a 1974 film that starred Walter Matthau and Robert Shaw, has two solid lead performances from Denzel Washington and John Travolta but suffers from certain excesses common to modern-day action films. [Link]
G.I. Joe Rolls Snake Eyes
G.I. Joe's reported $175 million budget can be seen up on the screen, as some of the film's special effects are effectively eye-catching. But viewers are left with a story that feels half-formed at best. Apparently not much of that $175 million went to the screenwriters. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, November 3, 2009 [Psalm 89:2-6]
I will declare that your love stands firm forever, that you established your faithfulness in heaven itself. You said, 'I have made a covenant with my chosen one, I have sworn to David my servant, 'I will establish your line forever and make your throne firm through all generations.' ' Selah The heavens praise your wonders, O LORD, your faithfulness too, in the assembly of the holy ones. For who in the skies above can compare with the LORD ? Who is like the LORD among the heavenly beings? Psalm 89:2-6 NIV Listen [Link]
The last thing you say to your children
Some radio and television personalities sign off their broadcast by using a familiar phrase. Walter Cronkite closed every newscast by saying: "… and that's the way it is." So how do you close every day with your kids? It could be a simple "Daddy loves you," or telling them why they make you proud. The point is continually reinforcing how much you treasure your children. It's the best way to end the day.Hear Coach Dungy's routine for putting his children to bed. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: Do you know how much I love you? [Link]
Never Give Up Parenting a Difficult Teen
You may right now be thinking, "I've been pushing against this wall forever…I just can't do it anymore." But let me encourage you to never give up…keep parenting, even when the going with your troubled teen gets toughest… [Link]
Dave Says – November 2, 2009
I'm 20 years old, and I'm working my way through college. I've never been in debt, and I've already got a good emergency fund in place … [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, November 2, 2009 [Jeremiah 3:19-22]
'I myself said, 'How gladly would I treat you like sons and give you a desirable land, the most beautiful inheritance of any nation.' I thought you would call me 'Father' and not turn away from following me. But like a woman unfaithful to her husband, so you have been unfaithful to me, O house of Israel,' declares the LORD. A cry is heard on the barren heights, the weeping and pleading of the people of Israel, because they have perverted their ways and have forgotten the LORD their God. 'Return, faithless people; I will cure you of backsliding.' Yes, we will come to you, for you are the LORD our God.' Jeremiah 3:19-22 NIV Listen [Link]
Do you have room for one more?
November is National Adoption Awareness Month. Maybe you and your wife have toyed with the idea of adoption, but are unsure of whether to take the next step. What will be the affect of bringing a little one into your home? Can you afford it? How will he or she relate to your other kids? Will you have the energy? It is comforting to know that thousands of families have had the same questions and found they were much more fearful than they needed to be. And they are more joyful than they could have possibly imagined. Is adoption an option for your family? Read one man's story, then watch this inspiring video with your wife.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: What are your thoughts about adoption? Would you like to watch this video with me? [Link]
Telling Others the Gospel, Even When It's Difficult
Today, in an effort to be sophisticated and contemporary, many Christians have stopped trying to persuade others to follow Christ. There's an underlying feeling in our society that nice people just don't go around persuading other people to do things. [Link]
"As We See Fit": Hate Crimes Law Opens Many Doors
President Obama's "free to live and love as we see fit" language was set in a context larger than the hate crimes bill. He opened the door far beyond heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. [Link]
They Call That Educational? The Campus Porn Film
A Maryland state senator blocked the showing of an X-rated film at a state university. Predictably, the Washington Post ridiculed him for it. But what’s really at stake here? [Link]
Marriage in Maine: Why We’d Better Fight for It
The beautiful old state of Maine faces a battle that will affect us all. But marriage is just one piece of this puzzle. Let me tell you why. [Link]
A Biblical Look at Intercultural Marriages
For thousands of years, scriptural principles have been misinterpreted and twisted to accommodate people's racial biases, prejudices, and personal agendas… [Link]
He Said-She Said: Grab Bag Questions and Answers
We receive so many questions each month, that there just isn't space or time to answer them all. So we've decided to mix it up and are giving short answers to five questions in one column. Read on to see what "He" and "She" have said. [Link]
Encouraging Spiritual Growth in Your Marriage
A marriage is really a relationship of three: God, your spouse, and you. When your spouse’s spiritual connection isn’t in place, your entire relationship suffers. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, November 1, 2009 [John 6:35-40]
Then Jesus declared, 'I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty. But as I told you, you have seen me and still you do not believe. All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. For my Father's will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.' John 6:35-40 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, October 31, 2009 [Romans 12:12-21]
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,'says the Lord. On the contrary: 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.' Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:12-21 NIV [Link]
A Halloween Story
I grew up in a day when Halloween was little more than pumpkins, fall festivals, hayrides, and dressing up as a pirate or a farmer to go trick-or-treating. So I still hold to the child-like fun the night can hold, but I no longer view the day itself as innocuous. [Link]
Is the Reformation Over?
Contrary to some contemporary assessments of the importance of the doctrine of justification by faith alone, we recall a different perspective by the sixteenth-century magisterial Reformers… [Link]
How the Church Can Embrace Artists and the Arts, Part II
There are a number of reasons why more protestant churches haven't embraced the arts. But in simply addressing why we can move closer to rediscovering the proper place of the arts in the church. [Link]
Michael Jackson's "This Is It" Proves Entertaining But Not Revelatory
Instead of focusing on Michael Jackson's private life or his particular oddities, This Is It is really all about the music and a farewell tour that'll never see the light of day, a move that ultimately casts Jackson, and his legacy, in a more favorable light. [Link]
Still "Thirsty" After Tracey Bateman's Vampire Lit Novel
Stephenie Meyers didn't create vampire lit—her Twilight saga just revitalized the genre and brought it to the teen girls audience. Tracey Bateman's Thirsty capitalizes on this genre expectation—and appetite for a Christian alternative [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, October 30, 2009 [Hebrews 10:26-29]
If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God. Anyone who rejected the law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished who has trampled the Son of God under foot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the Spirit of grace? Hebrews 10:26-29 NIV Listen [Link]
Talk more and fight less?
In the book Fighting for Your Marriage, Dr. Howard Markman writes: "Although, of course, there are many exceptions to the stereotype of a female who tries to talk and a male who clams up, it's nevertheless very common for women to complain that men won't talk or listen, and for men to complain that women seem to want to stir up conflict too much of the time. Unfortunately, men can come to believe that women just like to criticize, and women can come to believe that men just don't care. Our observation is that women want to talk more, and men want to fight less. Both those goals are positive and worthy. If a couple knows how to talk safely about whatever they need to talk about, and if they know how to regulate emotions, they will be able to talk without fighting."Here's how you can talk to your wife without fighting.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think I do a good job listening to you? If not, how can I improve? [Link]
Reformation Day: A Mighty Fortress is Our God
The protests that were written on October 31, 1517 for the public to see began the most dramatic reform within Christianity, one that prompted their author to also pen a bold affirmation of our mighty God. [Link]
Is the Reformation Over?
Contrary to some contemporary assessments of the importance of the doctrine of justification by faith alone, we recall a different perspective by the sixteenth-century magisterial Reformers… [Link]
How the Church Can Embrace Artists and the Arts, Part II
There are a number of reasons why more protestant churches haven't embraced the arts. But in simply addressing why we can move closer to rediscovering the proper place of the arts in the church. [Link]
Waiting for God’s "Immeasurably More"
Lori was choosing to stay in a dating relationship that was clearly unhealthy and unsafe. I knew God had more in store for Lori. But Lori apparently didn't believe that… [Link]
To pay the house off
Dave has a very good reason (three of them, in fact) for why the argument to keep your mortgage doesn't hold water. [Link]
Handling Social Media With Your Kids
Social media has become part of the fabric of American youth culture. Here are some of my thoughts on handling social media in your home. [Link]
One Thing I Hate
I have learned to reserve my use of the word hate. I don’t say that I hate those who oppose my faith. I don’t hate those who have opposite political views. I don’t even hate the Michigan Wolverines even though that will get my Buckeye passport revoked. I do, however, have a few things for which I will use the word hate. [Link]
Christians Foregoing Facebook for 'Digital Fasting'
In an age when many religious leaders embrace the latest technology and even "tweet" from the pulpit, some are reassessing the potential negative impact of online overload. [Link]
Protect Yourself from the Bank Bounce Fee Bite
Banks have taken big financial hits over the past year, due in part to the sub-prime mortgage meltdown. One of the ways banks are making up for their losses is by charging fees… [Link]
8 Key Factors that Determine Long-Term Investing Results
Focusing our energies on maximizing factors we can control in our portfolio growth will contribute far more to our success than hit-and-miss efforts to raise raw performance results… [Link]
Re-Evaluating the "Safe" Part of Your Portfolio
What if the safety bond investors think they are getting is a mirage? In fact, bonds are particularly vulnerable to a specific risk: Inflation… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, October 29, 2009 [2 Timothy 2:22-26]
Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will. 2 Timothy 2:22-26 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you a stepfather?
Possibly the most frustrating aspect of being a stepfather is the dreaded feeling of helplessness when an event at the other household rocks the lives of your stepchildren – and your own life by extension. You can't compete with the father of your children and you shouldn't try to. But you can learn more and do what's best for your stepchildren. Here's how to begin. Huddle up and ask your step kids tonight: What can I do to make our relationship better? [Link]
How Dave got started
A listener wants to know how Dave established himself as a financial counselor that people could trust. [Link]
One of the Most Important Principles in Reading the Bible
Sometimes readers of the Bible see the conditions that God lays down for his blessing and they conclude from these conditions that our action is first and decisive, then God responds to bless us. That is not right. [Link]
The Idolatrous Religion of Conscience — A Lutheran Lesson for Us All
The ELCA's new principle of "bound-conscience" actually embraces and leads to what Martin Luther most feared — a burlesque of conflicting consciences without accountability to the Scriptures. [Link]
Getting to the Bottom of Your Anger
This article is especially for those of you who feel stuck in their anger. For you, anger is a constant companion… [Link]
Living in a Loveless Marriage
How can you get your emotional needs met when your spouse won't meet them? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, October 28, 2009 [Matthew 18:1-6]
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, 'Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?' He called a little child and had him stand among them. And he said: 'I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 'And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me. But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea. Matthew 18:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Communicating with your kids
Former chairman of the Federal Reserve Alan Greenspan reportedly once said, "If I have made myself clear, I have misspoken." Mr. Greenspan had to be careful because anything he said could be taken out of context and the world financial system plunged into ruin. But the same is not true for good fathers. Clarity is the key to establishing a great relationship with your kids. Proven ways to better communicate with your children include: listening, not lecturing, learning to disagree, being positive, and being more action-based rather than verbal-based. To learn more about communicating clearly with your kids, read on. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you think I listen to you enough? [Link]
The Relationship Between Power and Peace
Unfortunately, we're not very good at distinguishing peace-making from peace-faking. [Link]
Dave Says – October 27, 2009
Do you have an opinion on whether or not pre-paid legal is a product worth purchasing? [Link]
Money basics
Elizabeth asks how early you teach your kids about money and what are some basics to teach at a young age. [Link]
Christianity and the Dark Side: What About Halloween?
Many Christians are opting out of Halloween, even as the holiday now ranks second only to Christmas in terms of economic impact and festivities. Just how pagan is Halloween after all? [Link]
Feminism Unfulfilled — Why Are So Many Women Unhappy?
Has feminism produced unhappiness among women? That question is inescapable when seen in light of the historical context. [Link]
Can We Be Happy without Sex?
“Professor Kuehne,” a student will say, “are you seriously going to try to persuade us that if we forgo [sex] outside of marriage we can have a fulfilling life?" It's a tough sell these days. [Link]
Lifting the Gay Ban Would Do a Rank Disservice
Any rash move from President Obama on the already-distorted "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy could deeply affect morale. [Link]
Of Marshmallows and Wise Money Management
Would you like to raise your children to be wise money managers? Teach them to be two-marshmallow kids… [Link]
Make Sure Your Investment Decision-Making is Inside-Out
One of the more counterintuitive propositions we regularly put forth in these pages is the idea that one's investing decisions usually can be made with little regard for what's going on in the investment markets… [Link]
Better to Try and Fail – or Fail to Try?
What if you tried for the promotion but failed to get it, started a business but lost your investment, or tried a MLM system but got nothing other than a garage full of vitamins? Would your life have been better if you had avoided the hassle and the disappointment altogether? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, October 27, 2009 [Jeremiah 10:12-16]
But God made the earth by his power; he founded the world by his wisdom and stretched out the heavens by his understanding. When he thunders, the waters in the heavens roar; he makes clouds rise from the ends of the earth. He sends lightning with the rain and brings out the wind from his storehouses. Everyone is senseless and without knowledge; every goldsmith is shamed by his idols. His images are a fraud; they have no breath in them. They are worthless, the objects of mockery; when their judgment comes, they will perish. He who is the Portion of Jacob is not like these, for he is the Maker of all things, including Israel, the tribe of his inheritance–the LORD Almighty is his name. Jeremiah 10:12-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you a workaholic?
A University of North Carolina study found that children of workaholics have the same levels of anxiety and depression as children of alcoholics. Scary, isn't it? So how do you know if you're working too much? Well, are you more excited about going to work than spending time with your family? Do you take work home with you? Do you work on weekends… and even on vacation? Does your work preoccupy your thoughts? Have your long hours at the office hurt your relationships? If you're addicted to work, you've got an important decision to make. The first is to admit you have a problem. Take a look at this video, then get help. Here's how to start. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you feel I put my work ahead of your needs? [Link]
Two paycheck budget
When the paychecks come at different times, Dave tells Josh to set a budget for THIS month, not the perfect month. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, October 26, 2009 [Ephesians 6:6-14]
Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him. Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, Ephesians 6:6-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Helping dads do a better job
If you really want to encourage fathers in your community to become passionate about their most important job – being a dad – then consider becoming an All Pro Dad Team Captain. As a Team Captain, you will host a monthly All Pro Dad's Day breakfast at your child's school that features food, fun and meaningful interaction between dads and their kids. We provide everything you need: a powerful video and easy-to-follow curriculum, all in an online format. Our unique program has been endorsed by the national PTA. Schools and families in all 50 states and eight countries rave about this simple but profound event. Learn more about becoming an All Pro Dad Team Captain. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Would you like to help me plan a monthly dads' and kids' breakfast at your school? [Link]
Marital Money Troubles? Find Peace with These Tips
A budget is an expression of your personality and motivational style. Consider these four money motivation styles and how they affect your marriage. [Link]
Regarding Others: Why Do People Matter?
Avoiding eye contact, not offering greetings, and other anti-social behavior is common, but hardly Christian. How do we overcome natural indifference – even hostility – toward others? [Link]
How Can I Show Her I've Changed?
This is a question I'm asked all too frequently as women leave marriages at astounding rates… [Link]
Needy Kids Find God's Love Tucked Inside Throwaway Boxes
Humble, ordinary shoeboxes. How is it that these same lowly shoeboxes can be transformed into glittering treasure chests that delight a child's heart and tell the timeless story of God's eternal love? [Link]
Where the Wild Things Aren’t
Some Christians are all exercised about the fact that Where the Wild Things Are might be too frightening for children. They're wrong. The movie tames the wild things too much… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, October 25, 2009 [1 Corinthians 13:1-7]
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:1-7 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, October 24, 2009 [Psalm 42:1-5]
As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God? My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, 'Where is your God?' These things I remember as I pour out my soul: how I used to go with the multitude, leading the procession to the house of God, with shouts of joy and thanksgiving among the festive throng. Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and Psalm 42:1-5 NIV [Link]
Appealing Aesthetics and Emotional Depth Propel "Astro Boy"
There's a surprisingly human element woven in with the science of Astro Boy. Not only does the protagonist make many self-sacrificing choices, but his underlying desire to connect with others is something that virtually anyone can relate to. [Link]
Appealing Aesthetics and Emotional Depth Propel "Astro Boy"
There's a surprisingly human element woven in with the science of Astro Boy. Not only does the protagonist make many self-sacrificing choices, but his underlying desire to connect with others is something that virtually anyone can relate to. [Link]
"Amelia" Chases a Dream in the Clouds
Considering the talent involved, Amelia should have been better. Director Mira Nair's previous film, The Namesake, was both sumptuous and meaningful. Here, Nair has taken on a quintessentially American story, meant to be inspiring but which instead comes across as empty. [Link]
Insure the vacation
A listener wants to know if Dave thinks it’s wise to buy trip insurance for a Hawaiian vacation. [Link]
Life As a Puzzle
Most people attack a puzzle by finding all of the pieces that have straight edges, forming the boundary of the puzzle and filling in the middle trying to match the picture. Many of us approach life in the same way, or at least try to. [Link]
How the Church can Embrace Artists and the Arts, Part I
When we talk about a New Renaissance of art within the church, important and obvious questions arise: Who is an artist? And what is church-appropriate art? [Link]
Putting a Face on Facebook
Let facebook serve its purpose. Use it to keep you in touch over the miles and years. However, don’t let it take the place of face to face conversation. As John says, a letter is good. Being there in person is lightyears better. [Link]
Extraordinary Communication: Sermons that Go Beyond Ordinary
Extraordinary communication has little to do with speaking skills, educational background or sermon preparation. It has everything to do with God showing up. [Link]
James Explores Justice and Truth in The Knight
The third installation of “The Bowers Files,” The Knight explores the relationship between justice and truth—do they always go together? Must they be one and the same? Which is more important? And is lying ever justified? [Link]
Relient K: Relient on No One Else
The blank slate facing Matt Thiessen wasn’t daunting in the slightest. Instead, the Relient K front man actually made “having fun” his only rule when it came to recording the band’s new album, Forget and Not Slow Down. [Link]
Leeland Stays Vertically Minded on Love Is on the Move
"It's just you and me, Jesus," sings Leeland Mooring on Leeland’s latest album, Love Is on the Move. The statement serves as a proper introduction to an incredibly vertical album—and fans shouldn't expect anything different. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, October 23, 2009 [Romans 16:17-19]
I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people. Everyone has heard about your obedience, so I am full of joy over you; but I want you to be wise about what is good, and innocent about what is evil. Romans 16:17-19 NIV Listen [Link]
Where will your kids be this Sunday?
Former British Prime Minister William Gladstone commented: "Tell me what your young men are doing on Sundays and I will tell you what the future of England will be." Over 100 years later, the same holds true for America. Making church a priority for your family instills in your children the central importance and benefit of faith and its superior moral teachings. Research shows that children who attend church regularly are less likely to get involved in drugs and alcohol and more likely to go to college. Couples who go to church regularly are less likely to get divorced. And, if drawing closer to God is what the purpose of life truly is, there's no better place to do it than church.So what's your reason for not going to church? Watch what these folks had to say about it.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Where should we go to church this weekend? [Link]
Explain inflation
Janine has a pretty basic question … how does inflation work, and how can we stop it? [Link]
Swine Flu and the Common Cup
Why do our evangelical Lord’s Supper services so often look like the clinical communal rinse-and-spit of fluoride at an elementary school rather than like a loving family gathered around a feast table? [Link]
Should I Celebrate Halloween?
Someone once said, "For a Christian to celebrate Halloween would be as proper as a Holocaust survivor trying to celebrate Hitler's birthday." Yet so many believers continue to do so without considering what they are doing. Why? [Link]
Safe Schools Czar Offers Dangerous Change
With Kevin Jennings, "safe schools" turns out to be a euphemism for the advancement and promotion of the GLBT agenda. [Link]
Money and Morality: How Values Undercut the Economy
If people can’t control their own desires, can we really expect them to keep their financial house in order? [Link]
Is Now the Time to Find Your Calling?
Mary was laid off after years as an administrative assistant, and doesn't have a clear picture of what she would like to be doing; she just knows that she wants to do something "more creative" that "helps people in some meaningful way." She estimates that she can afford to be out of work about three months before she needs a paycheck coming in again. What should Mary do? [Link]
Money, Purpose, Joy
Matt Bell offers values-based personal finance advice and demonstrates how getting our priorities in order and implementing smart-money strategies can make true financial freedom attainable–regardless of income level. Read an excerpt from Money, Purpose, Joy. [Link]
The Power of One Thing: How to Intentionally Change Your Life
You want to get things done, but sometimes it seems overwhelming. Here's help! Taking you from where you are to where you want to be, Carlson provides a proven plan that breaks down the journey into doable chunks. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, October 22, 2009 [2 Corinthians 6:14-18]
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: 'I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people.' 'Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you.' 'I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.' 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Are you feeling life "ain't so great?"
In the movie City Slickers, Billy Crystal feels the onset of a mid-life crisis and asks: "Did you ever reach a point in your life when you say to yourself: 'This is the best I'm ever going to look, this is the best I'm ever going to feel, the best I'm ever going to do, and it ain't that great'?" We've all been there. We've strived to achieve and get ahead in our careers and be honored for our accomplishments. And we wake up one day and realize "it ain't that great." What we do with that feeling of emptiness will speak volumes about our character. Will we get depressed and want to throw ourselves a pity party? Will we file for divorce and run off with a younger woman? Or will we use the opportunity of our midlife to examine ourselves, rearrange our priorities and work toward building a better future? Coach Dungy talks about midlife, the amazing opportunity it affords, and how it can be the defining moment of our lives.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: If there was one thing you would change about our lives right now, what would it be? [Link]
Knowing when to sell
Josh wants to know when he knows that it's time to get out of his car loan. [Link]
What to Say to the Depressed, Doubting, Skeptical, Confused & Angry
If you care about people and risk talking to the depressed, the doubting, the skeptical, the confused, and the angry, you will soon run into a person who will minimize your counsel and say it doesn't work. [Link]
Does God Really Answer Prayer? Yes, in Four Ways
We want answers when we pray! And it’s frustrating when it seems like God is silent. God does answer prayer, but He does it in four different ways… [Link]
The Love Dare's Alex Kendrick on Christian Marriage and Movie Making
Occasionally, a book has a more powerful impact than even the authors anticipated. This is what happened with #1 New York Times Best Seller The Love Dare by Alex and Stephen Kendrick. Read our interview with Alex… [Link]
Conquering Your Fears
While I enjoy dressing up my baby girl and taking her to the church carnival, I don't enjoy Halloween. I don't like to be afraid… [Link]
The Single Life: Showing Souper Hospitality
I don't know about you, but I love having people over to my place for dinner on a regular basis. It's the best way I know to make sure my home stays really clean, and there's a sense of satisfaction in bringing people together for good food and conversation. But there's another reason to host social gatherings. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, October 21, 2009 [Ephesians 4:17-23]
So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more. You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; Ephesians 4:17-23 NIV Listen [Link]
Fatherhood as coaching
Watch this video clip, and as you see this coach encourage, exhort and inspire his players, reflect on how you might be able to do the same with your children, in your own style. Our words have the power of life and death, victory and defeat, encouragement and despair. Speak wisely, lovingly and passionately to your children.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think I do a good job of encouraging our kids? [Link]
Dave Says – October 20, 2009
My husband and I are both 37 years old, and we have two children, ages six and four … [Link]
Aging while investing
Linda and her husband are getting up there in years, and want to know where they should put their 401k money. [Link]
15 Steps to Overcoming Discouragement
Discouragement comes out of hopelessness. But so does hope. Here's how you can look to God, the source of A Hope and a Future. [Link]
Whose Religion Is the UN Protecting from Defamation?
The infamous "Defamation of Religion" resolution has been introduced again at the UN, just like it is every year. Here's why Christians cannot get behind this innocuous-sounding bill. [Link]
Too Many Laws Send Grandma to Jail
An Indiana grandmother named Sally Harpold was arrested for buying two boxes of cold medicine in less than a week. It's an example of too many regulations, and too little common sense. [Link]
Is the Economy Really Recovering?
With news reporting the recession is finally over and the stock market recovering over 50% from the March 9th low, we need to ask: is Main Street truly improving? [Link]
Transformers Sequel Lacks Any Real Human Connection
Just in case you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to watch someone else play videogames for two and a half hours, sitting through Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen will definitely satiate your curiosity. [Link]
People Are Shallow, Observations Are Deep in Cheri
Chéri is a period-piece about shallow, immoral and deceptive people, yet its ultimate observations are deep, its resolution moral, and its strength is in how deceptively it reaches those conclusions. [Link]
Land of the Lost Should've Stayed Lost
Unlike the smart writing and savvy direction of Star Trek, Land of the Lost only has Will Ferrell's over-the-top attempts to deliver the funny. And when some of the movie’s biggest laughs involve Matt Lauer, you know you're in trouble. Deep trouble. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, October 20, 2009 [Luke 15:3-7]
Then Jesus told them this parable: 'Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Does he not leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, 'Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.' I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. Luke 15:3-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Permissive parenting = rebellion
In his book Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours, Dr. Kevin Leman writes: "The permissive parent essentially says, 'Oh, do your own thing. Whatever you want is ok.' My years of counseling parents and children have shown me that in a permissive environment, kids rebel. They rebel because they feel anger and hatred toward their parents for a lack of guidelines and limit setting." Children, even when they protest, want to know their boundaries. Make sure you set them. Give your kids some flexibility and freedom within the boundaries, but clearly set up the markers and enforce them. Start by knowing the 3 R's of discipline. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think your mom and I do a good job explaining our rules to you? [Link]
Reveal their intentions
Lisa wants to have an educational savings account for her kids to go to college, but she wants them to have a hand in paying for it, too. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, October 19, 2009 [John 14:16-21]
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever–the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live. On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him.' John 14:16-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Self-help or spouse-help?
It's an interesting mark of our society today that one of the first things we encounter when we walk in a bookstore is the "Self-help" or "Self-esteem" section. Feeling good about ourselves seems to be a big business these days. But when's the last time you saw a bookstore section devoted to "Spouse-esteem?" On making your wife feel cherished and loved? On what you can do as a man to make your wife feel important and appreciated? It seems sometimes we are so focused on how we can be happy that we only concern ourselves with making our wives happy when we have some happiness to spare. Rather, an All Pro Dad is far more concerned with his wife's emotional well-being and will do all he can to ensure her happiness, regardless of whether he feels content or not. And more often than not, a true sense of joy will come to us when our primary concern is for her well-being, not ours. To learn how to be more attentive to your wife's needs, read this. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you know how much I respect you and appreciate everything you do for our family? [Link]
Waiting for God’s "Immeasurably More"
Lori was choosing to stay in a dating relationship that was clearly unhealthy and unsafe. I knew God had more in store for Lori. But Lori apparently didn't believe that… [Link]
Christian Relief Groups Tread Carefully in Indonesia
Christian relief agencies working in the aftermath of Indonesia's earthquakes must delicately balance their faith and humanitarian aid as they enter areas hostile to Christianity. [Link]
Book Review – Calvin
It is here at last. For years now I have been waiting for a great biography of Calvin—the kind of biography which I would recommend without hesitation for those who would want to learn about the life of the great Reformer. In a year that has seen the arrival of at least half a dozen biographies of Calvin, this one, I believe, stands as the best. Written by Bruce Gordon, professor of Reformation History at Yale University, it is titled simply and properly, Calvin. [Link]
You Were Made for Ministry (Ephesians 2:1-10)
Before you leave today, I am praying that God will give you a new identity: I am a minister. [Link]
It’s Time to Change How You Interact with Your Adult Child
Let's look at two ways we need to implement the decision we've made to stop enabling and set boundaries for our adult children… [Link]
The Blessings of Unity in Marriage
Steve, a twenty-five year-old graduate with mountains of debt, walked away from a seemingly good working situation because it interfered with our unity as a couple… [Link]
Dr. John Rosemond on Disciplining Your Child Successfully
If you're struggling to get your kids to behave well, there's hope. Dr. John Rosemond's book The Well-Behaved Child offers practical ways parents can discipline kids successfully. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, October 18, 2009 [Romans 8:35-39]
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: 'For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:35-39 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, October 17, 2009 [James 3:13-18]
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness. James 3:13-18 NIV [Link]
Want to help dad
Jeremy can't be an enabler and continuously bail his father out of financial problems. Dave says there's a lesson for dad to learn. [Link]
Parents, Obey Your Children?
The most explicitly subversive literature is often presented to the very youngest among us — our children. Far too many parents seem not to notice. [Link]
Overcoming Prayerlessness
If you've never prayed, or are out of habit, it can feel like a foreign language. One remedy suggested by Paul is to "pray continually." [Link]
Are You Comparing, Competing, or Connecting?
It all started on the playground when we were little boys… [Link]
The 'Trick' in the Treat
Some of the costumes being donned these days – especially by young women – have me no longer viewing Halloween as so innocuous. [Link]
Not Just Child's Play in "Where the Wild Things Are"
Even with two talented writers onboard and a mostly faithful rendering of this seminal coming-of-age story, Where the Wild Things Are is ultimately big on imagination and arresting visuals but seriously slight of script. [Link]
"Law Abiding Citizen" Hits One of the Year's Low Points
Mixing sexual violence with moments of torture-porn, Law Abiding Citizen is one of the year’s low points at the cinema—an offensive, ugly piece of work that offers no moral nor anything memorable except its sadism. [Link]
Bethany Dillon: Married to Her Calling
Bethany Dillon bloomed early with an independent disc at 13 years of age. Now, at 21, she's married to Shane Barnard—of Shane and Shane fame—and is releasing her fourth proper studio album, Stop and Listen. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, October 16, 2009 [Matthew 7:1-5]
'Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 'Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. Matthew 7:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Raising bamboo and children
Did you know that there is a certain type of bamboo in Japan that only flowers once every 120 years? It's certainly puzzling how this plant can keep track of time, but everything that happens in the 119 years before it germinates will determine how much the bamboo will bloom. And that's a long time to wait to see the results. In the same way, children don't always blossom on your timetable. The love, discipline and instruction you pour into their lives cannot be immediately seen. Your job as a father is to prune and nourish your children in anticipation of their blooming. And once they do, you'll see them grow rapidly into patient, loving and consistent people. So be encouraged, the latest bloomers often produce the most striking and beautiful flowers. Coach Dungy shares his thoughts on patience, and allowing children to develop at their own pace.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think I'm patient enough with our kids? [Link]
We're Changing Our Lives With Financial Peace
"I thought, Gosh, it would be awesome to have all this paid off and actually have some money to spend and not feel guilty about it," Shaun said. [Link]
Credit Cards, Student Loans and Financed Cars … Oh My!
"I was convinced that this debt would be "no problem"—that we'd pay it off in six months to a year after I started my shiny high-paying job," Rini said. [Link]
Go commercial
Lisa has her eyes set on getting into commercial real estate to help her family's restaurant business. What's the first step? [Link]
Is the Church Full of Hypocrites?
The charge that the church is full of hypocrites is manifestly false. Though no Christian achieves the full measure of sanctification in this life, that we all struggle with ongoing sin does not justly yield the verdict of hypocrisy. [Link]
The Forgotten Victims of Communism
Our children's textbooks are strangely void of even a mention of the 14 million political prisoners who either barely clung to life or died in inhumane Soviet Gulags. [Link]
Roman Polanski: Celebrity Justice in a Just Society
Roman Polanski's case is a classic example of a gross double standard of justice at work between the average citizen and the rich, powerful, and famous. [Link]
The Mighty Chickenosaurus: Playing God with Genetics
In the movie Jurassic Park, scientists used genetics to bring dinosaurs back to life. Now, one scientist says he wants to hatch a "chickenosaurus" — and he's serious. [Link]
How to Attract the Right Mate
Like birds, people don’t literally perch themselves on a high point and “call” out to find mates. But each person does have a unique mating call that will determine what kind of person he/she will attract. [Link]
Not So Fast: Slowing Down the Busy Family
Of all the groups most affected by the busyness epidemic—perhaps the American family has been the worst hit. Under all the self-assumed pressure, something gets buried. And it just might be our souls. [Link]
How Can I Show Her I've Changed?
This is a question I'm asked all too frequently as women leave marriages at astounding rates… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, October 15, 2009 [1 John 4:11-16]
Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. 1 John 4:11-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Money and character
Richard Halverson, the late U.S. Senate chaplain, wrote, "Jesus Christ said more about money than about any other single thing because, when it comes to a man's real nature, money is of first importance. Money is an exact index to a person's true character." So how do you handle money? Are you in deep debt? Or do you refuse to give anything to help those in need? At heart it's not a financial issue, it's a spiritual issue. So, if you spend more than you make, realize you need a radical dose of contentment. And if you're miserly towards the poor, you need a shot of compassion. The correct way to handle money is to share, save and then spend. Keeping this order keeps your character strong.Start now to teach your children proper money management. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How should you share, save and spend your allowance? [Link]
The Forgotten Victims of Communism
Our children's textbooks are strangely void of even a mention of the 14 million political prisoners who either barely clung to life or died in inhumane Soviet Gulags. [Link]
Don't ask about that
Kathy's husband has been stealing from their envelope system and not talking to her. It's seriously affecting their marriage. [Link]
Is the Economy Really Recovering?
With news reporting the recession is finally over and the stock market recovering over 50% from the March 9th low, we need to ask: is Main Street truly improving? [Link]
Is a Deacon Just a Servant?
There’s an entire generation of conservative evangelical churches where one would be more likely to find an unfrozen caveman in the congregation than a biblically-functioning deacon. [Link]
The Cries of the Poor
The biblical account of Boaz, a "prominent man," and Ruth, a young widow attempting to support herself as well as her widowed mother-in-law, is a beautiful example of personal financial sacrifice for the sole purpose of helping someone living in poverty and despair. [Link]
Ancient Riddles, Capitol Secrets Uncovered in The Lost Symbol
Dan Brown’s latest, The Lost Symbol follows Professor Robert Langdon through another tale of hidden power and complex ciphers in a deadly cat-and-mouse game in, around and below the streets of a well-known city. This time it’s Washington D.C. [Link]
From True Heroes to Celebrity Zeroes and Why It Matters
Despite the ample and never-ending evidence that fame, fortune, and beauty fail to bring lasting peace and satisfaction—in fact, often quite the contrary—Americans are more celebrity-obsessed than ever. We should be deeply concerned for a society that has elevated mere celebrity to hero status and for a church that has been flaccid in both asserting the true virtues of heroism and often embracing the same superficial valuation. [Link]
"A Serious Man" Struggles with an Inscrutable God
A Serious Man is one of the Coen brothers' finest efforts outside No Country for Old Men, explicitly addressing comparable religious questions and issues but adding a serious dose of their trademark humor. The story keeps viewers chuckling until the film's sudden, ominous conclusion. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, October 14, 2009 [Proverbs 2:11-15]
Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you. Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men, from men whose words are perverse, who leave the straight paths to walk in dark ways, who delight in doing wrong and rejoice in the perverseness of evil, whose paths are crooked and who are devious in their ways. Proverbs 2:11-15 NIV Listen [Link]
How affairs happen
In the book His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair-Proof Marriage, author Willard Harley relays the following about how affairs start:"An affair usually begins as a friendship. Frequently your spouse knows your lover; not uncommonly, the third party is the husband or wife of a couple you both know and consider 'best friends.' In another common pattern, the outside lover comes from your spouse's family – a sister or brother. Or you may have met your lover at work.When an affair starts, it usually begins as a friendship. You share problems with the other person, and that person shares problems with you. As your friendship deepens, you start giving each other mutual support and encouragement, especially in regard to your unmet needs. Life is difficult. Many people become extremely disillusioned about their own lives. When they find someone encouraging and supportive, the attraction toward that person acts as a powerful magnet. Sooner or later, you find yourself in bed with your encouraging and supportive friend. It just seems to happen." The best way to prevent an affair is to stop it before it starts.Please read the 14 ways to affair-proof your marriage. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: Are there things we can do to affair-proof our marriage? [Link]
The Dollar at the Precipice
Our currency is headed for a free-fall off a cliff in the international foreign-exchange markets. Why is this almost a certainty? [Link]
Stupid write off
Steve is about to pay off his condo but is worried about losing his tax write-offs. [Link]
Are You Putting Faith in the Wrong Promise?
Why is it that as Christians, as humans, we seem to think tough things shouldn't come our way? Why do we think we should be protected, shielded, untouched? [Link]
“Simply Unprecedented” — President Obama and the Gay Rights Movement
The attendees at the Human Rights Campaign's annual dinner heard the President of the United States make a breathtaking pledge. Was the rest of America listening? [Link]
The Dollar at the Precipice
Our currency is headed for a free-fall off a cliff in the international foreign-exchange markets. Why is this almost a certainty? [Link]
Teaching Kids to Think Christianly: God's World News
One of the chief reasons God's World News exists—to help families and schools learn how to talk about God's ongoing activity in the world as both creator and sustainer. [Link]
How to Run Your Business by the Book
The best guidebook for business is the most well-read book of all time: The Bible. Here's how you can run your business according to biblical principles. [Link]
Use the Media to Tap into the Hidden Job Market
There are many methods for tapping into the hidden job market, but they all share the same goal of identifying people or companies who have a need for someone with your skills and experience… [Link]
Finance Q&A: What's the Best Way to Improve My Credit Score?
Rebuilding your credit is a worthy goal. Here's one of the most important steps to take… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, October 13, 2009 [James 1:22-27]
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it–he will be blessed in what he does. If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:22-27 NIV Listen [Link]
Daughters, dating, and monkey business
Watch this humorous clip and then ask yourself, "What am I doing to protect my daughter from a boy's wrong intentions?" The first step is to talk to your daughter and let her know it's okay – and right – to say "no" to a boy's advances.For more on talking to your children about sex, read this insightful article.Huddle up with your daughter tonight and ask: Do you know it's okay to say "no" to a boy who tries to touch you inappropriately? [Link]
Dave Says – October 12, 2009
My dad died earlier this year, and as a result my mom and I inherited his auto parts business … [Link]
Passing it on
Costs are going up for Grace's catering business, and she's got to find a way to up the prices without getting customers ticked. [Link]
Actions speak louder than words
In his book Five Signs of a Loving Family, Dr. Gary Chapman relates the following: "Our children learn first and primarily by our model. They are forever observing our actions, our lifestyle. If what we say is not consistent with what we do, they are the first to recognize it and usually to tell us so. Someone has suggested that until a boy is fifteen, he does what his father says; after that, he does what his father does. This is both a frightening and wonderful thought for most parents." Do you know the 7 characteristics of successful parenting? Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: Do you want to be like me when you grow up? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, October 12, 2009 [Romans 4:13-16]
It was not through law that Abraham and his offspring received the promise that he would be heir of the world, but through the righteousness that comes by faith. For if those who live by law are heirs, faith has no value and the promise is worthless, because law brings wrath. And where there is no law there is no transgression. Therefore, the promise comes by faith, so that it may be by grace and may be guaranteed to all Abraham's offspring–not only to those who are of the law but also to those who are of the faith of Abraham. He is the father of us all. Romans 4:13-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Abortion and the American Conscience
The American conscience remains deeply divided over the question of abortion. Tragically, we have never experienced a sustained, reasonable, and honest discussion about abortion in the society at large. [Link]
The Gospel on Offense: The Faith of Tim Tebow
Tim’s a great example of an opportunity every believer has—to put our faith to work on the field of play where God has gifted us and called us. [Link]
A Command I've Not Obeyed: Give to the One Who Begs from You
Jesus commanded us in Matthew 5 to "give to the one who begs from you." I know all the major reasons why not to give when someone asks, but this text still unnerves and convicts me. [Link]
Thank God for Humiliation
I’m talking about the kind of humiliation that comes when you realize that your every sin has been made public before a holy God. We’re talking about the kind of humiliation that goes beyond embarassment to anguish. [Link]
Where is the Church in Our Marital Crisis?
In my last commentary, I argued that the prevailing lack of distinction between Christian and non-Christian marriage serves as a barometer indicating a serious lack of spiritual depth and theological understanding within the American church. Reaction to this article overwhelmingly confirmed this suspicion. [Link]
Halloween Should Celebrate Saints, Not Sin
The original Halloween had more to do with faith than fear. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, October 11, 2009 [1 Corinthians 15:50-58]
I declare to you, brothers, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed–in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: 'Death has been swallowed up in victory.' 'Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?' The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. 1 Corinthians 15:50-58 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, October 10, 2009 [1 John 3:8-9]
He who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work. No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God. 1 John 3:8-9 NIV [Link]
The Nobel Committee Dishonors Itself
The announcement from the Nobel Committee defies belief, even as I've come to expect the inconceivable from the committee. [Link]
Funny Cast Can't Save "Couples Retreat" from Comedic Doom
For any couple looking for a recession-friendly date night escape, the title of Couples Retreat should be heeded as a warning—with the emphasis on "retreat." Trust me, you'll be glad you saved your hard-earned money. [Link]
Dave's take on term life
Dave has a reason for recommending term life insurance, and he details it here. [Link]
God's Gift of Hope in a Struggle with Autism
Social workers, psychologists and counselors gathered with Rachel, Philip and me in the conference room. "We think Philip has a mild form of autism." My heart sank… [Link]
Josh McDowell and Dave Sterrett: Thinking Critically about Oprah’s Spirituality
Josh McDowell and his coauthor Dave Sterrett have written the new book "O" God: A Dialogue on Truth and Spirituality to help Christians learn how to discern what's true and what's not in Oprah's powerfully influential teachings. Read the interview… [Link]
The Real Agenda Behind the Mojave Cross Case
The Mojave Desert cross has been covered in a plywood box. Could there be a more apt symbol of what the ACLU wants to do to religion in this country? [Link]
Green Fences Will Keep the Poor in Poverty
Punishing developing countries for their use of coal-fired — and environmentally "problematic" — power plants will certainly hurt the poor of those countries more than it hurts us. [Link]
Diversity and Controversy Shake Up Stockholm Syndrome
While the incredibly candid lyrical expositions follow in Derek Webb’s signature style, anyone who approaches this project hoping for the folksy, organic instrumentation is bound to be disappointed—but pleasantly surprised nonetheless. [Link]
Pillar: Road Confessional
Though Pillar plays hardball on stage each night, front man Rob Beckley admits a typical day on tour consists of "sitting around 23 hours so you can play one." For inquiring minds, here’s what these rockers do during a "day in the life." [Link]
Funny Cast Can't Save "Couples Retreat" from Comedic Doom
For any couple looking for a recession-friendly date night escape, the title of Couples Retreat should be heeded as a warning—with the emphasis on "retreat." Trust me, you'll be glad you saved your hard-earned money. [Link]
Romance, crayons and creativity
Play of the Day subscriber Brian wrote us with an ingenious idea. "A few months back, my wife purchased some water erasable crayons for our children to play with when they were in the bath. Well, I had the thought to borrow one of those crayons to write my wife a note every morning when I am in the shower. The overall effect on our marriage has been stunning. The romance is coming back. We are in a less than perfect marriage. We do fight from time to time, and I wish it was less often. Since I started writing these notes, which are sometimes Scripture, sometimes an apology, sometimes a steamy love note, things are getting better – not perfect – but better. I plan to keep it up! What is great is that my wife always writes me a note back. It is vitally important to appreciate each other daily, because with kids, and trying to survive in this economy, things get crazy busy."When is the last time you wrote a note for your wife? Here's how you can get started. Huddle up with your kids tonight and say: Let's write Mom a note to tell her how much we appreciate her. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, October 9, 2009 [2 Peter 2:4-8]
For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but sent them to hell, putting them into gloomy dungeons to be held for judgment; if he did not spare the ancient world when he brought the flood on its ungodly people, but protected Noah, a preacher of righteousness, and seven others; if he condemned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah by burning them to ashes, and made them an example of what is going to happen to the ungodly; and if he rescued Lot, a righteous man, who was distressed by the filthy lives of lawless men (for that righteous man, living among them day after day, was tormented in his righteous soul by the lawless deeds he saw and heard)– 2 Peter 2:4-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Buy early
Should a college student with no credit history buy a house, or wait? [Link]
What David Letterman Can Teach Us About the Gospel
I’m not talking about re-tooling some Christian version of the late night comedian’s “Top Ten Lists” or his “Stupid Pet Tricks.” I’m not talking about his cynical humor, or emotionally detached coolness. I’m talking about why he was so scared of a blackmailer’s extortion. [Link]
The Wisdom of Having an Emergency Fund Hits Home
As I've reflected lately on families now facing significant financial challenges, I've been reminded of a storm I found myself in several years ago. Mine arrived suddenly in the form of a phone call that came one September… [Link]
Secrets of Financial Survivors
Ben Sherwood's book The Survivors Club reveals insight into why some people beat the odds while others don't… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, October 8, 2009 [Proverbs 2:1-10]
My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding, and if you call out for insight and cry aloud for understanding, and if you look for it as for silver and search for it as for hidden treasure, then you will understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God. For the LORD gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He holds victory in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless, for he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones. Then you will understand what is right and just and fair–every good path. For wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul. Proverbs 2:1-10 NIV Listen [Link]
A lesson in chaos
The late Daniel Patrick Moynihan, a four-term U.S. Senator, had this to say about the importance of fatherhood: "From the wild Irish slums of the 19th-century Eastern seaboard to the riot-torn suburbs of Los Angeles, there is one unmistakable lesson in American history: a community that allows a large number of young men to grow up in broken families – dominated by women, never acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, never acquiring any set of rational expectations about the future – that community asks for and gets chaos."Watch this short video about the importance of being a good father. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: How can I be a better dad? [Link]
Is Halloween Really that Significant?
The issue of Halloween presses itself annually upon the Christian conscience. What's the significance? [Link]
Rejoicing at the Unexpected
An interesting thing happened on the way to the pulpit on a recent Sunday. No, I wasn’t told about the lack of toilet paper in one of the restrooms, though that has happened. Instead, God changed my mind. [Link]
Taxing inherited money
There's no penalty, but you will have to pay income taxes on inherited retirement savings, unless it was your spouse's. [Link]
The Eight Habits of Spiritually Healthy People
How hard is it to die when you have so much wealth? Psalm 116 teaches us eight habits that can keep us spiritually healthy until death. [Link]
Megachurches Offer Relational Approach with Multiple Sites
Rick Moore and his congregation are part of an emerging shift away from single-location megachurches toward multiple site church that offers more than a good sermon. [Link]
Why We Don't Have Revival
The standard answers for churches lacking revival include sin, complacency, prayerlessness… but those answers are missing the point. [Link]
The Cross of Christ is Not a Secular Symbol
A looming constitutional crisis now hangs over the Mojave National Preserve in California, and the stage is set for a constitutional battle at the U.S. Supreme Court. [Link]
Why Wives Have Affairs
In my work with marriages hurt by affairs, by far there have been more situations where the wife was unfaithful. Let's look at some underlying causes for relationship affairs… [Link]
Christian Alternatives for October 31st
Halloween always brings up some of the same questions I faced when I first became a believer in 1974… [Link]
Living With Dad’s Agenda
Marriages can be severely impacted by differences in parenting styles, especially when one spouse runs the family in an overly authoritarian manner… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, October 7, 2009 [1 Peter 3:8-12]
Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, 'Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.' 1 Peter 3:8-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Thoughts on pre-marital sex
Want to open up some good discussion with your teen on the potential consequences of pre-marital sex? STDs aside, let's focus specifically on teen pregnancy.Watch this video with your older kids and then encourage them that the best thing for their future is to hold off on sexuality now.Huddle up with your teen tonight and ask: How could having sex now really ruin your future? [Link]
Something better than the 525?
With 2 kids in college and $16,000 saved in a 525 college savings plan, Bruce doesn't know if he should keep the money there. [Link]
He Said-She Said: Is Chivalry Necessary?
A male reader wants to be chivalrous but is told that his efforts to do so are not needed. Is this just old-fashioned thinking, should he stop doing these things and is chivalry really necessary? See what “He” and “She” have to say in response. [Link]
'Sex and the iWorld': Recovering Healthy Relationships
iWorlders are dissolving long-established boundaries because they believe that people are happiest making their own moral and relational choices–and the Church has turned a blind eye. [Link]
The Nuclear Sword Is Not In Vain
Thousands more die from civil wars in nations that have rejected civilized ways or have starved their people through the adoption of state-run economies. [Link]
Fall (not Halloween) Celebrations
Now is the time to plan for a fall festival or an alternative to Halloween for your community. [Link]
Christian Charity: Good News in Hard Times
There is one institution that has a clear and non-delegable duty to reach out and help those who are suffering. This great institution is the Church. [Link]
Experience Transformation through Tithing
While arguments rage on about whether tithing is a New Testament practice, the author of Tithing: Test Me in This looks above the legalities to the transformational power that occurs when wallets and hearts are opened. [Link]
Pursuing Your Passions with a Sound Mind
The improbability of my career shifting from money to music is a miracle and a mystery that has stretched our faith, but God has been faithful… [Link]
Raising compassionate kids
At dinner tonight, why don't you ask each of your children to name three people they know who could use our help? Perhaps an elderly neighbor or a classmate who's being picked on will be examples your kids can come up with. After they've given their answer, then ask your children to tell you what they can do to help those people. This exercise will show your kids how to identify those in need and how to address their needs. It doesn't take much to help the less fortunate feel special – just a little time and creativity. For more ideas on raising compassionate kids, read this.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you know what "compassion" means? Who is the most compassionate person you know? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, October 6, 2009 [James 3:13-18]
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness. James 3:13-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Dave Says – October 5, 2009
I'm 25 years old and have served in the military for seven years. I'm not sure I like what I'm doing as much as I did a few years ago … [Link]
The right time to buy
Jerry just went through bankruptcy, has six kids and child support, and only makes $26,000. How can he buy a home? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, October 5, 2009 [Hebrews 10:19-24]
Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the Most Holy Place by the blood of Jesus, by a new and living way opened for us through the curtain, that is, his body, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Hebrews 10:19-24 NIV Listen [Link]
Don't outsource your prayers
For those who claim they don't have time to pray, a new website offers "prayer outsourcing." Users of this site may subscribe and let the company's computers recite prayers for them using text-to-speech software. Interesting, perhaps… but far less effective. Prayer is an essential part of life, and we need to make specific, planned time for it. This includes not only praying with our children before they go to bed, but periods of solitude where you personally speak to God. Those men who pray regularly will attest that it has transformed their lives and wouldn't dream of outsourcing it for anything in the world.Hear what Coach Dungy has to say on the importance of prayer.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: How can I pray for each of you? [Link]
Why Christians Should Save the Pandas
Man, created in the image of God, can transcend self-interest and make sacrifices for the sake of struggling fellow-creatures. [Link]
Josh McDowell and Dave Sterrett: Thinking Critically about Oprah’s Spirituality
Josh McDowell and his coauthor Dave Sterrett have written the new book "O" God: A Dialogue on Truth and Spirituality to help Christians learn how to discern what's true and what's not in Oprah's powerfully influential teachings. Read the interview… [Link]
Pursuing Delight
I went for a walk this morning, and pretty much had the town to myself, it seemed. Few people were out and about at 5:30 in the cold, dark, pre-dawn. This was the first time this year I’ve had to wear a coat while walking and the first time I’ve been able to see my breath misting the air around me. Winter is fast approaching. [Link]
Parenting with Love and Logic
Parenting with Love and Logic shows readers how to raise self-confident, motivated children who are ready for the real world. Learn how to parent effectively while teaching children responsibility. Establish healthy control without anger, threats, nagging, or power struggles. [Link]
Find Time for the One You Love
Busyness is worn as a badge of honor in our society. But our full schedules are doing damage to our marriages and families… [Link]
Owning Your Shadow Side
I love belonging to a Mutual Admiration Society, where I smile at the best side of you and you adore the best side of me. But what if you knew my "shadow side"? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, October 4, 2009 [2 Corinthians 5:1-5]
Now we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands. Meanwhile we groan, longing to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling, because when we are clothed, we will not be found naked. For while we are in this tent, we groan and are burdened, because we do not wish to be unclothed but to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. Now it is God who has made us for this very purpose and has given us the Spirit as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come. 2 Corinthians 5:1-5 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, October 3, 2009 [2 Corinthians 3:13-16]
We are not like Moses, who would put a veil over his face to keep the Israelites from gazing at it while the radiance was fading away. But their minds were made dull, for to this day the same veil remains when the old covenant is read. It has not been removed, because only in Christ is it taken away. Even to this day when Moses is read, a veil covers their hearts. But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. 2 Corinthians 3:13-16 NIV [Link]
Dave discusses paying the house off
Dave has a very good reason (three of them, in fact) for why the argument to keep your mortgage doesn't hold water. [Link]
Bullycide: Our Next Mission Field
Statistically, when it comes to Christian athletes helping the weak and the timid, we are missing in action. [Link]
How to Stay Christian in College
College campuses are overtly hostile to the Christian faith, and many Christian students give in to defeat. But Professor J. Budziszewski will help prepare you and your parents for the challenges you will encounter, and how to successfully overcome them. [Link]
Family Worship
The cares of the world, if we allow them to intrude, can destroy our spirit of worship and take away the joy of our relationship with God. [Link]
Slave Discipleship: Assuming the Posture of Power
How do you respond to slave discipleship? Probably through protest, much as Peter did when Jesus tried to wash his feet. [Link]
Truth Be Told, "The Invention of Lying" Is Woefully Misguided
In The Invention of Lying, Ricky Gervais brings to the screen a story with some genuine laugh-out-loud potential. But its sharp, unexpected turn only serves as the actor/director’s personal atheistic soapbox. [Link]
Girl Power Is Alive and Skating in "Whip It"
Conventional or not, Whip It is still fun to watch, thanks to Drew Barrymore’s surprisingly skilled direction, a killer soundtrack and a winning cast that definitely seems to enjoy throwing themselves into their respective roles. [Link]
Love Burns True in Campion's "Bright Star"
Jane Campion has made a career off of tortured love stories, yet Bright Star is different (even opposite, and superior). Her past films have been about tortured people who destroy their circumstances. This, conversely, is a bittersweet arc of pure people who are tragically tortured by circumstances. [Link]
Vintage baseball
Men are signing up in droves to play the game "old school" like it was played before 1880. Players don't use gloves, they wear funny looking uniforms and even use a gentlemen's agreement (players call themselves safe or out). In fact, before 1880, if a fielder caught the ball after it already bounced once, the batter was still out. Why is vintage baseball so popular? It could be that we're yearning for simpler times and true heroes. But you know what hasn't changed? The fact that you and your children can grab a ball and play catch anytime, anywhere. Some of the fondest memories men have are when their fathers took them out in the backyard or to a local little league field and shagged flies. And while the game of baseball has changed, using the game to spend time with your kids will always be in season. Do you know the inspirational story of Babe Ruth's childhood? Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: When can we play catch together? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, October 2, 2009 [1 John 5:1-5]
Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well. This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. This is love for God: to obey his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. Who is it that overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God. 1 John 5:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Our Business is Weathering the Storm
"Because we have a debt-free business and a fully funded emergency fund, we have been able to weather the storm," Heather said. [Link]
The Texting Queen's Learning Her Lesson
"Turns out my 12-year-old has been texting her friends (at the back of the bus) ad nauseum, with the emphasis on 'nausea,'" Jeanne said. [Link]
A new engine
Either my car needs a new engine, or I need another car. How do I know which one I should do? [Link]
Are You Good Enough to Serve God?
I had a grudge against the "Proverbs 31 Woman," the one with the Martha Stewart resume who probably also wore a size 8. But the truth is God uses anyone willing to respect and serve him. [Link]
The 'Sympathetic' Road to Death: An Elderly Duty?
The so-called “right to die” can become, as one American politician suggested, a “duty to die,” especially as the costs associated with an aging population crowd out other priorities. [Link]
Are You Good Enough to Serve God?
I had a grudge against the "Proverbs 31 Woman," the one with the Martha Stewart resume who probably also wore a size 8. But the truth is God uses anyone willing to respect and serve him. [Link]
Experience Transformation through Tithing
While arguments rage on about whether tithing is a New Testament practice, the author of Tithing: Test Me in This looks above the legalities to the transformational power that occurs when wallets and hearts are opened. [Link]
Bruised by Booze: The Faithful Response to Addiction & Recovery
If we want to see God at work in our communities, I think we need to examine the lives that are being lost to self-destruction. [Link]
Making Money From Home
In the information age, work-at-home jobs are gaining new ground. In this article, we examine several work-at-home options — and alert you to common work-at-home scams… [Link]
Showcase Your Strengths through Storytelling
Storytelling can get you a job, a new client or a raise… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, October 1, 2009 [2 Timothy 1:6-9]
For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline. So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God, who has saved us and called us to a holy life–not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, 2 Timothy 1:6-9 NIV Listen [Link]
A soft answer turns away wrath
When you and your wife disagree and things start heating up, what should you do? Speak softly. Screaming matches never get anywhere – their only purpose is to crush feelings. You can get your points across without yelling. Speaking in a quieter voice will help bring peace to the situation and encourage honest and fruitful dialogue to help you both reach an acceptable conclusion. So turn down your volume and turn up solutions. Coach Dungy shares his thoughts on keeping your cool when conflict heats up.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do I raise my voice too much when we disagree? [Link]
When Choosing a Career, Be Financially Realistic
Some careers, while honorable, rarely make large salaries. In these situations, budgeting and getting out/staying out of debt is crucial to answering your calling. [Link]
Making Money From Home
In the information age, work-at-home jobs are gaining new ground. In this article, we examine several work-at-home options — and alert you to common work-at-home scams… [Link]
Showcase Your Strengths through Storytelling
Storytelling can get you a job, a new client or a raise… [Link]
Taxes on small business
Joey owns a plumbing company that is starting to take off, but he’s worried about having to pay huge taxes now that he is making money. Where can he invest to get a tax break? [Link]
How Paul Worked to Overcome Slavery
In his letter to Philemon, Paul does at least 11 things that work together to undermine slavery, whether that bondage is economic, racial, or sexual. [Link]
The Desert Shall Rejoice: Remembering Norman Borlaug
Borlaug's work is why "food today is cheap and widely available, and why famines have become relatively rare events." His "green revolution" made it possible. [Link]
What I Saw at the Muslim Prayer Rally
Islamic prayers reverberated over America’s front lawn Friday as some 2,000 Muslims gathered for the Jummah Prayer on Capitol Hill: A Day of Islamic Unity. [Link]
Finding "Comfort" in the Crisis
Whether they be complicated or simple, with long-term effects or temporary, trials and frustrations can hinder our spiritual growth, causing bitterness, self-pity and emotional hang ups, or they can be catalysts for growth and maps to finding eternal treasure… [Link]
The Single Life: Take Your Brain Back to School
Did you know you can wake up your brain? That’s right. The mental equivalent of a venti double-shot might be almost anything from playing Wii® to a walk in the woods—but one of the best “wake up” tools is to take your brain back to school. [Link]
Living with a Jealous Husband: Coping, Caring, Changing
Normally a self-assured woman, Tami had grown weary of her husband's subtle — and not so subtle — suspiciousness… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 30, 2009 [Colossians 3:1-11]
Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. Here there is no Greek or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all. Colossians 3:1-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Doing your job with passion
Those who are successful in life show they are passionate about what they do. Watch this uplifting video with your children and then talk about why doing your job with enthusiasm is so important.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Why is enthusiasm so important? [Link]
Empty threats
Stephanie has been threatened with foreclosure on her second mortgage, but Dave doesn't think there is too much to fear. [Link]
Owning Your Shadow Side
I love belonging to a Mutual Admiration Society, where I smile at the best side of you and you adore the best side of me. But what if you knew my "shadow side"? [Link]
I Thought Jesus Came to Keep Me FROM Suffering!
The issue of marriage within the church—namely the noticeable lack of distinction between Christian and non-Christian marriage, given our equal propensity to divorce—is not about the preservation of a tradition or institution. The reality of marriage and our apparent lack of respect for that which “God has joined together” ultimately reveals a gaping chasm between biblical Christianity and cultural Christianity that must be closed if the church wants to be faithful to its mission. [Link]
Promotion? No Thanks
Getting promoted could move you away from what you do well. [Link]
Self-Marketing & Christian Humility: Are They Compatible?
Many Christians struggle with what is appropriate when marketing themselves in the world… [Link]
Money, Purpose, Joy
As I reread the biblical story of the prodigal son, I was amazed at how similar it was to my own story. My financial struggles — and redemption — began with a similar lesson. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, September 29, 2009 [Galatians 3:6-14]
Consider Abraham: 'He believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.' Understand, then, that those who believe are children of Abraham. The Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, and announced the gospel in advance to Abraham: 'All nations will be blessed through you.' So those who have faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith. All who rely on observing the law are under a curse, for it is written: 'Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law.' Clearly no one is justified before God by the law, because, 'The righteous will live by faith.' The law is not based on faith; on the contrary, 'The man who does these things will live by them.' Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: 'Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree.' He redeemed us in order that the blessing given to Abraham might come to the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit. Galatians 3:6-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Another way to be your child's hero
We truly appreciate your being a Play of the Day subscriber, but it's our heartfelt desire that you take the next step… from being an All Pro Dad reader to an All Pro Dad leader at your child's school. All Pro Dad's Day helps dads get better connected with their children, helps build stronger communities and creates lasting memories for kids and their dads. We are recruiting Team Captains for a monthly All Pro Dad's Day breakfast to be held at your child's school cafeteria. Here's how to learn more and sign up to receive your downloadable All Pro Dad's Day program resources, including a relevant, must-see video, discussion cards and PowerPoint options for each meeting. And, for moms and kids, be sure to ask your wife to check out the iMOM Morning program.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What would you think about having breakfast with me once a month at your school? [Link]
Is Contemporary Music Key to Church Growth?
Almost two-thirds — 64 percent — of congregations that switched to contemporary worship in the last five years saw an increase in worship attendance of 2 percent or more. [Link]
Why Do the Heathen Rage? — International Blasphemy Day
September 30 is set as the observance of the first-ever International Blasphemy Day. This could be interesting. [Link]
I Thought Jesus Came to Keep Me FROM Suffering!
The issue of marriage within the church—namely the noticeable lack of distinction between Christian and non-Christian marriage, given our equal propensity to divorce—is not about the preservation of a tradition or institution. The reality of marriage and our apparent lack of respect for that which “God has joined together” ultimately reveals a gaping chasm between biblical Christianity and cultural Christianity that must be closed if the church wants to be faithful to its mission. [Link]
Inspiring Story from the $999 Giveaway
"My dad actually won the last day of the [$999 giveaway]. I promise you there is no greater person to have won this gift," Josh said. Read more about why Josh praises his hard-working dad. [Link]
Christina's Downward Auto Spiral
What's really stupid is that if I had kept my first SUV, it would be paid off already. Ten years and I'm still making car payments! [Link]
Dave Says – September 28, 2009
I'm a teacher, and the school system I work for puts 13.5 percent of my pay into a public teacher retirement fund … [Link]
A collector counter offer
Matt wants to give a counter offer to a collector, but he's struggling with something. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, September 28, 2009 [2 Corinthians 5:16-20]
So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. 2 Corinthians 5:16-20 NIV Listen [Link]
A good compromise on video games
Reading a book is almost always superior to playing a video game, but most kids greatly prefer the latter, so here's a thoughtful compromise. If 13-year-old Evan Spencer wants to play a popular video war game for his Xbox, he first has to learn something about real war. That's because to earn permission from his father to play the game, the Ontario teen had to read the Geneva Conventions and promise to abide by their guidelines while strategizing on his virtual World War II battlefields. What a great idea. Video games, when monitored and controlled responsibly by parents, can help children learn.For a downloadable PDF version of a video game contract you and your kids should sign, go here. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What are your three favorite video games? How can we use those to help you learn more? [Link]
The Duty of Political Speech
Everything seems to be flowing toward one end of the political spectrum, and those who raise a voice to offer a contrary opinion are ignored, scorned, or attacked. Elihu must have had a similar wariness about speaking up. [Link]
Forgiveness: For God's Glory and Your Own Good
Learning to forgive, as God forgives, helps you to grow into a mature, content, and joyful person. It glorifies God because it shows that He is more satisfying to your soul than revenge. [Link]
Learning to Trust in God's Provision
God wants us to trust in His provision for our needs, and sometimes that provision requires us to step out in faith and use what resources He has given us. [Link]
Lessons from Bull Durham
Recently the movie Bull Durham was on a cable channel and I watched it again. Hard to believe it has been over 20 years since it was released. In this article I am going to draw some spiritual applications from an R-rated movie. Gasp. [Link]
What a Woman Brings to Marriage
The Proverbs 31 woman is great and all. But the ultimate example who should inform what I bring to marriage is Christ. He modeled so well the type of intangibles that I hope to one day bring to a union with my future husband. [Link]
Making Sense of Adolescence!
Scripture tells us that the man (or woman) whose home is filled with children is truly blessed. But recently I received the following email from a woman, grasping for help with her adolescent daughter… [Link]
Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage
If your marriage is less than perfect and the "happily ever after" that was promised to you in childhood fairy tales is a distant dream, then consider this: faithfulness, not happiness, is God's desire for you. In your less that perfect marriage, you can still have meaning, purpose, endurance, and optimism. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 27, 2009 [Romans 8:35-39]
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: 'For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:35-39 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, September 26, 2009 [John 10:14-18]
'I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me–just as the Father knows me and I know the Father–and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life–only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father.' John 10:14-18 NIV [Link]
DAVE RAMSEY NAMED NETWORK/SYNDICATED PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR
Dave Ramsey of The Lampo Group was named Network/Syndicated Personality of the Year at the 2009 National Association of Broadcasters' Marconi Radio Awards. [Link]
Finding Extra Money In Our Budget
"We had no idea we made that much money until we wrote down a budget and saw the stupid things we were buying," Tara said. [Link]
Timeshares Make for Expensive Vacations
"Figuring about $12,000 total money spent on this rip-off, we spent $6,000 per vacation just to stay in a condo," Melissa said about the timeshare. [Link]
Bad attitude toward Dave
John tells Dave that it’s easy for Dave to talk about becoming rich when you have a great income like Dave does. He even calls Dave a name. Dave has a response for him. [Link]
Does God Expect Me to Stay Married to a Jerk?
Years ago, a family therapist was asked, “What are the top three causes of divorce?” to which he replied, “Selfishness, selfishness, selfishness!” Of course this is an oversimplification of the varied and many contributing factors to divorce but there is an element of truth in this statement that permeates each. [Link]
Doing Unto My Political Other: 7 Tips for the Public Square
Jesus called us to love our enemies in a nation ruled by cruel Caesars. Any religion that can love Tiberius can surely find room to love Obama or Gingrich. [Link]
Protecting Women Around the World
I just saw a photograph of a menu. The items listed are as follows: China girl, Hong Kong girl, Malay girl, Philippine girl, Russian girl… [Link]
An Open Letter to President Obama on Heath Care
I am a conservative. I do fear big government. And I do like my health care. But I’m willing to take your health plan more seriously if you can answer these questions the right way. [Link]
Updated "Fame" Probably Won't Live Forever in Viewers' Minds
Given our culture's continued obsession with seeing ordinary people "make it big" and “achieve their dreams of stardom," it was only a matter of time before the '80s flick Fame got a modern-day makeover. [Link]
Winning Hearts, Not Arguments in "Lord, Save Us from Your Followers"
The brainchild of author-filmmaker Dan Merchant, Lord, Save Us from Your Followers aims to spark conversation about ways to win hearts rather than merely arguments. As believers, we need to step back and listen to how we sound to the rest of the world. [Link]
Q&A with Skillet: Saving One Panhead at a Time
One of the most commercially successful and critically lauded bands in Christian music today, Skillet is famous for their tight connection with fans, affectionately calling their most loyal crew "Panheads." [Link]
It's all about your child's teachers
Eric Hanushek, an economist at Stanford, estimates that the students of a very bad teacher will learn, on average, half a year's worth of material in one school year. The students in the class of a very good teacher will learn a year and a half's worth of material. That difference amounts to a year's worth of learning in a single year. Teacher effects overcome school effects. Your child is actually better off in a "bad" school with an excellent teacher than in an excellent school with a bad teacher. Teacher effects are also much stronger than class-size effects. After years of worrying about issues like school funding levels, class size, and curriculum design, many reformers have come to the conclusions that nothing matters more than finding people with the potential to be great teachers.So, who teaches your children? Have you met the folks who shape your kids forty hours a week? If not, why not? Make sure to attend parent-teacher conferences, join your school's PTA and communicate directly to school staff. Don't leave all that to Mom alone. Remember, you are your children's most important teacher. If you really want to make your child's school outstanding, get more fathers involved in it through our All Pro Dad's Day program. And for moms, we have the iMOM Morning program.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What would you think about having a monthly dads and kids breakfast at your school? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, September 25, 2009 [Matthew 7:24-27]
'Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.' Matthew 7:24-27 NIV Listen [Link]
Finding "Comfort" in the Crisis
Whether they be complicated or simple, with long-term effects or temporary, trials and frustrations can hinder our spiritual growth, causing bitterness, self-pity and emotional hang ups, or they can be catalysts for growth and maps to finding eternal treasure… [Link]
The savings bonds or debt?
Robin shouldn't cash out her children's savings bonds to pay off debts; they need to ditch the cars. [Link]
Looking Back: TIME Asks, “Is God Dead?”
The 1966 TIME cover story became an icon of the rebellious and increasingly secular sixties. The question, in bold letters, was simply, "Is God Dead?" [Link]
In the Beginning … God
The creation account is more than a myth. It is greater than a metanarrative. Those who believe do not possess an impoverished mind but a rich faith. The creation is the beginning of God’s greatest work in the universe, the redemption of mankind. [Link]
The Christian's Guide to Everyday Justice
As a practical outworking of loving God and others, true justice is restorative. So how do Christians practically imitate God's passion for justice and righteousness? [Link]
Showing Love to Widows
Need some fresh ideas for demonstrating pure religion by ministering to widows in your church? [Link]
Stop That Divorce!
Just yesterday I received the following email from a man whose wife had left, saying she needed time to sort out her feelings about him and their marriage… [Link]
What a Man Brings to Marriage
We often focus on what we will get out of a marriage relationship. Perhaps it’s time to start focusing on what we men can bring, so that we will have something to offer at the table (a man’s dowry, if you will) before making a life-long commitment. [Link]
An easier way to discipline
Joe, a Play of the Day subscriber, wrote us saying "Years ago my sister (a department head at Harvard University) shared with me one of the most valuable tools I have for disciplining my 8-year-old daughter. Whatever the discipline is (no TV, no bike, etc.), I never say how long it will be for. I just tell her when I feel she deserves it, the discipline will be over. So I don't say 'no bike' for a month, and after a week feel bad and give it back. I just say, 'No bike. You'll get it back when I think you deserve it.' This works great for me and I also have no guilt to deal with when I calm down." Learn how to discipline with honor. And hear Coach Tony Dungy's thoughts on discipline.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think there's a better way we can discipline our kids? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, September 24, 2009 [Acts 3:19-23]
Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord, and that he may send the Christ, who has been appointed for you–even Jesus. He must remain in heaven until the time comes for God to restore everything, as he promised long ago through his holy prophets. For Moses said, 'The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among your own people; you must listen to everything he tells you. Anyone who does not listen to him will be completely cut off from among his people.' Acts 3:19-23 NIV Listen [Link]
Got enough?
When it comes to the later Baby Steps, Lamar isn't sure how to split things up. [Link]
North Koreans Get Repatriatism instead of Refuge in China
"I felt like I had become an alien, not a human being…I was just like a beast. I was treated just like an animal, just like a slave," one North Korean prisoner said. [Link]
You are the Bishop of Your Own Heart!
Rick Renner takes a closer look at the phrase "looking diligently" in Hebrews 12:15, one of the New Testament's most powerful verses for what it has to say about our responsibility as overseers of our own spiritual walk. [Link]
Highway to Heaven
Think of the 66 books of the Bible as service stations along the route Christ paved toward Heaven for you and me. [Link]
Are You Reactive or Proactive?
Do you tend to be reactive or proactive? In today's job market, you need to be prepared for inevitable changes in your work life… [Link]
Beggar Banks and Telephone Ladies
Scripture tells us to help the poor, and protect them from those who would exploit them—such as unethical moneylenders. Here's how it works. [Link]
How to crush your daughter
A young woman, Sarah, wrote us the following e-mail: "My dad is the most important person in the world to me, even though he doesn't have much time to spend with me. That affected me negatively in the teen years. If you want me to cry at the drop of the hat, just get me to thinking about him someday dying, and leaving me without him. I can be doing anything and when that thought floats by, I'm reduced to sobbing. I wish my dad knew how much he could heal in my family if he would just make us feel more important than work."Why are workaholics more likely to fail at both their job and their family? Find out here.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: If I worked one hour less each week, what would you like to do? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 23, 2009 [Proverbs 1:7-10]
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline. Listen, my son, to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother's teaching. They will be a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck. My son, if sinners entice you, do not give in to them. Proverbs 1:7-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Art and Mission Collide in ChristianCinema.com Co-Founder's Work
"My goal is to make films that inspire and move the spirit," says filmmaker and ChristianCinema.com founder Kevin Downes. Two of his films, Six: The Mark Unleashed and Mercy Streets, have just released on DVD. [Link]
The tough Christian
When a scam comes into the picture, it's time for Derrick to get tough as a Christian. [Link]
Forgotten Families? A Visit to Death Row
Guilty or not, repentant or not, most prisoners have families somewhere… [Link]
Will Babies with Down Syndrome Just Disappear?
Over the past several years, a marked decrease in the number of babies born with Down syndrome has been both observed and widely reported. This decrease can be traced directly to the decision to abort after prenatal diagnosis. [Link]
Not in the National Interest: Government-Run Health Care
Who do you want answering this question: Should we save a baby born at 21 weeks and 5 days? [Link]
ACORN: A Nut the Media Won’t Crack
It's time to ask why ACORN still has a shot at receiving government money from other agencies, and why the Justice Department has not filed charges. [Link]
3-D Gives Battle for Terra Its Fighting Spirit
While low-budget, Battle for Terra is still an engaging tale that provides an intriguing change of pace for sci-fi fans. And in 3-D, Terra positively sparkles, thanks to eye-popping visuals and imaginative set-ups. [Link]
Ghosts of Girlfriends Past Lifts the Spirit a Bit
The jokes and discussion about the main character’s sexual escapades push Ghosts of Girlfriends Past well into “PG-13” territory. But the central character’s transformation, while predictable, gives the film a bit more depth—just a bit—than might be expected. [Link]
Observe and Report Disturbs and Offends
Observe and Report shares the boundary-breaking mentality of other R-rated comedies as of late: casual drug use and casual sex are par for the course, but its moments of outrageous humor ultimately take a back seat to the story’s darker underbelly. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, September 22, 2009 [Romans 5:1-5]
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, wehave peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. Romans 5:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Boring is good
Famed physicist Freeman Dyson argues for the virtue of boredom for kids by saying, "Being bored is the only time you are creative." Interesting. In our fast-paced, texting, Xbox nation, kids today have little free time to do nothing. But it's in that "nothing" time that great thinking is done. Be sure to set limits on TV and video game time, phone conversations and even homework. It's okay for your kids to occasionally not have a lot to do. And it will be remarkable to see what they come up with.Now that you turned off the TV, turn on family dinnertime. Here's how you can bring family dinners back to your home.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you think it is important to sometimes have quiet, alone time with no distractions? Why or why not? [Link]
Dave Says – September 21, 2009
My husband died four weeks ago. He was 52 years old and had a heart attack … [Link]
A Plea to the President to Attend Church
Dear Mr. President, remember all the analysis immediately after your election this past November regarding where you and your family would attend church? [Link]
Is prepaid legal needed?
Anika wants to know about prepaid legal services. Does Dave recommend them? Dave says why he doesn't. [Link]
Seize the day
Are you making the most of your life? Let Robin Williams in this memorable scene from the movie Dead Poet's Society remind you of the brevity of your days and the importance of living them well.Huddle up with your older kids tonight and ask them: What do you think it means to 'seize the day?' [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, September 21, 2009 [Psalm 51:1-7]
Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and justified when you judge. Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. Surely you desire truth in the inner parts ; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place. Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Psalm 51:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Creating a Culture of Marriage
There is much consternation over the state of marriage today. The institution itself has suffered serious social diminution—so much so that same-sex marriage appears inevitable. But the blame for this lies less with the culture at large than with the church in America. How so, you ask? [Link]
Finding God in the Everyday Tasks of Homemaking
I was recently challenged by a reader’s comment: Sometimes I get overwhelmed with the many tasks of homemaking … What can we do to kick start ourselves into being excited over our callings as homemakers? [Link]
Pornography's Devastating Effects on Marriage
As a proponent of fulfilling sex in Christian marriages, I shout from the rooftops that porn is not the answer to achieving sexual fulfillment… [Link]
What Would Jesus Tweet?
Can anything of real and lasting value come from technology that limits information to a mere 140 characters? [Link]
A Plea to the President to Attend Church
Dear Mr. President, remember all the analysis immediately after your election this past November regarding where you and your family would attend church? [Link]
Keeping the Lights on Monday through Saturday
The scenario is common and vexing: a church building erected generations ago sits idle six days a week yet consumes 50 percent of the church budget. What to do? [Link]
The Problematic Predicament of Paying the Pastor
It's something of a dilemma: On the one hand, a minister must never put a price on the work he does as he looks to the Lord as the Source for his needs. On the other, he should absolutely be adequately compensated for his work. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 20, 2009 [James 2:17]
In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. James 2:17 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, September 19, 2009 [James 1:2-5]
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. James 1:2-5 NIV [Link]
We're No Longer Comfortable With Debt!
"Today, we paid off the remaining balance on our student loans and are debt-free. In less than two years, we paid off $37,565 in debt!" Tracy said. [Link]
When to raise prices
Lauren's husband owns a painting business, and they want to know when the best time is to implement a price increase. [Link]
Caught Up in a Payday Loan Scam
"My husband and I got into a financial "bind," and I had the bright idea to go to one of those payday loan places to tide us over," Mary said. [Link]
Never Stop Praying for the Persecuted Church
In my journeys to meet with faithful believers around the world, the number one request I hear is this: “Please pray for me.” Let's do so this year. [Link]
Donald Miller: Writing His Own Life Story
It was while crafting the narrative for a film based on his life that author Donald Miller was told his story was "too boring." His latest book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, chronicles not only this filmmaking process but also his own real-life transformation. [Link]
Christians as Real People
People are broken; we need Christ and his truth. But if Christians refuse to be genuine with those who are thirsty, the Living Water is quenched and they will look elsewhere for help. [Link]
Overcoming "True for You but Not for Me" Objections
You've heard them – the statements people commonly make when objecting to Christianity. Here's how you can respond when you hear, "That may be True for You but Not for Me." [Link]
Wish Fulfillment Gets a Foodie Twist in Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
A multi-layered story was developed to help bring the concept in Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs to life. And much like something the Pixar folks dream up, there’s plenty of thoughtful takeaway in this talk of wish fulfillment gone seriously awry. [Link]
Damon Weighs in with Great Performance in "The Informant!"
As whistle-blower Mark Whitacre in The Informant!, Matt Damon is 30 pounds heavier than he was as Jason Bourne in The Bourne Identity, so it's appropriate that The Informant! is a weightier film. But it ain't heavy. [Link]
"Love Happens" Routinely Overstates the Obvious
In the same way a book shouldn’t be judged by its cover, a movie probably shouldn’t be judged solely by its title. But in the case of Love Happens (starring Jennifer Aniston and Aaron Eckhart), trust me, your gut is probably right. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, September 18, 2009 [Philippians 2:5-10]
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death–even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, Philippians 2:5-10 NIV Listen [Link]
Have an inspirational story to tell us?
Have you faced some incredible obstacles on your way to becoming a better father? Maybe you didn't think you'd make it financially. Or maybe your marriage was on the rocks. Or perhaps you found out your teen was drinking or doing drugs. Whatever the case, your hardships, and how you overcame them, can be tremendously inspirational to all of us. We invite you to share your story. Here's an inspirational story from Coach Tony Dungy. Take a look, and then add yours to the list.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Have you noticed any changes in me since I began receiving the All Pro Dad Play of the Day? [Link]
Young, jobless, scared
Seth is scared, lost his job and doesn't know how he's going to support his family. [Link]
Create a New Marriage … with Your Same Spouse
You and your spouse annoy each other more than enjoy each other. You don't want to continue living like this, but you don't want the trauma of divorce, either. What to do? [Link]
A Tale of Two Atheists
The Wall Street Journal's debate was not, as advertised, a debate between an atheist and a believer. Instead, it was a debate between two different species of atheists. [Link]
Defending the Innocent: Weapons and Worship
Church is not generally the right place to celebrate our civil rights, though we may thank God for them, but it might be the right place to urge citizens to exercise them to protect the innocent. [Link]
Manufactured March Madness on the Mall
Saturday's massive TEA party rally at the Capitol was remarkably peaceful and upbeat as marchers passed by the Annual Black Family Reunion Tent. Unless you read the Washington Post. [Link]
Derek Webb: To Kill a Mockingbird
In part one of a two-part CCM exclusive, Derek Webb talks about Stockholm Syndrome's musical shift and why he'd prefer to be on a label in spite of the ruckus, because after all, business is just business. [Link]
Dark Vibe Pervades Aaron Shust's Take Over
Aaron Shust produces the same commercial mega-draw as Chris Tomlin, but with a darker vibe. And it carries throughout Take Over, where it feels like life is lived a bit deeper than in most other modern worship offerings. [Link]
Skillet's Hard-Hitting Messages Stay Awake
Rather than shying away from the taboo topics facing kids today, Skillet always goes in for the kill, screaming hope and hitting hard on the heart of the matter. And the band’s latest project, Awake, is no exception. [Link]
Cashing in on drugs
Here's a very visual illustration about the depth of the illegal drug problem. The Institute of Biomedical Research found that 9 out of 10 Euro banknotes in Germany had minute amounts of cocaine on them left by abusers who used the Euros to snort the drug. Similar results have been found with American dollars in some urban areas. Illegal drugs and their effects surround our kids today. It's in our music, our schools and even on our money. Talk to your kids soon about the dangers of using illegal drugs. To recognize the warning signs or drug use in your kids, take a look at this. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you know anyone who has used drugs? Why do you think they did it? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, September 17, 2009 [Deuteronomy 28:11-13]
The LORD will grant you abundant prosperity–in the fruit of your womb, the young of your livestock and the crops of your ground–in the land he swore to your forefathers to give you. The LORD will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. The LORD will make you the head, not the tail. If you pay attention to the commands of the LORD your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom. Deuteronomy 28:11-13 NIV Listen [Link]
The money or a friend
Dave has an alternative plan for Randy, who is trying to figure out whether or not he should give a personal loan to a friend. [Link]
Guiding the Attitude of Your Day
Be very careful how you start your morning. You are planting the seeds for what the day will hold. [Link]
Learning Evangelism From Jesus
Studying Jesus’ conversations with a diversity of people during his life, this director of the Francis Schaeffer Institute draws lessons and principles for modern evangelistic practice from the four Gospels, offering believers timeless wisdom in their approach to unbelievers. [Link]
Defending the Innocent: Weapons and Worship
Church is not generally the right place to celebrate our civil rights, though we may thank God for them, but it might be the right place to urge citizens to exercise them to protect the innocent. [Link]
Why Living Together Before Marriage Doesn't Work
Why is the divorce rate so much higher for couples who marry after cohabiting? Two theories have credence… [Link]
Finding God in the Everyday Tasks of Homemaking
I was recently challenged by a reader’s comment: Sometimes I get overwhelmed with the many tasks of homemaking … What can we do to kick start ourselves into being excited over our callings as homemakers? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 16, 2009 [Isaiah 58:9-12]
Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I. 'If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday. The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail. Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations; you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets with Dwellings. Isaiah 58:9-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Being Best Friends with Your Mate
Many people make the fatal mistake of putting friendship with their mate on the backburner. Let's hear from a reader who found a solution to this problem… [Link]
Feeling discouraged today?
Watch this brief clip from the movie Hoosiers and remember what is possible in the face of incredible odds. And be sure to rent this classic film and watch it with your older children this weekend. It's a great teaching tool about overcoming adversity.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Will you watch a basketball movie with me this weekend? [Link]
We'll Never Eat Speghetti Again!
"We ate a lot of pancakes and spaghetti! Not only did we not go into more debt during grad school, we started making headway on our college debt," Nicholas said. [Link]
The Family Rift
Jane and her husband loaned their son money, but nothing good has come of it. They're just left with a big family rift! [Link]
Dave Says – September 14, 2009
I have tenants who have been perfect in paying rent on time for almost a year. Last month, the woman lost her job … [Link]
A love drawer
Dave gives the list of what he puts in his "I love you" drawer, which is the records his loved one will need in the event of his death. [Link]
Christian Cosmetology
Ministry leaders sometimes share characteristics with make-up artists. As such, we need to remember that accentuating the beauty is much better than just hiding the ugly. [Link]
Women: Be the Kind of Friend You Want to Have
Friendship is a gift all women need, during every stage of their lives. You can enjoy strong friendships if you're intentional about being the kind of friend you want others to be for you… [Link]
A Word of Encouragement for a Season of Doubt
Being a Christian doesn't mean you won't have doubts. John the Baptist went straight to the Lord with his doubts… and so must we! [Link]
What Are We Singing: Before the Throne of God Above
Knowing I was having a rough time of it, a friend sent me the YouTube link to Selah's version of Before the Throne of God Above. I have since played this video time and again and am always awed by the beauty of the music and the truth of the lyrics. [Link]
Picking Up Pennies: Leave a Legacy of Financial Stewardship
One of the most important gifts we parents can give our kids is a legacy of good stewardship. No matter how dismissive your little bambinos are, don’t give up on the mission. [Link]
Your Most Important Investing Decision
What determines the performance of your investment portfolio more than any other single factor? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, September 15, 2009 [Jonah 2:5-9]
The engulfing waters threatened me, the deep surrounded me; seaweed was wrapped around my head. To the roots of the mountains I sank down; the earth beneath barred me in forever. But you brought my life up from the pit, O LORD my God. 'When my life was ebbing away, I remembered you, LORD, and my prayer rose to you, to your holy temple. 'Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs. But I, with a song of thanksgiving, will sacrifice to you. What I have vowed I will make good. Salvation comes from the LORD.' Jonah 2:5-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Lost a leg, gained a wife
John DeButts was the CEO of AT&T just prior to its breakup in the 1980s. At the zenith of his power, he had more than 1,000,000 employees around the world. DeButts retired very wealthy. Not long after that, he needed to have a leg amputated.He later said, "In spite of all that money, power, prestige and influence, do you know that as I lay there in my hospital bed, not one person came to see me, called me on the phone, or dropped me a card? But there at my bedside, tending to my needs day-by-day, was the woman I had ignored for 30 years."If you haven't let your wife know lately how much you love and appreciate her, send her an e-mail or text right now. Better yet, stop by a flower shop on the way home tonight.What is your definition of marital love? What is your wife's? Find out by taking this marriage survey.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: What is one thing I could do to make you feel more loved? [Link]
Teaching how to spend
Mike is worried about the behavior his kids are showing when it comes to their spending money. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, September 14, 2009 [Ephesians 4:1-6]
As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit–just as you were called to one hope when you were called–one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. Ephesians 4:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Kids need outdoor time
Have your children lost touch with nature? When is the last time they rolled in a pile of leaves, climbed a tree, rode their bikes, chased a butterfly through the park or went wading in a creek? Kids need outdoor time. It's good for them, and, according to many experts, the lack of it can take a toll on their physical, emotional and psychological well-being.So make it a point to allow your children plenty of time to play outside. And get out there with them! Take a hike, paddle a canoe, explore a nature trail, hunt for bugs or go fishing. Connecting with nature is good for their bodies – and their souls!Have you ever hiked with your kids? Here are some ideas to get you started on the right path.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: When and where would you like to go hiking? [Link]
Potluck Dinner Parties Provide Economic Elegance
Combining the benefits of the potluck with the dignity of a dinner party could become the frugal wave of the future, and it is only right that we create a few guidelines. [Link]
Dugard Kidnapping Unveils the 'Spirit of Bondage'
Why didn't she escape? Why don't we? [Link]
Sex Trafficking: It's Happening in Our Backyard
We've heard and been repulsed by stories like Jaycee Dugard's before. We comfort ourselves that such abductions are rare. But is that truly the case? [Link]
The Heavens (and the Hubble) Are Telling the Glory of God
To read of the vast distances and dimensions seen and measured by Hubble's technology is to be reminded just how small our planet really is — and how even smaller we humans are. [Link]
The Most Important Thing to Teach Your Public-School Child
Preparation for a new school year is a major job for every parent. Notebooks. Pens. Calculators. If you send your child to a public school, you need to arm her with something more, however… [Link]
Why Survive the Teen Years (When You Can Enjoy Them)?
I have heard so many people talking about "surviving the teen years" that it doesn't surprise me anymore when I hear that phrase. [Link]
Create a New Marriage … with Your Same Spouse
You and your spouse annoy each other more than enjoy each other. You don't want to continue living like this, but you don't want the trauma of divorce, either. What to do? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 13, 2009 [Luke 6:46-49]
'Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.' Luke 6:46-49 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, September 12, 2009 [John 10:7-10]
Therefore Jesus said again, 'I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep. All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:7-10 NIV [Link]
Knowing when to leave
Wayne is 25 and wondering if remaining in the military for another 13 years is a good idea because of the retirement benefits. [Link]
Learning to Value Each Day: Remembering and Reflecting 9-11
There are defining moments that shake, make or break the human character and spirit. It’s during those times we must decide whether to be strong or weak, to be a help or a hindrance, to be a victim or a survivor. [Link]
Paving the Way: Becoming Cultural Missionaries
To reach people with the Gospel, we have to be able to speak their language: be it Swahili, Chinese… or the language of postmodern secularism. [Link]
Heralds of the King
The late Dr. Clowney was a trailblazer of Christ-centered, redemptive historical preaching. Following his model, in Heralds of the King pastors with different gifts, backgrounds and ministries show how they proclaim Christ from all of Scripture. [Link]
Preaching: Demanding Work but Such a Calling
Great preaching, it would appear, has little to do with the size of our talent and everything to do with the size of our God. [Link]
Apparently "9" is the Bleakest Number
Considering that an animated account of "the end of the world as we know it" was already done so well and winningly in last year's Wall·E (Pixar), 9 just doesn’t add anything new to the perilous conversation. [Link]
Hope Is Found in Tyler Perry's I Can Do Bad All By Myself
With I Can Do Bad All By Myself, director Tyler Perry hopes that audiences will leave with a message of hope in the story of a nightclub singer named April, a couple of young delinquents, a handsome Mexican immigrant and of course, the reoccurring character Madea. [Link]
Britt Nicole: Standing Out
Britt Nicole's sophomore release comes forth with a clear message of evangelism. It's a sign she's growing in her own spiritual walk and her artistry with the title track, "The Lost Get Found," displaying serving as the best evidence. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, September 11, 2009 [Proverbs 26:20-27]
Without wood a fire goes out; without gossip a quarrel dies down. As charcoal to embers and as wood to fire, so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife. The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to a man's inmost parts. Like a coating of glaze over earthenware are fervent lips with an evil heart. A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but in his heart he harbors deceit. Though his speech is charming, do not believe him, for seven abominations fill his heart. His malice may be concealed by deception, but his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly. If a man digs a pit, he will fall into it; if a man rolls a stone, it will roll back on him. Proverbs 26:20-27 NIV Listen [Link]
Are ADHD drugs safe for your children?
According to William A. Carlezon Jr., PhD, director of the behavioral genetics laboratory at McLean Hospital and associate professor at Harvard Medical School, Ritalin use in preteen children may lead to depression later in life because of altered brain chemistry. It's generally agreed among the medical community that Ritalin and similar drugs are over-prescribed to kids as the first solution to behavioral problems. If your children are on these kinds of medications, consider ways you might be able to wean them off with parental love, professional counseling, proper diet and exercise. There are legitimate uses for medication for ADHD, but they should only be used as a very last resort.Read more about the brain-altering characteristics of Ritalin and other ADHD medication.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Is there anything we can do naturally to help our child be better behaved? [Link]
The double deduction
Dusty is about to get a double surprise, and wants to know what could happen to his taxes because of it. [Link]
Sugar-Laced Poison: The Realities of Sexual Sin
One of Satan’s lies regarding sexual purity is, “No one else has enough self-control to resist, why do you think you can?” Yet many people do resist every day—our society just doesn’t celebrate their dependence upon God… [Link]
The Men in Christ's Life: The Calling of Matthew
Jesus always called His disciples one by one. Matthew was a tax collector—not anyone’s favorite type of person by a long shot. Who wanted to be friends with someone who could financially ruin you? No one wanted to be around or befriend people like this—except Jesus. [Link]
A Screaming Place
I wish places of worship would provide a screaming room. But since it's hard to find such a place among spiritually minded people, I found my private screaming place… [Link]
How to Ignite a Fire in Your Soul
Has your faith dwindled down to the embers of complacency or apathy when you encounter lost people? If so, it's time to ignite a fresh fire in your soul. Here's how. [Link]
Hired@Home: Author Helps Moms Explore At-Home Career Options
As a work-at-home mom herself, Sarah Hamaker knows the ropes of being both a professional and a mom — and she’s ready to share her experience, tips and advice for making working at home work for moms from all backgrounds and in all stages of life. [Link]
Daughters under Siege
Some sex education programs teach young women that the way to get ahead in the world is not through their grace, or goodness, or intelligence – but through their sexual power. [Link]
The Value of Teaching Children about Money
Even more important than understanding the basics of making and spending money, children need to learn what the Bible says about money and how it affects our spiritual lives… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, September 10, 2009 [Romans 15:1-7]
We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: 'The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.' For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. Romans 15:1-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Be "all there" for your grandkids
Treasuring time with your future grandchildren is something you'll definitely want to take part in. But many older men cannot because their minds are deteriorating. There isn't a 100% guarantee against getting Alzheimer's disease, but losing excess weight might help. According to Newsweek, a major study found that for each one-point increase in body-mass index, the risk of dementia increased by 36 percent. Proper diet and exercise are essential to your health and the health of your family. Take the proper steps now, so you'll be around to enjoy your future grandkids' baby steps.Read on for more resources on preventing and treating Alzheimer's.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask them: How many kids do you want to have when you grow up? How many boys and how many girls? [Link]
"THE DAVE RAMSEY SHOW" COMES TO LOS ANGELES
"The Dave Ramsey Show" has joined the line-up on KFWB 980 AM Monday through Friday from 9p.m. to midnight PDT. [Link]
The deadbeat
Time for Matt's sister-in-law to get tough with her ex-husband and make him accountable. [Link]
Why Memorize Scripture?
John Piper offers six great reasons why every Christian – especially those in vocational ministry – should commit the Word of God to memory. [Link]
A Letter from a Senior Devil on Texas
The importance to the topic of the Texas Board of Education decision is obvious, as evidenced by this letter I accidentally discovered… with apologies to C.S. Lewis and his brilliant Screwtape Letters. [Link]
Religious Liberty in an Age of Toleration
Religious toleration isn't the same as religious liberty. Rather, it's the Chinese practice of registering, approving, tolerating, and controlling something perceived as dangerous. [Link]
An Active and Purposeful Waiting
I would like nothing better than to see their expectation of Jesus' imminent return come to pass! World events certainly suggest that possibility. But until the Lord does return, we are not faced with an either/or choice… [Link]
How to Find Financial Freedom
With God as your pilot, you can take control of your financial destination… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 9, 2009 [Jeremiah 17:5-8]
This is what the LORD says: 'Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who depends on flesh for his strength and whose heart turns away from the LORD. He will be like a bush in the wastelands; he will not see prosperity when it comes. He will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives. 'But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.' Jeremiah 17:5-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Busy for God
Our motivation for work must be gratitude and praise for God’s mercy. “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works” (v. 10). [Link]
The 8 Laws of Leadership
Dr. William Cohen in his book, The Stuff of Heroes, writes that the eight universal laws of leadership are:1. Maintain absolute integrity. 2. Know your stuff. 3. Declare your expectations. 4. Show uncommon commitment. 5. Expect positive results. 6. Take care of your people. 7. Put duty before self. 8. Get out in front.Sounds like a great strategy for fatherhood, too. Who have been the two most influential leaders in Coach Tony Dungy's life? Watch this.Do you know the 10 Ways to be an All Pro Dad? Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Based on the 8 laws of leadership, which one would you say I'm best at? Why? Which am I not so great at? Why? [Link]
Towered by Faith: A 9/11 Retrospective
Sometimes, I find it easy to forget the smaller moments of our time—my husband's and mine—in New York City during the 9/11 attacks… [Link]
Obama’s School Talk: Should Christians Really be Concerned?
Scores of Christians and conservatives are denouncing President Obama’s announced speech to children in schools across the country tomorrow. Notables like Michelle Malkin are concerned with subversive activism. Republicans are accusing the President of imposing a political agenda on the nation’s children. Other conservatives see the move as socialist indoctrination. Of course, references to certain dictators’ propagandizing of children abound. [Link]
Dave Says – September 7, 2009
I've heard you say that your mortgage payment shouldn't be more than 25 percent of your take-home pay … [Link]
Big 5 percent deal!
Charles thinks he's getting ahead from the 5% he gets back on his credit cards, but Dave's never met a millionaire who made their wealth on that 5% back. [Link]
Filling Up the Afflictions of Christ
In John Piper's latest, you'll discover the gripping stories of William Tyndale, who died because he translated God's Word into English; Adoniram Judson, whose mission to Burma paved the way for worldwide missionary mobilization; and John Paton, who led the hostile to Christ in the New Hebrides. [Link]
Pastor's Wives: Finding Your Place
Just what are the prerequisites for being a minister's wife? [Link]
Cosmic Aspirations, Earthly Hubris
The multi-billion-dollar super collider project in Switzerland, billed as the most exciting advance in science in centuries, has fallen flat. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, September 8, 2009 [Matthew 5:43-48]
'You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:43-48 NIV Listen [Link]
Why Moralism Is Not the Gospel — And Why So Many Christians Think It Is
The basic structure of moralism comes down to this — the belief that the Gospel can be reduced to improvements in behavior. [Link]
Make Sure Your Marriage Has a Disaster Recovery Plan
What can we do to protect our most precious investments — our marriages and our families — during economic trials? We must develop a "Disaster Recovery Plan…" [Link]
Freedom's Role in Developing Teen Discernment
Teens crave freedom and they want to show the adults in their life that they are fully prepared to make their own decisions… [Link]
Taking On the Mind of Your Spouse
Victory over your spouse is hollow, while taking on the mind of your mate leads to cooperation and communion with each other… [Link]
Why women talk so much
Want to know why your wife talks so much? Here's a humorous but poignant illustration. A husband, looking through the newspaper, came upon a study that said women use more words than men. Excited to prove to his wife his long-held contention that women in general, and his wife in particular, talked too much, he showed her the study results. The report stated: "Men use about 15,000 words per day, but women use 30,000."His wife thought awhile, then finally she said to her husband, "It's because we have to repeat everything we say."The husband said, "What?"Here's a great way to communicate with your wife without speaking words.Huddle up tonight and ask your wife: How can I be a better listener? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, September 7, 2009 [Psalm 91:1-6]
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, 'He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.' Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday. Psalm 91:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Living for the long-term
According to author Dr. James Boyce, we overestimate what we can accomplish in five years and underestimate what we can accomplish in twenty. We do this in our career, and often job-hop rather than stay in one place and get promoted. We can also do this in our parenting. We may get discouraged by the seeming lack of short-term progress in our children, but if we saw the long-term consequences of our involvement, we would realize it was worth every second. So, as you think about what you want to accomplish in life, think in terms of decades, not years. Live your life for the long-term. Someday, you'll look back on the years you spent together and be glad for the time you invested. Watch this memorable video clip.Huddle up tonight and ask your wife: What do you think our relationship will be like in 20 years? [Link]
Labor Day: The Ethics of Work
God takes labor seriously. Do you? Here are some work concepts from God. [Link]
More Than Grillin' and Chillin' on Labor Day
Before you settle back in the lawn chair this Labor Day, why not first go for a walk, a ride or make a life-changing difference? OSU Tour will make it easy for you at their Walk-a-Thon/Bike-a-Thon at NASCAR's Texas Motor Speedway. [Link]
"All About Steve" Can Be Summed Up in Three Letters: B-A-D
If you can overlook the lowbrow attempts for a laugh, there’s a very good message hidden deep, deep down in the very bad comedy of All About Steve. Unfortunately, 98 minutes is far too long to waste trying to find it. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, September 6, 2009 [John 14:1-4]
'Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.' John 14:1-4 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, September 5, 2009 [2 Timothy 2:14-16]
Keep reminding them of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. 2 Timothy 2:14-16 NIV [Link]
Got one, borrow another?
Ken and his wife have more than one loan. Which should they take out first? [Link]
Hurtful Words, Healing Words
Have you ever considered the fact that every word you say—every word—has the power to either hurt or heal? [Link]
The Spirituality of Work
Because God has ordained it, all work has a spiritual dimension. The Bible repeatedly commends useful, honest labor, which shows God's intense interest in it. [Link]
25 Affirmations about Forgiveness
A friend who has gone through a hard time sent me a list of things he has learned about forgiveness. Based mostly on his list, here are twenty-five affirmations about forgiveness. [Link]
Bigger than Giants, Scarier than Fear
Find out why God wants you to be afraid. [Link]
Workplace Comedy "Extract" Labors for Laughs
Extract is better than some of the coarse R-rated comedies this year, but it's also surprisingly insubstantial given its moral content. The film does offer a few mild laughs, but the potentially offensive material is abundant throughout. [Link]
Green
Green is a story of love, betrayal, and sweeping reversals set within the apocalypse. It is the beginning: the truth behind a saga that has captured the imagination of more than a million readers with the Books of History Chronicles. Read an excerpt from Ted Dekker's latest. [Link]
More Memorable Sing-Alongs in Daughtry's Town
Besides a few acoustic numbers, there are enough songs on Leave This Town to keep things interesting for the thousands destined to see Daughtry in the next couple of years in amphitheatres and stadiums nationwide. [Link]
Teaching your children time management
Some children have trouble successfully managing their time. You may have to constantly tell them to do chores, or finish up their homework, and this can be a source of aggravation for both you and your kids. So we suggest getting a large plastic calendar with erasable markers. Hang this in a prominent place at home. Have your kids write all they need to do monthly, weekly and daily. Then your children will know, at a glance, all that is expected of them. Teaching your kids to budget their time wisely and to fulfill their obligations is preparing them for future success. Read the 5 basics of time management to share with your kids.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: How can we better motivate the kids to do their homework and chores this year? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, September 4, 2009 [1 Timothy 6:11-14]
But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses. In the sight of God, who gives life to everything, and of Christ Jesus, who while testifying before Pontius Pilate made the good confession, I charge you to keep this command without spot or blame until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ, 1 Timothy 6:11-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Fighting To Stay Out of Debt
"We now have over $80,000 in the bank and are going on a nice vacation soon. We are going to fight to stay out of debt from now on," Michael said. [Link]
Excited About Where I Am Going
Jimmie is 52 years old, just paid off $22,000, and is excited about the hopeful future that being out of debt offers him. This can be you, too! [Link]
There is Money in Mowing
After almost $4,000 invested in lawn-mowing stuff, Julia's husband decided that he was too busy to mow the grass! Read her story now. [Link]
The $28 Burrito
"I couldn't deposit it fast enough to prevent the bank from slapping a $25 NSF charge, aka stupid tax, on my $3 burrito," Jeff said. [Link]
The bank deal
After a foreclosure and an auction, Susan is thinking of beating up the bank on the price of a house that she wants. [Link]
Don't Lose Heart
Oftentimes, we aren’t able to comprehend how the Lord is working and why. However, just because God does not work according to how we think doesn’t mean He does not hear our prayers nor care about our situations. [Link]
Watch Your Example
When Jesus said that you are the salt of the earth, He acknowledged that decay is inevitable in a fallen world. [Link]
Portrait of a Minister (1 Timothy 4:6-16)
It is important to get the right portrait of the right person. [Link]
The War on Private Charity
Americans need to stand by the faith-based charities whose own government is creating competition for volunteers. [Link]
Is the Legal Profession Hurting Marriages? A Lawyer's Perspective
Your marriage is in trouble. Should you call a lawyer? Or, you're getting married. Should you draft a prenuptial agreement? Lawyer Stephen Bloom examines these issues and more in his book The Believer's Guide to Legal Issues. Read the Crosswalk interview… [Link]
Help Your Son Develop Healthy Emotions
I'm the kind of girl who can name what I'm feeling, even if it's seventeen feelings all at once. And as a mom, I believe it's my responsibility to send my kids out into the world knowing what they feel about something and how to express it in a healthy way. [Link]
Biblical Encouragement for Couples Waiting to Conceive
Recently, God showed me quite a few scriptures that pertain to my husband's and my current situation of trying to conceive a child… [Link]
Four essential truths kids need to know
Author Richard Rohr identifies four essential truths that dads need to teach their kids before they leave home. They are: life is hard, you are going to die, you are not ultimately in control and your life is not about you. Not exactly a course in self-esteem, but perhaps more valuable for your children to lead a better life. Think about what Rohr said, and if you agree, be sure to talk these over with your adolescent in your own way and timing.Here's a game plan on helping your children navigate life after high school.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What do you think your life will be like when you're my age? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, September 3, 2009 [Genesis 12:1-3]
The LORD had said to Abram, 'Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you. 'I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.' Genesis 12:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Am I liable for the car balance?
Sabrina's future son-in-law had his car repossessed and will be responsible for the deficit balance after selling it. [Link]
Top 10 Articles of August 2009
What are the signs of an abusive relationship? Why should Christians be careful about labeling the Antichrist? Is it biblical to be funny? Find out in the top 10 articles of August. [Link]
Reflections on the Kennedy Funeral
The homily's words about the kingdom, frozen as they were in the partisan debates of our little blip of history, didn’t communicate the transcendence offered by the Basilica itself. [Link]
The NIV Announcement — A Statement
When released, the updated NIV will deserve and require the attentive study and review of all committed evangelicals. We must hope and pray that this updated NIV will be found both faithful and useful. [Link]
Perinatal Hospice: From Womb to Grave with Love
The hospice movement is a wonderful expression of the culture of life. In a very encouraging development, the movement is growing up in an unexpected way. [Link]
Hillsong Builds Up the Church with Tear Down the Walls
Tear Down the Walls definitely further defines the band’s aptitude for creating relevant worship music for the church. And considering that is their explicit aim, I’m not sure what more we can ask from this fine Aussie collective. [Link]
Q&A with Project 86
No matter what the audience, Project 86’s innovative sound and spiritually-centered mindset remains the same, which as front man Andrew Schwab explains, is amongst the most urgent and relevant to date. [Link]
State of Play Sags from Sluggish Pacing, Unconvincing Plot
Like last year’s Body of Lies, State of Play tries to seriously challenge American policy in an entertaining fashion, but unlike Lies, Play never grips the viewer. Its pacing is too often sluggish; its plot unconvincing. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, September 2, 2009 [Psalm 103:1-5]
Praise the LORD, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits- who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's. Psalm 103:1-5 NIV Listen [Link]
How's this for marital honesty?
You and your wife should make up your own lists of three things you wish the other would or wouldn't do. For you, you may wish that your wife wouldn't leave her shoes lying all over the bedroom floor, or wouldn't drive her car with little or no air in the tires. She may write down how she gets annoyed when you don't wash your whiskers down the sink or, of course, how you leave the seat up. Whatever the annoying habits might be, write them down on a sheet of paper; then exchange lists with each other. This is a great way to settle nagging issues and open up some good dialogue. But remember… be sensitive and reasonable when you put together your list. This can easily backfire if you're not careful.To learn how not to address annoying habits, watch this.Huddle up tonight and ask your wife: Do you think doing this list of three annoying habits is a good idea? [Link]
Dave Says – August 31, 2009
I graduated from college in May, and I already have a job in my field … [Link]
Married with budget problems
Carrie and her husband both work extra jobs but don't pool their extra income together…time for a change? [Link]
Adopted For Life
Adopted for Life is a manifesto calling Christians to adopt children and to equip Christian families going through the process. Offers biblical foundations for adoption and identifies adoption as a Great Commission priority. [Link]
A Perfect Mess
In this look at how God adores and transforms us, author Lisa Harper weaves poignant stories of her own personal foibles with a fresh take on selected Psalms to reveal a loving Father who remains our greatest champion even when we don’t feel anywhere close to holy. [Link]
Fall in Love with the God Jesus Knows
If you think about the Father the way Jesus does, you'll get an accurate perspective that will lead you to fall in love with The Good and Beautiful God. [Link]
12 Resources for Developing Your Online Network
Today, Job seekers and career changers need to become familiar with and take advantage of online social media… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, September 1, 2009 [Matthew 9:10-13]
While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew's house, many tax collectors and 'sinners' came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, 'Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and 'sinners'?' On hearing this, Jesus said, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.' Matthew 9:10-13 NIV Listen [Link]
What really lasts
What makes a happy family? When 1,500 school children were asked that question, most of them answered "doing things together." Psychologist Dr. Gary Oliver shares a touching story about a family that put off home repairs – for ten years – so they could use the money on family trips. In the end, the memories made on those trips proved priceless. To see why Dr. Oliver says it's not only what we do for our children that matters, it's what we do with them, read this insightful article. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Where would you like to go on vacation next summer? [Link]
Leaving Traditional College Behind?
Two graduates of accelerated distance learning share what students need to get out of the college box – and what every employer is looking for. [Link]
The Health Insurance Trap
One study indicates that less than half of all health policy holders believe they understand their policies. Here are some practical things you can do to get through some of the haze and confusion… [Link]
Take the better plan
With the deals that Amy's family might get on her husband's health insurance plans, Dave thinks she should jump at them. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 31, 2009 [Matthew 5:3-8]
'Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Matthew 5:3-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Your best career move – humility
There's no doubt doing your job and doing it well has a significant, positive impact on your family. So what is essential in climbing that corporate ladder? Management guru Jim Collins studied 11 of the most successful American companies over the past 15 years. These businesses averaged more than seven times the stock returns of the general market. The most significant attribute about these businesses that Collins found is that every one of them had a modest CEO. Collins shares that the starting point of a great company is a humble leader: "When these successful CEOs do something right, they walk you over to a window and point to all the reasons (and especially all the other people) 'out there' contributing to their success. When they do something wrong, they walk to a mirror and assume the blame themselves." Want to go far in your career? Walk humbly. Hear what Coach Dungy has to say about leading with humility. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think I'm a humble person? Why or why not? [Link]
Lockerbie Lessons: Misplaced Compassion
Should dying prisoners be released early on grounds of compassion? In some cases, absolutely. In the case of the Lockerbie bomber, that is a wholly different matter. [Link]
Fleeing Sharia Law in America?
Rifqa Bary's situation must be weighed carefully in light of what has happened to other young women. [Link]
Something's Got to Give for Seniors
This has been the "Summer of the Senior" in America, as the debate over health care reform and Medicare cuts continues. [Link]
Stop an Affair Before it Starts
Most of us say, “It will never happen to me,” or “My marriage isn’t at risk.” But the fact is, we all need to know how to protect our marriages from infidelity… [Link]
Back-to-School: Teens Need Their Sleep
Parents shouldn’t wait until the new school year starts to begin helping their teens make the transition back to SST (Standard School Time)… [Link]
He Said-She Said: Ready to Date? Or Not
A reader thought she had a great first date with a man who then told her: "I'm not at a place right now emotionally where I can handle dating or having a serious relationship." What does this mean? See how "He" and "She" have tried to decode and figure it all out. [Link]
Cease Striving and Know That He Is God
If you didn't receive from God what you had asked for, what you had longed for, or what was your "human right," would you have acted like Zacharias – without bitterness or anger? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 30, 2009 [Philippians 2:5-8]
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death–even death on a cross! Philippians 2:5-8 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 29, 2009 [1 Corinthians 13:1-3]
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 NIV [Link]
The Husband's Sanctifying Role in Marriage
In a very real sense, God the Holy Spirit is the agent of sanctification in the life of believers. Although his ministry to us is sometimes direct and personal, he often chooses to work through the lives of others to press us toward holiness. In marriage the husband plays a special role in encouraging his wife's spiritual growth. [Link]
Are We a Nation of Hindus?
"Recent poll data show that conceptually, at least, we are slowly becoming more like Hindus and less like traditional Christians in the ways we think about God, our selves, each other, and eternity." [Link]
Health Care Reform: Too Great a Good for Caesar
Every Christian longs to see medical care for all of God's children. But government already has most of the guns and cannot be trusted with most of the scalpels as well. [Link]
Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled
One of the twentieth century's greatest preachers, Martin Lloyd-Jones offers eight sermons on John 14:1-12 as encouragement to Christians and direction for unbelievers facing anxiety in uncertain times. Read an excerpt from Let Not Your Heart Be Troubled. [Link]
"Shorts" Packs Several Tall Tales into One
While its charms may be fewer for anyone over the age of 10, Shorts is an eccentric, time-jumping adventure that merges comedy, sci-fi and a short treatise on the dangers of too much technology into one mostly family-friendly movie. [Link]
Formulaic "Adam" Offers Few Surprises
Formulaic to a fault, indie-romance Adam is clearly headed in one direction. It over-dramatizes milquetoast conflicts while offering up almost zero surprises en route to a predictable conclusion. Well, until a complete U-turn at the end. [Link]
Not Much Story to Tell in "Taking Woodstock"
By the end of Taking Woodstock, despite some worthy craftsmanship, this look at how Woodstock came to be actually has the inverse effect of its likely intent: it feel less historically significant without much of a story to tell. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 28, 2009 [Galatians 3:5-9]
Does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you because you observe the law, or because you believe what you heard? Consider Abraham: 'He believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.' Understand, then, that those who believe are children of Abraham. The Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, and announced the gospel in advance to Abraham: 'All nations will be blessed through you.' So those who have faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith. Galatians 3:5-9 NIV Listen [Link]
Fun things to do with your kids
Play of the Day subscriber Brian writes, "Here is an idea that my daughter (age 7) got really excited about and I did too! I went to the library and checked out some books about our city (Cincinnati) and told her before she graduates from high school we are going to find 50 unique things to do around the city (ballet, ball games, museums, historical places, etc.) together. It was so much fun to go through the books with her and have her write down where she wanted to go and for me to write some down as well. It will be my desire to take a picture of us at each location and then make a photo album to give to her at her graduation from high school. This will give us some direction in our dates instead of just hitting stores." Here are more great ideas on simple and fun things to do with your children. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: What three things on this list would you like to do this year? [Link]
Open-Heart Surgery and Still Got Out of Debt!
Getting out of debt "it has changed who we are as people, enriched our marriage, taught our children valuable life lessons," Peter and Ginger said. [Link]
Start commission now?
Dave says that it will depend on the kid as to when they can start working for a commission. [Link]
Health Care and Religious Freedom: Forced to Choose?
Yet again, a religious institution may be forced to choose between obeying the government or staying true to its religious beliefs [Link]
What Do You Believe About the Bible?
There is a professor of humanities at Yale University by the name of Harold Bloom who has become widely known across this country as the determiner of what books a truly cultured and educated person should have read. [Link]
Kneeling in Prayer instead of Needling and Nagging
Whose words do you want ringing in your spouse's ears: yours or God's? [Link]
Ragged-Edge Faith and Reckless Generosity
Generosity is not as much an overflow of wealth as it is an overabundance of faith. Stinginess, on the other hand, is a sure sign that a person trusts things instead of God. [Link]
Money-Saving Lessons from a Single Mom
The most valuable financial gift my mom gave me didn’t cost her a cent. It was the gift of frugality… [Link]
Drive-Through Weddings?
When you thought that it could not get any worse than the hastily planned Las Vegas wedding ceremony, now meet the "drive-through wedding…" [Link]
Do You Have Wounds Created Long Ago?
It is impossible to go through life without not only experiencing pain, but creating it as well. Here are some ideas for couples who have created wounds in their marriage… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 27, 2009 [1 Peter 3:8-11]
Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, 'Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. 1 Peter 3:8-11 NIV Listen [Link]
One weekend a year
Ever thought about doing a weekend excursion with each of your children? This can be an annual tradition when you take each of your kids individually on a modest weekend trip wherever they would like to go. Camping or a theme park would be a great idea. This is a great way to build lasting memories with your kids that they'll remember all their lives.Find out how Coach Tony Dungy spends one-on-one time with his children. Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Where would each of you like to go with me for a weekend this year? [Link]
Behavior affects will
A listener from Twitter wants to know what kinds of techniques Dave uses to delay getting what he wants. [Link]
Bush Quietly Saved a Million African Lives
It is rare when history can so directly, indisputably credit a president for a specific, undeniable policy achievement–especially one that received virtually no press attention. [Link]
Andew Marin: Straight Guy in a Queer World
How do straight Christians build bridges to the gay community? Author Andy Marin shares his experiences as an evangelical living in the heart of Chicago's gay community. [Link]
A Peek into Fetal Memory: Learning in Utero
Do you remember Dr. Seuss’s Cat in the Hat? You’ll be surprised to learn who else remembers it. [Link]
Having God’s “More-Than-Enough”
It’s easy for me, at times, to look at what others have and be envious. But so often I forget all I do have…and that it is more than enough. [Link]
New Rules for Job Applicants
You could be an applicant as soon as tomorrow, so it is important that you realize that the rules have changed… [Link]
Just Gimme a Little More Time!
I once saw a client who had taken a temporary job at a bank. He knew that wasn't where he wanted to be; it was just a fill-in job while he did his real job search. That was fourteen years ago… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 26, 2009 [Ephesians 1:3-6]
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will–to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. Ephesians 1:3-6 NIV Listen [Link]
The Arts & the Maturity of the Church
What if integrating the arts into the Church is more than just a nice idea? What if this integration is essential to the maturity of the Body of Christ?" [Link]
Don't get stepped on in your step-family
Dr. Kevin Leman in his book, Living in a Step-Family without Getting Stepped On, relates: "Disciplining the children may be the number one issue among blended families, but anger is the villain causing most of the discipline problems. You can bet that almost everyone in a blended family is mad at someone or someone is mad at them. Stepmoms are mad because they are treated like dirt or like the maid. Stepdads are mad because all they seem to be good for is paying the bills. Kids are mad because one of their parents is gone, sometimes forever. Children in the blended family are especially angry because they have been 'ripped.' They are hurt, and often they want to hurt back."So how do you achieve a successful step-family? Read on for some practical advice.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: How can we create more harmony in our blended family? [Link]
Dave Says – August 24, 2009
What's the best way to ask for a raise … [Link]
The advertising rule
How much is too much of an advertising budget for your business, and how much is too little? [Link]
Heroine for Life: Lila Rose Vs. Planned Parenthood
In recent years, that name has popped up again and again, attached to some absolutely amazing stories. [Link]
Is It Biblical to Be Funny?
In Religion Saves, Pastor Mark Driscoll set out to determine the most controversial questions among visitors to the Mars Hill Church website, and received hundreds of requests. Here he tackles one of the top nine questions: what should Christians find funny? [Link]
Wearing the Disguise of Faithfulness
Meeting barely a month after the Episcopal Church voted to end its ban on the consecration of openly homosexual bishops and the blessing of same-sex unions, the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America [ELCA] has taken similar steps. [Link]
The Death Penalty on Trial
That the Bible advocates and even commands the enforcement of the death penalty seems almost like it should be beyond controversy. The dignity God gives to humans, created as they are in his image, demands the utmost penalty for those who would recklessly and deliberately destroy life. Yet controversy abounds with many of those who profess Christ insisting that a God of love and justice would never endorse the use of this ultimate human punishment. [Link]
Duplicity Doubles Star Power, but Sparks Don't Ignite
In Duplicity, the banter between Julia Roberts and Clive Owens is too sporadic, held back by the film’s stop-and-start quality which hinders the emotional bond that might have formed between the audience and the stars. [Link]
Stars Shine Bright in Sunshine Cleaning
It shares a word ("sunshine") and an actor (Alan Arkin, again in a supporting role) with Little Miss Sunshine, but in Sunshine Cleaning lead performances from Amy Adams and Emily Blunt may yet vie for Academy recognition at next year’s ceremony. [Link]
Love Doesn't Give up in Goodbye Solo
Ramin Bahrani’s Goodbye Solo is a simple tale, quietly told, and one of the best films you’ll ever see. While God is never mentioned during its 90-minute run time, it works as an eloquent parable of God’s love for fallen people. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 25, 2009 [Psalm 34:4-8]
I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame. This poor man called, and the LORD heard him; he saved him out of all his troubles. The angel of the LORD encamps around those who fear him, and he delivers them. Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him. Psalm 34:4-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Too much TV stunts children's minds
Too much TV can have a profoundly negative effect on your children's developing minds, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. Their findings show that higher levels of television viewing correlate with lower levels of academic performance; that the nature of TV stimulus may predispose some children to attention problems; and that mindless television shows may slow the development of the areas of the brain responsible for self control, moral judgment and attention.This means that too much TV can cause physical changes in your kid's brain! And this should worry any caring father. So if your children are watching too much television, turn it off. Hand them a book, and by doing so, you will turn on their minds. For more on limiting television for your children, read this.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What are some fun activities we can do together instead of watch television? [Link]
Staying motivated
Sometimes to get to something you love, you have to go through something you hate. Just remember where you are going. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 24, 2009 [Hebrews 11:24-27]
By faith Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh's daughter. He chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a short time. He regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of Egypt, because he was looking ahead to his reward. By faith he left Egypt, not fearing the king's anger; he persevered because he saw him who is invisible. Hebrews 11:24-27 NIV Listen [Link]
Do you have a "difficult marriage"?
Relationships, especially marital relationships, can present many challenges. What separates successful marriages from non-successful ones is the commitment to work through difficulties. So if you're struggling in your relationship with your wife, realize you're not alone. Every husband is. And our wives are struggling with us. The key is to realize that you can have a satisfying marriage if you're willing to work at it. You just need grit and a few tools. The first step is learning how to argue well. Take a look at this lighthearted Monty Python video about arguing, and then for some real-life tips on resolving conflict, read this. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: How can we do a better job of arguing? [Link]
It Promises Far Too Little: The False Gospel of Prosperity Theology
God never assures his people of material abundance or physical health. Instead, Christians are promised the riches of Christ. [Link]
How You Can Make a Fresh Start
No matter how stuck you may have become, you can move forward with God’s help. Here's how. [Link]
Courageous Worship
How worship leader James Ward makes music integral to New City Fellowship's Christian mission. [Link]
Learning Patience from the Big-Time Operator
I know God's conception of time varies greatly from mine. I know a thousand years with the Lord is as a day. I know God takes the long-term view of temporal events. I know all that; I just don't like it very much. [Link]
Pray for Your Adult Children
Praying for your adult children will connect you to the only perfect Parent – God – and invite Him to act powerfully in their lives… [Link]
Love, But Not “In Love”
Often it is the kiss of death. One says to the other, “I love you, but I’m no longer in love with you…” [Link]
The Eye of a Naturalist: Teaching Your Child to Observe
As a nature journalist and homeschooling mom, I’ve learned to take advantage of “divine appointments” with God’s creation. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 23, 2009 [Romans 13:8-10]
Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'Do not commit adultery,' 'Do not murder,' 'Do not steal,' 'Do not covet,' and whatever other commandment there may be, are summed up in this one rule: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:8-10 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 22, 2009 [Psalm 121:1-8]
I lift up my eyes to the hills–where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip–he who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD watches over you–the LORD is your shade at your right hand; the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD will keep you from all harm–he will watch over your life; the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore. Psalm 121:1-8 NIV [Link]
Back taxes and jail
This caller's son hasn't paid taxes in years? [Link]
"Post Grad" Doesn't Earn High Marks in Reality
Instead of giving the storyline the gravitas it deserves, Post Grad quickly goes Little Miss Sunshine with way too much screen time dedicated to the main character's quirky family, the sort only dreamed up for movies in the first place. [Link]
When Someone Else Gets What We Want
One sure indicator as to whether or not a good desire has morphed into an idol is how we respond when someone else gets the very thing that we want but don’t have… [Link]
The Hidden Reality of Abortion — Empowering Men
As Richard Stith argues, the legalization of abortion "was supposed to grant enormous freedom to women, but it has had the perverse result of freeing men and trapping women." [Link]
One for You, One for Me: Shanghai's Two-Child Policy
China is looking “nervously” at neighboring Japan, whose low birthrate and aging population are undermining its post-war economic miracle. [Link]
Healthcare Controversy Comes to My Hometown
While passing through the two blocks that make up the downtown area of Grove City, Pa., I saw something you rarely ever see in my hometown—people holding protest signs. [Link]
Jonny Diaz Debuts with More Beautiful You
On his debut More Beautiful You, Jonny Diaz churns out a stalwart set of tracks, starting with the single “More Beautiful You.” It’s a track promoting a not-so-original message about true beauty, but nonetheless still has a delightful hook. [Link]
Until June: A Place of Their Own
They rode to the top of the charts for 28 straight weeks, but you may have never heard of Until June. Of course, those charts were the pop charts in Greece, so perhaps it makes sense that the L.A. piano-pop trio slipped under your listening radar. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 21, 2009 [1 Corinthians 3:11-14]
For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man's work. If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. 1 Corinthians 3:11-14 NIV Listen [Link]
How your kids should handle a bully
Yesterday we talked about what a traumatic experience being bullied is, and how you should react as a father. Today, here are a few tips for your kids. First, have your kids make their friends aware of the bullying situation. That way there can be a united front – bullies have a hard time getting their way with groups. Then, teach your kids how to graciously stand up for themselves verbally, without getting into a fight. And this may include just ignoring the bully. Finally, if the teasing starts getting out of hand, you or your child can let a teacher know, in confidence, what's going on and the teacher can make sure to monitor the situation. Bullies enjoy bullying because it gets them attention. But the attention of school officials might be just the remedy for these mini-dictators. For some practical tips on how to handle bullying, and when to get help, read this tip sheet from our motherhood program, iMOM.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: If a kid in your class is always being really mean to you or one of your friends, what do you think you should do? [Link]
Open-Heart Surgery and Still Got of Debt!
Getting out of debt "it has changed who we are as people, enriched our marriage, taught our children valuable life lessons," Peter and Ginger said. [Link]
I Didn't Want to Damage My Credit
"To further complicate the problem, I continued to use the credit card for emergencies when I expected to have extra income to pay it off," Delvin said. [Link]
A bigger baby emergency fund
Sean presents a plan that might mean skipping a Baby Step. Does Dave agree with her special situation? [Link]
A Plea for Grace in the Debate
I am not smart enough to decide what God has called people to do. If He has placed a desire for people to impact the culture through political action I am not about to question their motives. But I do believe that those of us who claim the name of Jesus need to communicate our views with grace and compassion. [Link]
A Lover’s Quarrel with the Evangelical Church
“My name is Warren, and I’m a recovering evangelical.” There are plenty of books today that begin in roughly this way—biographies by Franky Schaeffer and Bart Ehrman come to mind. But Warren Cole Smith is different in that he remains an evangelical, he remains a professed Christian. His recovery from evangelicalism does not involve tossing away the faith, as others have prescribed. [Link]
A Happy Church is a Healthy Church?
"God wants us to be happy." Hmmm. I wonder if that really is the message the Man of Sorrows wants us to take as the operating motif of our discipleship. [Link]
Telling Mary's Story: Orissa One Year Later
Sunday marks on year since the outbreak of horrific violence against Christians in Orissa, India. As a reminder, we want to share a portion of one woman's story. [Link]
Sleepy, "Lazy" Teenagers?
A simple approach to improving both discipline and academics in schools is to start the school day later. [Link]
The Power of Forgiveness
Let’s consider some truths that can help us move forward from the ledge of bitterness and unforgiveness… [Link]
Is He the Marrying Kind?
Being intentional about who you spend significant time with can save you heartache and perhaps nudge you closer to finding your future mate. To find a prospective mate or to move a relationship forward, first look for the right kind of man: the marrying kind. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 20, 2009 [Mark 9:38-41]
'Teacher,' said John, 'we saw a man driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us.' 'Do not stop him,' Jesus said. 'No one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, for whoever is not against us is for us. I tell you the truth, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to Christ will certainly not lose his reward. Mark 9:38-41 NIV Listen [Link]
Is your child getting picked on?
We all remember being in junior high and kids tormenting us on the way we dressed or the zits that surfaced on our face. Well, nothing's changed since then. If anything, things have gotten worse. At some point, your kids will be singled out and made fun of. And it will hurt. So, as a father, there are a few things you can do. First, share with your children that getting teased is a normal part of growing up and that you went through it and survived. Then, tell them that the person giving them grief is probably insecure and only thrives on putting others down. Finally, and most importantly, make sure you reinforce over and over to your child how much you love them, and reiterate all the positive things about them. Tomorrow, we'll talk specifically about how your child should respond to a bully. For more about the problem of bullying, read this. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What should you do when someone makes fun of you? [Link]
What happens with the mortgage?
Danny's smart; he knows that if his bank goes under, it doesn't mean the end of his mortgage. But what happens to it? [Link]
Let's Make Some Autumn Resolutions
Any and all resolutions for good have God’s approval—if we resolve by faith in Jesus. I would like to encourage you to make some autumn resolutions. [Link]
God is Good Even When Life is Bad
When things are going smoothly, you might not find it hard to believe that God is good. But if life takes a bad turn, you might ask, "How could a good God allow this?" Daniel can empathize. [Link]
Having God’s “More-Than-Enough”
It’s easy for me, at times, to look at what others have and be envious. But so often I forget all I do have…and that it is more than enough. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 19, 2009 [Matthew 5:44-48]
But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:44-48 NIV Listen [Link]
You as a grandfather
Believe it or not, you may be a grandfather before you know it, and one of your most valuable possessions will be the honor and respect of your children and grandchildren. Read this article and reflect on what can be… just a few, short years down the road.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Would you like to be a parent someday? Why or why not? Do you think I'll be a good grandparent? [Link]
She Colors My Day Reveals Amy Grant's Direction
While not the full-length album longtime fans have been salivating for since 2003’s Simple Things, this Mother’s Day-themed EP does provide a glimpse into Amy Grant’s current direction through two new tunes. [Link]
Fame and Family Collide Predictably in Hannah Montana
Considering the way art seems to imitate Miley Cyrus' life these days, the timing probably couldn't be better for the big-screen treatment of Hannah Montana. Not only does it solidify Cyrus' place as the ultimate good girl, but Hannah is a character Cyrus can play convincingly. [Link]
The King’s Legacy: A Story of the Wisdom of the Ages
In a land and time far from our own, there was an enchanted kingdom ruled by a benevolent and much-loved king. He had led his people through times of uncertainty and turmoil into a golden age of prosperity and peace. Read an excerpt from Jim Stovall’s latest, The King’s Legacy. [Link]
No Credit Cards! No Payments!
"All that is left to do is pay the mortgage on our home and build up a fully-funded emergency fund. It feels so amazing!" Kimberly said. [Link]
$540 for Two Months on a New Mattress
"Since we could not sleep at the thought of the $3,645 we had just added to our debt, we returned the bed, but not without paying stupid tax!" Mitchell said. [Link]
Dave Says – August 17, 2009
What goes on behind the scenes with a short sale? We're trying to buy a house that way … [Link]
Can she stay at home?
Does Jeremy have too much house for his salary, with a new baby on the way? [Link]
Ex-Prisoner Michael Vick: Employment and Second Chances
While Americans are ready, even anxious, to forgive celebrities’ transgressions, they can be downright vindictive when it comes to ordinary offenders. [Link]
Obama Is Not the Anti-Christ
Mostly we can afford to sigh and move on when videos like this are made and sent to us, but occasionally a snort of gentlemanly disgust is warranted. [Link]
Richard Doster: Focused on Fiction, Civil Rights and The South
What would you do if faced with injustice—if it meant putting your life, and the lives of your loved ones, in danger? That’s the question author Richard Doster asks in his poignant, well-written historical novel, Crossing the Lines. Read our interview. [Link]
Doing Well by Doing Good
Over the past three years, lending directly to friends, family members and even total strangers has become a popular way of earning a decent return, while helping out specific people strapped for cash… [Link]
Why Did God Do This to Me?
A reader writes, "I’m at a job that I hate mainly because I feel like every day I’m set up to fail. There’s no job satisfaction… " [Link]
Scholarships: How to Avoid the "Gotcha's"
If you are a student (or the parent of a student) fortunate and strong-willed enough to earn a scholarship, let me share a few thoughts on how to make the most of it… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 18, 2009 [Psalm 19:8-11]
The precepts of the LORD are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the LORD are radiant, giving light to the eyes. The fear of the LORD is pure, enduring forever. The ordinances of the LORD are sure and altogether righteous. They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the comb. By them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward. Psalm 19:8-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Interrupted
What happens when Jesus interrupts the average life? Interrupted encourages believers to ask if their lives bring integrity to the gospel. Follow the faith journey of author and fellow disciplemaker Jen Hatmaker and rediscover Jesus among the least of us. [Link]
Have you laid the ground rules for dating?
If your kids are approaching those teenage dating years, let them know well in advance what's expected from them. But first, you have to decide what your game plan is. You may want to consider only having your children group date until they're a certain age, having your child's boyfriend or girlfriend over to your house often so you really get to know them, and setting a reasonable curfew hour. You'll find it much easier to get all these rules set down ahead of time – before your kids fall "madly in love."There are alternatives to traditional teen dating. Find out more here. Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: What dating guidelines should we set for our kids as they approach their teens? [Link]
How much he spends
Dave gets ticked with Lisa's husband over how he handles money. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 17, 2009 [2 Timothy 4:1-3]
In the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, and in view of his appearing and his kingdom, I give you this charge: Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage–with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. 2 Timothy 4:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Do you believe in miracles?
It has been called the greatest miracle in all of sports history, when the United States hockey team defeated the heavily-favored USSR team in the gold medal round at the 1980 Winter Olympics. This single event has been described as being the pivot point that restored American confidence and got us out of a deep recession.Enjoy watching the last 5 minutes of this "miraculous" game with your kids and talk to them about what can happen when you believe you can achieve, no matter how difficult the circumstances Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: When you are facing a very tough situation, how should you act? [Link]
Special Needs, Special Love
Many families out there know what it means to have kids with real special needs, families whose daily experiences, and choices in response to those experiences, give the rest of us hope that life can still go on, hope can still ring true… [Link]
How to Plan for a Successful Marriage
What is the “magic formula” for a long and happy life together? [Link]
Men: Manage Your Anger Like Jesus Did
Thanks to your relationship with Jesus, you can control your anger so it won’t control you. [Link]
Money-Saving Lessons from a Single Mom
The most valuable financial gift my mom gave me didn’t cost her a cent. It was the gift of frugality… [Link]
Did the Crusades Get a Bum Rap?
"I get tired of people apologizing for the Crusades, like Christians were a bunch of dirty looters that went over there and killed everybody," says author Rodney Stark. "It just wasn't true." [Link]
The Preacher's Greatest Temptation
There's something self-righteous and hypocritical within us that cries out for the preacher to "let those other people have it!" But this type of sermonizing is less prophetic and more cheap preaching. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 16, 2009 [James 1:12]
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. James 1:12 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 15, 2009 [Romans 8:38-39]
For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39 NIV [Link]
The Little Victories Keep Us Going
"It seemed so out of reach at first, but after paying off the dog, the credit card and the truck, we're pumped!" Jenny said. [Link]
Say No To Cosigning
Cosigning for someone – even your child – is not a good idea. Why? Because debt like this can easily ruin relationships like it did for Joanne. [Link]
Rebuilding credit
Rebuilding your credit is only for broke people who want to keep living off of credit. [Link]
Parenting Adult Children: Six Steps to Sanity
Sanity is what we gain when we stop focusing on our adult children and begin to focus on changing our own attitudes and behaviors… [Link]
Are You Missing Your Life?
Are you missing your own life? If you’re too busy to savor the moments that can become memories to treasure, you’re missing out on the life God wants you to enjoy… [Link]
Will Man Rob God?
How is it possible that somebody who has given his life to Christ can withhold their financial gifts from Him? [Link]
The Secret to Winning Spiritual Wars
Sometimes, when the pain is very deep, you need someone to do your praying for you. The Bible has a name for these people: intercessors. [Link]
"District 9" Disappoints Despite Inspired Genre Mash-Up
In an inspired genre mash-up of sci-fi, horror and documentary styles, District 9 looks to tackle relevant themes related to the War on Terror (and the U.S. detention center at Guantanamo Bay, specifically) through a parabolic lens. [Link]
Visually Dazzling "Ponyo" Worth a Peek
Inspired by Hans Christian Andersen's The Little Mermaid, Ponyo also includes some distinctive, dazzling visuals—a trademark of director Hiyao Miyazaki—but its magical moments don't overcome its weaknesses in storytelling. [Link]
"Time Traveler's Wife" Gets Lost in Translation
There's plenty that's lost in translation from book to the big screen in The Time Traveler's Wife—like a rhyme or reason to the time travel itself, anything in the way of character development, or depth of human emotion. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 14, 2009 [Hebrews 13:15-17]
Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise–the fruit of lips that confess his name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased. Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you. Hebrews 13:15-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Relishing repetition
If there's one constant about raising small children, it's seeing how much they enjoy repetition. A small boy may climb up and go down a slide all afternoon and be perfectly content. A young girl may enjoy jumping rope in the driveway for hours. You see, for a child, there's an incredible capacity for wonder in doing what we adults see as trivial. There's quite a temptation for parents to think we always have to entertain our kids or plop them in front of the newest TV cartoon. But don't underestimate the simple things in life that can bring them so much joy. It's the capacity to experience wonder that makes a child's life so wonderful.For more on fathering your pre-schooler, read this.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What is your favorite thing to do outside? [Link]
I Wasted $105 on a Headlight
"Talk about feeling like an idiot — an idiot that was out an extra $105!" Sarah said. [Link]
On Our Way to an Early and Dignified Retirement
"Baby Step 6, which we are currently on, is on hold until my husband graduates from college and gets another job!" Laura said. [Link]
A wrong way to pay off
Misty has a great way to pay off her car loan and free up budget money, or so she thinks. [Link]
With God, There is Always More to Know
Some readers asked if I could suggest some common characteristics of seekers who DO find God. A windy night off the coast of Washington state provided some answers… [Link]
Gay Versus Christian and Gay Christians
Christians, even when they try to engage the gay community relationally, are prone to operate with a caricature understanding of the gay apologetic and a false sense of understanding. Evangelical, straight, and living in the heart of Chicago's gay community, Andrew Marin offers a new way to elevate the conversation. [Link]
Apply Heat to Half-Baked Health Care Reform
A colleague of mine says that when politicians feel the heat, they see the light. That's why we need to make this summer a hot one for our elected leaders. [Link]
Polyamory — The Perfectly Plural Postmodern Condition
The ultimate sign of our moral confusion becomes evident when virtually no one appears ready to condemn polyamory as immoral. [Link]
Back-to-School Shopping Shouldn't Leave You Broke
I know that you are anxious to get your kids back into school, but there is no need to take out a second mortgage. Instead, use some of these money-saving tips! [Link]
Bringing Home Baby
Welcoming a new child into the family is a joyous occasion for all, but the additional expense associated with a new bundle of joy can also be a big worry for some parents, especially in this economy… [Link]
Godly Sorrow: The First Step to Healing a Hurting Marriage
“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regrets.” (2 Corinthians 7:10) As I reflect on this Scripture, I suggest the following actions for true healing in a hurting marriage… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 13, 2009 [Hebrews 4:14-16]
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are–yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:14-16 NIV Listen [Link]
Parenting by personality type
You've probably heard a lot of about strong-willed children. (You may even be raising one or two!) But what about the unmotivated or more passive child? And did you know that each one responds to a different style of parenting?Each child's temperament holds both positive and negative qualities. While strong-willed children can sometimes be defiant and rebellious, they can also be determined, highly motivated and persistent; qualities that, when channeled correctly, can make them excellent leaders. The unmotivated or passive child may lack the ability to stand up for themselves, make firm decisions, withstand temptations or see tasks through to completion, but they also may be more cooperative, flexible and generally easier to get along with. Here's some advice on identifying your child's personality type, and what you can do as a parent to help create a harmonious and productive balance of their positive and negative traits.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think we're doing a good job interacting differently with our children based on their different personality types? [Link]
Apply Heat to Half-Baked Health Care Reform
A colleague of mine says that when politicians feel the heat, they see the light. That's why we need to make this summer a hot one for our elected leaders. [Link]
Polyamory — The Perfectly Plural Postmodern Condition
The ultimate sign of our moral confusion becomes evident when virtually no one appears ready to condemn polyamory as immoral. [Link]
A raise in the works
A listener wants to know how to go about asking for a pay raise. [Link]
The Cooking Creature — A Call for Recovered Wisdom
Christianity contributes a distinctive understanding of the importance of food and, by extension, the importance of cooking and hospitality. [Link]
Change Your Marriage from Distressed to De-Stressed
As if just living on this planet that hurls 67,000 miles each and every hour through space isn’t stressful enough, building a lasting relationship with someone else brings on a whole new set of problems… [Link]
Worship Wars: How Do We Determine Musical Excellence?
What makes worship music good or bad? I’ll tell you this—it’s more than simply a matter of taste. [Link]
Pakistani Christians Worldwide Protest Gojra Killings
Canadian Pakistani Christians on Saturday (August 
assembled in front of Legislative Assembly of Ontario to condemn recent incidents of violence against Pakistani Christians. [Link]
"G.I. Joe" Rolls Snake Eyes
G.I. Joe's reported $175 million budget can be seen up on the screen, as some of the film's special effects are effectively eye-catching. But viewers are left with a story that feels half-formed at best. Apparently not much of that $175 million went to the screenwriters. [Link]
Christy Nockels Shines on Life Light Up
While her work with Watermark should be remembered, Life Light Up takes Christy Nockels’ work as a worship leader to a brand-new level. Her voice is as pure as it is powerful, beautifully matching the spirit of each song. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 12, 2009 [James 1:23-25]
Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it–he will be blessed in what he does. James 1:23-25 NIV Listen [Link]
Teens and "sexting"
According to the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, one in five teens have sent a naked picture of themselves by "sexting" – using a cell phone to transmit the image; or by posting it on the Internet. That means your child or one of your child's friends has engaged in this sad practice. Many teens are swimming in a sea of sexual immorality and there is really only one way to combat it – open communication with your adolescent. Make sure you share your attitudes about sex openly, honestly and frequently. To find out how, read this article. To see the devastation that sexting caused in one girl's life, take a look at this video.Huddle up and ask your teens tonight: Do you know of anyone that has "sexted"? What do you think about it? [Link]
Tracking debit transactions
Diane needs help with how to keep her checkbook register in order with debit card purchases. [Link]
Dave Says – August 10, 2009
My husband and I are not on the same page when it comes to money and our three teenage daughters … [Link]
Nine Reasons Why Christ Must Return
The Bible is neither vague nor equivocal on the prophetic promise of Christ's return. Here are nine reasons from Scripture by which you and your congregation can be certain of Jesus' Second Coming. [Link]
Choose to Live Extraordinarily
God calls each of us—many out of what we think are our mundane everyday lives, to do something extraordinary and to really live, for Him. So who and what are you living for today? And how deep are you choosing to live your life? [Link]
Job, Jesus, the Devil and Me
Most people believe in God; not nearly as many believe in the devil. Even those who do tend to believe he is merely the embodiment of the "equal and opposite" force to God in the universe. And that's just not true. [Link]
What are Your Patterns?
What is the first thing you do when your eyes open each morning? What are your first thoughts? Is your attitude Christ-like, or are you conformed to the patterns of this world? [Link]
Preparing for When the Power Goes Out
Preparing for a power failure is a wise investment. Here's a rundown of the top preparation categories, plus ballpark figures of what a "readiness investment" is likely to cost… [Link]
Finance Q&A: How Can I Control My Spending?
Dear Deborah: I struggle every month to pay my bills. I’m finding that my impulse buying is getting out of hand… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 11, 2009 [Galatians 5:4-6]
You who are trying to be justified by law have been alienated from Christ; you have fallen away from grace. But by faith we eagerly await through the Spirit the righteousness for which we hope. For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision has any value. The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love. Galatians 5:4-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Mend, don't end your marriage
Is your marriage so far down the tubes you think it would be better to get out? Don't. Eighty-six percent of unhappily married people who stick it out find that, five years later, their marriages are happier, according to an analysis of the National Survey of Families and Households. Most say they've become very happy indeed. In fact, nearly three-fifths of those who said their marriage was unhappy in the late '90s but stayed married anyway, rated this same marriage as either "very happy" or "quite happy" when interviewed again in the early 2000s. What changed? Simply put, they determined to work through their problems. For the sake of your family and your future happiness, mend, don't end your marriage.Read this eye-opening article and then share with us how you rescued your marital relationship. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: How can we forever take the word "divorce" out of our relationship? [Link]
Why Potential Doesn't Equal Success
How can teens—who have been given so much from their Christian parents, good churches, and godly examples—chuck it all in favor of the temporary pleasures of sin? [Link]
Bad moves at church
Lana and her husband are debt free, but their new church is not and going further into the hole. Dave understands, but reminds her to be an influence, not a thorn. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 10, 2009 [2 Corinthians 3:15-18]
Even to this day when Moses is read, a veil covers their hearts. But whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:15-18 NIV Listen [Link]
True Success
Here is Ralph Waldo Emerson's definition of success: "To laugh often and much, to win respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded." How successful are you as a father? Have your kids grade you. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: When I say the word "successful," what does it mean to you? [Link]
10 Ways to Recover and Reconnect With Your Spouse
There will be emotional meltdowns, communication faux paus and plain old mistakes in your marriage so you need to be good at recovering, recuperating and reconnecting. Consider these ten ways to mend the fence after a marital meltdown. [Link]
Making Time For Family
With the fast pace that we live, how do we make time for those we love? As the mother of eight fast-moving children, I’ve found some simple solutions to increasing your family time… [Link]
Settling for Less Than the Best
You know the routine. You’ve been dating a guy for a year and a half. He’s nice enough, your friends and family like him, but, like a stale piece of gum, the zip isn’t there. [Link]
Spiritual Anthrax: Why God's Man Must Not Blend
If you think God's values and the world's values can coexist, think again. Blending with the world is not how a man of God follows Jesus. [Link]
Redeem Arts & Culture through Divine Inspiration
Christians, by definition of bearing the imprint of God, are creative people. The arts and culture were once our domain. To reestablish a partnership with the creative work God is doing, check these tips for Finding Divine Inspiration. [Link]
"Bread and Circuses" Don't Help Poverty in Washington, D.C.
If anyone in Congress is thinking about these policies regarding one of America’s most poverty-stricken cities, it must be a very twisted thought process. [Link]
Sexual Anarchy: America's Demise?
Is sexuality simply a private matter with no consequences for society? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 9, 2009 [1 John 1:5-7]
This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live by the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. 1 John 1:5-7 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 8, 2009 [James 3:13-17]
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such 'wisdom' does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. James 3:13-17 NIV [Link]
Bad marriage and parenting
Dave thinks there is a bigger problem in this caller's marriage than just some parent issues. [Link]
12 Traits of an Abusive Relationship
In an attempt to help singles avoid a destructive relationship or a painful marriage I offer insight on how to detect a toxic, abusive person… [Link]
What Are We Singing: Lead Me to the Cross
Do you turn on the TV or radio first thing when you walk into the house? Does quiet drive you bonkers? Contemporary hymn Lead Me to the Cross suggests an alternative with the line, "Quiet my soul remember…" [Link]
Pakistani Christians Strive for Justice Following Onslaught
A standoff between Pakistani officials and Christians protesters ended with officials finally consenting to file a complaint against key Muslim clerics. [Link]
Why Pastors Should Care About Global Warming Policy
While on the surface global warming alarmism might seem like a peripheral issue, it has profound spiritual, moral, and economic implications for believers — and especially the poor — that pastors can ill afford to ignore. [Link]
Michael Snyder: His Writing and His Return Policy
Michael Snyder understands good characters. In his debut novel, I Am Russell Fink, he introduced us to hypochondriac Russell Fink. In his second book, Return Policy, he serves up three new characters—equally distinct and comical, though more heart-wrenching. [Link]
9 Questions with Philmont
This Beautiful Republic's Ben gets the inside scoop on Philmont, an impressive new act on ForeFront Records. Philmont front man Scott Taube answers Olin's questions in this very special CMCentral.com artist-to-artist interview. [Link]
"Julie & Julia" Serves Up a Delicious Comedic Diversion
In addition to fantastic acting from all of the leads (Meryl Streep, Amy Adams, Stanley Tucci), the skillful direction and winning screenplay from Nora Ephron help seal the winsome appeal of Julie & Julia. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, August 7, 2009 [Isaiah 61:1-2]
The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, Isaiah 61:1-2 NIV Listen [Link]
Strong fathers, strong daughters
Pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker says that the best thing in the world for girls, is to have a father who loves them. Find out why by watching this. Huddle up with your daughters tonight and give them each a big bear hug. [Link]
We Said Goodbye to Over $40,000 in Student Loans
"Now, less than one year after getting married, we are totally debt-free and starting out on the right track," Steve and Nikki said. [Link]
Government Grants Infomercial Scam
I fell for an infomercial that offered tools for only $3.95 to help you apply for thousands of dollars in federal grants that never had to be repaid. [Link]
For how long should I rent?
Abby just moved into town and doesn't know how long she should wait before buying a house. [Link]
So Help Me, God: The Expectation of Leadership
Most office-holders begin their term by swearing to serve the people, "So help me, God." Do we therefore have a right to expect more of our political leaders? Should they be held to a higher standard than mere pragmatism? [Link]
The Gospel of Don Quixote – Facing the Accuser
The accuser in the play is called the Knight of Mirrors. Don’t most of us have that fear of being exposed to God and to others? We have an accuser in our life as well. [Link]
Change the Way You Talk to Yourself
When you carry on conversations with yourself in your mind, does what you're telling yourself reflect biblical truth? [Link]
Worship as Refuge
Worship leader John Chisum explores the benefits that come when we remember, recite and take refuge in worship. [Link]
Teaching Kids About God, Authority, and Values
Today’s culture, and in some cases, today’s parenting approaches both conspire to make raising kids to embrace Biblical, healthy morals and values a huge challenge… [Link]
Cultivating Real Intimacy between a Man and a Woman
A wise wife of goodwill, who uses her innate influence to love and to heal in facilitating emotional closeness, is a source of magnificent power in creating marital intimacy… [Link]
The Myth of Simplicity – Part 2
The myth of simplicity suggests that there should be a simple answer and there is—"Jesus loves me, this I know." Rather than let my circumstances speak to me of God’s love, I speak into my circumstances—God’s love. [Link]
Want to get two great things accomplished at once?
Why not take your kids out shopping for a special present for Mom? It doesn't have to be your anniversary or Christmas. Just a nice token of appreciation for how much she sacrifices for the family each and every day. It will make her day and allow you to spend some great quality time with your kids. So clean out the mini-van, load up the kids and head out to the mall this weekend. It will be time well spent. Need to reinvent date night with your wife? Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What should we get for Mom and where should we go to get it? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, August 6, 2009 [Psalm 34:9-14]
Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies. Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. Psalm 34:9-14 NIV Listen [Link]
We Sold Our SUV
"We put my car on Craigslist, praying that in today's market someone would want a large SUV. At the bottom of the Craigslist ad, I wrote, 'Dave says it's gotta go!'" [Link]
Credit Card Investment Advice
"It took several months and tens of thousands of dollars in losses for it to finally sink in that following the slick-sounding advice of those investment newsletters was just plain stupid," Timothy said. [Link]
The deal from the bank
After a foreclosure and an auction, Susan is thinking of beating up the bank on the price of a house that she wants. [Link]
Mark Steele: Man on a Christianish Mission
These days, many Christians embrace a lukewarm spirituality—something a little more Christianish. In his latest book, author Mark Steele examines his own journey of how he’s ditching the “ish” and learning what it means to live like Christ. [Link]
South Korea Tries to Save Its Future – By Having Babies
South Koreans are being urged to have more babies. But you won’t believe who’s doing the urging. [Link]
Twitterdom vs. Wisdom?
I suggest that this massive addiction to information leads us away from wisdom, not toward it, creating what author Shane Hill calls “a permanent puberty of the mind.” [Link]
Homosexuality: Know the Truth and Speak It with Compassion
Homosexuality is here to stay. In fact, it's becoming more a part of our culture every day. For Christians, the long-term plan with homosexuals should be obvious: Help them to know Christ. [Link]
Discerning Your Calling: The Influence of Others
For better or worse, our family and friends influence our biggest decisions about our life calling. We need to learn to hear God's voice among all the other voices around us… [Link]
God's Pledge of Faithfulness Deserves Our Faithfulness in Return
Your Father in heaven is committed to you! [Link]
Does Your Spending Reflect Your Values?
Every day you vote with your wallet. Where you work, where you spend, donate and even invest is a reflection of your values… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, August 5, 2009 [Philippians 4:11-13]
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:11-13 NIV Listen [Link]
Caught your child doing something they shouldn't?
Are they at an age where they can read and write complete sentences? Rather than just giving them time-out, why not have them put together an essay on what they did wrong and how they will abstain from this action in the future? Writing a paper not only will force your kids to think about their indiscretion, but will enhance their literary skill as well. You may even ask them to do a little research to boot. Make sure the essay is done to the best of their ability. And let them know they are forgiven and loved. For tips on having your kids write an essay, read this. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Should we start having our kids write essays when they disobey? What should the guidelines be? [Link]
Discerning Your Calling: The Influence of Others
For better or worse, our family and friends influence our biggest decisions about our life calling. We need to learn to hear God's voice among all the other voices around us… [Link]
God's Pledge of Faithfulness Deserves Our Faithfulness in Return
Your Father in heaven is committed to you! [Link]
Does Your Spending Reflect Your Values?
Every day you vote with your wallet. Where you work, where you spend, donate and even invest is a reflection of your values… [Link]
Social Security opt out
Is it in the best interest of Julie's family if her pastor husband opts out of Social Security? [Link]
Building Marital Security in a Culture of Divorce
Dr. Gary Smalley and his wife, Norma, share how they fortify their marriage in a society where roughly half of marriages end in divorce. [Link]
A Barbecue for God
The next time you throw a party, don’t worry about hosting the smart set or the most important people at your church. [Link]
The Episcopalians' Problem — And Ours
Unless we protect the individual conscience before God from the run-away individualism and subjectivity that are rampant in our culture, we risk following the Episcopal Church to the cul de sac. [Link]
Ghostwriter Delivers Ghosts and Gore with a Dash of God
Ghostwriter is Christian horror-with an emphasis on horror-and fills the void as a sanitized substitute for Stephen King. If you like your ghosts and gore with a dash of God, this book may be the chilled dish you've been craving. [Link]
The Soloist Is a Pitch Perfect Portrayal of Grace
The Soloist entertains and inspires with its pitch-perfect portrayal of redemption between an unlikely duo. And for Christians and otherwise, it’s also a powerful reminder that authenticity and not bailing when the going gets tough is always the best way to live. [Link]
Fast-Paced Race to Witch Mountain Has a Few Sci-Fi Charms
Instead of shooting for a straight remake, filmmakers prefer to call the latest installment a "reimagining." And given the slightly cheesy, low-grade special effects of Race to Witch Mountain’s predecessor, that's probably accurate. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, August 4, 2009 [1 Thessalonians 5:18-23]
Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not put out the Spirit's fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil. May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Thessalonians 5:18-23 NIV Listen [Link]
Courage knows no culture
From Scottish freedom fighter William Wallace in 1301 to the Tiananmen Square uprising in China in 1989, courage transcends time and culture. Watch this video and then ask yourself, "What have I done lately that was courageous?" Courage is contagious, and your kids are always watching. Take a risk in standing up for what is right and help raise a new generation of heroes.Huddle up and ask your children tonight: What is courage? Why should we have it? [Link]
So Help Me, God: The Expectation of Leadership
Most office-holders begin their term by swearing to serve the people, "So help me, God." Do we therefore have a right to expect more of our political leaders? Should they be held to a higher standard than mere pragmatism? [Link]
The Episcopalians' Problem — And Ours
Unless we protect the individual conscience before God from the run-away individualism and subjectivity that are rampant in our culture, we risk following the Episcopal Church to the cul de sac. [Link]
Celebrating Our First Anniversary Debt Free
"Now that we are done paying off our debts, we can begin to really save for a down payment on our first house!" Jessica said. [Link]
I Missed Out on $900 from Uncle Sam
"All I can say is, I should have called an Endorsed Local Provider for my tax services!" Brandon said. [Link]
Dave Says – August 3, 2009
I started a small business a few years ago. Since then, it's grown larger than I anticipated … [Link]
Using the IRA to avoid bankruptcy
The bottom line is that Jason needs to find a long-term solution and any temporary job, instead of cashing out the IRA. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, August 3, 2009 [Ephesians 5:1-4]
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. Ephesians 5:1-4 NIV Listen [Link]
Tony Dungy and fishing
Early fall provides glorious weather, perfect for taking your kids fishing. And, as a father, while you may take your children fishing, it's not really the fish you're after. It's the memories and conversation. Find out more about the importance of fishing with your kids from expert angler Tony Dungy. And for some practical advice about fishing with kids, read this.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: When and where would you like to go fishing? [Link]
Christian Missions in the Third Millennium
Now facing its third millennium, the Christian church faces a moment of great historical importance and opportunity. [Link]
Courage of Shadow
Why does the bad guy always seem to have not just one but two girls? [Link]
Trusting God in the “Accidents”
Have you ever asked, “Why did this have to happen now?” [Link]
Be Not Afraid
It’s so natural to be afraid even though the Bible tells us over 300 times ”be not afraid.” This prayer gets to the heart of why Christians can live fearlessly. [Link]
Praying for Marriage: Reflections on a Joy-Filled Day
After our celebration, I go back to praying—for my three unmarried children, our newlyweds, and the institution of marriage itself. [Link]
Develop a Family Vision
We need to set a family vision clearly before our children – and you can't do that with just a set of rules. [Link]
The Myth of Simplicity – Part 1
Relationships should not be as complicated as sin has made them but they should not be as simple as 1-2-3. At the core of each Christians life is a belief, a confident faith that God is working on our behalf. So we try, knowing that we want only what is of Him. This is the simplicity I embrace. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, August 2, 2009 [2 Timothy 2:22-26]
Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will. 2 Timothy 2:22-26 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, August 1, 2009 [Ezekiel 39:7-8]
'I will make known my holy name among my people Israel. I will no longer let my holy name be profaned, and the nations will know that I the LORD am the Holy One in Israel. It is coming! It will surely take place, declares the Sovereign LORD. This is the day I have spoken of.' Ezekiel 39:7-8 NIV [Link]
"Aliens in the Attic" Lacks Anything Resembling Imagination
This movie's banal title pretty much tells you everything you need to know. There are aliens in the attic, and there's no compelling reason for the audience to care. Surely Hollywood can offer far more substantive and entertaining kiddie fare, can't it? [Link]
Hurt by daycare costs
Childcare costs are really hurting Kathy's budget, and she doesn't know how to maintain. [Link]
How Does Christian Hedonism Relate to Evangelism?
It is a tragic thing to let so many people go on without admiring God. We could be enjoying their worship of God instead of lamenting the dishonor they do to him. [Link]
The Delusion of Determinism
Various theorists have argued that our decisions and actions are determined by genetics, environmental factors, or other forces. Now, Scientific American is out with a report on a study linking determinism and moral responsibility. [Link]
To Conservatives in a Pro-Gay Culture
Two different people recently contacted me for my advice on virtually identical situations. I’ll share with you the principles I advised them to use. [Link]
Crude Humor Drags Down "Funny People"
Funny People, the latest Judd Apatow shock comedy, doesn’t have enough of a positive message to overcome its stream of bawdy stand-up comedy and profanity-laced script. Additionally, the film’s excessive length only magnifies its negative elements. [Link]
Rom-Coms Get a Refreshing Spin in "(500) Days of Summer"
While adherence to romantic-comedy genre rules and staples lacks the inspiration of its premise, the refreshing spin of (500) Days of Summer is found primarily in first-time director Marc Webb’s style. [Link]
9 Questions with Sarah Reeves
It takes one songwriter to dig deep into the soul of another. Britt Nicole serves as our latest interviewer as CMCentral recently asked various artists to interview one another. In this interview, Britt talks with new worship artist Sarah Reeves. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 31, 2009 [Colossians 3:15-17]
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:15-17 NIV Listen [Link]
A House — and a Life — Love Restored
What if you lost your home and your marriage in one day? Read Sandra's remarkable testament of God's ever-present love in impossible situations… [Link]
Bruce Smith and Rod Woodson
Former NFL stars Bruce Smith and Rod Woodson have been recently elected to the Pro Football Hall of Fame. But what moved them most were not the accomplishments on the field, but the support of their family off of it. Watch Bruce give tearful accolades to his father and Rod pay tribute to his wife. Then hear Coach Dungy's take on these two great athletes.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Why do you think family is so important event to NFL superstars? [Link]
Living Cheap and Free
"Because we had no debt and were resourceful, we were able to live on one income …. Living with no debt has been greater than I ever could have imagined," Kelly said. [Link]
Young and Stupid
"So, four years after we divorced, I was still paying for a car that I didn't want in the first place," Nicole said. Learn from her mistake now. [Link]
The balloon loan
If the second mortgage is half or less than your annual salary, Dave says to put it in Baby Step 2. [Link]
Build Solid Female Friendships
Friendships with other women have the potential to either enrich your life greatly or hurt you deeply. If navigated well, such friendships can stretch and encourage you both… [Link]
Workplace Ministry: Action Steps for the Local Church
Ideas and strategies toward becoming a workplace ministry-friendly church that mobilizes men and women. [Link]
Love Believes All Things
I now want to take up Paul’s charge that “love believes all things.” Once again, Paul is speaking about our relationships within the body of Christ. Paul is not calling for a foolish gullibility. However, being guarded against the possibility of being taken advantage of is not correct either. If love believes all things and love is our motivation, then suspicion has no place. If one has a need and we are able to meet that need, we do so without any expectation (see Matthew 5:41). You may be taken advantage of; you may suffer a loss. You may even look foolish to the world for doing so. So what? [Link]
Quality Control: Imago Dei and Health Care Costs
Is a teenager more valuable than an 85-year-old? The allocation of health care can become an occasion for the strong to impose their will on the weak. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 30, 2009 [Psalm 100:2-5]
Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his ; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations. Psalm 100:2-5 NIV Listen [Link]
Your greatest memorial
Dr. Frederic J. Baur was very pleased that he had designed the container used presently by Pringles potato chips. An inventor of many things, Baur was proudest of this one, and held the patent on it. So he asked his family to bury him in one, which they did. Part of his cremated remains was put in a Pringles can, and the rest of him in a regular urn.Many of us, when we die, may not have such an unusual funeral, but whether we're buried in a casket or a can, it's what we did with our lives that will truly be the greatest memorial. And one of the indicators of a great life is the cherished memories of you held by your wife and kids. So, if you are reading this e-mail, your heart is still pumping and your brain is still generating waves. That means you still have time to make great memories. Plan something meaningful with your family this weekend.For ten tips to better family time, read this. Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: If we could do one thing fun and free this weekend, what would it be? [Link]
If Money Were No Object…
In as much as you may think you really would lie around the house, eat Twinkies and watch Seinfeld reruns – my observation is that no one enjoys doing that for more than a couple of weeks… [Link]
Organize Your Day Well
When you reach each evening and reflect on your day, are you fulfilled or frustrated? [Link]
The Assets We Have in Our Hands Today are All We Need
As entrepreneurs we quite often give much thought to wishing we had more of certain assets than we have, for we believe that if we had more we could do so much more… [Link]
We Paid for a Graduation Trip, Wedding and More!
"Besides paying off $24,000 in debt and growing our emergency fund, we anticipated our son's graduation from the U.S. Air Force Academy in May 2009," Brenda said. [Link]
No Interest Financing Is Still Financing
"Being the nerd of the family, I talked my wife into signing up for 18-months-no-interest financing," Thomas said. Not a good idea. [Link]
Testimonial by Thomas
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A quick payoff
James thinks he can borrow 75 grand to open a bakery and then pay it off in six months. Dave says that nothing is sure in business. [Link]
He Said-She Said: What Can the Church Do for Singles?
A reader asks: "Why does it seem most churches focus so much on married couples? And what can singles do to fit in better?" Find out how "he" and "she" have answered and what they have to say about a single’s role in the Church. [Link]
Finding Peace in Times of Distress
Where do you run when you need peace? Is your first response to go looking for a person or to pick up the phone? [Link]
Faith is a Verb
Wouldn't it be an awful thing to have said about your home, family, church, or self that Jesus couldn't do much there "because of unbelief"? [Link]
The Power of Inward Perception
How the Holy Spirit guides you through challenging times. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 29, 2009 [Ephesians 2:4-7]
But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions–it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. Ephesians 2:4-7 NIV Listen [Link]
Role models
Former Illinois governor Rod Blagojevich might be the fourth out of the state's last eight governors to go to jail. It's not a legacy Abraham Lincoln would have wanted his state to have. But the problem is bigger than modern-day Illinois politicians. It seems that character is in short-supply all over America. Whether it's athletes, politicians, actors, businessmen or even clergy, it seems our kids have slim pickings when it comes to role models. Hear why Coach Dungy thinks there are so few role models today and why it's important that you are one of them to your children….Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think I am a good role model for our kids? [Link]
Cultivate Relationships in the Middle of Motherhood’s Chaos
Becoming a mom changes your life in ways that significantly affect all of your relationships – with God, yourself, and every other person in your life… [Link]
Easy On The Emotions!
Losing perspective during times of heightened emotion is nothing new. Elijah wanted to kill himself when in the midst of heightened discouragement. Thankfully, there are simple tools we can apply when in danger of losing perspective… [Link]
The Secret to a Lasting Marriage: Embrace Imperfection
You know, life is full of imperfect things…and imperfect people. But somehow in the past 37 years, Jack and I have learned to accept the imperfections in each other… [Link]
Dave Says – July 27, 2009
My boyfriend was supposed to help me pay for my car … [Link]
These parents are out of line
Jim's parents have a serious attitude problem, especially considering how he gives money. [Link]
The Gospel of Oppression? Jimmy Carter on Religion
Carter seems to draw a parallel between teaching that gives women different roles than men and the horrors of forced prostitution, genital mutilation, rape, and slavery. [Link]
When it Does Not Pay to be Cheap
Those of us trying to reduce our spending often think, "If cheap is good, then cheaper must be even better." As noble as that thought might seem — and it pains me to admit it — that is not always true… [Link]
Motives Matter in the Workplace
“Motives are weighed by the Lord” (Proverbs 16:2). What lurks in our hearts can either position us for promotion or prevent us from receiving God’s finest… [Link]
Two Couples, Two Ways of Handling Money
How much you have is not always a function of how much you make. Free-spiritedly riding the financial wave from week to week is both risky and restrictive. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 28, 2009 [Hebrews 12:7-10]
Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. Hebrews 12:7-10 NIV Listen [Link]
What? Shop with my wife?!!
It's no mystery that most women enjoy the shopping experience. If you're like most men, you shop with the "hunter" mentality – to get what you need as quickly as possible and get back to your cave, and shopping with your wife can tend to frustrate this plan of yours. Instead, look at occasionally shopping with your wife as another way to spend quality time with her. When you go shopping with her, make communication and fun your main priority… and enjoy a nice dinner afterwards. You'll have a very happy wife and an overall pleasant experience.Speaking of shopping, have you and your wife taken the consumer marriage quiz? Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: Can I go with you the next time you go shopping? [Link]
Painful Experiences are Part of the Plan
The greatest weakness God’s man can have is being unaware of weaknesses. But God's plan is to use the very things we want to keep secret or hidden. [Link]
The Culture of Offendedness & the Christian Challenge
Our society may be overly and easily offended, but many Christians still manage to be offensive for reasons other than the offense of the Gospel. [Link]
Christian Charity: Good News in Hard Times
There is one institution that has a clear and non-delegable duty to reach out and help those who are suffering. This great institution is the Church. [Link]
The Gospel of Oppression? Jimmy Carter on Religion
Carter seems to draw a parallel between teaching that gives women different roles than men and the horrors of forced prostitution, genital mutilation, rape, and slavery. [Link]
“THE DAVE RAMSEY SHOW” ADDS 450TH STATION
"The Dave Ramsey Show" is now available in 450 markets having joined the line-up on D.W.S. Inc. owned station WDWS 1400 AM, weekdays from 6p.m. to 9p.m. CST in Champaign. [Link]
An uninterested free spirit
One listener doesn't know what to do when the free spirit wants to just leave the budget to the nerd. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 27, 2009 [Romans 8:14-17]
because those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, 'Abba, Father.' The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs–heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. Romans 8:14-17 NIV Listen [Link]
It's never too late
According to the Associated Press, Sergeant Chris Walker, a police officer in Virginia, started hearing a name around the office that sounded familiar — Detective Clay Hamilton. After some casual questions for the 53-year-old Hamilton, Walker called his mother to see if he could get some more information about his hunch. Turns out the 37-year-old Walker's mother had a brief relationship with Hamilton and became pregnant. But she moved away from the Richmond area and Hamilton never got to meet the baby — until now. A DNA test confirmed that Walker and Hamilton are father and son. The two men are making up for lost time by spending time together. Walker credits his faith for the reunion – proving it is never too late to mend broken relationships. If you're a father and your kids do not live with you, you still matter tremendously to them. Read one father's story on how he made the most out of a bad situation to still stay connected to his kids.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What can we do for a friend you know who does not have his father around? [Link]
A Dangerous Cure: Seven ObamaCare Health Myths
President Obama’s healthcare reform plan is the classic case of a “cure” that’s worse than the disease, though it has deceived many well-meaning people. [Link]
Can Christians Use Birth Control?
Pastor Mark Driscoll set out to determine the most controversial questions among visitors to the Mars Hill Church website, and received hundreds of requests. Here he tackles one of the top nine questions: can Christians use birth control? [Link]
Concerning Alcoholic Beverages
In 2006, the SBC approved a resolution which not only expressed opposition to church members drinking alcohol, but also stipulated that no one who does so may be elected to serve within the denomination. Seminary president Paige Patterson supports the stand with a look at Scripture's warnings about strong drink. [Link]
Does God Want You to Leave Your Church?
You love God. And He must want you to stay at your church, right? Maybe not… [Link]
Is the Soul Mate Mentality a Sham?
When the reality of merging two lives into one collides with our romantic stirrings, many people deduce that they didn’t find their “soul mate” after all… [Link]
Adoption Groups Counter 'Orphan' Horror Film
Adoption advocates are rallying to speak up for the world's orphans in light of an upcoming Warner Brothers horror film that depicts a young adopted orphan girl as a murderer. [Link]
Stop Doing What You’ve Always Done
“I’m so tired of the way my wife treats me,” Jim, an older man, wrote to me recently. “We’ve been married for over thirty years, and nothing really has changed… [Link]
Can Christians Use Birth Control?
Pastor Mark Driscoll set out to determine the most controversial questions among visitors to the Mars Hill Church website, and received hundreds of requests. Here he tackles one of the top nine questions: can Christians use birth control? [Link]
Concerning Alcoholic Beverages
In 2006, the SBC approved a resolution which not only expressed opposition to church members drinking alcohol, but also stipulated that no one who does so may be elected to serve within the denomination. Seminary president Paige Patterson supports the stand with a look at Scripture's warnings about strong drink. [Link]
Does God Want You to Leave Your Church?
You love God. And He must want you to stay at your church, right? Maybe not… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 26, 2009 [John 14:1-4]
'Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.' John 14:1-4 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 25, 2009 [1 John 5:1-6]
Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well. This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. This is love for God: to obey his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. Who is it that overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God. This is the one who came by water and blood–Jesus Christ. He did not come by water only, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit who testifies, because the Spirit is the truth. 1 John 5:1-6 NIV [Link]
3-D "G-Force" Proves Strictly One-Dimensional
Despite a covert team of “highly trained” guinea pigs, G-Force is jazzed up only by a 3-D presentation. But even those moments deliver few eye-popping delights. It doesn't take special glasses to realize nearly every other element is strictly one-dimensional. [Link]
Raising a Family 'Of Different Minds'
Maren Angelotti talks with Crosswalk.com about parenting kids with — and without — learning differences in a way that makes sure nobody is overlooked. [Link]
Finding Fulfillment in Life
Some of us try all our lives to acquire a key to a certain washroom in the company, or parking spaces with our names on them. When we receive them, however, what do we have? [Link]
The Allure of Modesty
Yes, men are aroused by sultry women who flaunt their sensuality and their bodies as a form of power. But the women they marry are usually the ones whose sensuality is much more hidden from view—there for the right man, but not on display for all the world to see. [Link]
Worship Life: The Singing and Dancing King
Humanly speaking, David fulfilled many roles, but among all his qualities and accomplishments, the one that stands out the most is his love of music. [Link]
Crass Over Class Prevails in Charmless "Ugly Truth"
What prevents The Ugly Truth from contributing anything worthwhile to the rom-com genre is its sheer absurdity. Not only does the dialogue—and attempts at humor—scrape the bottom of the barrel morally, but there aren’t even 10 seconds of this forgettable movie that are believable. [Link]
Higher Hope Blends Love and Litigation
Higher Hope, the second installment in Robert Whitlow’s Tides of Truth series published by Thomas Nelson, blends love and litigation in a twisting tale of a single Christian woman’s efforts to balance career, romance, and faith. [Link]
Reconnecting with … Jason Crabb
After The Crabb Family announced its retirement in 2007, it was inevitable that the career of frequent soloist/unofficial leader Jason Crabb would continue outside the family act. His self-titled debut released last month on the Spring Hill label. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 24, 2009 [Philippians 4:6-8]
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things. Philippians 4:6-8 NIV Listen [Link]
What are you planning for your anniversary?
Is it the typical dinner and card? Or maybe a dozen roses? Why not think outside the box next time and do something really special? Like taking her back to the place where you proposed and tell her you'd do it all over again. Or put together a list of things that have changed for the positive since you've met her – like being more sensitive to others' needs or now your shirts and pants actually match. Whatever you decide to do, make it unique. The most important thing to her is that you've given some thought to this special day, not just checked it off your "To Do" list. Here's a unique idea for a special gift for your wife that won't break the bank.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Will you help me make a nice gift for Mom? [Link]
When to have a reward
It will be a while until Melissa and her husband can celebrate paying off debt. Should they do something special now? [Link]
The Gospel For Everyday Life
This idea that the gospel is just as much for Christians as it is for non-Christians may seem like a new idea to many but in fact it is really a very old idea. [Link]
“A Mind for the Poor”: Avoiding the Traps
Crisis interventions for the poor and oppressed are moral imperatives. But they only work in the larger goal of liberating poor people and nations to help themselves. [Link]
The State of Our Unions: Why Marriage Matters
Marriage is a hot topic these days. And a recent article in Time magazine makes a great contribution to the debate. [Link]
A Dangerous Cure: Seven ObamaCare Health Myths
President Obama’s healthcare reform plan is the classic case of a “cure” that’s worse than the disease, though it has deceived many well-meaning people. [Link]
Challenges of Adult Stepchildren Stress Marriage
We are having some problems dealing with our children. The counselor’s advice is for me to stay out of any issues concerning my husband’s children… [Link]
Dancing Past Regrets
“If only I hadn’t married him. If only I had just waited on God a little longer. But how could I have known?” The tears spilled out, along with Linda's regrets from the past several years… [Link]
The Importance of Family Meals
How often does your family have dinner together? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 23, 2009 [Matthew 7:7-11]
'Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 'Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! Matthew 7:7-11 NIV Listen [Link]
Stages of grief
Wondering how to explain loss to a young child? View this touching video about a child who experiences a loss; then read more about helping your children through grief.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you know you can always come to me for comfort when you're sad? [Link]
Not really a fair tax
Dave breaks down for Evan how the fair tax works. [Link]
10 Things Parents Need to Know about Kids and Divorce
The TV show Jon and Kate Plus 8 has pushed the topic of kids and divorce into the news. I understand the subject only too well because I was 8 years old when my parents divorced… [Link]
Praying Preachers
The epitaph of Elijah is recorded by James, when he pens, "the prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." [Link]
Breaking Free of American Evangelicalism
Author Soong-Chan Rah explains why the church despereately needs to open its eyes to see the Next Evangelicalism [Link]
This Beautiful Mess
This describes the church quite well. It is here that we see the “beautiful mess,” albeit more mess than beauty today. The beauty emerges as a people once teetering on the edge of destruction are brought by grace into a new life together in Christ. As we have established, this life together—in essence our love for one another—is essential to the witness of the church and the proclamation of the gospel. Practically speaking, though, what does this love look like? [Link]
How Much Do You Really Need?
In our attempts to always have more, how do we know when enough is enough? [Link]
Dealing with the Dreaded Annual Job Review
Today, one of the most important job skills is the ability to constantly affirm your employer’s decision to hire you in the first place. Here are 11 tips on selling "Brand You" during your annual review… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 22, 2009 [Genesis 17:3-8]
Abram fell facedown, and God said to him, 'As for me, this is my covenant with you: You will be the father of many nations. No longer will you be called Abram ; your name will be Abraham, for I have made you a father of many nations. I will make you very fruitful; I will make nations of you, and kings will come from you. I will establish my covenant as an everlasting covenant between me and you and your descendants after you for the generations to come, to be your God and the God of your descendants after you. The whole land of Canaan, where you are now an alien, I will give as an everlasting possession to you and your descendants after you; and I will be their God.' Genesis 17:3-8 NIV Listen [Link]
Just a simple slingshot…
Have you connected with your kids recently? I mean have you really shared something special with each individual child on a deep, personal level? Creating special moments with your children doesn't have to be complicated or expensive; never underestimate the power of simplicity! A spontaneous moment spent with your child in their time of need often means more than a pricey, planned outing – just like a cheap souvenir from someplace special can mean more than a costly, high-tech gadget.One of our All Pro Dads discovered the power of simple moments when he came to his son's "rescue" one day. Read his story here, and start looking out for opportunities to really connect with your child.Huddle up and ask each of your kids today: What's something special that you would like to do, just me and you? [Link]
Paying Our Fair Share
Mike and his wife sacrificed luxuries for many years so now they can afford any luxury they want! Read their inspiring story now. [Link]
My Money Was On Fire!
Kenneth used to smoke two packs of cigarettes a day until he realized how much he was spending. Read his eye-opening story now. [Link]
Emotional eating
You will not believe why Valerie is working an extra job and what the budget money is going toward. [Link]
Dave Says – July 20, 2009
I've got about $15,000 in my 401(k). I also owe $15,000 on my car … [Link]
Delivering Pizza to Pay the IRS
"We now owe about $8,000 in taxes, not including the penalties and interest. … What toppings would you like on your pizza, sir?" Lisa said. [Link]
Celebrate Christmas in July
I no longer dreaded a day full of errands in the sun-baked desert. In fact, I added a couple more stops to my list… [Link]
Placing Our Trust in the Unseen
In this day and age, when we have unbridled access to instantaneous information, it becomes easier to place more emphasis on what we see, what we know, and what we can understand than on having faith and trusting the Lord. [Link]
Envy: Exposing Your Inner Veruca Salt
Envy is defined as “a feeling of discontent and resentment aroused by the desire to have the possessions or qualities or success of another.” Is this your battle? [Link]
Watchmen Puts the "Graphic" in Graphic-Novel Adaptation
Dark and violent, Watchmen one-ups last year’s blockbuster, The Dark Knight, in explicit imagery, and it cannot be recommended. However, the story has potent themes that will resonate with viewers and demand discussion. [Link]
Dark Coraline Too Nightmarish for Kids
Coraline’s cinematic qualities are spectacular and many; its themes important and biblically sound. Nevertheless, its dark content and tone—which are nightmarish, among other things—make it inaccessible for many kids. [Link]
Talking to the Dead
As a twenty-something grieving widow, Kate Davis is supposed to put on a brave face and get on with her life, right? Instead she's camped out on her living room floor and unable to sleep because her husband Kevin keeps talking to her. Read more from Bonnie Groves latest, Talking to the Dead. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 21, 2009 [Luke 18:9-14]
To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everybody else, Jesus told this parable: 'Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other men–robbers, evildoers, adulterers–or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.' 'But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.' 'I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.' Luke 18:9-14 NIV Listen [Link]
Ships and families both need boundaries
Until a few hundred years ago, ships mainly had to stay close to land because they could easily get lost or run into other ships when out to sea and away from stationary markers. In 1714, the British government established the Board of Longitude and offered a massive amount of money to anyone who could come up with a system to keep ships on track. Without any agreed upon boundaries, open sea navigation was a very dangerous venture. Parenting without boundaries is similar to ships navigating without longitudinal lines. Destinations will be missed and shipwrecks will be inevitable. As a parent, it's important to set rules and be consistent in enforcing them. Make sure you and your kids are clear about what those rules are, and your family life will be much smoother sailing. Take a look at the six A's of good parenting boundaries. Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do we have clear boundaries for our kids? Are we consistent in enforcing them? [Link]
The Amazing Disappearing and Reappearing Cross
The real reason the cross disappears from our sermons is because we allow it to slip out of the central place in our own lives. [Link]
Celebrate Christmas in July
I no longer dreaded a day full of errands in the sun-baked desert. In fact, I added a couple more stops to my list… [Link]
Placing Our Trust in the Unseen
In this day and age, when we have unbridled access to instantaneous information, it becomes easier to place more emphasis on what we see, what we know, and what we can understand than on having faith and trusting the Lord. [Link]
Envy: Exposing Your Inner Veruca Salt
Envy is defined as “a feeling of discontent and resentment aroused by the desire to have the possessions or qualities or success of another.” Is this your battle? [Link]
The debt free superscream
From all across the country, Dave has a record smashing debt free screaming day. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 20, 2009 [Lamentations 3:19-24]
I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I well remember them, and my soul is downcast within me. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' Lamentations 3:19-24 NIV Listen [Link]
Beware of some parenting "experts"
Parenting experts are sometimes self-appointed because of their college degrees and/or work experience. But that doesn't always make them right. As Mark Twain once wrote, "An expert is just an ordinary fellow from another town." So if you are really interested in having your kids turn out right, experts may be able to help some, but your best option is to find a dad whose kids you admire. Ask him about his methods. How does he do it? He'll be honored you asked and glad to share. And you'll learn what works in the real world and your family will be better for it.Here's what Bob Tebow, father of 2007 Heisman Trophy winner Tim Tebow, had to say about raising his family.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: What parents do we know who are doing a great job raising their kids? Should we invite them over and ask how they do it? [Link]
Sex and the Single Person
If the Bible addresses an issue with unrelenting frequency, and that issue is one of the strongest forces in the world, then ministers of the Word are obligated to declare God's will on that issue. [Link]
"The Orthodox Are Finished"
Acting in open defiance to the worldwide Anglican Communion, the Episcopal Church has voted to end a de facto moratorium on the election and consecration of openly gay bishops. [Link]
Free to Speak: Religion in the Schools
Do you understand your child’s religious rights at school? Chances are your school principal doesn’t either. A national campaign is underway to fix that. [Link]
Getting Preschool Kids to Help with Chores
Our children can be the workforce that unloads the straw from Mama Camel’s back before it gives way. [Link]
Can This Marriage be Saved? Recovering from Adultery
Speaking as a divorce recovery expert of 20 years, let me share that it is possible to restore a marriage after an affair… [Link]
Facing the Summer with a Troubled Teen
Are you facing a summer full of storms from a teenager whose behavior has become rebellious and out of control? [Link]
40 Years Later: Remember the Moon Landing
The same spirit that overcame multiple “can’t-be-done” obstacles can attain a better and brighter future for mankind. But only with the help of a merciful God. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 19, 2009 [John 17:24-26]
'Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world. 'Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me. I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.' John 17:24-26 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 18, 2009 [Matthew 6:9-15]
'This, then, is how you should pray: ' 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.' For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. Matthew 6:9-15 NIV [Link]
Just leaving her hanging
Carrie is going through unbelievably tough times, and being a stay-at-home mom leads Dave to a sad answer. [Link]
Are You A Fear-Driven Parent?
When my son turned eighteen, he got a tattoo. What did his dad and I do? What most parents do. We panicked and responded in fear. [Link]
Three Things the New Pastor Wants Most
The more I reflected on it, the more I realized any pastor coming into a new church would give a month's salary for these three gifts. [Link]
The Gospel and Community
Apparently some might have perceived that I was suggesting Christians abandon personal evangelism in last week’s article. Certainly not! Let me also say I am not offering absolutes here. I am, like Christians have throughout the ages, seeking to understand and best express the mission of the church in light of our changing cultural and social reality. [Link]
Stuck in the Media's Blind Spot: Religious Freedom in India
India has the dubious distinction of being the only democracy to have refused a visit by the United States Commission on International Religious Freedom. [Link]
Childhood Officially Left Behind in "Half-Blood Prince"
Juxtaposing a far more ominous tone with the clumsy romantic entanglements of its teenage protagonists, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince is easily the funniest, darkest and most ambitious film of the successful series. [Link]
Rockwell's Performance Orbits a Distant "Moon"
Sam Rockwell has performed well in supporting roles in several powerful dramas recently (Frost/Nixon, Snow Angels), but Moon is his coming-out party—an announcement that he's ready for the big leagues. [Link]
The Deep Joy of Jazz
In studying the emergence of jazz, it is impossible to extricate the religious element without completely altering the history of its formation. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 17, 2009 [Proverbs 8:12-17]
'I, wisdom, dwell together with prudence; I possess knowledge and discretion. To fear the LORD is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech. Counsel and sound judgment are mine; I have understanding and power. By me kings reign and rulers make laws that are just; by me princes govern, and all nobles who rule on earth. I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me. Proverbs 8:12-17 NIV Listen [Link]
Thoughts on attitude
Consider what author Charles Swindoll says about attitude: "The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is… more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do…The remarkable thing is that we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it."Now hear what Coach Dungy has to say about why attitude is so important.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do you think I have a good attitude? [Link]
The Deep Joy of Jazz
In studying the emergence of jazz, it is impossible to extricate the religious element without completely altering the history of its formation. [Link]
I Feel Financial Peace
"He said they had financing plans available. Immediately, I thought, 'I don't need financing — I have money!' Heather said. [Link]
$9 Movie Rental at the $1 Machine
"Yes, it was a small amount of money lost, but it all adds up," Amy said. Read her story now! [Link]
Saving for college the wrong way
Tamara doesn't like the option that she has chosen to save for the kids' college. Dave has a better idea for her. [Link]
Investing Wisdom From a Master
At a time when investors are desperate for timeless advice from those few who have lived through these types of markets before, Warren Buffett's investing philosophy is especially worth considering… [Link]
The Holy Spirit: Our Gentle Teacher
The Holy Spirit doesn’t only help us with the big tasks, like writing a novel. He leads and empowers us for every good work. [Link]
Courage of Substance
We lose a portion of our integrity when we don't act. [Link]
Psalm 7: A Country-Western Song of Praise?
The footnote in my Bible refers to Psalm 7 as a, "Wild passionate song." This makes me wonder if it might have been the Hebrew equivalent to our Country Westerns. [Link]
We Believe in Miracles – And CPR
Sometimes miracles aren’t as simple as they look. Sometimes they depend on decisions we’ve made before, and whether we listened to the still, small voice. [Link]
Are You 'Speaking Greek' in Your Marriage?
Poor marital communication skills are a common malady for many couples. Here are some ways to identify your bad communication habits and turn them around for the good of your marriage. [Link]
He Said-She Said: When Looking Younger Isn't Helping
What's a 55-year-old man to do when he looks and acts younger than he is? Women his age think he's a lot younger. And when younger women find out how old he is, they don’t know what to do. See what "He" and "She" have to say about this predicament. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 16, 2009 [Luke 8:43-48]
As Jesus was on his way, the crowds almost crushed him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years, but no one could heal her. She came up behind him and touched the edge of his cloak, and immediately her bleeding stopped. 'Who touched me?' Jesus asked. When they all denied it, Peter said, 'Master, the people are crowding and pressing against you.' But Jesus said, 'Someone touched me; I know that power has gone out from me.' Then the woman, seeing that she could not go unnoticed, came trembling and fell at his feet. In the presence of all the people, she told why she had touched him and how she had been instantly healed. Then he said to her, 'Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace.' Luke 8:43-48 NIV Listen [Link]
Facebook rules
Dad, are you savvy about social networking? Many teens are on – or want to be on – social networking sites like Facebook. As parents, it's up to us to set careful guidelines before our children venture into the rapidly changing world of social networking. First, sit down with your wife to discuss whether or not you will allow your teen to join Facebook. Then set some guidelines that would be appropriate, based on your teen's age and maturity level and trustworthiness. Here are examples of guidelines you may want to set:1.) Parents will know the password and have access to child's page.2.) Parents can customize their child's settings to make profile safer (privacy, visibility, etc).3.) Email of posts, friends, etc. come to family's home e-mail.Those are just three. Here's a list of ten guidelines you might want to follow. And remember, the best way to monitor your teen's social networking activity is to set up your own account first and learn the ropes. All Pro Dad is on Facebook. Add us to your fan list.Huddle up and ask your wife tonight: Do you think these Facebook guidelines are fair? [Link]
We Finally Came To Our Senses
"We are heading toward a debt-free life and are set to pay off all of our debt (cars, school loan, line of credit, and credit cards) in 36 months. I can't believe it, but we're doing it!" Erin said. [Link]
Fishing For Change Cost Me Hundreds!
"They had suspended my license again and had a warrant out for my arrest!" Linda said. Don't get caught in the same situation just for not wearing your seat belt! [Link]
MORE THAN 1200 CHURCH MEMBERS ATTEND FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY
In an effort to transform their financial lives, more than 1,200 members of Blackshear Place Baptist Church have attended Financial Peace University (FPU) since the church held its first class in February 2009. [Link]
DAVE RAMSEY’S FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY MILITARY EDITION NOW AVAILABLE UPDATED AND REVISED
Financial Peace University (FPU), the 13-lesson program taught by Dave Ramsey on DVD, has now been revised and updated to specifically address the financial issues servicemembers face. [Link]
The March of Disposable Men: Science and the President
Six months into his term, a picture of the President's understanding of science and its "rightful place" is emerging, and it is anything but flattering. [Link]
Stuck in the Media's Blind Spot: Religious Freedom in India
India has the dubious distinction of being the only democracy to have refused a visit by the United States Commission on International Religious Freedom. [Link]
"The Orthodox Are Finished"
Acting in open defiance to the worldwide Anglican Communion, the Episcopal Church has voted to end a de facto moratorium on the election and consecration of openly gay bishops. [Link]
Payments based on income
Sarah should do a fixed payment plus a little more to pay back her student loans after she consolidates them. [Link]
Experiencing Victory in the Midst of Trials
What trials are you facing in life right now? The solution may start with "bringing every thought into captivity." [Link]
Childhood Officially Left Behind in "Half-Blood Prince"
Juxtaposing a far more ominous tone with the clumsy romantic entanglements of its teenage protagonists, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince is easily the funniest, darkest and most ambitious film of the successful series. [Link]
You Make Me Feel Like Dancing
Brought together in an online community known as Boomer Babes Rock, Susan, Patricia and Mary form a fast friendship, even though they live in different parts of the country and lead completely different lives. Read more from Allison Bottke's latest, You Make Me Feel Like Dancing. [Link]
Watkins Finds Her Voice Beyond Nickel Creek
Less than a year after Nickel Creek called it quits, two of the three members released projects with new musical collaborations. Completing the group’s musical reintegration, Sara Watkins readies her musical prowess for the masses via a sweet solo collection. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 15, 2009 [Psalm 1:1-6]
Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers. Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous. For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish. Psalm 1:1-6 NIV Listen [Link]
Your daughter's wedding
Fast-forward your life a few years. You are walking your daughter down the aisle on her wedding day. You will be profoundly emotional and wonder if you did all that you needed to do. Watch this and then reflect on any changes you may need to make to ensure that on your daughter's wedding day, you will have few regrets and lots of great memories.Huddle up with your daughter tonight: What do you think your wedding day will be like? [Link]
Big Financial Changes in One Month!
In one month, Jennifer and her husband are following their first budget and have already paid off two debts! Read more of their story now. [Link]
An Emotional Car Decision
"I was scared that the car would fall apart on the highway with my husband in it. This fear spurred us to go to a car lot and tell the salesman to sell me a car," Sarah said. [Link]
Just manic spending
Manic spending is a psychological disorder, but buying stuff you can't afford is a behavior that can be changed. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 14, 2009 [Colossians 1:15-19]
He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, Colossians 1:15-19 NIV Listen [Link]
Josh Hamilton's ultimate victory
The Major League Baseball All-Star Game is tonight and, while we have been disappointed in the past actions of some ball players in recent years, here is the inspirational story of last year's All-Star Game Home Run Derby champion Josh Hamilton. Watch with your older kids and be amazed by how Josh has handled the adversity in his life.Huddle up with your kids tonight ask: Do you know someone who has had to overcome a lot of life's curveballs? How did they do it? [Link]
Are You Financially Bound?
God's Word doesn't say we can't borrow, but it does warn us against excessive debt. If you're in debt, what changes can you make to resolve your debt and avoid debt in the future? [Link]
Evangelicalism's Terminal Generation?
Without doubt, we are facing an unprecedented set of challenges to evangelical identity. [Link]
Be a Kinder Calvinist
As you celebrate John Calvin's 500th birthday, recognize that it won't be easy to change the pejorative stereotype that clings to Calvinism, but we can start by admitting that it is accurate far too often. [Link]
Confessions of an Insignificant Pastor
"80 percent of pastors quit the ministry in their first five years, and 1,200 ministers leave the ministry each month. Who ministers to the pastor today? Where does the minister go for help?" –Mark Elliott, author of Confessions of an Insignificant Pastor [Link]
Summer Playlist
Between school letting out, vacation planning in full swing and countless music tours hitting the road, it’s officially time for some fun in the sun, enhanced all the more by the perfect playlist. [Link]
Mind of a Soldier Explored Inside "The Hurt Locker"
Key to the success of the The Hurt Locker is that its agenda is neither pro-war nor anti-war. Instead, the film is a look at the psychology of the men who go to war, and especially of those who willingly take part in the most dangerous aspects of conflict. [Link]
Life After Rwandan Genocide Depicted in As We Forgive
As We Forgive, an award-winning documentary directed by Laura Waters Hinson and narrated by Golden Globe recipient Mia Farrow, explores what it means to forgive against the backdrop of two African villages deeply scared by the Rwandan genocide. [Link]
Dave Says – July 13, 2009
I'm a big fan of your work, but I have to ask one question. Why do you advocate belief in religion … [Link]
Moving from Air Force
Doug just finished a long military career and wants to get into something different. How can he find a truly great job? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 13, 2009 [Genesis 12:1-3]
The LORD had said to Abram, 'Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you. 'I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.' Genesis 12:1-3 NIV Listen [Link]
Great men live by faith
Author John Eldredge writes: "Life is not a problem to be solved; it is an adventure to be lived. That's the nature of it and has been since the beginning when God set the dangerous stage for this high-stakes drama and called the whole world enterprise 'good.' He rigged the world in such a way that it only works when we embrace risk as the theme of our lives, which is to say, only when we live by faith." In other words, if you're in a situation where you know you're not living up to your potential, but are too afraid to change, you're missing out. Great men take great risks… and if you're always playing it too safe, your children may not take risks either. And, in life, to gain much you have to risk much. Pick up John's book, Wild at Heart, here. And take a look at what Coach Tony Dungy has to say on the subject of stepping out of your comfort zone.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Why is taking a risk sometimes important for succeeding? [Link]
Living Life to the Full
Why do we have that nagging sense of destiny in our hearts? Because He put it there. A hunger, a desire to walk in His wondrous plan, and to experience life super-abundantly. [Link]
Upheaval in Honduras: A Defining Moment for Obama
By condemning Zelaya’s removal from office, Team Obama has come down firmly against the Honduran people and the rule of law. [Link]
We Could All Use a Laugh in Times of Crisis
Next time you’re worried about the economy or an asteroid crashing into your house, remember, when all is said and done, it is good, not evil, that gets the last laugh. [Link]
NIH Stem Cell Guidelines Leave Ethical Loophole, Critics Say
The new NIH guidelines allows that the fertility doctor who derives the embryos can, by law, also wear the coat of embryonic stem cell researcher. [Link]
Bribing Excellence: When Incentive Replaces Virtue
Across the country, school systems are paying children to do better in school. Both inside and outside the classroom, striving for virtue is being replaced by monetary incentives. [Link]
The Power of Apology
“Look,” Peter said angrily to his wife, Janice. “I told you I’m sorry. What else do you expect from me?” I watched Janice for her reaction to Peter’s stern words… [Link]
Governors, Quarterbacks, and Soul Mates
How can self-professing Christian men like Gov. Sanford and Steve McNair make decisions so destructive to their marriages? [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 12, 2009 [Matthew 6:25-27]
'Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Matthew 6:25-27 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 11, 2009 [John 15:5-8]
'I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. This is to my Father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. John 15:5-8 NIV [Link]
His name, her stuff
Kay is wary about combining her money and checking account with her new husband's because of his credit history. [Link]
Fruit of the Spirit: The First Steps to an Enduring Marriage
In order to love one another with a godly love, we mere mortals need a little help. That is where the “Fruit of the Spirit” comes in… [Link]
A Life of Worship
When I get caught up in what I think is worship (do this, do that because I have to), then I lose my joy. [Link]
Jailhouse Conversions: Does Forgiven Mean Forgotten?
I am concerned at the controversy over the fate of those who become believers after being convicted of a serious crime. [Link]
Who Makes Your List?
Have you ever read a verse of Scripture that you really wished wasn’t in the Word of God? For me, it was this pesky portion of First Timothy which urged that "requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone"… [Link]
There's Little to Love About "Beth Cooper"
Unlike '80s movies where the viewer got a real sense of who the geeky guy and his popular-girl crush were and what endeared the unlikely duo to each other, I Love You, Beth Cooper never bothers with those important details. [Link]
"Bruno" Goes Where No Comedy Has Gone Before
As with all comedies built on outrageous gags, Brüno goes too far. There are a few laughs along the way, but a larger cost to be paid. One can only imagine what further images will comprise future “outrageous” comedies now that Brüno has lowered the bar. [Link]
Beauty and Frustration Found In the Hands of God
There is beauty and there is frustration in newsboys’ In the Hands of God. Often capable of so much more, most of the legendary band’s latest consists of done-before lyrical turns or comfortable musical structures. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 10, 2009 [Jeremiah 31:31-34]
'The time is coming,' declares the LORD, 'when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah. It will not be like the covenant I made with their forefathers when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them, ' declares the LORD. 'This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time,' declares the LORD. 'I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will a man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, 'Know the LORD,' because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,' declares the LORD. 'For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.' Jeremiah 31:31-34 NIV Listen [Link]
Giving your best
Feel your kids aren't giving you their best? Watch this clip from Facing the Giants, and discuss it with your kids. Many times, kids don't give their best because of mental, not physical barriers. Encourage them that they really can do amazing things – if they don't give up!Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Have you ever accomplished something you never thought you could do? [Link]
Beauty and Frustration Found In the Hands of God
There is beauty and there is frustration in newsboys’ In the Hands of God. Often capable of so much more, most of the legendary band’s latest consists of done-before lyrical turns or comfortable musical structures. [Link]
It All Started With Tires
"I had a truck that needed new tires. I had no money, so I financed the tires at around $600," Ryan said. Read the rest of his story now! [Link]
I'm a Debt-Free Single Mom and Student!
"I decided I wasn't going to live like that anymore. I realized debt was definitely not going to bring wealth," Suzana said. [Link]
Testimonial by Ryan
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The house theory
Dave says that Alex's theory of only putting down 20% on a home if you have a million dollars in the bank, so that you leave the rest in mutual funds is risky. [Link]
Rick Warren Asks Muslims for Interfaith Action
Pastor Rick Warren spent his Independence Day in the nation's capital addressing the largest Muslim organization in North America. [Link]
The Pinnacle of Success? Michael Jackson's Legacy
Jackson achieved the summit of what this culture values most—fame—and paid for it with his life. And that is a tragedy. [Link]
Paging All Singles: "There Is Nothing Wrong with You!"
If you are anything like me, you’ve endured the question, "Why aren’t you married yet?" It hurts—whether you ask or someone else does. But in truth, our marital status is not an indicator of our worth or lovability, even though it feels like it is. [Link]
The Danger of the Pulpit
If we preachers are faithful and true to the prophetic side and even to the priestly side of our calling, we can expect the tomatoes and eggs and slings and arrows … But what about bullets? [Link]
So, Your Child Is Asking for a Cell Phone?
Your child is asking for a cell phone. But how do you know if she is ready for her own phone? And how do you know if you are ready for her to have one? [Link]
Make Your Marriage a Safe Haven during Uncertain Times
While the Bible gives us truth to handle high pressured situations, a great source of relief can come from our marriage relationships. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Thursday, July 9, 2009 [Isaiah 43:18-21]
'Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland. The wild animals honor me, the jackals and the owls, because I provide water in the desert and streams in the wasteland, to give drink to my people, my chosen, the people I formed for myself that they may proclaim my praise. Isaiah 43:18-21 NIV Listen [Link]
Kids mix well with sunshine and fresh air
In his book, Last Child in the Woods, author Richard Louv explores research that links a lack of outdoor time to increasing rates of childhood obesity, attention disorders and depression. Children were ready-made to mix with sunshine and air. Make sure you get your kids outside as often as possible (but don't forget sunscreen). They may complain at first, but they'll soon discover the joys of riding a bike, exploring or shooting hoops. Also plan for extended times outdoors such as a family picnic, stargazing or camping twice a year.After sunset, the outdoor fun doesn't need to stop. Stargaze with your family by downloading these complimentary star charts. See how many stars and constellations you and your kids can find.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: What fun things can we do outside this week? [Link]
Giving With Purpose
Getting out of debt is not always the easiest thing to do – but it is worth it! "It has taken a lot of tears, arguments, discipline and blessings to be able to write this to you," Scott said. [Link]
Never Own a House with Anyone Other Than Your Spouse!
"I built and bought a $143k home with my live-in boyfriend. Two years later, we split up over many issues…" Susan said. [Link]
The wrong number
Marilyn is being harassed by a collector that's got the wrong person, so Dave tells her to harass them back! [Link]
How to Live the Words of the Lord's Prayer
Do you wish to walk in "the way of the disciple"? Here is how to stop taking the words of the Lord's Prayer for granted and start living them. [Link]
Palin: Why She Left Is No Mystery
Maybe there is a logical explanation after all with no mystery involved. Governor Sarah Palin said the following… [Link]
The Rise of Extreme Tolerance
In the church today, there is a growing reluctance to take a definitive stand on any issue. Discernment is frankly not very welcome. [Link]
The President and the Fly: An Animal Rights Tragedy
The sight of the fly’s corpse lying on the White House rug was too much for People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals—and insects, apparently. [Link]
'Tweens, Teens Will Be Wowed by Jonas Bros in 3D
The popularity of Jonas Brothers rivals that of The Beatles back in the day (in the U.S. anyway). It’s a fact that’s not entirely lost on the band as a clip from the Fab Four’s first full-length movie rolls in the background of one scene of Jo Bros' first movie. [Link]
City of Black & White Marks Kearney’s Best Work
Much like The Fray front man Isaac Slade’s urgent vocal and almost mournful arrangements, Mat Kearney’s acoustic stylings on City of Black & White are painfully honest, moving and his best work to date. [Link]
New Artist Spotlight: Kari Jobe
I first heard about Kari Jobe from my old friend Ed Cash, the producer on her self-titled debut record (Integrity Music). It’s great to see new talent in the worship realm—especially from such a godly woman. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Wednesday, July 8, 2009 [Hebrews 8:10-12]
This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after that time, declares the Lord. I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will a man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, 'Know the Lord,' because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest. For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.' Hebrews 8:10-12 NIV Listen [Link]
Think your kids are too young for drug abuse?
Think again. More than 100,000 ten- and eleven-year-olds admitted getting drunk once a week. And underage drinking is usually the first step towards harder drugs. The Partnership for a Drug Free America has some tips on keeping your kids away from drugs and alcohol: Make sure your child knows the rules – and that you will enforce them; role play likely scenes where your kids will be offered drugs; base your talks on alcohol and drug facts (not fear) so your kids will learn the real-life consequences; and get to know your children's friends. Take a look at this video, and then discuss it with your kids.Link: Above the Influence video…? BRYAN WILL DECIDE WHICH ONE.Huddle up with your kids tonight: Do you know any kids who have tried drugs? Has anyone ever asked you to try them? [Link]
Bad to cash out early
Patty's husband is itching to be debt free, but the way he wants to make it happen strikes a sour note with Dave. [Link]
Living — and Dying — Well
God loves each of His children so deeply and wants them to know Him. His desire for them is to find peace and to come home to Him when He calls… [Link]
The Truth of Who We Are – Part 2
If you have reached that point of asking, “What’s wrong with me?” then listen! This is far more profound than the questions addressing our looks, size, shape, or accomplishments. [Link]
And Now a Word from Our Sponsor
On television, reality mingles imperceptibly with illusion. Truth is irrelevant. [Link]
Longing for Children: Facing Infertility in Marriage
One of the biggest challenges we face in our journey through infertility is maintaining the unity in our marriage. Delving into God's Word can help strengthen our marriages when the valleys of infertility seem darkest. [Link]
Communication Pitfalls: Beware of the Switcheroo!
Have you ever begun a serious discussion with your mate, and just as soon as you express your feelings, they turn the tables on you? [Link]
Dealing With Teen Anger
Anger in your teenager can take on many faces. It can be a seething anger kept quietly below the surface, or a tidal wave unleashed on everyone around them. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Tuesday, July 7, 2009 [2 Corinthians 4:16-18]
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 NIV Listen [Link]
Huddle up
You may have noticed at the bottom of each Play of the Day e-mail, there's a Huddle Up question for you to discuss with your children or your wife. As an All Pro Dad, please take advantage of these questions as we strive to help you better communicate with your family on important topics. In addition, please let us know how your family has benefitted from our daily Huddle Up questions. Leave your comments below.Thanks for the privilege of serving you.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: If there was one thing you think Dad should do differently, what would it be? [Link]
True Brotherly Love: Rejoicing and Weeping
"If Christian fellowship is considered to be shaking hands and asking about your church friends' week and then sitting down and singing and listening to preaching and then going home, how is that any different than going to the bar and seeing familiar faces over a couple of beers?" [Link]
Finally Finished With My Debt Snowball!
"I've managed to pay off just under $55,000 by mostly cash flowing the money each month," Ryan said. [Link]
Family and Money Don't Mix
"The lesson learned is that failure is okay, and if I had allowed him to fail, I would still have a brother and no debt," Karey said. [Link]
Dave Says – July 6, 2009
My husband and I are taking your classes. We own a roofing company. We offer six months, same as cash, and we accept credit cards … [Link]
Don't need credit cards
Allen may not be able to convince his family to stop using credit cards, but he may at least be able to make some good arguments. [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Monday, July 6, 2009 [Romans 12:1-2]
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God–this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:1-2 NIV Listen [Link]
Teaching your kids a great work ethic
Struggling to get your kids to do their household jobs well? One of the keys to being successful in your career is asking yourself what excellence in your job looks like. It's the same with our kids and their chores. When they are asked to mow the lawn or rake the leaves, they should have an idea of what a great job at that looks like, and aim at doing it well. In fact, they should strive to go above and beyond expectations. If they approach life with this philosophy, they can't help but to succeed. But how do we teach them that? Read this article for some insight. And here's a customizable chore chart that will help your kids keep on track with their chores.Huddle up with your kids tonight and ask: Do you think you do a good job with your chores? Why do you think it's important to do a good job? [Link]
A Governor, a King, and the Tragedy of Adultery
The people of South Carolina now look to their governor's mansion with a sense of dread and embarrassment. [Link]
What are we Singing: Reign in Us
I have never been able to read the works of King David or the history of his life without crying. Something about David simply moves me. [Link]
John Calvin's Legacy: The Theologian of Theologians
The study of theology historically has brought to the surface outstanding thinkers and scholars. Among 16th-century Reformers, John Calvin – more than Martin Luther – developed a full-orbed systematic theology for the instruction of the church. [Link]
Portrait of a Minister (1 Timothy 4:6-16)
God expects training to be in place for ministers and in fact for all of God’s people. [Link]
True Optimism in a Wounded Workplace
One of my friends recently went through two rounds of layoffs in her company, a situation all too common these days. How do we deal with this? [Link]
Finance Q&A: Help for The Financially Desperate
Dear Deborah: There are days when there is no money to buy food or put gas in the car… [Link]
Growling at God: Why We Struggle to Give
I grew up with a dog that loved to chew rawhide bones. But if I, the giver of the bone, happened to come close to her while she was chewing, she would assert herself with a growl to let me know I better get away… [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Sunday, July 5, 2009 [1 Thessalonians 4:15-18]
According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage each other with these words. 1 Thessalonians 4:15-18 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Saturday, July 4, 2009 [Revelation 22:12-17]
'Behold, I am coming soon! My reward is with me, and I will give to everyone according to what he has done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End. 'Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city. Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood. 'I, Jesus, have sent my angel to give you this testimony for the churches. I am the Root and the Offspring of David, and the bright Morning Star.' The Spirit and the bride say, 'Come!' And let him who hears say, 'Come!' Whoever is thirsty, let him come; and whoever wishes, let him take the free gift of the water of life. Revelation 22:12-17 NIV [Link]
Daily Manna from the Net for Friday, July 3, 2009 [Isaiah 40:28-30]
Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; Isaiah 40:28-30 NIV Listen [Link]
Prudence at the American Founding—and Today
“If men were angels, no government would be necessary.” But men aren’t angels, and neither are their governments. Thus, the need for prudence. [Link]
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY [Link]
Use Your Independence to Submit to God
Independence is wonderful, but it also means self-rule and self-determination – two of the very things that got Israel into so much trouble in the Old Testament! [Link]
Watershed Moment: A New Declaration of Dependence
On Sunday, America celebrates another birthday. Americans will hoist their flags, march in parades, and set off fireworks. I get a thrill every time I hear the cannons blast that rousing finale of the "1812 Overture." And I get a lump in my throat whenever I join in singing "America, America, God shed His grace on thee." [Link]
Another Declaration of Independence: Freedom in Christ
Even as I prize my freedom as an American, I am moved to consider a greater freedom. [Link]
Tomorrow is Independence Day
As we celebrate with hot dogs and fireworks, let's remember all the families who sacrifice so much to make sure we remain free. Check out this touching video of a military father and his daughter reuniting, and remember how many military children will be missing their father or mother tomorrow.Huddle up and ask your kids tonight: Do we know of a military family